The way you pull yourself together every day should be in line with your beliefs, values, personality and preferences. A personal style that is genuine and true to who you are, will feel right and be easier to create and maintain.
When you stray from what feels authentic, maintaining your style will become a chore that drains your energy. Following someone else’s rules or trying to keep up with some idealized benchmark will rob from you the joy of self expression.
If you are true to yourself, dressing will become easier. You will have more fun, you will feel in control, and you will feel more confident. The positive energy will radiate into other aspects of your life. Take pride in what it means to be you.