How to Wear Midi Skirts and Dresses

Midi skirts and dresses, that finish somewhere between the bottom of the kneecap and the bottom of the calf, are making a comeback and I’m really happy about the emerging trend. My only complaint so far is that there aren’t enough midi length skirts and dresses in US stores.

Wearing skirts and dresses at this length can be tricky because it’s not universally flattering. But if you like midi skirts and dresses, these guidelines will help you de-frump the silhouette. Sometimes you’ll apply a few of the guidelines, and sometimes you’ll apply several to one outfit:

  • Tuck a top into a midi skirt: Exposing the entire skirt from natural waistline to hem lengthens the leg line, which to my eye looks more flattering. There are ways of wearing a short un-tucked top over a midi skirt, but this is more tricky.
  • Layer with a cropped jacket or cardigan: To keep a long leg line, layer with an item that doesn’t go below your waistline (see my outfit here).
  • Choose the right length skirt or dress: Petite ladies look best in midis that are just over the knee, while taller ladies can wear them longer.
  • Voluminous midi skirts are easier to de-frump: In my experience, midi skirts and dresses with interesting flared design details and tulle-petticoat-volume look more hip and less frumpy. Think of amazing All Saints skirts. Straight midi skirts are a little harder to pull off unless you wear high heels, but they do have a fabulous ‘40’s appeal.
  • Wear low vamped heels: Low vamped shoes extend the leg line without the added height of soaring heels. Sky scraping platform heels are still very popular and they look great with midis. But I really like the look of a flared midi skirt matched with kitten heels (think Audrey Hepburn). This is one of the newest and freshest looks in fashion at the moment and I’m all over it.
  • Wear shoes that create a low colour contrast with your legs: You’ve heard this a million times over. Wearing low colour contrasting shoes with skirts and dresses, as seen in the photos below, makes your legs look longer. And extending the leg line with this length of skirt prevents the dumpy and stumpy feeling. Nude shoes are a no-brainer, but metallic and light coloured shoes work just as well on bare legs.

Imogen and I were on the same wavelength because she just posted a set of guidelines on how to wear the tricky midi length skirt too. Stop by and have a look.

I REALLY want to add a killer flared midi skirt to my wardrobe asap. I am in love with the look and thoroughly bored with shorter skirts at the moment. Can you believe it! And I have a cupboard full of knee length skirts. I might need to hem a maxi skirt to get what I want.

Why the Most Common Size in America is the Least Popular

I mentioned in an earlier post that sizes 6 to 10 are the most purchased sizes in America. The interesting thing is that the most common size is a 14, but relatively few women purchase clothes in a size 14. How can this be?

Last year an article on Cleveland.com quoted the fashion industry newspaper WWD on this fact (I haven’t been able to locate the original piece) and offered some theories to explain it: Perhaps women who recently gained weight to reach a size 14 are reluctant to shop. They’d rather wait until they are back to a size 10 and in the meantime just make do with what they have. Or they might purchase smaller sizes hoping that they will fit into them later. Women sizes 20 and up, on the other hand, may have accepted their size and are happier to shop their size.

The author did her own informal study by observing people in a downtown area and concluded…

“yes, it was those “average American women,” the size 14s, who seemed to ignore style the most often, at least in my informal survey. In the past, I assumed this was because the majority of people simply aren’t all that interested in fashion. But could it be that this reluctance to shop for their current size 14 is what keeps so many women on the sidelines, and not a lack of interest?”

I can’t say that my own experience supports this explanation. I haven’t noticed a general trend for women in the most common size range to be less stylish than larger or smaller  women. Still, the fact is that size 14s are under-purchased and therefore under-stocked.

The deemphasis on size 14 at retail obviously has a negative ripple effect on size 14 women who enjoy shopping at that size. Retailers stock fab items in sizes that sell out the fastest, not sizes that sell slowly. In turn, manufacturers are reluctant to design for sizes that sell slowly. This leaves a huge gap in the marketplace — no killer stuff for size 14’s.

Could it be a catch 22, that the lack of retail variety is another reason why size 14’s don’t shop nearly as much than other sizes. If it’s not available, it can’t be purchased.

The irony is that there should be much more variety for size 14s because they are represented in both regular and plus sized retail assortments. Granted, a regular size 14 fits a little differently than a plus size 14, but still, the retail market covers the size twice.

There must be more to this than meets the eye and I’d love to hear your thoughts? Have you had trouble shopping for size 14? Do you have a theory as to why the most common size in America is one of the least popular sizes at retail?

On the Definition of Hotness

Before coming to America I didn’t hear the term “hot” very often. I would occasionally say that someone was “a little hottie”, but I would never describe an outfit as “hot”. These days I see the word used in this way all the time. In the blogosphere and on the internet in general, on television, and in print. So I got to thinking about what that really means.

In the dictionary the non-temperature related interpretation of “hot” is described as slang for: sexually aroused, lustful, sexy and attractive. So, if you look hot in an outfit, it’s accurate to infer that you look sexy and alluring. Translating these adjectives into specifics, I think of stereotypical bombshell details like tight fitting clothes, bare skin, extremely high heels and lipstick that exaggerates the pout of our lips.

That is the obvious interpretation, but it leaves me with lots of questions. I wonder whether these stereotypes really do embody the hottest looks. Or is it possible to look hot in other ways? Say, in loosely fitting and less revealing clothing, or in flat shoes? And who determines that you look hot? Is it you, or is it or your audience?

I don’t have a bombshell quality to my style. Hubby Greg has known me for 24 years and when I asked him about it, he simply said:  “It’s just not your thing. You’ve never worn revealing clothing and high heels, but you do wear form fitting clothing like skinny jeans, pencil skirts, sleek turtle necks and sheath dresses”. And Greg is right. These are absolutely clothing items that make me feel alluring. Thing is, I can feel just as alluring in a little sack dress with ballet flats. Or a suit. Or a blazer, shirt, boots and jeans. Or even a soft boxy blouse.

I think you are as hot as you feel. Just like there is no one way to look stylish, there is no one way to look and feel hot. Furthermore, the confidence of the wearer also makes an outfit hot, maybe even more so than the outfit itself.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on what makes an outfit look hot. And when types of outfits make you feel hot?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

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Step Into Spring with Style

I started writing about transitioning your wardrobe from Winter into Spring, but when I went back to the post I wrote almost exactly one year ago, I realized that the information was still relevant today. So instead of writing the same post again, I’m going to suggest that you take a look at “How to Put the Spring in Your Step“. There was interesting discussion, so be sure to read the comments too.

Having read the post, make a short shopping list if you need one, and spend time in your closet remixing Spring outfits. Perhaps it’s a question of adding silky scarves and a colourful trench coat to your wardrobe assortment? Maybe you need light coloured boots, white jeans and non-neutral jackets?  Lightweight Spring knitwear, colourful belts and printed blouses are also a great idea.

My Spring-to-Winter workhorses are my cream, black and citron trench coats. The extra warmth of their quilting is perfect during our soggy Seattle Spring. My apple green boots, light colored boots, silky scarves and bright knitwear also get lots of wear.

Wearing Socks with Sandals: Yay or Nay

Socks in sandals has been a fringe trend for a year or so. This trend is not to be confused with wearing hose with sandals, which has been trendy and popular for longer.

I really like the “sandals with socks look” on younger gals in particular, and on older gals when executed with just the right amount of arty sophistication. The socks kind of dress down the outfit and add textural interest. It’s a fun look.

In order for this trend to work well for my eye, there has to be a low-ish colour contrast between either the socks and the sandals, or the socks and your skin tone. I don’t fancy the look nearly as much when the colour contrasts are high – like wearing red socks with black sandals, or neon pink socks with green sandals.  I also think the look is best with a chunky, almost clog type heeled sandal, T-strap pump, or mary jane (see pictures below).

So I absolutely vote yay for this fringe trend on others. But I vote nay for me because I don’t wear the style of footwear that’s a prerequisite for the look, and the overall effect is a tad too casual for my style. I’d rather wear a dressier sandal or peep-toe pump with pretty hosiery. What’s your vote?