A Back To Front Dress and Heels

I ordered the pleated neck tie belted dress as soon as Karen Kane launched their online store. Although I have my fair share of black frocks, I am always on the look out for rare longer sleeved dresses. The fact that this style is woven was especially up my alley. 

I expected to love the weight and drape of the fabric of the frock. It’s a splendid crinkle crepe-like rayon with lots of substance. The fabrication did not disappoint! The dress was also a decent length which made me jump for joy. Over the past three years I’ve found plenty of perfectly fab dresses that were unfortunately just too short.

When I held up the dress before trying it on, I suspected that the neckline might not work. I do not have a strong shoulder line or full bust, which can make “filling out” tops and dresses a challenge. And coupled with very short hair and a long neck, low necklines aren’t my best friend either. That’s why I gravitate towards high necklines and necklines that are cut close to shoulder neck point.

Sure enough, as soon as I tried the dress on I saw that the neckline did not work for my body type, and a camisole did not help either. But I have learned that it can help to try items back to front. So that’s what I did and like magic the frock began to take shape. The keyhole opening looked a little odd now that it was placed on my back, so onto needle and thread to stitch it closed.

As the description of the dress implies, the pleated neckline adds interest to the style, which made wearing it back to front more special. Actually, with the keyhole opening stitched close, I can also wear the dress the right way round too. I asked hubby Greg which version he preferred, to which he replied, “back to front”. So that’s how I wore it last Friday night when we went out with dear friends Meredith and Nik to one of Seattle’s best restaurants, the “Flying Fish”.

I like wearing this frock sans a belt because I fancy short breezy sack dresses. But for this occasion, I added a wide black mock-croc obi belt to jazz things up a bit. I only have two pairs of high heeled party shoes, which made the red Kate Spades an easy decision. Good thing all I had to do was walk to and from the car! I added my white specs to soften the harshness of the high black neckline against my face. Ordinarily I would have added a white pearl necklace to soften the black, but here that would have competed with the statement belt, and be too much going. I was not in the mood for a clutch handbag that evening so I opted for a turquoise satchel.

Greg, who is generally not a fan of belted dresses and blouses, loved my outfit. He said that it looked pretty in an interesting way. He was also rather impressed with how I changed the silhouette with a little stitch and back to front dressing. I’m thrilled that I have a unique dress that’s comfortable, SLEEVED, flattering for my giraffe neck and easy to wear.

What Men Think of Short Hairstyles for Women

My fab hair stylist Theresa says that she has many lady clients who want to cut their hair short, but their husbands and significant others won’t hear of it. I also read in the blogosphere and on our own forum that many men don’t like the look of a woman with very short hair. They find it masculine and unattractive. These men prefer women to have longer hair because it’s more sensual, alluring and feminine.

I have sported very short hair several times since the age of 13. Just yesterday I cut my hair as short as Greg’s. I have never heard a man complaining about a woman’s short haircut first hand, so this common perception that men prefer long hair surprises me.

Greg loves my super short hair. He says that it’s his favourite look for me right now, but that he also loved my hair when I wore a bob, and even when it was longer. Of course he’s biased, but I know that for him it is also about the change. He likes that I have different looks over time.

Even my conservative 80 year old Papa, who prefers women in skirts and dresses, enjoys my short haircut. Bless his heart for continually saying that my short crop looks “erg leuk”, which in Dutch means “very fun”. I also have many male friends who adore women with super short hair if it suits the wearers facial features and personality. 

Of course, I’m sure that I know men who do not fancy short hairstyles on women, but wouldn’t say so in my company. 

So ladies, over to you. Can the men in your life appreciate super short hair on a woman if she pulls off the look with panache? Or do they prefer women with longer hair no matter what?

Link Love from YLF Members

DressLover read that most people want to spend $100 or less on Fall fashions this year. Clearly these are not Nordstrom Anniversary Sale shoppers! 

Mrseccentric was impressed with Angie from fashionmeblog, a charming Mom on the Go in Greece who is dedicated to acquiring quality garments and remixing her wardrobe items. 

Kendall Farr’s blog always gives Joy food for thought. 

Liz Y loved Sal’s article about her evolving style because the thoughts and ideas are also applicable to things other than clothing.

Vani is going to give Luvees Coveralls a bash in order to combat the annual chub-rub situation in hectic Florida heat.  

Annagybe loves these specs but not the price. I love the hat. 

Debora likes dappered.com, a mens fashion blog that was particularly helpful with it’s top picks list for the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. 

Sarah is besotted with actress Sasha Alexander’s chic dress and trench coat style on TV Show Rizzoli & Isles.

Kyle recommends Outblush as a fun distraction. It showcases featured items in categories like fashion, home, beauty and life. 

Rae has no idea why these pictures count as a Fashion Week Campaign, but she thinks that the “Lost-Meets-Lord-of-the-Flies” clothing is killer cool. 

CocoLion was inspired by advanced style because she’s been thinking a lot about aging and age appropriate dressing lately. This superb blog was created by a young man. 

Inge questions whether all paper shopping bags should be thrown away. Why not frame some and pop them on your wall!

Marianna found it interesting to browse through the top customer rated items of the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale

RoseandJoan was happy that the UK Advertising Standards Authority decided to ban two L’Oreal’s adverts for using unrealistic and unachievable images to sell their cosmetic products.

Modgrl enjoyed this discussion on how to wear coloured denim

Last but not least, I enjoyed seeing how very glam Kelly creates her spiraled tresses. She makes it look so easy! 

Roundups

Simpler Items

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Assorted Items

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Casual Summer Vibes

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Summery Earth Tones

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

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Playful Proportions and Bright White Legs

All of Seattle was elated last Sunday as we enjoyed a sunny and hot 83 degree day (28 degrees Celsius). This year’s dismal Spring and Summer weather made it an absolute pleasure! I couldn’t wait to bust out a sleeveless top and wear it without an additional layer. 

I wore a casual outfit that day because I caught up on admin at home, ran a couple of errands, and joined Phoebe for her photo shoot in the afternoon. I wore my newly repurposed clamdiggers and am pleased with how they turned out. Somehow, they actually look better as clams than as skinnies. I rolled them up because they haven’t been hemmed. 

I matched up my clams with a sleeveless grey pinstripe Winter dress that I usually wear with over the knee boots and hose, or over skinny jeans. Ironically, I actually prefer wearing this grey frock in the Summertime because I like it best worn on it’s own. No under layers or outer layers. It has a complex collar that’s aching to take centre stage, and the dropped waist looks most effective when it drapes as a single layer. 

I’m one of those people who can handle the heat. When everyone else is in sandals, I’m the one in closed shoes because I find it more comfortable (my feet generally do not like the straps on sandals). Adding my flat oxfords to this outfit is an acquired taste, but I like the arty vibe. It’s strong, simple and makes a statement. 

I added a black polka dot floral pin to bookend the black of the shoes. My black and white specs and white watch also match the peds. I finished off the outfit with a very colourful satchel and left off the pearls. I could comfortably dash around styling Phoebe and Kai for the photo shoot in this outfit and I wasn’t too hot at all. 

The proportions and combination of items here are unusual. A dropped waist worn with clams, WITH high vamped, high contrast flat shoes is not everyone’s cup of tea. Neither is a dressy Winter dress worn over very faded denim. But the playful combination works to my eye and I felt fab wearing it — bright white legs and all.

My Old Skinnies Become New Clamdiggers

A pair of 7 For all Mankind “Roxanne” skinnies and a pair of Marc Jacobs straight leg jeans were rescued from the donate-pile last Sunday morning. The Roxanne’s were awfully faded and had a tear in the bottom left leg, while the MJ’s were never quite the same after being laundered at a hotel. So I got out my fabric scissors and transformed the two pairs of jeans into cropped clamdiggers. I cut them a few inches below the bottom of my knee cap so that I can roll them up to a flattering length. At this point I’m not even going to bother with sewing in a proper hem because they are super casual. 

I bat for Team Wear, so I wore the cropped Roxanne’s right away under a sleeveless dropped waist grey pinstripe sheath dress with flat oxfords. It was fun to repurpose two pairs of premium denim jeans in this way. I certainly didn’t turn up my nose at two pairs of free clamdiggers!