Autumn Mom on the Go: flop proof outfit #7

Today we tackle the 7th of my 10 casual outfit formulas for moms and gals on the go (refresh your memories with formulas #1, #2, #3, #4, #5 and #6). This one is all about micro check pants and shirts, so I turned to British forum member Julie (“Rose and Joan” on the forum), whose eclectic style was perfect for showcasing this formula. Julie lives in picturesque Edinburgh, Scotland, where she is a part-time financial administrator, wife, and Mum to two gorgeous little daughters. Julie’s edge, verve, sass and love for all things vintage comes through in how she rocks this formula.

Of all of the looks of the season Angie highlighted at the start of Autumn/Winter, it was the denim shirt that instantly grabbed my attention. I envisioned wearing one belted over a cream lace dress with lashings of lustrous pearls. However, my life as a Mum on the go to two very fabulous but demanding cherubs left that particular outfit firmly in the realms of fantasy. Fast forward to October 7th when the denim shirt made a sudden reappearance as part of Angie’s flop proof MOTG Formula #7:

Micro check pants + denim shirt / knit top + pleather / leather jacket + loafers

I was intrigued. I already owned a pair of cream and black houndstooth micro check trousers (they had fast become my skinny jeans alternative), and this particular combo eliminated the dreaded denim on denim faux pas.

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Finding my denim shirt proved to be more difficult than expected. I tried vintage shirts from the nineties (too boxy), tailored city shirts (too masculine for my feminine, romantic style persona). It was the most unlikely of shops where I stumbled upon my tunic length shirt, a shop which specifically catered for the teen and pre teen market. The material is a little thin but that is to be expected for the price point. Surprisingly the lack of fabric substance helped the shirt to drape and aided belting.

My perpetual Mum on the go dilemma remains, how to balance the clothes I love to wear against the clothes that are practical for my lifestyle? I’m a vintage girl at heart. I love red lips. Love the wiggle heels create. Love the impact of a flirty floral frock. I’m just not comfortable in a full on casual ensemble. I have to add a touch of glamour. I now wear a shorter version of my treasured heels and find the occasional red lip the ultimate pick me up after a sleepless night. I also expect my Mum on the go essentials to work as part of my smart casual capsule with a simple switch of accessories.

I wear my denim shirt belted to add the requisite glamour, interest and curves to my racy rectangle body type. With this particular shirt I prefer a slim belt to cinch my waist and position the belt slightly lower than my natural waist to elongate my extremely short-waisted torso. I also like to add a touch of embellishment with my belt, as the majority of my jewelry wardrobe has been consigned to the bedside drawer until my youngest daughter passes her grabbing stage. To this point, scarves work better than necklaces, worn either muffler style or tied in the Angie knot, my outfit becomes instantly pulled together and child friendly.

I favour a shopper style of bag over the Mum on the go cross body bag. The hands-free option wriggles over my shoulders, slides down my body and eventually lands in a loop around my feet. Not Fab. I look for a shoulder bag which sits comfortably under the arm and yet is roomy enough for the girls’ essentials.

My choice of coat or jacket depends on both the weather and the day’s ensemble. I love to wear my leather jacket on milder days; it adds instant edge to my style. As the temperature drops I opt for my false plain wool coat. To avoid a strobing effect I tweak the formula by substituting my micro check trousers for a casual alternative such as leggings or Ponte knit trousers.

The success of the Mum on the go formulas lies in their versatility: they can be tailored to suit all aesthetics, budgets and lifestyles. I can replicate the silhouette of formula #7 by wearing my dark wash skinny jeans with an alternative shirt, or replace the denim shirt with a tunic or shorter dress. The possibilities are endless and all of the clothes in my limited wardrobe are now in full rotation.

With Angie’s guidance I’m able to spend less time on planning my outfits and devote more time to the family. If only all decisions were as simple as getting dressed in the mornings…

Wearing high necklines with a larger bust

Fact: lower necklines are more flattering for well endowed gals. Wherever possible I like to put a V-neck, scoop neck, boat neck or sweetheart neckline on a client with a larger bust because the lower neckline visually rebalances the size of the bust and elongates the long lean line. A shirt or blouse collar that un-buttons into a deep V-shape works equally well.

A busty lass wearing a high neckline like a crew or turtle neck has the opposite effect. It makes the bust look even bigger, as if the bosom starts from under the chin instead of below the shoulder line. But there are times when bustier lasses prefer to wear high necklines either because of the cold, or because it’s time to change things up. It’s not the best look, but there are ways of bending the body type guidelines once you fully understand them.

Follow these tips if you are busty but would like to wear a higher neckline:

  • Choose an item in a lightweight fabrication. Stay away from bulky knits and stick to finer gauges and tissue weight fabrics.
  • Create a V-shaped neckline with an additional layer. Layering over a high neckline with a tailored blazer, waistcoat or jacket to create a V-shaped neckline is quite effective, especially when the additional layer is left unbuttoned.
  • Add an eye-catching vertical accessory. This draws the eye up and down and takes attention away from the bust. Crew necks look good with short chunky pendants that finish above the bust. They also work with long, soft collapsible scarves tied in vertical knots. Turtle necks look good with longer finer necklaces that drape over the curve of the bust, but are short enough that they don’t hook onto to the bust (Y-chains are a great idea). Wearing a soft slimming scarf over a turtle neck is especially effective when the scarf and top are in the same monochromatic colour palette.

Portuguese forum member Rute posted an outfit on the forum yesterday that perfectly illustrates all three tips on her deliciously hourglass frame. Be sure to check out Rute for visual inspiration. She looks fab!

Twilight Fashion

Modern day vampire themed books, television serials and movies are all the rage and there is no stopping the trend. I was completely disinterested in the phenomenon until I saw teenage actress Kristen Stewart play a superb role in a recent movie called “Adventureland”. Her talent piqued my interest so I NetFlixed the much acclaimed vampire movie “Twilight” and saw it over Thanksgiving weekend. Good grief! I too have been completely sucked in by the vampire movie trend.

I was so, so unexpectedly mesmerized with the story line and chemistry between the main actors in Twilight that I dragged poor Greg to see “New Moon”, which is playing in theaters right now. I was equally captivated by the sequel and I’m already champing at the bit to see the third movie in the series.

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Vampire themed movies, books, and TV shows are one thing, but now you can even shop the “New Moon Fashion Line” in the junior section at Nordstrom. Apart from movie-specific slogans and illustrations on T’s and hoodies, this fashion range looks like everything else at young adult retail clothing stores like Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister and American Eagle. I’m not a young adult so I’m not drawn to the fashion line or to the clothing worn on the movies. But I have been wondering whether it’s been appealing to the target audience. Are these clothing lines resonating with your teenagers?

Also, are the Twilight movies and their fashion a big thing where you live? Have you been captivated by the movies (or books) like I have?

Roundups

Simpler Items

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Assorted Items

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Casual Summer Vibes

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Summery Earth Tones

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

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Cyber Monday Sale Alerts

The final day of Thanksgiving weekend sales is here. Here are some examples from our affiliate merchants in the YLF store. These sales are all for today only and apply to online purchases:

Macy’s (code: CYBER) and Saks Fifth Avenue (code: HOLIDAY9) are offering free shipping today only.

Black Friday Sale Alerts

Back Friday is viewed as the biggest retail day on the American shopping calendar because it officially starts the Christmas gift purchasing frenzy. If anyone knows how it got its name, I’d love to know. Also, if you have any Black Friday sale stories and traditions to share, I’d love to hear about those too.

Here are some additional sales that kicked off today.

So the sales continue. Are you shopped out, or still going strong?