Tea, Pearls, Leggings and Laughs

Last Saturday our dear friends Bridget and Derek took us out for a belated birthday celebration at the Queen Mary, my favourite place to have High Tea in Seattle. I felt both celebrated and spoiled. I usually have tea with girlfriends at the Queen Mary, but it was brilliant to have the company of our fabulous boys this time round. 

In true Seattle style, you’ll see a variety of dress codes at the Queen Mary. From people wearing sports gear and sneakers, to jeans and t-shirts, pretty dresses with heels, and everything in-between. I wore a creative business casual outfit that day, one that I often sport when out and about with clients. 

I’ve been off my skirts for a while, apart from my new midi and this four year old cream and black high waisted number. For this leg of my style journey, I’m after something other than a “pencil skirt, blouse and heels” ensemble. Stirrup leggings with pencil skirts do it for me, and I am still all over wearing cropped leggings with skirts. I saw this look on the streets of Hong Kong a few years ago and instantly fell in love with it. I absolutely understand that wearing cropped leggings under a dressy graphic pencil skirt is not everyone’s cup of tea. Most would probably prefer the outfit sans the leggings. I like how they add an unexpected edge, dress down the outfit, and above all, keep me warm.

This pencil skirt tapers in at the seams which adds curves to my hips. I like a basic button down best with this skirt, so my Brooks Brothers shirts come to the rescue. I chose black to bookend the black leggings on the lower part of the outfit. A little scrunch and pop adds interest to the look. 

To combat the severity of black straight up against my pale and blonde face, I added a new pearl necklace. It was a gift from a good friend who lives in Europe and I simply adore it. It’s solid, well made, different and gold.

Black, white/cream and red is one of my all time favourite outfit combinations because it’s classic and strong. Ms. Valentino came out to play and complimented the gold accessories with a smile. She is still my very best handbag of all time. 

I first finished off the look with two toned Stuart Weitzman ballet flats, but Greg and I agreed that the outfit needed a little heel. So I popped on the my taupe peep toe booties to balance out the proportions.

High Tea was DELICIOUS and we had a super time chatting, laughing and eating. After tea Bridget offered to take a few shots of Greg and I which is a VERY rare occurrence because Greg usually takes control of the camera. Derek said something that cracked me up, Greg was about to kiss me, and for Bridget, that was a camera moment. As you can see, my Greg also bats for Team Polka Dot.

Our statuesque friends Bridget and Derek always look great. They like to wear bright colours, which makes my heart sing. Thank you Bridget and Derek for a wonderful morning at the Queen Mary!

Competition: Complete Your Outfit with Karen Kane

Today we’re launching a somewhat different competition on the YLF forum. We’re asking forum members to post an outfit that needs an item from the Karen Kane online store as the perfect finishing touch. Perhaps you have an outfit that needs the black diamond leopard dolman for a chilly evening, or you would like to replace the button down you normally wear in a work ensemble with the shirred drape top.

Whatever the situation, post one or more pictures of the outfit, and a link to the Karen Kane item you need in order to complete the outfit, as a new topic on the forum. The lovely and ever so talented Karen Kane herself will judge the competition, selecting her favourite of the outfits posted. We have outlined the process in a forum post. Feel free to reply there or comment here if you have any questions.

There are two prizes (first prize $200, second prize $100) of gift vouchers to spend on karenkane.com. The first prize winner will also get the item they choose if the online store has their size in stock. The competition is open to all YLF forum members at the active member level or users of the YLF iPhone app, who have the ability to post pictures. Eligible members can post more than one outfit, as long as each one is in its own separate post.

The competition closes at midnight on Sunday 14 August. Good luck, and I can’t wait to see your outfits!

Belt Loop Looks and Preferences

When a top is tucked into a bottom that has belt loops, the outfit looks better to my eye when it is worn with a belt. Empty belt loops look naked to me, and I desperately want to add the coverage. It adds a polished touch to the outfit. I guess my preference makes sense because I bat for Team Polished. Team RATE might think differently. 

I prefer belt loops that are filled by the belt. That is, with a belt that has a similar height to the loop (right).

I also like skinny belts looped into wider belt loops (left), but do have a thing for filling out belt loops to their fullest! Skinny belts are a lot less bulky and I do understand their appeal, but they can slide around and fall askew. This drives me batty when the belt is a high contrast colour.

The semi tucked look is an interesting case. I still prefer the look with a belt, but it can also be fine without one.

These are by no means rules or guidelines, just stylistic preferences. Do you like the look of exposed belt loops? Or do you prefer it when visible belt loops are finished off with a belt.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Your Summer Wardrobe Workhorses

Which of your wardrobe items have been getting a workout over the last few months? If you’re like me, you tend to latch onto seasonal favourites and wear them all the time. And you really miss them when they’re in the laundry. 

In no particular order, here are my current wardrobe workhorses: 

  1. Turquoise Kate Spade handbag
  2. Gold Kate Spade handbag
  3. Stuart Weitzman two toned ballet flats
  4. Boutique 9 Balair peep toe oxford booties
  5. All my silk blouses and button down shirts
  6. All clamdiggers
  7. Coral and white jeans
  8. Ann Taylor halter tops
  9. Silver cropped jacket
  10. All denim jackets
  11. Pearl and gold necklace
  12. All gold accessories and watch

I still wear my dresses and love them dearly, especially when I match my dressy frocks with a denim jacket. I also swap out my handbags many times a week so it was hard to choose my “of the moment” favourites. Alas, apart from my new colourful midi, and a cream and black graphic pencil skirt, my skirts still aren’t getting much wear. 

Over to you.

Lace Tops: Yay or Nay

We see lace tops each year so the idea is hardly new. Despite the tried and tested concept, lace tops are on my radar at the moment because they look refreshing to my eye. Designers are doing a good job of mixing both classic and modern silhouettes, and knit and woven fabrications. There is both romantic and bohemian style inspiration, and colour beyond black and white. 

I loved lace tops in the 80’s and early 90’s. But lace fell out of favour for my style since then. However, Jason Wu’s Fall collection at Fashion Week rekindled my lace love and I am now after a beautifully tailored lace shirt that I can wear with jeans, my pinstripe suit, or a flared midi skirt. That’s the beauty of lace! It looks as good dressed up as it does dressed down. 

I have always liked the dressy and retro integrity of lace. I also enjoy how your skin tone grins through some of the areas of the garment. Lace is stereotypically feminine so I like mixing that vibe with overtly more masculine looks. And I also love keeping the look completely girly. 

Clearly I vote yay to lace tops. What’s your verdict?

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