How to dress the adorable apple body type, 2010

The adorable apple is next on the list as I continue refreshing the body type guidelines. If you’re still unsure of your body type or the concept of body types in general, read this post for background information.

Two important points before I begin:

  1. These are only guidelines: Don’t get too hung up on following the information here in the strictest sense. But we all have to start somewhere in order to dress in flattering ensemble combinations and getting your head around the guidelines is a great starting point. Once you have a firm grasp of the guidelines, you can bend them in clever ways and still look fab. That’s the challenging and fun part.
  2. There are 5 simple archetypes: My philosophy is to define a few simple body types and then be flexible when working with them. No, you are probably not exactly an apple, but you might be an hourglass with apple tendencies. Or you’re a rectangle who carries extra around the midriff. Either way, it’s all about choosing and applying the relevant sections across the various body type guidelines to help dress your unique body.

You are apple shaped when you are well-proportioned but carry weight around the tummy area and are therefore without a defined waistline. Rectangles also have a less defined waistline, but the apple body type is curvier and rounder all over. You have relatively slim limbs and can either be small or full chested. Your slim arms and legs are an asset, but you do need to think about how to balance them with the rest of your body.

I’ve dressed many apple shaped body types and it comes down to dressing the top of the body in one of two ways. You can either strive to create a more emphatic waistline, or you can embrace the waist-less trend by wearing voluminous tops or/and dresses. Both looks are equally stylish when the correct variables are in place.

Define the waistline by adding structure

  • Wear the best possible bra. Lifting the bust line will start the waist definition process.
  • Even if you’re small in the chest, you’ll look best with low-ish necklines like V’s, scooped necks, cowl necks, open shirt collars and boat necks. The lower neckline helps to accentuate the long lean line.
  • Wrap tops, mock wrap tops, tops with front/side ruching, and tops with front knot detailing are very flattering. The strategically placed folds create curvature.
  • Look for tops with lots of sleeve detail like flares, slits, gathers, embroideries and cuff treatment as this will attract attention to your slim, pretty arms.
  • Look for tops and dresses in patterns and with texture. They have better “camouflaging capabilities” than solid colours.
  • Woven tops can be magical. The rigidity of form fitting garments made of woven fabric will skim the contour of the body instead of clinging to it like jersey knits do.
  • Look for cotton, viscose and merino wool blends in fine gauge knitwear. Their thicker texture is less clingy than drapey jersey knit and therefore more flattering.
  • The length of your tops should either catch you just below your hipbone or a few inches above crotch point when you wear jeans or pants.
  • You can sport the leggings look with the right A-line dress or tunic because this vibe is about the dress and not the leggings.
  • Sometimes tucking tops into a fairly high rise pencil skirt has a flattering girdling effect, so don’t shy away from tucking tops into skirts. This is a fabulous look on many body shapes and I do it often.
  • You look best in single breasted structured jackets with V-shaped lapels that button below the bust line because the “V-shape” that is created in front of the body has an hourglass effect. Make sure that it’s snug on the shoulders and nipped in at the waist. Also, leaving your jacket open creates a slimming vertical line down the front of the body.
  • Your body works well with most lengths of jacket, but try not to go shorter than the top of the hipbone.
  • The easiest way to define the waistline is to layer a structured and tailored jacket over a top because it draws attention away from the midriff and creates curves in all the right places. Waistcoats and cardigans can have similar tailored effects, but aren’t quite as structured. Unfortunately this strategy requires cooler weather but it’s hands down the most effective.
  • Your body type showcases many dress silhouettes extremely well. Bias cut dresses, sheaths in woven fabrications, weighty jersey dresses with front knot under bust detailing are good options because they create a waistline but skim over the extra bits. Dresses with center front ruffle details, belted shirt dresses, and mock wrap frocks with plenty of side seam rushing will also work.
  • Belted trenches (at any length) and classic single breasted coats with tailored lapels at both thigh and knee length look fabulous.
  • If you can get your head around wearing waist-defining belts, try to find your sweet spot. It’s often a little higher than your natural waistline so that your belt hits the smallest part of your torso. Try belting a woven blouse or tunic over a skirt or pair of pants with a part elastic belt. The woven top won’t cling and the stretchy belt provides comfort as you move through the day.

Surrender the waistline with strategically positioned volume

  • You’ll look narrower in a tailored silhouette, but it’s fun, carefree and liberating to surrender the waistline from time to time. And when you do, you’ll simply draw attention to other parts of lovely you. It is also a good option if you are self conscious about drawing attention to your waistline.
  • Select tops, shirts and blouses that float away from the waist, but that are structured on the shoulder and sometimes at the hem. Think empire cuts (with or without gathers), banded tops, swing tops and trapeze silhouettes. Volume in the right place can be your friend because it doesn’t cling to the midsection. Remember that you can also layer a structured jacket or cardigan over a top that floats away from the waist. That way you’ll create a tailored look over a voluminous layering piece. Quite a fun arty vibe.
  • If you like the look of sack-like tunics and dresses, you’ll be able to wear certain very specific styles. If they’re straight or A-line in silhouette, slim in the sleeves or sleeveless, structured in the shoulders with a scooped neckline, fairly short in length, and in soft drapy fabrics, chances are high that they will work. A word of warning though: voluminous silhouettes  look wide from the side even when they are cut well. So you have to be at peace with that.
  • If you like fashionable boxy styles like boyfriend jackets, boyfriend shirts and billowing blouses, wear them in fairly drapy fabrications and pair the look with sleek bottoms. Add heels to the look and you’re good to go.

Add volume to your bottom half to balance out proportions

  • Structured pencil skirts look fantastic on your frame. Keep them  knee-length  and the side seam cut straight down from the hip. Bias cut skirts, trumpet skirts, and paneled A-line skirts are also good choices.
  • Sometimes skirts can be more flattering than pants and walk shorts, especially when they are pencil in shape. They elongate the leg line and break up the torso, which looks very attractive.
  • Wear higher rise pants, jeans and skirts for that good old girdling effect. The right shapewear helps if you’re comfortable wearing it regularly, but no worries if you’d prefer to leave it off. Wearing the right rise length and tops will work too.
  • Choose flat front, straight leg, boot cut or flared pants/jeans and avoid pleats and gathers.
  • Choose bottoms that have stretch. This will keep your midriff comfortable and give you optimum shape.
  • Knee length walk shorts are great and you might prefer them to sleek clamdiggers that add volume to your hips and thighs.
  • You are the shape who can rock a pair of cargo pocket pants. I vote choose a style in soft silky fabrications, but rigid cottons will also work.
  • Avoid wearing overly tapered pants as this will accentuate your thin legs and make your top look larger. Opt for a straight leg and match with shoes and boots of your choice. But tucking skinny jeans or leggings into knee high boots will absolutely work because the volume that is created by the boots balances out proportions.
  • If you don’t have a pair of trouser jeans get a pair right now. It’s a must for apple shaped body types.

If you have further tips on how to flatter the apple shaped body type, let us know. If there are further questions on how to wear items when you’re hourglass shaped, let’s hear those too.

My Mum on the Go

Not all daughters are close to their Mothers and that’s okay, but I was close to mine. So like I do every year, I dedicate this Mother’s Day post to all YLF mothers, and my precious late Mum most of all.

Over the years, I’ve shown pictures of my very glam Mum when she was dressed up for an occasion or posing for a formal photo shoot. But she was also, like all Mums, very much a Mum-on-the-go and that’s how you’ll see her today. I was about six years old in these pictures so hello 1976.

My Mum took fashion and style seriously, but she took her children and dogs even more seriously. She took us wherever we needed to go and saw to our every need without question.  And even though my Mum looked like she couldn’t get down and dirty – she could and did. But it was always with the utmost grace, chic and the very best posture.

We lived in Hong Kong in the 70’s and for several years in a row we spent part of the Summer vacationing in Hawaii. It was all about swimming, beach barbecues, picnics and going to the zoo. I have such fond memories of those trips.

Hawaii

My Mum was a frock gal so she wore dresses as a busy Mum on the go. That’s Mum and me at a picnic table on the beachfront in Hawaii. I can’t remember what I did to my shorts but they’re off and that’s why I’m standing in my knickers. The other picture is us at the zoo a couple of days later on the same Hawaiin holiday. We used to spend the entire day at the zoo and we loved, loved, loved petting the animals and deciding which ones we’d bring back with us on the plane home. Looks like I became a frock gal too.

The family also did outdoorsy stuff, which made my Dad and brother especially happy. I remember going on long weekend day trips which involved lots of walking and hiking on some of the outlying islands of Hong Kong. We’d take a hydrofoil ferry to get there and be kitted out in sports gear ready for an active day. Even in those settings my Mum and I were joined at the hip wearing matching windbreakers (mine red and Mum’s mustard) as we danced the polka on the deck of the ferry.

Polka on Deck

We also spent great Summer days on Chinese boats called junks, cruising the Hong Kong bays. My older brother and I plus a few of our friends would swim and play games while Mum kept a watchful eye in her bikini, turban and sunglasses. Never an unstylish moment for Mum, who’d also get into the water with us once she’d swapped out her turban for a floral swimming cap.

Mum Swimming

Even though I was little back then, I vividly remember my Mum’s elegance. She never let her style get in the way of doing things with her children, yet she was always well turned out. Whether it was swimming in the pool, riding horses, playing in the sand, taking dogs for walks or hiking up a mountain, Mum looked impeccable and feminine no matter what.

We don’t have children so I’m not a Mum on the go. But if I was a mother, my Mum would have inspired my style. I love the way she kept her look dressy and feminine but wasn’t worried about getting dirty and messy either.

I miss you Mum. I wish that we could still have Summer barbecues, go on junk trips and take our dogs for walks. It’s 10 years since you passed away and I still think about beautiful you each day, wishing that at the very least I could hear your voice on the phone. Sadly that’s not possible, but I’ll take the priceless memories. You are in my heart forever.

We at YLF wish you a very happy Mother’s Day this Sunday.

Clean scuff marks on shoes with wall eraser

The cream Fidji mary janes that you see below are perfect for my feet and style. But when I drive and walk, the top part of the toe box gets scuffed with black marks, probably because it protrudes more than most shoes. Not so fab.

A friend suggested I try erasing the scuff marks with Mr. Cleans “Magic Eraser”, which is typically used to clean walls. So off I went to buy the goodie and viola! Works like a charm. All you do is wet the sponge and rub off the scuff marks.

Delighted with the result, I got a little eraser happy with all my light coloured shoes and bags. They look much better. In some instances, the scuff marks were not completely removed, but it’s taken the edge off for sure.

Warning: the eraser only works for marks that are created on the surface of the leather. Marks that are caused by scratches that remove leather cannot be erased in this way. And please be careful — this technique worked for me, but I can’t guarantee that it won’t damage your items.

Scuffed Mary JanesMagic Wall Eraser

I bought my Magic Eraser at QFC, but you can probably find it in many different outlets. Make sure you get the Magic Eraser for walls. I initially came home with the surface cleaning pads and wasn’t too happy when I realized I’d bought the wrong thing.

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Fun 50’s frocks

Alongside the multitudes of sheaths and empire cut dresses in stores, the 50’s frock is popular too. Very retro and as “Betty Draper” as it gets (for those who watch the popular TV series, Mad Men). The silhouette was made for the pear and hourglass body type because it flatters curves.

I love a retro 50’s frock and have precisely one in my wardrobe, complete with multiple layers of tulle lining (it’s the ball gown in this post). I love the way it moves and swooshes when I walk. It’s dramatic, timeless and fun to wear.

But I don’t own any 50’s daytime frocks because I’m still besotted with sheath, shirt and sack dresses. Those silhouettes seem to take precedence when I make a dress purchase. But I’m open to the idea of the daytime 50’s dress, as long as I can add an urban edge to the look – either with boots, a denim jacket, biker jacket or studded belt. I think I’d feel too twee if I paired the look with pretty little flats, sandals or pumps, pearls and a cropped cardigan.

What do you think of these 50’s frocks? Is it a style that you wear, or that you see yourself wearing? Would you wear the silhouette during the day, or save it for dressier occasions?

Update: I originally over-generalised to call these A-line frocks because they are narrow at the top and flare to the bottom, but as Nancy pointed out in the comments, this is quite misleading because the true A-line frock isn’t nipped in at the waist. So I’ve adjusted the text accordingly.

Betsey Johnson Sky Bloom DressSave the Date DressChecks Mix Dress

Calvin Klein Stitch Seam DressDance-a-thon DressCalvin Klein A-Line Dress

Comfy CJ jeans by Cookie Johnson

Try “CJ jeans” by Cookie Johnson if you’re still looking for a pair of really comfortable jeans.  It’s not only in the cut of the denim but in the fabric too. With a front rise of 9 inches and a back rise of 14 inches, CJ jeans are girdling deluxe, but look hip too. In my opinion much more hip than NYDJ’s.

The denim rinse is so soft, it almost feels sueded. No distressing and ample stretch. I also haven’t heard any “bagging out” complaints from my clients who have put this brand through its paces for almost a year. It’s well worth a try if you’re round bottomed, have curvy hips and thighs, a larger tum-tum, or just really crave comfort.

Definitely size down and tall girls should not have a problem with length. They are available in both regular and plus sizes, across varying styles of wide leg, straight leg and boot cut.

Anyone tried CJ jeans yet? Tell us about your experiences in the comments if you have.

CJ by Cookie Johnson Faith Straight Leg Jean in CosmosCJ by Cookie Johnson Grace Bootcut in CosmosCJ by Cookie Johnson Faith Straight Leg Stretch JeansCJ by Cookie Johnson Grace Bootcut Jeans

I’ve seen these styles first hand on a variety of body types and I was impressed with all of them. Currently the outer ones are in the YLF store, but I plan to add the others too.