Are you really a Petite?

The word “petite” in French means “small”. Quite understandably, people therefore assume that petite clothing is for slender and smaller framed women. This is a misconception – petite clothing is for shorter women irrespective of their size. If you are 5’3” or below, chances are high that you should be shopping in the petites department.

However, this is not always the case – especially if you are on the cusp with your height. This is something that surprises me every single time I dress a lady between 5”2 and 5”4. Women may be petites for the top half of their body, but not for the bottom half, and vice versa. Whether you are a petite will depend on:

  • The length of your limbs
  • The width of your shoulders
  • The size of your bust
  • How short-waisted you are 

Ideally, if your height is around the 5’3” mark it’s best to try on both petite and regular size ranges. As annoying as this might be, the correct fit is crucial. A 5’3” person that I took shopping recently had always assumed that she was a petite because of her height. Clothing for her top half was for most part uncomfortable. We changed her size from a 4P to a size 2R and, hallelujah, the fit was perfect! Her long arms and shapely bust called for another set of proportions despite her height.

The biggest trap that women fall into with petite clothing is with the length of skirts and bottoms. While regular sized clothing will certainly be too long – petite proportions can be too short (see “perfect pant lengths please”).  In this case, shop in the regular department and have your bottoms altered. If you buy your bottoms at Nordstrom – they will hem for free!

Pretty petite options at Nordstrom.

Tilex works wonders

My experience with Tilex yesterday is well worth a blog posting. A few days ago, I wore a bright red t-shirt which turned out to be far from colour-fast. By the end of the day, it had stained the top half of my body. After 2 showers and futile attempts with nail polish remover – I was still pink. I proceeded to wear a white collared shirt the next day, only to find that by lunchtime, my crisp white shirt was also pink! My shirt had absorbed the remainder of red dye from my body. I popped the white shirt into the wash with loads of detergent and “triple action” stain remover – but this was useless. I then thought of using Tilex (mildew remover for the bathroom). Not knowing how the fabric would react, I was prepared to take the risk seeing as my shirt was ruined already. I sprayed Tilex over the pink stains, left it for an hour and popped it back into the wash. This was brilliant- my shirt is now whiter then when I purchased it!

NOTE: I’m not recommending this practice (and neither are the Tilex people). If you do consider the use of Tilex, be mindful of the fabric composition you will be affecting. It won’t work for a 100% natural fibre. The results are good for white polyester cotton spandex combinations. I have also found it effective at removing yellow armpit soiling caused by deodorant.

Do not risk your designer wear – but have a bash if you feel that you have nothing left to lose.

Stylish parents have stylish kids

I would like to introduce you to a fantastic blog: “Cute little Clothes” is also an online children’s boutique. Not only are the clothes and accessories absolutely adorable, but the shopping experience is easy to navigate. If you are looking for something exclusive for your infant, toddler or pre-schooler – this site has a lot to offer.

The blog also offers links to other sites which are well worth a look:

Enjoy perusing and happy shopping!

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Dress for the Body that You’re in Today

We have babies, gain or lose weight and get older. All of these things cause our body to change. When our body changes, we either need new clothes or we need to alter the clothes that we have.

What do you do about your new clothing requirement when your body transforms? Do you hold off shopping while you loose the 30 pounds your dietician recommended? Do you wait 6-12 months to get your body back after pregnancy? The answer to these questions is “no”.

Dress for the body that you’re in today.

Shopping for clothing and accessories is one of those rare opportunities in life where a quick fix can have long term effects. The gratification is instant, and the positive reinforcement will help you to avoid internalizing bad feelings about your body.

It’s never a good idea to wait for what may, or may not change about your body in the future. You are perfect right now – go shopping!

Waist watch

It’s a watershed moment in fashion – waistlines are traveling north again. For almost a decade we’ve embraced low slung belts and low rise pants (and still are), but silhouettes are changing. This is not to say that pants and skirts will be high-rise for ever more. It means that you will have a choice. Low slung jeans and pants will move on to becoming “new classics”, and the new trend will be towards belting your natural waist line.

Bear the following in mind when cinching your waistline:

  • Be careful if you are short waisted – it’s best to stay away from this look if you are very petite as this will make you look shorter.
  • The size of your bust counts – if you have an ample bosom and tiny waist, opt for a narrow waist belt instead of a wide one.
  • Your bottoms need to fit well – you can’t wear a waist belt over a top if your pants/skirt are big around your waist. Excess bulging fabric is unsightly. You’ll need to have them altered (which will still be cheaper than trying to find another pair of pants that fit you perfectly). The cost of this type of alteration varies ($20 -$35), but is very worthwhile.

How do we wear the new belted look:

  • Over a shirt, girly top or long t-shirt
  • Over a fitted jacket
  • Over a pullover  

Have a look at the pictures below to get a better idea. It’s a cinch if you know what to do!

            

An assortment of belts (from Arden B. and Bebe) cinched at the waist over tops, blouses and dresses. I have found elasticized belts to be particularly comfortable.