Highlights of 2019

Here are some thoughts to wrap up the year of style, fashion, retail, entertainment and beyond. These are subjective musings, so feel free to agree, disagree, and add to my list. It’s all in good fun. 

Personal Highlight of the Year: We moved to a loft apartment by Seattle’s waterfront and LOVE our new neighbourhood and urban walking lifestyle. Our storage spaces in the loft are not ideal and we plan to remodel eventually, but I had fun organizing my wardrobe and making the puzzle pieces fit. My bags have pride of place, and my colourful wardrobe makes me smile.

Wardrobe

Fashion Highlight: Birthday shopping with in-house fashion stylist and hubs, Greg. I’m treated like royalty, spoiled rotten, and I enjoy every second of quality time with my sweetie.

Sale of the Year: Nordstrom Anniversary sale. I always have a good sale, but this year was exceptional. I bought a few statement pieces and a fun wild card, all of which have become wardrobe workhorses.

Seattle’s Best Rainbow Hair: Sam’s blue locks.

Sam

Best YLF Flashback: Benetton in the ‘80s.

Best “Finally” Moments in the Fashion Industry:

  • The availability of extended size assortments at many retailers.
  • A more diverse set of models.
  • Signs of a commitment to making more sustainable choices.

Serena's Hi-tops

Favourite Red Carpet Outfit: Serena William’s floral citron gown complete with matching Nike hi-tops. 

Most Overstocked Items at Retail: Skinnies, cropped pants, oversized tops, Athleisure, workout wear.

Favourite New-to-me Outfit Bloggers: Susanne from Texterella, and Hayley Hall.

Most Stylish Quotes: Both are from Alison at Wardrobe Oxygen:

  • “Your weight does not determine your worth”
  • “Your size does not determine your strength”

Fashion and Style Buzzwords: Sustainability, Gender Fluidity, the ‘80s, the ‘90s, Diversity, and Conscious Consumption.

Best Instagram Hashtag: #makemysize

Most Improved Retailers: Banana Republic and Macy’s.

Banana Republic’s quality seems to be back on track, and I’m especially impressed with their online Japan Exclusive collection. My favourite new Summer slim wide cropped checked pants are from that assortment, and now I’m hooked.

Macy’s has cleaned up their act. Their site is working better, stores are more organized, customer service has improved, and there are more discounts. Most importantly, their ONLINE dress assortment is one of the best if you’re looking for no-nonsense, flattering, fun and affordable frocks across extended sizes and colours. Big shout-out to Ralph Lauren, DKNY and Calvin Klein dresses.

Best Customer Service: Zappos, Nordstrom, Everlane, Boden.

Fastest Shipping: Amazon

Best Fashion Show: The Colours of Africa Fashion Show at Vienna Fashion Week.

Best Trends: The ones that make you feel happy and fabulous, and that you’ll continue wearing after they’ve had their fashion moment. For me that’s DYOT (Do Your Own Thing) and wearing fashion sneakers with everything.

Worst Trend: The ones that boss you around and don’t get your style or your body.

Wardrobe Items of the Year: Pants and Jeans. The assortment at retail this year was stellar.

Worst Universal Fit Challenges: Necklines that are too low, dress lengths that are too short, armholes that are too wide, and sleeves that are too narrow.

Favourite New Beauty Product: LilyAna Naturals Retinol Cream.

Best Wardrobe Wild Card: My Apple watch. I gave this a lot of thought because wearing a casual sporty watch daily is not my cup of tea. After figuring out that I could customize a white face, and match the white strap with gold hardware with my pearls, I was in business. I LOVE my Apple watch because of what it can do. It’s perfectly in sync with my iPhone, which has a matching white silicone case. I’m more of a techie than I thought.

Apple-Watch

Best Early Morning Adventure: Greg, Sam and I got up just before 2 a.m. to watch the World Cup Rugby Final between England and South Africa live from Seattle. OF COURSE, we were cheering for South Africa who has won the World Cup twice before. We had an extremely festive and fun time WhatsApp’ing with our South African friends across the globe during the match, which ended in a glorious victory for South Africa. Full of adrenalin after the spectacular win, we couldn’t go back to sleep!

World Cup

Worst Weather of the Year: Seattle Snowmageddon. Back in February, the city was hit with record snow storms that ground things to a halt. Seattle looked like an alpine ski resort for a month. It was treacherous because hilly Seattle isn’t geared up for this type of snow and ice. Snowmageddon had its fun moments, but I was relieved to see it all wash away with our usual Winter rain.

Snowmageddon

Most Dapper 87 Year old: My sweet and gentle Papa.

Papa

Colour of the Year: Bright red for the second year in a row.

Best Dutch Clothing Brands: Scotch & Soda because of their commitment to quality, unique looks, and the relaxed edge they bring to dressy clothing. G-Star because their men’s outerwear is hip, flattering, practical and beautifully made. Sylver because they had the best Winter polka dot scarves this year.

Footwear Brand of the Year: Ecco because their fashion sneakers finally fit my low-volume feet, and I bought five pairs. I wear them all the time, and with everything.

Biggest Style Surprise: Lengths are my thing, and I will absolutely split hairs about them. I adore the look of full-length flared bottoms that skim the surface of the ground because it’s forever flattering, luxurious, and gorgeous to my eye. But the sky must be falling because I’ve surprised myself by ALSO loving the new shorter full length with flats. It’s a lot more practical for my wet climate and urban walking lifestyle. It’s a fab look with flat booties and sneakers (my go-to footwear). It’s also playful, trendy, a little preppy, and above all — I’m having fun sporting the change.

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Most Annoying Retail Styling Technique: Bare ankles for Fall and Winter fashion, obsessive tucking and semi-tucking of tops, and models with awfully messy hair.

Biggest Missed Opportunities at Retail: Tops that look fabulous UN-tucked with a bit of shape and personality. Tops with interesting sleeves that can be easily layered under toppers. Fabulous and good quality essentials made in all sizes. White tops that aren’t see-through. Machine washable casual dresses that are knee-covering, sleeved, fit well, and made of fab fabric.

Best Thoughts on Ethical Consumerism: An article in Vogue by Maya Singer.

Worst Quality Problems: Knitwear that pills, and garments made of shoddy fabric.

Accessory of the Year: Beanies. Everybody wears them in my neck of the woods, and so do I.

Favourite TV Show: Chernobyl.

Favourite Documentary: Oasis: Supersonic. Greg and I were absolutely captivated. So much so that we watched it once, and all over again twelve hours later. The music, storyline, characters, editing and spontaneous photography are sublime. You might want to watch it with closed captions because a strong Manchester accent can be tricky to understand.

Most Fun Movie of the Year: Alita: Battle Angel.

Best Dark Movie of the Year: Joker.

Best Movies for Style & Fashion: Downton Abbey, and Once Upon a Time in Hollywood.

Best TV Show About Positive Body Image: Shrill.

Favourite Ways to Accumulate Steps: Shopping, travelling, and going on long walks with Greg and Sam.

Biggest Bang for Your Fashion Buck: Wearing the heck out of your wardrobe and feeling fabulous in it.

Favourite Style Tips: Be patient with your style, listen to how you feel in an outfit, don’t compare and despair, and never stop having fun with fashion.

We at YLF wish you a happy, safe and peaceful New Year’s Eve.

Happy Holidays

The last week of the year is a time to rest, reflect, show gratitude, share affection, enjoy the gift of giving, and fondly remember those who are no longer with us. It’s also a time to soak up the festivities, cook up a storm, eat yummy food, dress up, dress down, be nice, be naughty, sing, bop to music, hang out in PJs, catch up on reading, watch tele, enjoy nature, play games, spend time with loved ones, and appreciate friends. 

The residents of the Cox Castle will be doing just that. We’re at home in Seattle and looking forward to giving airports, traffic, crowds, and helter-skelter a break until the new year.

Our Yorkie Sam is an extremely nice little guy who waits patiently for Christmas morning. His placid little persona goes from nice to naughty in a nanosecond when we start to open the presents under the tree. He’s greatly disappointed when they aren’t toys, bones or treats, He turns his little nose up at doggy shampoo, doggy accessories, or something for me and Greg. But as soon as he gets his toys, he’s the happiest little chap and plays with them relentlessly. This makes for an extra squeaky festive season.

Nice Sam

Nice

We’ll be slowing things down this week, but will commence regular daily posting next week. We wish you a wonderful festive season filled with safe travel, happy moments, fabulous style, and peace in your hearts.

Team Jacket or Team Coat

Our last poll of 2019 asks you to choose one of two types of toppers. A coat is generally thigh-length and longer, and more insulating and heavier than a jacket. Coats are usually worn outdoors and known as outerwear, whereas a jacket can be extremely lightweight, short, and worn indoors. In the extreme, a jacket can be as lightweight as a shirt and worn in mild weather, while a coat can insulate you in arctic temperatures.

Jackets and coats are both magical wardrobe items. Personally, I think they can make a bigger style statement than footwear, because they are larger, more visible, and closer to your face. If you wear a fabulous coat or jacket with a nondescript pair of shoes, your outfit will shine. If you wear a less than fab coat and jacket with killer shoes, it might not. 

Jackets and coats are both really popular with my clients because they are visually magical, and extremely practical in Seattle where you need a topper most of the year. My clients generally have large and varied jacket and coat capsules. They are probably evenly split across the two teams. Some prefer jackets because they work and commute by car. That means they need a topper to wear indoors at the office, and don’t need to brave the outside elements in a thick coat. Driving in a short jacket is also easier than driving in a long coat. Others prefer the ease of layering an item of knitwear under a coat, and the streamlined and elongating integrity of a coat. The added insulation is important too. A coat can look awfully chic, sharp and flattering, and often adds more outfit drama than a jacket.

I LOVE jackets and coats. They are my next favourite wardrobe items after handbags. I have a large capsule of each, and wear the items frequently because I live in a jacket and coat-wearing climate and commute on foot most of the time. I run cold and I’m always grabbing a topper of some sort — even in Summer to combat arctic air conditioning.

Here’s my current collection of jackets and coats. There’s a lot of variety in colour, silhouette, fabric, pattern, and degree of insulation, which keeps things interesting.

Boden
Velvet Emilia Blazer
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Top Pick
22
Boden
Arundel Puffer Jacket
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Top Pick
6
Zara
Short Blazer With Zip
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Top Pick
17
Boden
Mirabelle Blazer
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Top Pick
31
Hobbs
Saskia Trench Coat
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Top Pick
21
Zara
Textured Cape Coat
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Top Pick
18
Boden
Hengrave Coat
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17
Karen Millen
TIE-NECK COAT
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30

I can’t choose, so I’m sitting this one out on the bench with sweetcorn samosas, leak fritters with coriander sauce, salt and pepper squid, butternut and tomato curry with wild rice, and koeksisters for dessert.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Jacket or Team Coat? Tell us why and no batting for both teams. I suspect we’ll have an even split, so prove me wrong.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Fashion News Roundup: December 2019

Pantone’s colour for 2020, the top trends for next year according to Pinterest, a documentary investigating the beauty business, and other stories from the style trenches this month.

Fun Fashion Fact

Did you know that argyle was invented in the 17th century. The diamond pattern came into being by looking at something another way, namely tartan:

“‘Clans used to weave tartan on smaller frames to make tartan hose,’ says Professor Alistair O’Neill, a fashion historian and writer at Central St Martin’s college in London. ‘They found it wasn’t particularly form-fitting so they turned it 90 degrees. They worked out that if you cut the fabric once it is woven on the bias, it gives it a certain elasticity. So by turning tartan on its side you get argyle.'”

Link Love: Holiday Medley 2019

It’s become tradition to ring out the Link Love year with a collection of style-related stories that didn’t quite fit into the themed Link Love posts we published throughout the year, but are worth sharing anyway. Have fun browsing!

Fab Links from Our Members

This article about returned online purchases often going to landfill distressed Suz, and makes her rethink the way she sometimes shops.

How to wear scarves ‘right’, nuancedream thinks many people wear scarves as an afterthought: “Just a little bit of effort would make them look so much better.”

Kari adds that “MaiTai has the best collection of scarf tutorials and inspiration pictures that I’ve ever seen for folks looking to wear scarves in a creative way.”

Slim cat wanted to share this article about how millennials are changing the perfume business.

The Cat thought this blog post by Imogen might be of interest to those of us who want to identify their type (e.g. according to the Kibbe system, or Myers Briggs) or improve their style.

Vildy was bursting into laughter with this long, humorous thread from reddit Female Fashion Advice about outfit misinterpretations.