Happy Sixth Birthday YLF!

I can’t believe it has been six years since we published my first blog post, and it’s been one heck of a ride. It’s hard to believe that what started out as a tiny blog would eventually become a bustling social community that connects woman from all over the world. And I owe so much of YLF’s success to Greg, who suggested that I start a blog when I didn’t even know what a blog was. Greg also designed, updated and maintained this site while he was still full time at Microsoft. This was his labour of love to me. Incredible.

I’ve always known that fashion and style was my passion, hence all my years as a fashion buyer. But I only realized recently that what I enjoy most is helping others to find their style and look and feel their best. My work is enormously satisfying and fuels both my head and my heart. That said, I’m glad that I was a fashion buyer first, because the experience helps me crystallize my thoughts as a fashion stylist. 2012 marks my 20 years in the almighty Rag Trade, and I am definitely in it for the long haul. 

I am not someone who thinks in words, likes to write, or is motivated to improve my writing style. Yet I write a lot — nine blog posts a week and many replies in the forum. I love to yak and have strong opinions about fashion and style. So as long as I think of each blog post and forum reply as having a short and fun conversation with you, I enjoy the process. 

When you put your opinions and outfits on the internet, you have to develop a fairly thick skin — especially when it comes to a subjective and intensely personal topic like fashion and style. People won’t always agree with what you say, or like what you wear. Of course, this is understandable even when the comments are less than tactful. But generally, we are lucky to have a readership that is very supportive and respectful. I am constantly broadening my horizons and learning new and wonderful things. 

I think about YLF all the time. It’s virtually impossible to switch off because writing the content is an ongoing thing. Working with my clients provides a constant flow of inspiration and I always have at least five post ideas in my head at one time, along with outfit ideas and style inspirations. I don’t do a great job of writing things down, and things fall through the cracks for sure. I rely far too much on my memory and it’s going to let me down big time one of these days. (Note to self: write things down!)

Last but not least, don’t believe those who say that you should never work with your spouse! This type of working relationship is not for everyone, but it does work for Greg and me. One of the best parts about YLF is that I am able to share it with my soulmate. 

As we say over and over again, YOU are what makes YLF a special place. Your thoughtful, witty, supportive, intelligent and insightful contributions in the blog comments and forum posts enriches our lives. You continue to generously share your knowledge and wisdom with energy and verve. Some of you have been with us for six years, and I can’t adequately express how humbling that feels. 

With Jasmine in our hearts, Greg, Rosie and I extend a gigantic thank you to all our subscribers, forum members, daily readers and occasional visitors. You make YLF an exceptional community.

Cool and Covered Pointelle Knitwear

It’s hard to find tops that are breezy, yet covered because the fashion industry assumes that we all want to wear skimpy sleeveless tops when temperatures soar. Although sleeveless tops are airy and excellent in hot weather, we also have the right to not bare our arms. Staying cool with arm coverage requires lightweight items breathable sleeves, some of which are best layered with a camisole or tank top. 

Cotton-rich pointelle knitwear in fine gauge yarns, like the examples here, can be a good way to go. Some styles are tailored while others are unstructured. The holes that are created by the knitting stitch are ventilating, providing zero warmth and insulation. And the larger the holes, the cooler the top. 

I remember having a white, boxy three quarter-sleeved pointelle sweater many years ago that I wore with white jeans. It had huge holes and felt like I was wearing nothing more than the tank top. 

Fringe Trend: Non-Neutral Trouser Suits

Trouser suits in bright, mid-tone and pastel colours were big in the ’80s and early to mid ’90s. You can spot them at goodwill and thrift stores quite easily, complete with crazy shoulder pads, oversized buttons and huge lapels. 

I wore a mid tone apple green trouser suit in 1993 which evoked both positive and negative comments when worn to work (I was a fashion buyer at the time). Even Greg, who was not my husband yet, said that I looked like a lime milkshake in this suit. Greg loves lime milkshakes so I took it as a compliment. I adored that suit and was sad when we parted ways. 

Non-neutral trouser suits in all sorts of colours, from brights to pastels, have been trickling through to retail stores over the last six months. This trend is very fringe at the moment, and might just stay that way. 

Of course, you can purchase the suit and wear it as separates if you don’t like the idea of sporting the same colour and fabrication both on the top and bottom. Somehow though, I really like the idea of wearing the combination as a suit. There is something about this trend that looks fresh, fab and fun to my eye, probably because most suits have been neutrally toned forever. My wardrobe would definitely welcome a modern non-neutral trouser suit in a mid tone or bright if the right one came my way.

Would you wear a non-neutral trouser suit? If so, which colour would you choose? Or do you think they are awful no matter how you slice and dice it. Are non-neutral trouser suits office-appropriate, or are neutrals the only way to go? 

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Socks or Team No Socks

You are on Team Socks if you prefer to wear footwear with socks and/or hosiery. You are on Team No Socks if you prefer to wear footwear without socks. Note: if you “cheat” and wear invisible footies, “no show socks” or sock liners, you’re on Team No Socks. 

I like wearing ballet flats, loafers, low heeled pumps and flat oxfords without socks. I also wear a few pairs of booties sans socks. I never wear footies because they seem to slip off my feet no matter what. I do not like wearing sandals at all. They eventually start rubbing, my feet get cold in air conditioning, and wearing sandals with socks, although more comfortable, is not suited to my style persona.  

I LOVE wearing socks with closed shoes like boots and booties because my feet are instantly more happy with the extra coverage. No rubbing, instant warmth, protection from the elements, and cozy comfort. I even prefer to wear my house slippers with socks. I also like to wear hosiery, although I don’t find it as comfortable was wearing socks with footwear.

So although I do wear footwear sans socks some of the time, I’m more often in socks and I prefer their cozy comfort. I am on Team Socks.

Over to you. Are you on Team Socks or on Team No Socks. Tell us why and no batting for both teams.

The Peplum Trend: Yay or Nay

Peplums seem to waft in and out of fashion every few decades. The last time they were big was in the ’80s, which is when I wore one most recently. I felt ever so grown up in a floor length red peplum gown that I’d worn to a high school dance with low black heels, big hair and copper jewelry. Peplums are back both for Spring and Autumn 2012, and at this stage it’s anyone’s guess as to how fringe or mainstream the trend will be. 

A peplum is a skirted flounce that is attached to the waistline of a dress, shirt, top or jacket. You’ll even find peplums on trousers. Peplums come in all shapes and sizes, some of which are ruffled and frilly, while others look more sculpted and architectural. Some peplums are subtle, while others make a huge statement. 

The right peplum silhouette balances out proportions quite effectively. It can add bulk to the bottom half of an inverted triangle. OR, surprisingly it can camouflage the broader lower half of a pear shaped body type. 

I like peplums on dresses, jackets and tops as long as they look more streamlined and less “frilly and full”. The long sleeved orange dress is a good example of the type of peplum that tickles my fancy. I like them less on skirts, but do not dislike the look either. I am a cautious yay vote for peplums. 

What’s your verdict?  Would you wear an item with peplum detailing?