How to dress the pretty pear body type, 2010

It’s been years since I refreshed the guidelines for each body type, so that’s precisely what I’m going to do over the next couple of weeks. If you’re still unsure of your body type or the concept of body types in general, read this post for some background information.

Two important points before I begin:

  1. These are only guidelines: Don’t get too hung up on following the information here in the strictest sense. But we all have to start somewhere in order to dress in flattering ensemble combinations and getting your head around the guidelines is a great beginning. Once you have a firm grasp of the guidelines, you can bend them in clever ways and still look fab. That’s the cheeky fun part.
  2. There are 5 simple archetypes: My philosophy about body type, which has served me well for years as a fashion stylist, is to define a few simple body types and then be flexible when working with them. No, you are probably not exactly a pear. But that might be your primary body type with another one as secondary. So understanding the guidelines for the pear archetype should help you with your own, unique body.

I’m kicking off with the “pretty pear” (the previous refresh of the pear is still one of the most popular posts on YLF). The key is balancing the difference between the top and bottom part of your body. You can achieve this by drawing attention upward, de-emphasizing the bottom part of your body and elongating your legs.

Drawing attention upwards

  • Wear the best possible bra to define the waist and create curves in all the right places. There’s nothing like a good lift to lift an outfit.
  • It’s flop proof to create an “A-line” silhouette with your clothing (fitted on top and roomier at the bottom). And the more pear-shaped you are, the more A-line you should go. You look exceptional in A-line dresses and skirts and should take advantage of this ultra-feminine look all year round.
  • Most pear-shaped gals have tiny waistlines. Show them off! Opt for waist defining knit tops, knitwear, blouses and button down shirts. You can absolutely wear trapeze jackets if you keep them cropped, fitted snugly at the shoulders and matched with a longer and slim layer underneath.
  • Don’t turn away voluminous tunic tops and dresses either. If they’re A-line and structured in the shoulders, the chances are high that they will work.
  • Wear V-neck tops and create V-neck shapes with your layers. V-shapes elongate the neck and draw attention to your slim midsection.
  • It’s imperative that anything that you wear on top fits properly on the shoulders because the eye is drawn to definition. As soon as your shoulder line is sloppy, the outfit won’t look as good. And on that note, you were made for the extended shoulder pad and ruched sleeve look that’s currently all the range. Stock up while it’s available in stores.
  • Don’t shy away from boyfriend jackets. Find a style that’s more tailored than boxy, wear it open or belted at the waist, scrunch up the sleeves and add heels. Voila. You’ll look like a million bucks.
  • Select tops, knitwear, jackets and coats with interest. Tops with wide cuffs, bell sleeves, ruffles, zippers, embellishment, rushing, vertical seaming detail, large collar/lapels, wraps and princess lines are good choices. These design features naturally draw the eye upwards.
  • Wearing an eye-catching colour on top draws the eye upwards, so take extra care with the shades that you wear on the top part of your body.
  • The length of your tops should either catch you just below your hipbone (a few inches above crotch point), or past the thigh area. Avoid lengths that finish over the widest part of you, which is usually across the bottom or straight across the thighs. You can sport the leggings look with the right A-line dress or tunic because this look is about the dress and not the leggings.
  • Layer your garments to add visual interest to your torso. Pop longer length camisoles underneath knitted tops and shirts. Pop a fitted shorter jacket or sweater as a third layer over these layers for the most flattering effect. The layers automatically create a visual balance between the top and bottom half of your body.
  • Accessorize the top part of your body well, with necklaces, specs, scarves, earrings, hair clips (but not all together).
  • Tying scarves in vertical ways creates a flattering long lean line down the front of the body. Wear scarves!
  • You were made for the waist cinching belt look. Wear a waist defining belt over tops and dresses for extra definition and to lengthen the leg line.

“De-emphasizing” the bottom and elongating your legs

  • Keep your bottom choices simple and structured, thereby saving all the visual interest for your tops. No cargo pockets, side entry pockets, waist pleats, drawstrings or hip embellishments.
  • Curvy women can wear skinnies or straight legs if you match them with A-line tunics, dresses and heels. Belted tunic button down shirts look incredible so be sure to give that look a go.
  • Tucking skinnies into chunky knee-high boots is another great way of balancing out your silhouette when you wear tapered bottoms. This way of wearing skinnies might not require a longer top because you’ve balanced out the look with tall boots.
  • Keep the front part of your pants free of detail and your rise mid in length (not too high or low). Make sure that there is enough ease through the hip and thigh. Fabrics with stretch are your best bet.
  • Keep the hems of your pants boot cut or flared if you’re not sporting “the skinnies and tunics” silhouette. Pants that skim along the contour of your thighs always work best. Size up and have the waistband adjusted.
  • Keep walk shorts straight from the thigh down and knee-length and avoid lengths shorter than this. Clamdiggers  (knee length Summer skinnies) will work if you pair them with longer tops.
  • Don’t force yourself to wear pants and jeans if you look and feel fabulous in skirts and dresses. Just wear skirts and dresses.
  • Knee length A-line skirts with vertical panel seaming are great. Stay clear of bias-cuts.
  • Pencil skirts and sheath dresses can also work if you keep the side seams straight from the hip down to the hem (no tapering). It’s also best to add a little length to this style of skirt and dress, so around the knee is ideal.
  • It’s flop proof to wear pointy-toed or almond toes shoes with bottoms that are wider at the hem because it elongates the leg line. But round toed shoes are just as fab as long as you sport pants at the correct length (hems should almost skim the surface of the ground).
  • Wearing some sort of heel (even if it’s just an inch) whenever you can will give you the height that automatically slims down your curves. Simple rule: the curvier your bottom, the longer and wider you’ll need to wear your pants and the higher you’ll need to wear your heel to balance out your silhouette. This doesn’t mean that you can’t wear flats. You just have to be careful with the pairing of flats with pants and jeans.
  • Be mindful of shoes with ankle straps that finish above the ankle. They might break the long vertical line that you are trying to create. Wearing sandals with ankle straps is fine as long as the straps are below the ankle bone.
  • Wearing heeled knee high boots that are slim at the ankle with skirts or dresses in cooler weather is a great leg-flattering look.

If you have further tips on how to flatter the pear shaped body type, let me know. If there are further questions on how to wear items when you’re pear shaped, let’s hear those too.

New on the YLF forum: keeping track of unread posts

By Greg.

Having spent more time than usual on the forum last week (chatting about the new member roles feature), I now understand why Jenny and cciele keep reminding me that we need a simpler way to get to the unread posts. It is really hard to keep track!

So I spent some time this last weekend putting a simple system in place. The main new thing you will see is a status bullet for each conversation on the front page of the forum. The bullet can have three states, and clicking the bullet does something different in each state:

  1. No unread posts: clicking the bullet marks the conversation as UNREAD
  2. Conversation has new posts: clicking the bullet takes you to the next new post
  3. New conversation: clicking the bullet takes you to the first post

Number 2 is the real time saver. No more paging through conversations, hunting for the post that you haven’t read (thank Jenny for suggesting this one).

Conversation Key ExampleMark  All Conversations Read

If you want to get caught up without reading everything, just click the button at the top right of the front page.

Once you are inside a conversation there is also an indicator on the new posts themselves — the top of their enclosing box has a subtle red gradient. In a forum I often jump back a couple of posts to get context, and if you do the same then this indicator will help you to find the unread posts after you’ve re-acquainted yourself with the thread.

Unread Posts Indicator

Note that if a conversation sees no activity for two days then the system forgets its read/unread status. If someone then replies to this forgotten conversation, tracking will restart, but the old read/unread information won’t be available. So resurrected old conversations will look just like brand new, unread conversations.

Like most things this will become more clear after you’ve used it for a few hours. Please reply to the forum thread to let me know about any issues.

Melrose Street product review (and giveaway)

This is a Sponsored Post written by me on behalf of Melrose Street. All opinions are 100% mine.

I recently had the opportunity to review a few products from Melrose Street, a sweet little online boutique that sells affordable casual chic dresses. By affordable I mean that most of the dresses cost between $30 and $49, and half that if you catch the goods on sale. I’m a total frock gal so I was excited to review these products.

I must admit that my expectations were not high when I first looked at the Melrose online assortment. Most of the dresses are knitted and I’m one of those rare breeds who prefers woven frocks and tops. The styling seemed less sophisticated than what I usually gravitate towards. And I’m extremely discerning about quality, refusing to wear anything that does not pass my sticky quality control standards. So Melrose Street chose quite a tough reviewer.

Nevertheless, I tried to keep an open mind as I selected three dresses (two knitted and one woven) for my $100 gift voucher. The first impressions made by the online experience were good. The aesthetics are pretty, and it is easy to navigate. I couldn’t find a search box to type something like “striped dresses” and that would be a good addition. Even so, their assortment is small enough that it is quite easy to take it all in. This is a nice change from the normal overwhelming selection of the big retailers.

The dresses arrived in meticulously packaged bags a few days later. Here’s the scoop on each item in detail:

  1. Grey Lani long sleeved knit dress: I opened this package first and was blown away by the quality of the knit for the price. It’s substantial, drapes well and fits perfectly. Plus it’s super soft, very comfortable and in a rayon/spandex blend, so no clinging. This style is ideal with light coloured boots and a denim jacket for a Seattle Spring and that’s how I’m wearing it now. It’s my favourite item of the three.
  2. Striped Solemio Sleeveless Striped knit dress (sold out online): Again, at the price I was pleasantly surprised by how well the garment was made. The fabric is a weighty polyester/rayon blend and the seaming is faultless. The style was too short to sport as a dress, but I knew that going into the purchase. I thought it would make a fun casual tunic top for jeans and clamdiggers, so that’s how I’m wearing it. This style has an alluring low back and roomy underarm openings that I rather fancy, just because it’s different.
  3. Purple Trinity sleeveless woven dress: I adore voluminous items and was immediately attracted to this silhouette and colour. It’s in a bubble style and in my favourite warm weather fabric, a silk/cotton blend, which made me like it even more. Unfortunately, it’s a little too roomy all over and I can’t size down. It’s also too short to wear as a dress even though I’m only regular height. But by layering it over another dress and adding a belt, I managed to rein in the excess volume and secure a bit of coverage.

Most of the styles from Melrose Street are machine washable. Some of the styles are hand wash only, but you might get away with popping them into the machine on the “delicates” setting (that’s what I do).

Based on this experience I would say that the merchandise runs true to size. The design details are more interesting than what is often offered at this price point, and the items met my quality standard. If I had to make comparisons, I’d say that the items I received were higher quality than I would expect to find at H&M. The styles might not be to your liking at first glance, but as with most dresses, you need to try them on before you make that final judgment call.

All in all, I came away from my Melrose Street experience very impressed with all aspects of the operation, and happy with my new acquisitions. And you can try them too! We are giving away one $50 gift certificate to someone who makes a comment below. Tell us which of these three dresses you like best, and also what you think of the Melrose Street range in general. We will choose the winner using a random number generator, and the contest closes at 5pm (Pacific Standard Time) on April 23.

Lani Long Sleeved DressStriped Solemio Sleeveless DressTrinity Sleeveless Dress

I selected these three dresses. Right now the one in the center is sold out.

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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

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Summery Earth Tones

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

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Michael Kors is doing great things

I’ve been a long time supporter of Michael Kors handbags and belts, falling in love with a couple of the items in his collection each season. But I haven’t had much success with his footwear and “ready to wear” collections.

Recently that started to change. For the last two seasons I’ve been really impressed with his clothing ranges, especially for women who want a more sophisticated look without too much edge. The fabrics are substantial, the styles interesting, the quality rather nice and the fits often very flattering. Chic and easy to wear. This struck me recently as I was adding yet another of his items to our store.

I have several happy clients sporting “Michael” tops, dresses, knitwear and jackets this season and I’m already champing at the bit to see what he has in store for us in Autumn. Moreover, it’s wonderful to see his collection span most sizes and body types – from petites to regular and plus size. Cheers, Mr. Kors! Thanks for creating great things.

What’s your impression of the Michael Kors ready to wear collection?

Drape Neck TopCascade Sleeve DressPolka Dot Sheath DressSkinny Jeans

How to Wear Belts: 7 Guidelines for the Belt Challenged

It was clear from the response to my post on belt phobia that belts are not everyone’s friend. Wearing any kind of belt can be challenging, especially when you’re shy about drawing attention to your waistline. On the other hand, belts are fun and useful accessories that have the potential to add a whole new dimension to your wardrobe. They can add extra polish to an outfit, define the waistline as needed, provide textural interest and even add a bit of edge.

Wearing belts effectively over tops and dresses is a marriage between the style, colour and position of the belt, and the style of top. That’s a lot of variables! So it’s really hard to cover all belt solutions for all body types. Even if I took you shopping, I’d end up experimenting right there with you in the store because there are few tried and tested rules in this area.

But there are a few loose guidelines that might help you to get started on your own. In some instances you’ll apply many of these guidelines to one outfit, whereas in others you’ll only apply one or two:

  1. Find your sweet spot: Position is important. Sometimes your sweet spot will be a little higher than your natural waistline and sometimes a little lower. When you’re regular bust size and carrying a little extra around the midriff, positioning a belt just above the waistline is usually the sweet spot. When you’re short-waisted and well endowed, positioning a belt lower than the waistline in front and at waist level in the back is often the solution. If you’re long wasited, wearing a belt high on the natural waist is usually most effective.
  2. Pick a width: Once you’ve found your sweet spot (or spots — you might have more than one) think about the width of the belt. Sometimes a wider elasticized belt worn a little above your midriff extra bits does the trick. Sometimes positioning it right onto the extra bits does the girdling trick. With a straight, undefined waistline, a narrower belt positioned a little lower in front can work really well. Long waisted gals can usually wear extra wide belts, whereas short-waisted gals tend to look better in narrower or skinny belts.
  3. Think about contrast: Once you’ve found your sweet spot and the best widths for your frame, you have a choice between making the belt contrast or blend in with your outfit. A low contrast belt is usually best for waistlines which aren’t that defined, giving you a flattering long lean line.  Whereas a high contrast belt automatically draws more attention to the waistline.
  4. Add another layer: Layering a jacket or cardigan over a top with either a low or high contrast belt is an effective way of wearing a belt without worrying about its effects around the midriff. When worn this way, the belt adds an interesting textural dimension to your outfit.
  5. Elastic is your friend: Where possible, choose belts that are part elastic because you can’t beat the comfort. They’ll stretch with your body during the day.
  6. Wovens work wonders: So you’re happy with how you look in a belt and it’s all sorted. But your confidence falls to pieces when you sit down because those extra midriff bits start spilling both over and underneath the belt. Enter the magical effects of woven tops and dresses that don’t cling like knits, but glide over curves adding structure in the right places. Wovens can either be rigid like shirt fabric, or soft and drapy like silk and rayon blends. Both work equally well.
  7. Give it time: Belts can feel odd when you’re not used to wearing them. Sometimes it’s just a question of getting used to the extra pressure around your waistline, so allow some time to get used to the feeling of wearing a belt.

I’m not saying that belts are essential. You can absolutely look fab sporting a beltless style, but they do add many more options to your existing wardrobe. If you would like to add belts to your outfits, start by following some of the suggestions above and don’t give up too soon.

If anyone has more belt wearing tips to share, let’s hear them. If there are further belt wearing concerns let’s hear those too.