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Here are five easy ways to update your jeans capsules over the next few seasons. Many of the styles can be worn year round with a change of footwear and styling. Washes can be distressed, acid, patchwork or uniformly clean. Rises are mid to high on the waist (low rises are not on trend at the moment.) Hems are raw or neatly hemmed. Fits are for the most part tailored, but some silhouettes look good relaxed. Think all shades of blue, white, grey and black denim.
Introduce one or more of these styles into your wardrobe to refresh your casual and smart casual look. All of the silhouettes are relatively easy to fit, style and wear.
These flares are wider on the hem than the average pair of bootcuts, although some bootcut silhouettes will pass for full-length flares. Note that the fit is snug on the thighs, so these are NOT wide leg jeans. They generally start to flare out from the knee, and not further up the leg. Wear them with a tucked, semi-tucked or tucked top. Wear the hems long and almost skimming the surface of the ground, so you’ll need to commit to a heel height for the style.
We’ve talked extensively about flared cropped jeans because it’s THE style to sport at the moment. Remember that the flare can be subtle or more pronounced. A pair of cropped straight legs creates a more subtle flare and is easier to style. A pair of cropped bootcuts creates a wider flare, which can be harder to style. Choose between a tailored or fluid fit. Keeping lengths two to four inches above the ankle bone is flop proof. Refresh your memory on how to pair the right footwear with the look.
These are Summer jeans because they look best with Summer-y footwear. Booties, to my eye, tend to look better with flared crops because the slightly wider hem balances out the heaviness of the boots. Style these like you would style jeggings and you’re good to go. It’s also fashionable to wear tops semi-tucked or tucked if you’re comfortable with that look. Wear the high-rise styles with roomy cropped tops for a very trendy pairing.
The ‘90s flashback is quite fun. You can purchase jeans with the built-in cuff, or try to cuff an existing pair of straight leg or relaxed skinny jeans to create a similar vibe. Regular skinnies are generally too narrow to cuff in this manner, but some boyfriend styles work well cuffed this way too.
All body types across petite, regular and tall can wear these styles. It’s a question of finding the right fit and combining it with a suitable support act. I’ve been wearing full-length flares for two years — in faded blue denim and white — and they have become my go-to pair of dressy jeans. I started wearing flared crops and skinnies last year and they’ve become wardrobe essentials in blue and white denim. And I’m still thinking about denim culottes and cuffed crops. Over to you. Which trendy styles tickle your fancy?
Jackets with front zippered or welted pockets that slant at an angle are visually flattering. That’s because the slant of the diagonal lines draws the eye inward to give the illusion of a narrower waist. The angle of the pockets can slant upwards or downwards to create the same “narrowing effect”. And some slope at a steeper incline than others. The examples here illustrate the point quite well.
Welted or zippered pockets that are positioned horizontally or vertically close to the waist don’t have quite the same narrowing effect because those lines draw the eye across or down (not inward). Both my Smythe equestrian jackets have steep slanting front welted pockets that make my waist appear narrower than it is.
It’s not at all essential for jackets to have this design feature, but it might be worth considering when you want to create the illusion of a more defined waist. Many of my rectangular and apple shaped clients enjoy the subtle design feature because it gives their waistline more definition. Some of my curvy clients enjoy it because it accentuates their already well-defined waist.
I cannot believe that YLF is ten years old today. TEN YEARS OLD. Wow. Our first post went live on April 5th 2006 and we never looked back. Time flies when you’re having fun. Those who have been here since the very beginning will remember the Lisa Henderling illustration of me with Jasmine and Rosie that Greg used in the background of YLF’s first design. Later updated when I switched from a bob to short hair.
My voice is dominant on YLF because I write most of the posts and I’m very active on our highly engaged forum. But YLF would not exist if it weren’t for my husband, Greg. He suggested that I start a blog (when I didn’t even know what a blog was!). He created the site as his labour of love to me while working full time at Microsoft, and has continued redesigning and improving it over the last ten years even as he juggled all sorts of other work projects. He is the designer, programmer and technical support team. He’s also YLF’s marketing manager, strategist, photographer and accountant. Greg is the behind the scenes YLF genius who deserves a lot more credit than he gets because he’s awfully humble and modest. If I’m the heart of YLF, Greg is definitely the blood and oxygen that runs through it. I cannot thank him enough for his unconditional dedication, positive attitude, tenacity, and ongoing belief in me. Working on YLF with my best friend and soulmate has made all the difference. I would not and could not have done this without Greg.
As I look back over YLF’s ten years, there are countless memorable moments. It’s impossible to list them all, but I’m going to take you down memory lane nonetheless.
Things that Make Me Proud
When we started YLF I decided to post at least once every non-holiday weekday. Despite technical adversity, travelling across continents, illness, house guests, and heavy workloads, we haven’t missed a day in ten years!
Our community has exceeded all of my expectations. When we launched the forum 8 years ago I didn’t imagine that it would grow into the wonderful, bustling community it is today.
With YLF my goal was to help you become your own fashion stylist. So I find it enormously rewarding when people tell me how YLF’s content and community has helped them to solve their fashion and style challenges, and most importantly, that they are having fun on their style journey. I feel that I’m making a difference in the world.
Revealing Myself
I was reluctant to show myself on YLF because I felt it should be about you, not me. But after two years and two months we decided to include some glimpses of me in a post about my visit to Anne Fontaine in Paris. Then a few days later another glimpse when I was watching street style, and by the end of our trip all inhibitions were a thing of the past.
The Gift
At the end of 2009, a group of forum members clubbed together to gift me with a Valentino handbag and presented it to me at a gathering in Seattle. This gesture was my most meaningful and memorable YLF moment. It’s the type of thing that happens once in a lifetime, and I am still overwhelmed by emotion when thinking about it. Words cannot express the gratitude for this level of thoughtfulness and generosity. To me, this gift represents the love and kindness of the entire YLF community. I shall cherish my exquisite Valentino handbag for the rest of my life, and proudly carry it with your affectionate sentiments engraved deeply into my heart.
The Yorkies of YLF
Our Yorkshire terriers Jasmine and Rosie were a very meaningful and important part of the YLF team. They kept us company when we spent hours at our computers. They also often stole the show when we took outfit photos.
Our saddest moments were the days we lost Jasmine in 2011 and Rosie in 2013. They are imprinted on our hearts forever, and words cannot adequately describe how much we love and miss them. Little Sam continues their legacy.
My favourite YLF photo of all time is one where little Jasmine photo bombed my outfit. I didn’t know she was behind me, but Greg snapped the shot at the perfect moment. She was looking directly at the camera like the beautiful little blog star that she was.
Mother’s Day Posts
Each Mother’s day, I dedicate a post to my late Mother who is and will always be my most important and stylish inspiration.
Mama inspired me to take an interest in personal style and encouraged me to pursue a career in fashion. She died 16 years ago and never saw YLF, but she would have loved it. Every time I mention Mama in my posts it is with great emotion, and a simultaneously heavy and happy heart.
Our First Fashion Week
Our first New York Fashion Week experience was in 2010, and it was by far the most enjoyable. Greg and I had the very best fashion adventure together in frozen NYC. I couldn’t believe that we had made it to NYFW, and I was walking on clouds all week.
The Video
In 2011, on YLF’s fifth birthday, an extremely thoughtful forum member called Ornella put together this incredible video. I was absolutely blown away and feltso, so, humbled and honoured. I smile, laugh and cry each time I see that video because I can feel the affection from those members over and over again. Priceless.
YLF in the Seattle Times
In 2011, the Seattle Times did a fun feature on YLF. It featured YLF at a gathering, me working with a client, as well as a few of my own outfits. It’s been YLF’s most prominent media exposure and made me feel quite proud.
The Photographer
Every photograph on YLF is taken, processed and published with an extreme amount of care and attention to detail by our creative and meticulous photographer, Greg. This makes every photo a memorable moment. Here’s one that Fabber Kari took on the sly of Greg in action. It’s GREAT to see him on the other side of the camera for a change. You can also see some of his non-YLF photography on Exposure.
Meeting Inge & the Epic Gathering
Meeting and befriending Inge is one of my big YLF highlights. She contacted me privately eight years ago, soon after we launched our forum. She very politely asked if she was allowed to join since she wasn’t American and lived in Belgium. “Well I’m not American either!”, I said. “And of course, I would be delighted if you joined our community.” It was her love for pearls that brought her to YLF and we had an instant connection over this and many other things.
We became close friends, meeting in person for the first time in 2010 when Greg and I were in Europe. We got on like a house on fire and Inge eventually became part of the YLF team. In 2014 she came to Seattle and spent a month with us, which was absolutely magical. We had SO MUCH FUN together, and I long for us to be able to do that again. The cherry on top was an epic Seattle gathering we had in her honour. It was unforgettable.
In 2014 we launched the Finds feature, which has been a revelation for us. The ability to collect items you like from online retailers, arrange them into a shopping list, AND organize your entire wardrobe online — is my very favourite YLF feature. I thank Greg in my head daily for building this incredible organizational tool.
YLF’s Eighth Birthday
There have been many, many YLF gatherings around the globe and each of them is special in its own way. I’ve been to the ones in Seattle, New York, Boston, Chicago, Pasadena, Santa Monica, Brussels, Antwerp, Hong Kong, Amsterdam and London, and would go to another in a heartbeat. One of the gatherings in Boston coincidentally took place on YLF’s eighth birthday in 2014 and it was sublime. The spirit of the group was exceptional and we had an absolute ball.
And on top of it all, the group (and Fabber Isabel especially) organized a celebratory lunch. She knew how much our Yorkies Jasmine and Rosie meant to us, and included their names on the cake. It was a touching moment that I will remember forever.
Last but not least, YOU are what makes YLF exceptional. You graciously share your wit and wisdom in blog comments and forum posts. Your thoughtful, compassionate, intelligent and insightful contributions enrich my life, make me grow as a person, and provide me with daily inspiration. It blows me away when I think that some of you have been participating on YLF since its inception on 5 April 2006. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for ten years of support, and for helping me to spread the word that you can have fun with fashion at any age.
I’m not sure why, but fun and flattering casual dresses with sufficient hem length and sleeves are highly elusive every season. I bet that if retail supplied us with more of the right silhouette, they’d sell like hot cakes.
Here’s a roundup of casual dresses that recently caught my eye, some of which have worked on clients. Some of the styles come in several colours.
COS Dress with pleated sides: Architectural and very voluminous. Fabulous side entry pockets. Will blow in the wind and feel extra breezy. Runs big.
Cloth & Stone Nila T-Shirt Dress: Great on Team Tall with broad shoulders and/or a larger bust. Works quite well on curvy figures despite not being shaped. Soft and unstructured. You can knot the front of the side slitted hem for more structure.
'Katie' Cowl Neck High/Low Maxi Dress: Beautifully drapey and the fabric is substantial. Can be dressed up or down. Also works well on a larger bust. Gorgeous in motion and runs big.
Loft Striped Flare Dress: A great style for a curvy petite with a small to regular size bust. Very waist defining, yet breezy. It can work on a subtle apple shaped body type because the stripes are camouflaging. Soft fabrication. The stripes are bold so consider yourself warned. The vertical stripes on the bottom are unique and slimming.
Linen Popover Shirtdress (Regular & Petite): An amazing uber casual shirtdress that's super soft, lined, and has pockets. VERY comfy. The curved hem adds structure. Runs very big so size down one or two sizes. Great with flat sandals.
Utility Midi Shirtdress: A fashion-forward shirt dress in a rich shade of olive. The fabric drapes surprisingly well despite its stiffness. Love the side entry pockets. Works well on all body types except pretty pears. As roomy as it looks, it's cut quite narrow on the hips. You have to be okay with the shapeless sack silhouette, so watch out. Runs small.
Three seasons in and the wrap jersey skirt is still an all-round winner with my clients. And for good reason. My only complaint is that the silhouette is hard to find, and I wish there was a greater assortment of colours and patterns.
Here’s why the wrap jersey skirt is fab.
Flattering on a Range of Body Types
The clever silhouette works well for curvy and straight figures. It straightens OR flattens the hip and thigh area depending on your preference thanks to well-positioned ruching and magical diagonal lines. The silhouette is forgiving on the midsection, making it a style that apple shaped body types can also feel confident wearing.
Great with Flats
The style works particularly well with casual flats like sandals, loafers, espadrilles and sneakers. This makes it an excellent option for gals on the go, and for those who like to wear skirts, but not heels.
Can be Dressed Up or Down
Although I think of the wrap jersey skirt as more of a casual piece, it can be dressed up and worn with heels and a dressier support act. It can also be worn casually as a beach cover-up with tee, denim jacket, flip flops and hat. Or dressed up with silky top, jacket and strappy heeled sandals.
No Uni-Leg
The maxi version of this skirt is fabulous because it showcases a part of the leg in the front of the skirt. That makes the style look grounded, thereby preventing the uni-leg effect. It also makes the silhouette easier to walk in.
Covered Yet Alluring
The leg baring integrity of the skirt is subtle, but increases as you stride. Covered from the back and on the sides, but party in front. Some of the front slits come up higher than others so make sure you do the walk-test and sit-down-test before you commit to the item.
Comfortable
Jersey, if nothing else, is extremely soft and comfortable. The silhouette stretches over all the right spots on the body without it looking overly clingy. The elastic waist is forgiving on the midsection. The front vent makes the style breezy and there’s no need to worry about the skirt blowing up in the wind.
Convenient
Many wrap skirts are machine washable making them easy to maintain and take along on a trip.
Finally, a note on fit: Petites should try to buy the style in petite lengths to ensure that the back isn’t too long because it’s often a difficult item to hem.