My Top 25 Style Tips

I’ve been in the fashion world for more than half of my life. I’ve learned so much and it makes me very happy to share my experience with others when it can help them on their style journey. Here are are my top style tips in no particular order. 

  1. Style is beyond size, age and body type. It’s an energy and confidence that is expressed through clothing, footwear and accessories.
  2. An authentic style is one that’s manageable and makes you happy. It celebrates that style is PERSONAL, and emanates from the inside out.
  3. Be patient and positive with your style. Relax into your style journey. Pat yourself on the back every time you get it right.
  4. Dress the body you have right now. Don’t wait for some future version of yourself.
  5. Create a column of colour when you’re after a streamlined and slender outfit effect.
  6. Be mindful of how you wear black. It can look chic, dressy, slimming, hard-edged, strong and dramatic, but it can also look boring, harsh, flat and predictable.
  7. Focus on fit, and not the size written on the clothing label.
  8. A glowing smile, great posture, and happy eyes are the best accessories to an outfit.
  9. Do not underestimate the importance of fabulous hair, killer eyewear, and excellent underwear. These are the areas of your style to analyze first when you’re in a style rut.
  10. Don’t “compare and despair” by focussing on what others have and you don’t. Compete with the best version of your current self, and focus on what you do have.
  11. Don’t take the emotion out of your style. Listen to how you FEEL in an outfit. The more you are in tune with your preferences, needs and emotions, the easier it is to sport a style that is easy, authentic and makes you feel fabulous.
  12. Celebrate your body because it’s an incredible gift that deserves daily care and praise at any shape and age.
  13. The sooner you embrace the next phase of your own beauty, the easier it will be to stop fighting the aging process and start celebrating the miraculous journey that is your life.
  14. Appreciate all the different ways we can be beautiful. Life would be awfully dull if we all looked the same.
  15. Create brow, lash and lip definition to frame your face.
  16. Look after your skin and wear sunscreen daily.
  17. Keep your fashion feet moving. Allow your style to evolve.
  18. Judge the outfit, and not the person.
  19. Never say never in fashion and style because you’ll be surprised at how your feelings about a look, colour or item can change over time.
  20. Ask three questions to troubleshoot outfits:
    1. Is it the length of an item that will make the difference?
    2. Is it the contrast between the items and your skin tone?
    3. Do you need to add heels to the outfit?
  21. Create outfit proportions that align with YOUR figure flattering priorities.
  22. Your favourite colours are always in style.
  23. Life is too short to save your clothes for special occasions. Ration the super special stuff and wear the heck out of the rest.
  24. Modern Classics can be incorporated into any style.
  25. Have fun with fashion at any age. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about your fashion exploits.

Which of these style tips resonate with you the most? Please post your own favourite style tips in the comments section below.

Fit Challenges are Universal

Over the last 26 years I’ve dressed friends, family members, clients, fit models and ramp models across a wide range of shapes and sizes. One thing I learned from this is that almost everyone experiences fit challenges. Whether it’s the circumference of your head and calves, the shape of your feet, the curvature of your bust, the slope of yours shoulders, the width of your ankles, or the length of your legs and arms — most people have some challenge or another.

Some are definitely more challenging than others. The closer your proportions are to what the retail industry has chosen as their size specifications, the easier it is to create good fit with retail merchandise. The further you stray from those so called “standardized” proportions, the harder it is to find items that fit perfectly off the rack.

I would never have believed that ramp models are hard to fit. But this was my experience when I had to create and fit clothes for them back when I was a designer and retail buyer. Ramp models are tall, narrow-hipped, and broad-shouldered. Regular retail clothing is generally cut too narrow in the shoulder, and too short in the lengths of the waist, height and sleeves. Fashion show clothing is custom-made for ramp models’ bodies in order to create perfect fit. Celebrities often have their clothing custom-made by fashion houses, or at least have items altered to create perfect fit.

I would love things to be different, but the retail industry falls short of delivering perfect fit for every body type. It assumes that people have average proportions and are around average height. And while the availability of a larger assortment of sizes, widths and lengths is better than it used to be — it’s still insufficient.

The good news is that clothing and footwear fits are not uniform across designers and brands. Each chooses a different fit model, so the same numerical size can be a completely different fit from different brands. These days you can also often choose shorter or longer lengths in the same size. You can reduce fit challenges by finding brands that suit your body shape. And you can alter clothing to fit better, or even sew your own clothes from scratch.

The most important thing is to NOT blame your body for fit challenges. Find the brands and items that suit your proportions, both in silhouette and size specification. That’s when a community like YLF is extremely helpful. You’ll find a kinship with those who have similar fit challenges to you on our forum, and suggestions on which brands and styles to target to create good fit.

I’m also available to help out with suggestions on how to tackle fit challenges. I feel honoured to have dressed women from sizes US00 to US34 across all heights and body types. Creating good fit can be hard, but not impossible. Onward to good fit for 2018.

Link Love: Style Predictions for 2018

As is the case every first week of January, fashion outlets are publishing posts on what to expect from the world of style in the upcoming year. Let’s have a look:

Fab Links from Our Members

Why you only need 10 work outfits.” Citygirldc says this is something to think about while she simplifies her wardrobe.

La Pedestrienne really enjoyed listening to this interview with Ann Patchett on taking a year off from shopping.

We’ve been talking about it more on the YLF forum too, and would love to hear what you think.

La Pedestrienne also came across this interesting piece on age and sophistication, and our current pendulum swing towards a cult of youth.

La Belle Demimondaine is intrigued by the info in this article on the secret to looking younger forever.

Fashintern would like to share “Beautiful Tomboys of the 1930s,” which she adds “is as much about society in the 1930s as it is about the style of these androgynous women at that time.”

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Metallics and Your Style

The neutral metallics that you choose through jewellery, watches, hardware, footwear, handbags, clothing, make-up and nail polish create a finishing touch to your style. They are the “shine” component of the four variables that make an outfit interesting: colour, pattern, texture and shine. Their effect is either warm, cool, or somewhere in between. Yellow gold is a warm metal, whereas shades of silver and platinum are cool. Metals like pewter, bronze and rose gold straddle the line between the two. Most metals are shiny, although matte metals have their place.

Traditionally, those who look best in cool colours prefer wearing silver and platinum because it complements their skin tone. Those who look best in warm colours tend to prefer wearing yellow gold. These days though, it’s extremely common to have a mixed metal style, and there is less emphasis on what is thought of as flattering. It’s modern and trendy to have both gold and silver represented in your style, worn either separately or mixed together in an outfit.

Choosing a metal for jewellery and watches is particularly important because you usually wear the pieces daily, for many years, and right up against your skin. You might find that you’re more flexible about the metals that you sport elsewhere in the outfit because you wear those items less frequently.

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Generally my friends, family and clients bat for Team Silver & Platinum, although Team Mixed Metals gives it a run for its money. Most will wear pewter because it bats for both teams. Rose gold and bronze are less common.

I staunchly bat for Team Yellow Gold because it’s warm and looks better against my skin. I also like its yellow glow because I love yellow. I am more traditional in this respect, preferring not to mix metals in outfits because I like the visual effect of a uniform metal.

I am trying not to purchase new items in cool-toned hardware, although it’s tricky. One of the reasons I love my family of Furla handbags is because of the gorgeous gold hardware. I do have a white gold wedding ring that I match with two fun silver watches. I also have two pairs of silver shoes, a clutch, silver zippers on a favourite pair of jeans, and silver hardware on my riding boots. I very rarely wear the silver items, except for the jeans and riding boots. I can’t pass on the silver shoes because they are very comfortable.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Silver & Platinum, Team Yellow Gold, Team Rose Gold, Team Bronze, Team Pewter or Team Mixed Metals? Tell us why and feel free to bat for many teams. Do you mix metals in one outfit?

Weekly Roundup: Free People

Free People is a casual brand with a boho, hippy, and somewhat grungy vibe. Most of the items are roomy, very roomy, colourful, and quite loud. That said, Free People can showcase items that are a little crisper, dressier and simpler. Those are the items that caught my attention this week, and many with rave reviews. 

Santa Claus — aka Greg — popped two of the items under our Christmas tree as a fun surprise. I’ve worn the Head in the Clouds Beanie on walks with Sam, and the Kolby Brushed Scarf as a lounging piece for at home every day since I received them. Browse the many colour options as you peek at these top picks.

  • Free People At Ease Loafer: A festive mule for hosting parties or a night out. Best for higher volume feet, although you might need to go up a size. I didn't find these comfortable, but I'm in the minority. Many rave reviews and eight lovely patterned options.
  • Free People 'Beach Cocoon' Cowl Neck Pullover: A comfortable and slouchy cowl neck sweatshirt that works on a range of body types. I vote burnt orange and olive best. Might run big.
  • Free People Alamosa Slouchy Bootie: Moderately comfortable boots and available in three colours. The tops fold down to create a slouchy yet streamlined effect.
  • Free People Crisscross Sweater: An alluring tunic for Team Tall. Front is not too low when you have broad shoulders.
  • Free People Sweet Streets Hoodie: Edwardian Sweatshirt Fabness with a beachy vibe. The cuffs on the sleeves provide a good amount of structure, and the lacey anglaise amps up the pretty. All the colours are nice.
  • Free People All the Time Tunic: A dramatic shirt for a small or regular size bust. Gorgeous colour. Works well on an hourglass or pear shape. It's a very voluminous shirt so consider yourself warned. The gathered piping on the sleeves tempers the vast amount of fabric - so go ahead and have some soup.
  • Free People Head in the Clouds Beanie: Fuzzy Beanie Fabness. Fits a small head, and does not need to be cuffed at the bottom. The fluff does not irritate your nasal passages nor does it shed. The grey is more more blue in person, and that's the one I have. It holds its shape and does not slouch.
  • Free People Best Day Ever Sweater: A pullover that can make you smile on a cold, grey day. It's quite short, and not that slouchy. Quite grungy.
  • Free People 'Royale' Pointy Toe Flat: Great pointy toe flat for high volume feet. Equally flattering on narrower and wider ankles. Available in nine colours and with amazing reviews.
  • Free People Ottoman Slouchy Tunic: Very comfy slouchy tunic for both shorter and longer necks. The neckline can fold down in front. The tapered sleeves add ample structure to the roomy fit. Both the mink and teal are great colours.
  • Free People Marilyn Kitten Heel Bootie: A moderately comfortable dressy bootie for lower volume feet.
  • Free People Kolby Brushed Scarf: A GIGANTIC scarf is an acquired taste, and can work well as a casual wrap. Very soft, lightweight and cosy. I have the blue, which is a little darker in person. Excellent for at home, and Sam likes to play with the fringe.

Visit the collection page to see the items alongside my descriptions.