Are you fussy about the way your toes look in sandals? I am. I have regular width bony feet with really, really long toes. Like fingers on my feet, as Greg likes to describe them. To my eye this makes sandal shopping even trickier.

When the toe box, or the top strap of a sandal starts further up the vamp of the shoe, the style exposes more of the toes. Some sandals expose virtually the entire length of your toes. When you have dainty feet like I do, it’s hard to “fill out” a sandal (especially a chunky style), and my foot slips out through the front of the toe box exposing even more of my toes.

And if most of my toes are exposed, it makes me feel like a cavewomen. Clumsy somehow, and not at all elegant or ladylike.

If finding comfortable sandals for my fussy feet wasn’t hard enough already, now I also have toe exposure to worry about. The top straps and vamps must be positioned closer to the top tip of the sandal so that my toes look shorter, and so that my feet don’t slip out of the front of the shoe. It’s no wonder that I have only one pair of sandals at the moment!

Something I learned shopping for sandals with many different clients: toe exposure is not a concern when you have shorter toes. Sandals that look killer with shorter toes and a slightly broader foot look terrible on me.

Lets hear it ladies. Do you pay attention to how your toes look in sandals, or is it not a concern. Fellow long toed gals, does my minimal toe exposure idiosyncrasy resonate with you?

A memorable wardrobe item is one that makes a huge eye-catching statement because of it’s colour, pattern, scale or style, and sometimes all of the above. They can be anything at all, from clothing to footwear, right up to handbags, belts and jewelry. It’s the boldness of the item, or the uniqueness of it’s integrity that makes people remember it, thereby making it “memorable”.

I used to think that everyone wanted to wear at least a few memorable wardrobe items, if not as many as possible. But working as a fashion stylist and participating in the online style community has shown me that this is far from true. Some women prefer NOT to wear memorable items. The reason being that others become sick of seeing you in the same eye catching item over and over again, roll their eyes and go: “Oh, there’s Angie in her citron trench and red Kate Spade pumps again. Hasn’t she got anything else to wear?”

When given the choice of purchasing a plain and ordinary dress, or a more bold dress, some opt for the plain precisely because its less memorable, allowing them to wear it over and over again without any comments from the peanut gallery.

Don’t get me wrong, you can absolutely make a style statement in something plain. And your style quotient can sizzle sans the bold colours, patterns, and daring designs. But’s that’s not what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about deliberately not choosing a more memorable wardrobe item because you’re influenced by the potential negative judgements of others.

For better or for worse, I am not affected by this type of judgement. I wear what I consider memorable wardrobe pieces over and over again, year after year, until I am sick of them. I do not save these pieces for special occasions unless they are uber formal, and it has never mattered to me that others may be sick of them before I am. Should it?

So I vote yay, because I view wearing memorable wardrobe items as positive no matter how often they come out to play. One can also argue that they become part of your signature style. What’s your verdict? Note that there is no right and wrong answer here. I’m just interested in your point of view.

This is the fourth in a series of 4 posts brought to you by Nordstrom.com: Think Less Buttoned-Up—it’s a New 9 to 5.

You’ve got dinner plans, or are meeting friends for drinks straight after work and there is no time to go back home to change. Of course, there is nothing wrong with heading off to your after work engagement in the same work clothes. If you’re comfortable doing so, go for it. But with a few outfit tweaks you could also dress your business casual outfit either up or down.

Bring a couple of extra items along that day, swap them out in the rest room or in the car, and voila! You’re wearing a new outfit. Aside from being dressed more appropriately for the occasion, the change in ensemble might also help you to switch from work mode into a more relaxed state of mind for the evening.

Here I am going to illustrate two scenarios. Dressing your professional ensemble down for a casual evening supper, and dressing your ensemble up for a fancy engagement after work.

Dress It Down

The Professional Ensemble:

• The Donna Morgan Belted Sleeveless Chambray shirtdress is dressier than the Nic + Zoe Tribal Times Dress (which also comes in blue), but both are appropriate for business casual settings.
• If sleeveless dressing is not an option, cover up with Anne Taylor’s Shawl Collar Jacket or Banana Republic’s Ana Cardigan.
• Pendant necklaces are all the rage so spice up your work outfit with a Beaded Pom Pom Pendant Necklace. Playful but still professional.
• It’s Spring, which means swapping out your bag for something light and fresh. Tignanello’s Polished Pockets Shopper in cream is simple, semi structured, versatile, and the lining will make you smile. Click through all the colour options.
• Finish off the look with dressy heels. Isola Odema’s Peep Toe Stacked heel Pumps sent me into orbit because I adore cream and black footwear. They are a lot more interesting than plain black pumps with this particular outfit, and ever so slightly retro. Read the good reviews.

The Transition:

• Before you arrive at your casual destination, swap out the cardigan or jacket for a denim jacket, like the one above from the Loft. Pop it over the dress and scrunch up the sleeves for a more relaxed vibe.
• Swap out your heavy handbag for a fun and lightweight clutch or wristlet like Hobo International’s Zoe Clutch. Make sure the clutch is small enough to fit into your handbag. In the morning, pack essentials like some cash, a credit card, keys, phone and lipstick into the clutch. That way after work, just whip out the clutch and leave your handbag in the car (this won’t work if you commute to work on foot unless you can leave your other bag in a safe place).
• Swap out heels for more comfortable footwear. I’d wear something like Born’s Adele because I like to wear ballet flats with dresses. But you could also wear a low heel, sandal, or wedge.

Dress It Up

The Professional Ensemble:

• Classiques Entier Belted Silk Blouse is fantastic for many reasons. It’s dressy sans the addition of an indoor jacket and covers the top arm. You can also swap out the belt or tuck the blouse into a skirt or trousers. Find your sweet spot with the belt (you might need to wear it higher than the position of the belt loops). And hallelujah! It does not need a camisole.
• Tahari’s Theora Pants are flat front, high in the rise and without pockets. A great fit. You could wear a pencil skirt instead of trousers with the Tahari blouse.
• If you need to cover up in the morning or at night Kenneth Cole’s New York Sateen Studded Trench Coat is fancy because it’s sateen, which makes it perfect for your dressy engagement after work, but also just fine for a professional work environment.
• Ink blue bags are a nice alternative to black, and they are extra fab in my book with a bit of texture like Dooney & Bourke’s Croco Medium East/West Grommet Shopper.
• Isola’s Della Peep Toe Patent Sandal looks divine under trousers and adds just the right amount of extra interest to black trousers. They are adequately dressy and there is no need to swap them out for other footwear.
• Simple fresh water Pearl Stud Earrings are an easy finishing touch.

The Transition:

• As with the dress formula, carry a small clutch like Hobo’s International Syler metallic leather foldover clutch in your handbag. Click through all the colours. Pack a few essentials into it, and carry that to the dinner engagement instead of your larger and heavier work bag.
• Glitzing up a professional outfit with jewelry is effective, so swap out the stud earrings for a more dramatic pair and add a cocktail ring. Dannijo’s Sullivan Pearl Earrings and Coco Ring do the trick.

Changing out of your professional outfit is not essential when going directly to a casual or fancy engagement after work. However, the simple outfit tweaks shown here demonstrate the power of footwear and accessories, AND how small outfit details can change the dress code of an ensemble. You don’t need to do all of the tweaks at once. Sometimes a single change can make all the difference.

Finally, these tips can also help you to save money by stretching the outfit possibilities in your wardrobe.

Please share your own tips on how you dress up and dress down your professional ensembles. I’d love to hear them.

I recently wrote an article for GalTime on how to store footwear. It went live today, so take a peak.

Right now I’m on a ferry to the San Juan Islands, where I’ll be staying for a few days while I work with one of my clients. I’ve never been to the San Juan’s so I’m excited about visiting a new place as well as meeting my client and getting stuck into her wardrobe. Should be fun, festive and productive!

There won’t be an afternoon blog post on Tuesday or Wednesday but it’s back to our normal blogging schedule on Thursday.