A Party Outfit for Cold Weather

It makes no sense to me that the party wear that’s in stores from now until February is so naked. Men can cover up and stay warm while we’re expected to wear flimsy little frocks and freeze our buns off. This works when the weather is warm, or when the heat is turned up really high. But frequently we’re either trying to find ways to cover up, which often ruins the look of the dress, or we grin and bear the cold for the duration of the event. Not so fab. 

The solution is to find a formal outfit option that keeps us warm. I often suggest a dressy suit, brocade or velvet jacket with dressy bottoms, or a “le Smoking” (ladies tuxedo) to my clients as toastier alternatives. A long sleeved dress at a decent length and in a substantial fabrication is another way to go. Add hosiery and dressy pumps for more insulation. 

For toasty formal wear this season, I’m loving the dressy maxi skirt ensemble. As the photos below show, the skirts are paired with dressy and casual pullovers, and the odd leather jacket. I like how these outfits have been broken up with high contrasting colour, tonal colour, texture, colour blocking and pattern. Wearing one colour — from head to toe and wrist to wrist — would not look as good to my eye. Scrunch the sleeves, add in some bling, hose, dressy shoes, a fab clutch, and you are good to go. Cozy, modern, chic, interesting, and comfortable as long as you don’t trip over the skirt. 

The vibe of this outfit is less formal than a cocktail dress or ball gown with all the trimmings because of the knitted and leather additions. With most events being less formal these days, this modern combination probably fits the bill quite well. 

I have all the pieces for this outfit formula so it might be my holiday look this year. Does it grab you too?

Two Fab Finds for the Curvy and Well-Endowed

This sweater and the “Sloan” trouser fit from Banana Republic have worked exceptionally well on my curvier and well-endowed clients. Items run true to size. Be sure to look at all the colour options. 

  • Lace Front Sweater: Here’s a more subtle way to wear lace. Please zoom into the picture on the Banana Republic website to see the lace detailing up close because the photo does not do the style justice. It’s beautiful in both colours and fabulous with a pair of menswear inspired trousers. Available in black and Winter white.

To accessorize, consider the Pearlized Cabochon Cuff. This bracelet is studded with pearls. KILLER. If I wore bracelets, this would be mine. Wearing a couple stacked together looks fab too. 

Wear all three items with Bertie’s Nina Leopard Print Shoe Boots and you’ve pulled together a flop proof, modern classic trouser ensemble that will take you almost anywhere. Add in a daytime clutch for extra modern fabness, or sport a bag style of your choice.

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Hair, Neck, Bust and the Big Scarf

This BIG scarf has been around for a while and is yet another nod to the growing oversized trend. It is bulky and large in the extreme. Some scarf shapes are rectangular with two ends, while others are circular or “infinity” style with no ends. 

Oversized scarves are usually made of chunky knits. But a huge wrap made of substantial finer gauge wool or similar fabrication can achieve the same oversized look when wrapped around the neck a couple of times. In other words, wear a shawl like a scarf to create the same look. 

The big scarf is easy to wear for long necked gals who have short hair and small to regular bust lines. Long hair that is tied back into a ponytail or bun makes the big scarf easy to wear too. Or as most of these photos show, wrap the scarf over long hair, thereby covering it’s length if you prefer to leave it down.

This brings us to how to wear oversized scarves with a shorter neck and larger bust. Tying the scarf more loosely around the neck instead of right up against it will elongate the length of the neck. It’s easier to control this drape with a scarf that has two ends. As far as the larger bust line goes, a huge cashmere shawl (like the purple example below) when tied like a scarf is less bulky than an oversized chunky knit scarf. 

That said, there is no getting away from the bulk. If you’re concerned about adding bulk to your bust line, stick to fine gauge knit or silky scarves that collapse back onto the body. 

Personally, I love to wear big scarves and I’m on the hunt for an extremely bulky knit that doesn’t scratch my skin. I feel cozy and comfortable in the look, plus they are an ideal way to keep extra warm. I like a big scarf best over a leather jacket or wool blazer because then it takes centre stage. A shorter jacket also seems to balance out the bulk of the scarf, whereas a long coat adds even more bulk to your silhouette. Of course, I still like big scarves worn with long coats, and wear that combination too. 

What’s your take on the big scarf? Do you wear them, or do they add too much bulk on the bust line? Does your hair get in the way? If you are petite, do you feel overwhelmed wearing a big scarf?

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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Jewel Tones or Team Sour Brights

Jewel tones are rich colours that resemble gem stones like dark ruby reds, sapphire blues, amethyst purples and emerald greens and teals. Sour brights are saturated colours that are mixed with lots of yellow, like citron, all shades of lime green, tomato red, bright oranges and corals, neon pink and bright turquoise.

I only have two jewel toned items in my wardrobe because I’m a sour brights gal all the way. They are my favourite colours, and they make me happy when I wear them. I do not gravitate towards jewel tones at all, but do love them on others. 

Over to you. Are you on Team Jewel Tones or Team Sour Brights? Based on the colour preferences of my clientele, I suspect that jewel tones will win this poll with the greatest of ease. No batting for both teams, but you can sit this one out on the bench if you can’t pick a side or if neither colour spectrum is appealing.

Oversized Coats: Yay or Nay

I have mixed feelings about this trend because it can look very unflattering. If the cut and proportions are just right you’ll look fabulously fashion forward, chic, arty, attractive and avant-garde. But if the fit and details are just slightly off, chances are high you’ll look frumpy, dated, and like you’re wearing a hopelessly ill-fitting coat. 

Some of the oversized coats below are super, like the chartreuse Laurel coat from Diane von Furstenberg, the navy wool coat from Chalayan with the dropped waist fastening, the ASOS Limited Edition Rib Insert Coat in brown tweed, and the cashmere mocha coat by Rick Owens. These coats balance an oversized fit with structure, which keeps the silhouette from wearing you. The structured hip fit is vitally important to my eye. The intentionally oversized integrity of a dropped shoulder seam and raglan style sleeve also works quite well for this silhouette.  

The rest don’t tickle my fancy because they just look ill-fitting. I could wear Greg’s coats to create a similar silhouette and feel very un-fab. I’d also look awful because the fit would completely overwhelm my frame. 

From a practical point of view, you can layer just about anything under an oversized coat. Dolman sleeve knitwear, oversized knitwear, jackets, you name it! It covers and hides everything, which can be an advantage.  

The oversized coat is a tricky item, but it can work so I’m a cautious yay. I like the ’80s appeal of the broad shoulder line and narrow hips for retro and nostalgic reasons, and just for fun I’d wear an oversized coat that wasn’t too oversized. But I have a very strong preference for tailored coats so purchasing an oversized coat is not at all a priority. 

What’s your verdict on the oh-so-fashion-forward oversized coat?

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