Viewing life as a competition with others can lead to a self-destructive, downward spiral that is a waste of energy. Energy that would be better spent focussing on our own personal growth and the constructive changes you want to make in your life.
If you view style through a competitive lens there will always be someone doing something better than you on one dimension or another. View this as inspiration, not competition. Celebrate and learn from their stylish successes.
Accept and celebrate who you are. You don’t need to fit into a particular box to look stylish and feel fabulous. Practise self-compassion and allow yourself to shine. It’s not about measuring up to others, it’s about expressing yourself.