Team Lipstick or Team No Lipstick

If you’re in the US, we hope you’re having a safe, lovely, and peaceful Memorial Day. We’re relaxing at the Cox Castle and enjoying the rest of what has been an unexpectedly beautiful Seattle Spring. We’re throwing in a poll about lipstick too. 

You are on Team Lipstick if you prefer to wear lipstick all or most of the time. You are on Team No Lipstick if you tend to leave it off, or wear it infrequently. Note that if you wear lip balm instead of lipstick, you’re on Team No Lipstick.

I used to LOVE lipstick. Almost as much as mascara. I wore soft, shimmery and light shades that added subtle polish to my look and brightened my face. I wore it every day, and reapplied many times a day. I felt a little unfinished without my lipstick.

Fifteen months into the global pandemic and I haven’t worn lipstick since March 9th 2020. Lipstick doesn’t work well with masks, and I feel odd wearing lipstick at home. So I switched to lip balm because I enjoy moisture on my lips, and its subtle shine and polish.

With life slowly but surely normalizing here in the US, I thought I’d be excited to wear lipstick again now that I’m fully vaccinated. Or at least wear it some of the time. But to my surprise, I haven’t missed it, and am not reaching for it at all. I’ve grown very used to and happy with lip balm as my lippie. It’s providing just enough polish, and ample moisture. With very short and super easy wash-and-go hair, no more tinted moisturizer, and leaving off the lipstick, I seem to be craving a simpler and natural beauty routine. It might be a phase, or it might be permanent. Time will tell. It feels awfully strange to write that I bat for Team No Lipstick, but that’s dead right for now. Never say never when it comes to fashion and style.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Lipstick or Team No Lipstick? Tell us why and no batting for both teams. If you can’t pick a side, sit this one out on the bench where I’m serving a yummy and very light plant-based meal. Butternut and pea Indo curry with brown rice and quinoa, pickled salad, and sambal. Sliced mangos for dessert.

Fashion News Roundup: May 2021

Semi-permanent tattoos, a new footwear exhibition, the surprising shoe of this Summer, and more fashion news that caught our attention in May.

Fun Fashion Quote

I love what Katie Sturino says here in her Week of Outfits feature on Cup of Jo:

“As you can see, I like my colors BRIGHT. Fashion often pushes women — especially plus-size women — to wear black. Like we’re supposed to hide inside that lack of color. I have plenty of friends who do prefer to wear all black or all grey, but that’s just not my vibe. There is no destination when it comes to size. So often women live as if life will start when they lose 10 pounds or if they achieve a certain pant size. The truth is that if you don’t accept your body as you are, you will never get off the merry go round. I just wear what makes me happy.”

Outfit Formula: Easy Summer Dresses 2

We talked about easy breezy dress outfit formulas last week, and here’s the next round. These dresses are popular with my clientele and friends in warm and hot weather. Some silhouettes are more skimpy, and others more covered, depending on whether you like to bare or cover skin in the sun and heat. Dress them up or down. Add jewellery, headgear, watch, and eyewear as desired.

1. Kaftan

Kaftans have a fun ‘70s vibe and come in all sorts of patterns and colours. You can wear them long or short, dress them up and down, pop them over a bathing suit, or sport them as loungewear. They are breezy, boxy, and very comfortable. This one has been dressed up with heeled slides, dangly earrings, and a structured straw bag. Or you can add casual flat sandals, and casual crossbody or tote to dress things down.

Frances Valentine Joy Caftan

2. Tiered Dress

Tiered dresses were an acquired taste on our forum a while back, yet some of my clients adore them and so do I. Their boho-lite vibe is great for Summer, and super breezy too. I enjoy the way they move and stand away from the body when they are voluminous, and allow you to stride comfortably when fitted at the waist. The gathered tiers look like ruffles which are pretty and playful to my eye. I dress mine up with ballet flats, refined loafers, or a pair of simple fashion sneakers. But mules, slides, Birkenstocks, and sandals are popular too.

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3. Relaxed Sheath

Sheath dresses can be very structured and corporate, but the casual versions are less structured and look sufficiently casual in fabrics like linen, rayon, tencel, cotton, technical fabric, or blends of these fibres. Most are above or on the knee. The linen version shown here is A-line and just structured enough to glide over the contour of the body without clinging. There are fitted casual versions too. The shell necklace and flat slides are an effective casual support act. The cardigan in the same colour for a twinset effect is fab when the breeze or chill sets in.

J.Jill Linen A-Line Split Neck Dress

4. Casual Waist Definition

Some of my clients prefer dresses with waist definition because it makes them feel streamlined, attractive and polished. Fit-and-flare silhouettes made of casual fabrics and worn with a casual support act are one way to go. There are straighter versions like this one that are less flowing than a fit-and-flare, but not as structured as a corporate dress. Add casual footwear and bag, and you’re good to go.

Eloquii Cross Front Flutter Sleeve Dress

5. Jersey Dress

The plethora of casual knitted jersey dresses available at retail every season go down well because they are easy to launder and very comfortable. Most of my clientele have a few versions of them, although we watch out for the styles that cling in a way that makes them feel self-conscious, or like they’re wearing a nightie. The loose T-shirt dress is popular, as are straight column dresses, asymmetrical cuts, fit-and-flares, all sorts of maxi styles, and silhouettes with ruching. Personally, I’ve found that jersey dresses work best when they are fluid, ruched, fitted-and-flared, and/or when the fabric is more substantial.

I love Summer dresses, and have versions of the tiered frock, several fit-and-flares, and some jersey dresses that I sport every season. Do you wear a version of these silhouettes, and if so, which are your favourites?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Link Love: Sunscreen Products in 2021

AnOther rounds up 10 of the best SPFs for your face.

The Guardian’s Sali Hughes explains why suncare serums are all the rage.

Consumer Reports shares what they think are the best sunscreens of 2021.

Fab Links from Our Members

Nuancedream hasn’t yet watched the Netflix series about Halston, but even as a teenager she loved the elegance of his designs, and she fondly remembers the line he produced for JC Penney. 

Marlene1 really appreciated this post showing women of different shapes and sizes trying on a variety of swimsuits — some bikinis, some one-pieces, some pricey suits, some from Target.

Suntiger was disappointed to learn that pockets in men’s pants are larger than the ones in women’s pants.

She also enjoyed these photos of singer Stevie Nicks’s style evolution.

With sneakers really trending, and the fact they have become both the go-to for wearable footwear, and have become a collectible commodity, kkards is interested in anything sneaker-related. This article lays out how the colours are picked and why. Which is interesting, but, she adds: “The comments are really were it’s at.”

Shevia thought this book review sounded intriguing, and has put a hold on the book at the e-library.

Bijou applauds that Elle MacPherson recycled her iconic Gucci power suit 15 years after she first wore it.

When Mary Beth saw Angie’s post about scrunching, tucking, popping and cuffing, she remembered this Alyssa Beltempo styling hacks video from a year ago.

Weekly Roundup: Summery Earth Tones

Wear earth tones year round if that’s your jam. No need to save them for a traditional and classic Autumn wardrobe palette. Summery items in earth tones are having their fashionable moment, so make the most of it if it tickles your fancy. 

These specific items were winners on forum members and clients, or simply caught my eye because they have potential and good reviews. Browse the size and colour options.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

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