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Five Adjectives to Define Your Style

When I work with clients, both current and new, we spend a little time coming up with the right adjectives to describe both their current and future style. Sometimes the two sets of adjectives are very much the same, and sometimes they are quite different.

Of course, no one is holding you to these adjectives for life. Style is a journey, and not one to a permanent destination. Here I want to explore the appropriate adjectives of the current leg of our style journey. Perhaps in a year or so, we’ll reexamine the question. It will be interesting to compare answers.

After a fairly recent style epiphany, I feel that the following five adjectives best describe my current style:

  1. Clean: I like garments, footwear, accessories and hairdos with very clean lines. I adore pristine clothing.
  2. Simple: I want my outfits to consist of fewer items. I no longer sport interesting layered looks or wear lots of accessories. I am 100% an advocate of less is more.
  3. Bold: I like to wear vibrant colours and outfits with high colour contrasts.
  4. Modern: I enjoy sporting current fashion trends. I am still absolutely besotted with retro pearl necklaces and my late Mum’s vintage gold jewelry, but they MUST be worn in a modern way. My fashion forward haircut and specs help to modernize the retro aspects of my style.
  5. Dressy: I adore luxurious fabrications and chunky pearl necklaces, and wear them daily. I am uncomfortable wearing t-shirts, casual jewelry and overly slouchy handbags. I am often the dressiest person in the room and that is fine by me.

There are words that I left off the list, like Modest, Polished, Chanel-esque, Urban and Practical, because I had to draw the line somewhere.

As for my future style, I am not inspired to change the adjectives at this point. But as I said, we’ll talk again in a year!

I’ve found that it’s easier to define someone else’s style with five words than your own. But give it a bash right here in the comments section. It’s a worthwhile exercise because it keeps the current leg of your style journey and the shopping process more focused. And the more focused you are about your style, the easier it is to put outfits together that feel completely right.

Which five adjectives best describe your current style? Do the adjectives change when you describe your future or aspirational style?

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Five Adjectives to Define Your Style

Guess I’m first because I’m in the southern hemisphere and working late.

1. Gamin (I’m petite and thin, wear lots of jeans and trousers, have short hair)
2. Tailored (can’t stand frills and furbelow)
3. Colourful (yellow, turquoise, red – I wear no black at all)
4. Whimsical (occasional quirky or arty accessories)
5. Practical (I’m speedy and can’t stand to be awkward. Still looking for the perfect pair of men’s-style oxblood loafers. Seen any, Angie??)

This is difficult…

Let me see:
1. Classic: Love good pieces that will last for seasons!
2. Modern: Love treds also but here I play more with scarfs, necklaces, shoes and some pieces that don’t cost me a lot;
3. Dressy: Always over-dress whenever I go! I’m still trying to feel fab in jeans, but I’m making progresses!

hum.. can’t think of anything else.. maybe someone can help me defining my style… :(

What a great and so SO timely post for me. I’m still digesting Una’s forum thread (it’s ben a few days actually) http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....greenglove and in the process of writing the response for it I’ve contemplated my own style journey, where I am, where I want to be and in a nutshell how can I define my own style. I find that I need the actual words to ground things for me.

Therefore, for now I’ll only sit back and enjoy everyone else’s responses to this blog post, I personally still have a lot of thoughts to through and verbalize.

OK, I’ll give it a shot…

Structured – I prefer tailored to boho
Dressy – I struggle with casual clothes
Feminine- I like to flatter my curves, and I like wearing dresses
Understated- I am Team Low Contrast and I enjoy muted colours
Modern – I do at least attempt to incorporate more mainstream trends into my wardrobe.

Not sure if that’s what I’m projecting, but that’s what I’m aiming for. A goal for the future is to strive for “interesting” ( but not in a “OMG, what was she thinking?” way)

Mmh, this is not easy…

I think at the moment I would say maybe:

1. colourful
2. casual
3. practical

I can’t think of two more that would really represent my style as it is. I don’t even know if this sounds like me at all!

I really would like to get more dressy in the future, but stay with simple at the same time. Although it still has to be practical, so not too dressy. Maybe colourful, simple, practical, smart casual and feminine?

artistic
eclectic
urban
boho- chic- if such a thing exists
comfortable, relaxed, casual? could not think of the right word

Maybe romantic or vintage should be in there- also modern but had to leave them out for now.

soft – by this I mean romantic, flowy, boho-chic (stealing Jean’s word!)
smart – this is Angie’s influence :)
creative – I always try to add one unexpected piece
casual – influenced by how I spend my days
practical – all about the footwear and actually being able to run around in my shoes. again, Angie’s influence!

casual
practical
classic
simple

And then there’s some other adjective that I need to describe the fact that I’m not “conservative classic”, but strive for just a bit of a modern, hip, creative, artistic, edgy vibe. However, I’m not sure that I’m there, yet, in my current style, so it’s hard for me to know what the perfect adjective is. I guess that’s what that Una-initiated thread was all about for me…

Have you worked through the book “Style Statement” yet? Highly recommended!

authentic
rustic
woodsy
refined
feminine

I know these words don’t seem to go together, but I am at home by a campfire, and yet I like luxury too. I abhor things/people that are crude and in bad taste – I love candlelight, sterling silver, good manners, rainy days, stone castles, old bookshops – now how to transfer that stuff into an outfit?!

This is a very interesting exercise. I’m finding it harder than I thought.

Unexpected: I almost always have at least one piece of my ensemble that makes you do a double take. It’s not like the others and stands out, yet tends to work well. For e.g. a classic Indian earring set with a US class suit jacket.

Bold: I like bright colors. I could live in red and yellow. I like making a statement. Either with bold colors or with statement pieces.

Funky classic: I am drawn to classic, clean lines with not a lot of fuss. But there has to be a funky, modern edge to it somehow. Related to the unexpected piece.

Practical: I have fussy feet. I walk about 5 miles a day. When I’m not walking, I stand up and teach about 8 to 10 hours in a day. So my outfit starts with appropriate shoes that I can tolerate all day long. Same with my handbags. I also have to feel 100% comfortable in my outfits because when I’m in front of an audience, I can’t be fidgeting to constantly adjust my outfit.

I struggled with this a few months ago and posted in the forum. Spent ages looking through lists to try to work it out and when I went back to my thread there Roseandjoan had done the hard work for me!

Practical
Elegant
Playful (Sarah – would this work for you too?)

Not sure I can think of two more…

Casual – I live in jeans, have to admit that

Romantic AND ‘vintagey’

Modern yet no fashionista, I don’t take too many risks, so I am also Classic at the same time.

Simple – I don’t wear accessories most of the time. I don’t need them and they bother me, anyways. I don’t even wear a watch anymore, since battery run out.

Sweet and Cute overall

I’m having a hard time with picking words right now- other than casual.

I share two words with you Angie…the process is hard but worthwhile.

Simple – I have lost ruffles and lace from my wardrobe in the past year and have always preferred fewer layers (probably as a direct result of being scared of cardigans)

Modern – My pendulum swings from vintage to modern, but the vintage pieces I wear have usually been inspired by the catwalk or what’s in vogue now.

Soft – My style used to be described as romantic but as I have toned down the girliness I think soft is now a better fit. I also like tactile fabrics, slouchy tailoring and muted colours.

Elegant – not always achievable but I feel at my best wearing simple elegance.

Practical – once out of the door I prefer to not have to think about my clothes for the rest of the day, practicality is dictated by the days activities and the weather.

I will probably have changed a couple of words by the end of the day, thanks for the task Angie!

This is a good exercise although I’m having a tough time selecting the 5 words to use.
1. Preppy-I am stealing this one because Angie will often comment in my WIW posts I have a preppy style although I haven’t figured out quite why yet, perhaps because I like button down shirts?
2. Boho-I certainly like crochet, fringe on scarves, flared jeans, and my cowboy boots which all have a boho vibe to them.
3. Calming (Blues)-I have to mention blues somehow, it’s the color I am always drawn to first, and the color I own and wear the most.
4. Practical-If I wear a big heel it must be comfortable, if I am doing a lot of walking I have no problems wearing a flat shoe, and I am a big fan of lots of layering because I am always cold. The need to add or peel off layers is a big part of my lifestyle and comfort needs.
5. Acessorized-I am not a fan of the top detailing as my outfit details. In lieu of ruffles or beading on my tops I prefer to layer scarves or wear necklaces. There are very few days I don’t have something around my neck.

This is harder than it looks!

Here are mine:
creative – or eclectic, or unexpected… had a hard time deciding between the three, but decided it would be cheating to use more than one since I’m using them all to mean the same thing. Basically, I like unexpected combinations of things and interesting, unique pieces.

feminine – I love florals and soft, romantic fabrics, full skirts, etc. My favorite store is Anthropologie and my favorite designer is Nanette Lepore.

high-contrast – Team high-contrast all the way (both colors and styles – by styles I mean I like contrasting things like floral skirt + combat boots)

colorful – I almost always have at least one brightly colored item on. Not a fan of all neutral or all black looks.

practical – can’t stand to be uncomfortable and fussing w/my clothes all day, plus I have fussy feet and walk a lot

When I think of what style words resonate with me and what I’m striving for, these are what come to mind:

Tailored
Classic
Traditional/timeless
Unfussy
Clean lines
Understated
Refined
Polished
Casual chic
Put-together casual
Simple

I’m wordy. :)

This is harder than I thought!

Clean: I don’t like ruffles, bows or too much detailing. I prefer clean structured shapes and one or two accessories.

Elegant: I like clothes in simple but flattering lines. I’d choose cuts such as bootcuts or wide leg pants over skinnies (that’s not to say skinnies can’t be elegant).

Mod: This is a newer direction for me, but I’m trying to bring in more graphic prints, geometric lines, strong colors. This also refers to my love of flats and more boyish shapes (versus heels or bombshell style).

Practical: I have big dogs and a busy job, so I need to be able to move and be comfortable in my clothes. I don’t like dry cleaning so I pick fabrics that are machine or hand washable.

Chic: A year ago this would have been a mile away, but I think my style is becoming more chic. I’m trying anyway! By this I mean a slight sophisticated edge, timeless shapes, effortless but polished.

Rute – feminine?

You are all doing really well. It’s quite hard isn’t it? And you can’t go over 5 words!

Just in case anyone thought that “classic” was a negative word, it totally is NOT. There is no need to have an unexpected element to your style in order to look killer.

It’s particularly fun for me when I know your style :)

Greenglove, Laura, Lisa, RoseandJoan, Sihaya and Sarah, your list of adjectives and why you chose them is spot on. I’m impressed.

Rute, I’d add feminine and boho-chic.

Sarah, “Playful” is a good suggestion!

Chewy, I’d add bohemian, creative, soft and practical.

Thunalata, I’d add tailored and smart.

Lex, one of our forum members just bought a pair of dark red oxfords in the Netherlands.

hmm, I’ll take a stab at it. These are adjectives that describe what I am aiming for…not necessarily that I have arrived :-)

1) casual: I don’t work, and don’t do life with dressy people, so my goal is to build a wardrobe that is 80% casual… but chic and stylish

2) clean: I tried the whole “lots going on” and it was pretty much a train wreck. I know that I need to wear pieces with clean lines and simple design.

3) interesting (and it’s close cousin unpredictable): just because it needs to be clean, doesn’t mean it needs to be boring. I know that I need to seek out pieces and combinations that have visual interest. I also don’t want to fall into the same outfit formula every day. I want to add elements of the unexpected to keep things interesting.

4) youthful: I don’t want to look like I’m trying to dress like a teenager, but I also don’t want to look like a boring 45 year old housewife…. no offense to anybody, because “I” am the 45 year old housewife I’m referring to :-)

5) effortless: I don’t want my outfits to enter the room before I do, or make me look like I’m playing dress up. I want my outfits to look like they were meant just for me…. when I see this on others, it makes me sit up, take notice and even at times gawk :-) I think it is when I see someone with effortless style,that I think “gosh, I wish I could dress just like her” It is a fleeting thought, because I know I can’t copy anybody else’s style, but I know that when I have that thought… I have seen someone with effortless style.

6) fashion forward/trendy: I don’t need to be the first in town to sport every trend that comes down the runway , but I want to feel that my outfits are new, fresh, and inspiring… not always last season’s tried and true.

So fun to read these! Angie, yours are perfect, of course :) . Have your five core words changed over time? For example, can you remember what your key descriptors were, say, 5 or 10 years ago?

I was having a hard time coming up with five for myself, until I allowed myself to be a bit more abstract. Here goes:

Juxtaposition: I love a mix of things that are somewhat at odds but yet go together harmoniously. It’s almost like a puzzle that I enjoy putting together each day, and seeing if I can pull it off!

Androgyny: I don’t feel feminine at all, and I like wearing outfits that are a mix of more rugged/”masculine” things, like a moto jacket, along with, say, a pencil skirt.

Balance: Related to the above two! For me to be the happiest, everything has to be in balance. It’s not an exact thing, like I need to have perfect symmetry with a pair of shoes and a matching necklace, but balance as I perceive it when I look at myself. Balance usually involves some sort of print or pattern, some level of accessories, something structured along with something loose, different textures in combination…The balance shifts with each outfit. For me the pleasure comes with balancing several pieces in combination with several other pieces–nothing stands alone.

Modern: I enjoy following trends and incorporating them into my look in a way that works for my roles and lifestyle (professor in a college town, mother of two kids, active with gardening, dog-walking, running, etc.).

Bold: I like to wear unusual things or strong, statement items, again in a way that works for my roles and lifestyle.

ooops, I didn’t read your rule that I couldn’t go over 5 words… so I’ll nix casual.. because really I love to dress the gamut of casual to dressy. I guess that would be where unpredictable comes in.

Hmm, this is harder than one would think.

casual (practical for my lifestyle and easygoing attitude)
flirty (the best way I could say cute or feminine in a non girly way)
accessible (or approachable, I suppose, not so expensive looking that I’d create distance)
unfussy (or whatever the true word for opposite of fussy is!)
streamlined (meaning not overly accessorized or lots of colors together)

Whew!

Like Queen Mum, I’m now reading the fine print, and I’m seeing that the words are supposed to be adjectives. So, my five would be juxtaposed, androgynous, balanced, modern, and bold.

All right. I”ll give it a go:

casual
simple, non-fussy/frilly
artistic
classy
uncluttered

Thank you Angie and Thunalata!

I have my 5 words!

1. Classic
2. Modern
3. Dressy
4. Feminine
5. Boho-chic

OK, I’ll play this game too, I was thinking about it the. whole. day. This is the exact situation where I wonder what is self-perception and what is self-deception.

Here are my five, in the order they are relevant to me.

1. Simple – because I like well defined, clear lines and uncluttered look on myself. As time goes by, I realize I strive for this in many other aspects of my life.
2. Feminine – I want my clothes to say I am a woman, whether through obvious garment (skirt), detail (bow tie, frills), an accessory (necklace, earrings) or just make up (accentuating my eyes).
3. Classic – I rely on proven formulas like pencil skirts or trousers for the office. Why fix something that works and what I feel good in. I never wanted to look trendy for the sake of it alone, but I’ll embrace the trends I’m comfortable with like stripes or color blocking.
4. Practical – the clothes is there to serve the purpose and not be an obstacle to my activities. I don’t want high maintenance look that’s out of shape the moment I take a photo of it.
5. Polished – Attention to detail, with everything in its intended place. Also, no wrinkling, no pulling, no missing buttons or loose hems. Happy hair is a must have to even begin to feel stylish. Shoes are the next foundation my personal sense of style would crumble on if they don’t work.

so much fun to read everybody’s words!!! and so so hard to come up with them for yourself – i never had any luck what * so * ever with this type of exercise until i read “The Lucky Guide To Mastering Any Style” and their ‘posh eclectic’ category had a lot of resonance for me. not perfection, but something i could relate to at last! i found the book to be worthwhile, you mite like it if you don’t fit into some of the more common categories or want ideas on pulling off some fashion forward styles.

my current five:

chic – i’ve been described as such and it’s so nice to hear that i can’t let it go!

feminine – my physical form is so stereotypically feminine that it’s too much of a hassle to downplay it. plus this fits in with my next trait –

nostalgic – i love vintage clothing and accessories, also the history of clothing and history in general. plus i wear hats a lot, and they tend to feel nostalgic these days.

edgy – i love japanese fashion and have sewn some Issey Miyake pieces (he makes designs for home sewers through Vogue Patterns). i love creating extreme juxtapositions in my outfits – biker boots with a victorian lacy petticoat, pearls with army surplus, dressed up when everyone else is dressed down and vice versa

eccentric – don’t know how to describe this, really, but people have often told me that they literally do not understand how i’m dressed. my most popular earrings in my early twenties were a pair i made out of V-8 labels. (yep, V-8 the veggie drink). i go hiking in heels and linen skirt. people have commented on my unusual look on telegraph ave in berkeley. i just do what seems natural, and i’m happy when i make people smile.

can’t wait to read more people’s words!!! happy monday everybody! steph

I’ll give it a try but I may want to change my mind by the end of the day.

1 clean
2 practical
3 textured
4 sophisticated
5 modest

I’m not sure if ‘textured’ makes sense but texture seems to be important to me lately. I have definately changed from a year ago.

Thanks for this blog post, Angie. We all seem to be in the mood for some style introspection and clarification!

Here’s my attempt at five words:

1) Creative – I try to bring some originality to my look rather than wearing a prescribed
“cookie cutter” style head-to-toe.

2) Bohemian – I love, love, love patterns, scarves, ethnic jewelry, lots of necklaces
worn together, tunics, etc. There is something so free and
vibrant about these looks…they make me feel happy and relaxed.

3) Classic – Despite my creative/bohemian tendencies, the basis of my wardrobe is
essentially classic-cut pieces. And when I get dressed up for a formal
event, I go straight to a flop-proof classic look.

4) Warm – I have warm tones to my hair and skin, so I prefer low-contrast, mid-tone
pieces (except for the occasional black/white combo). “Warm” to me also
means “approachable/friendly,” which is important since I teach people
from all over the world and from different cultures.

5) Casual – I really prefer jeans and boots to skirts and heels, and my everyday life
doesn’t demand a dressy look. I can pull it out if I have to, but it’s not my
preference!

When I think of adjectives to define my future/evolving style, words like “focused,” intentional,” and “confident” come to mind. I think what I want is to be more confident in my own style skin…to “own” it, as they say. :-)

Original

Funky

Artistic

Eccentric

But, Always put together !

Hmm. I’m going to go with:

Colorful — I like colors. Bright ones.

Bold — I also like prints. Big ones. In general, though, even on a day like today when I’m wearing all neutral, I’m dressing visibly. I don’t hide using my clothes and I don’t try to disguise that I’m a big person.

Layered — I rarely wear just one thing without something else layered over it.

Simple — Despite that, my outfits are pretty simple. I favor lightweight knitwear and stuff that doesn’t wrinkle or need much care. I’m an accessory minimalist, because it would just be too much if I added a lot of accessories on top of the color and print combinations I already wear.

Practical — I like clothes that I can put on and then not think about for the rest of the day. So, no too-tight or too-short or too-low fits, no painfully high shoes.

This is very good question. I’m going to have to think about it for awhile. I would have said I was a colorful dresser before I started taking outfit photos. I realize now that I wear a lot more neutrals than I thought. Although I like my style I feel it’s fairly plain and sort of boring. I need to find some more complimentary terms that don’t sound so negative.

Great food for thougt! I will post my 5 later today ( currently barreling down I-880 south to san Jose to pick up Travrertine for the hubster on a rather large semi like truk; slightly difficult. to type…i !am not driving)

This is HARD! A quick rendition without too much introspection.

I always liked “Simple yet Elegant”. I like simple pieces, but with an element of detail that would provide some interest. Elegant is hard to come by in everyday dressing. So I’d interchange with Interesting/Fun/Funky.

Another adjective: Practical. This is a must. No matter how much I like a 4 inch heel, even if my feet can tolerate it, I still won’t wear it.

Feminine: This is an adjective that is only a recent addition, and I’m not sure I’d like to carry it forward. All that ruffles, necklaces, my longer wavy hair, more makeup definitely make me more girly the last couple years. I am at a point that I think it’s not “simple” enough for me, so I’ll need to find my balance somewhere.

Colorful: I always like colors & patterns. In fact I don’t think I have enough solids to offset. I have a soft spot for unusual colors as sometimes I buy things just for the color. Not to be confused with Bold though, I am not good at color/pattern mixing yet.

So in summary: Simple, Interesting, Practical, Feminine, & Colorful.

Jonesy, that’s a killer accurate description! You are *very* honed in on your style. (Thanks for commenting on my five adjectives :) ).

To answer your question, I would have described my style as “creative” 5 to 10 years ago. But I’m done with that. I think it’s creative that I choose the items that I do and make them work in a very clean and simple way. To me, that makes an outfit interesting too. Does that make sense?

Rute, that sounds perfect!

Queen Mum, Cloud9, Nancylee, Sharon, San and MrsEccentric are spot on about their styles.

Ornela, brilliant! You have a killer classic element to your style.

Mo, interesting! Do you think that someone is unapproachable when they wear what you think looks likes expensive attire?

This is not an easy task. Seems easier to describe what “I want” my style to be, but I will give it a go…..

Classic-I love classic styles-so practical
Casual-I actually love dressier styles, but my lifestyle dosen’t call for it
Simple-I like unfussy clean lines
Low contrast-part of being simple, I don’t like to call to much attention to myself

I would like to be able to add:

Evolving
Modern

I don’t always achieve these things, but here’s what I’m usually going for:

Polished
Sophisticated
Feminine
Current
Elegant

This is a great post, picking adjectives is a lot harder than it sounds! I really enjoyed reading the comments to see how others are describing their style.

I’m kind of stuck on describing my own, even though I feel like I know what it looks like. I’d maybe start out with casual and classic?

This is too difficult! I’d rather you tell me ;-) But I’ll still give it a go.
comfortable – if it is not comfortable I won’t wear it anyway
must fit – this is something that I am learning. I used to so happy when I find something that kind of fits that I would buy it. I am getting better at only buying perfect fit.
flattering – this is a difficult one too, way too many clothes show my curves in a less flattering way. I am working on this one ;-)
colourfull – I like to have at least one colour. Usually this is red, but I like other bright colours too.
practical

I saw Angie mention my red oxfords, after buying the suedes at Invito, I also saw a red leather pair at Van Dalen.

On Nancylee’s link (http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....l-me-yours), I ended up with Organic Essential as my overall style statement (according to the exercise).

My 5 clothing style descriptors would be:

Simple, Modest, Eclectic, Nostalgic, Relaxed (but with considerable Gamine influences too). I may change that though.

Angie, I think I might have used the wrong term. I meant glaringly above the environmental norm, more or less. I like the idea of being a step up from the norm but 2 or 3 and I fear it starts to portray a ‘better than you’ vibe, even if not meant. Does that make more sense?

How interesting. As someone that doesn’t really have a clothing style yet I have picked 5 words that describe the direction I want to go in :

Classic : I am not interested in being trendy, I would rather find and hone a style that can last.

Structured : I want simple, clean pieces with a tailored fit. Not bulky, flowing, layered clothing

Feminine : I almost wrote sexy, I want my clothes to convey that I am comfortable in my body as a woman. I do not mean revealing clothing and I do not want cute or too sweet.

Polished : I would like to learn how to do polished, pulled- together

Practical : My clothing has to be compatible with my lifestyle, my job involves traveling, getting in and out of cars, moving around in all weathers. I have several hairy dogs that jump up on me. I am outdoorsy.

Vey good exercise !

That’s interesting, Malina. Like you’re being “snooty” or snobby?

Thanks for your comments, Angie. I’m not sure what five words I would have used a year ago–your guidance along with YLF have really helped me to hone in on my style! Yes, I can see how “creative” would have been one of the five for you before, but maybe now it’s been bypassed by the other core descriptors. To me, your combination of those five is very creative/original, which is why we all delight in your WIW blog posts :) .

Creative – things i’ve made or others have made/handcrafted
Funky – usually something with an interesting flair, uneven hemline, different collar, etc.
Clean – while it maybe funky, it usually has clean lines, not buzy with too many seams, and modern looking
Comfortable – while it maybe all these things stated above, if it doesn’t feel good or i feel too weird in it – it won’t work for me – even the shoes got to have a comfort to them
Dressy – like you, Angie, i’m almost always dressier than most people in the room. i like feeling polished and appropriate and looking my best.

the words were harder to choose than initially thought – i thought it would be easier to describe my style – it’s fun to read how others describe themselves too.

Let me see… I think my style is:

1. Simple – I don’t like to have a lot of excess STUFF on me
2. Slightly sexy – not into low cut tops or short short skirts, but I like to bare some skin and/or wear form-fitting outfits
3. Colorful – I love clothes with bright colors, but not color contrast outfits.
4. Sporty – I love to wear edgy sports style clothes – not baggy tshirts and sweats, think lycra
5. Trendy – I have fun incorporating the new trends that appeal to me

This style is very different from 5 or 10 years ago when I always chose baggy beige garments! Working out at the gym and learning to love my body helped immensely with my fashion evolution!

I strive for these:

elegant, feminine, chic, dressy, luxurious

I’m not sure I make it all of the time, but that’s what I’m going for!

Tough one! I am not reading the other comments yet so I won’t be influenced.

I will start with the “casual Euro chic” that you helped me define. That has already been extremely helpful to me. I will add to that…
layered–this is really important to my style because I have temperature swings all the time and am too hot or too cold throughout the day
feminine–maybe I wouldn’t be so aware of feminine if I didn’t work in a dressed-down, male-dominated field, but I am irrepressibly feminine.

That was hard! I know these adjectives will change in the future. For example, if I achieve more professional authority I will probably have to be more sophisticated and less cute. If I have little ones I will have to be more strictly practical. Or I can just do whatever the heck I want :)

Since I am new to all of this I am thining that this may be changing over the next year. It is almost like I should have 2 lists, #1 current style and #2 moving towards style. But until then I would have to say:
1-simple
2-modern
3-classic
4-clean (cool, fresh colours, clean lines)
5-happy (or trying to be, looking smiling, ready, & approachable)

Now that I am an active member I can start posting to show you all and see if you agree.

1. Classic – I love vintage and timeless pieces.

2. Dressy – I also love pearls and being overdressed for most occasions. I think that is why I am uncomfortable with most Boho looks, they just are not dressy enough for me.

More excellent responses!

Mo, thanks for chiming back in. I think what you’re after is a down to earth look.

Jonesy, I’m flattered. And you are 100% innately stylish.

Scarlet, Carole and Heleen, good job.

April, you achieve all those adjectives with your style! I do think that the word classic is missing. Think you could swap out an adjective?

Today I’ll go with:
1. Classic lines
2. Natural
3. Creative
4. Dressy casual
5. Modest

I’d like to move more toward refined, polished, structured, genteel, effortless

Angie, I was trying to stay away from “classic” because it makes me think “staid” and “overly traditional.” I suppose classic should be in there, though — how about we swap out elegant:

Polished
Sophisticated
Feminine
Current
Classic

Can “classic” really go alongside “current”?

Wow, this is hard! I think we did this on the forum a year or two ago, and somehow I found it easier back then. Maybe it’s because I feel I’m a little bit moving towards a style transition.

Anyway, here is my stab at describing my current style:

Funky
Current
Smart
Playful
Bold

Many other words came to mind like comfortable, practical, creative etc. but I know I’m violating the 5-word rule at this point ;-)

For my future style, I’d like to see sophisticated, polished, and chic in the set – without losing the funky part! And I’m not finding that easy…

I thought this would be really hard but it rolled out pretty organically this morning. I’ve been doing alot of thinking about my wardrobe and the image I want to portray lately, and this exercise was a fun way to put all that in writing.

I don’t just have one style. I’ve got lots of roles in my life and there really isn’t much of an overlap between how I dress for work and how I dress at home. I also have a fashion persona of how I’ve always viewed myself, but this doesn’t translate into reality, only a fantasy wardrobe for events that are not a part of my life.

Self perception: Arty, modern retro, unique and post-apocalyptic.
This didn’t work out so well in reality. I ended up with an all black wardrobe. Over time I’ve learned that Black does not equal sophisticated, artsy or unique, and cheap thrifted goods do not translate into fantastically trendy, modern and flattering pieces.

My real day to day style has evolved into two distinct areas.

Work: Polished, edgy, retro, modern, American/Eastern European bombshell

Home: Team RATE, relaxed classic American denim and leather

Hm, not easy at all, but definitely worth thinking about. This is what I came up with:

1. Sleek: I’ve always loved clean, uncluttered looks and simple lines.
2. Contrast: The combination of tougher looking, more rugged items with elegant and classic pieces always tickles my toes. The same goes for different textures in one outfit.
3. Dressy: Luxuriously feeling fabrics that drape beautifully are my favourites and I feel most confident, polished and happiest in dressier outfits.
4. Urban modern: I see this as taking from current trends what appeals to me and mixing this with retro elements I’ll always love, with a practical (my clothes can’t get in the way of living my life) and chic touch to it all.
5. Strong: I’d like to define this as “combining all 4 elements above into a look with which I can express my personality and taste, that can stand on its own (meaning: is interesting without being overload) and is seen by others/feels to me as “very me”.

Admittedly, I don’t always achieve all of the above, but that’s what I’m striving for, and I think I’ll be leaning towards “refining” these core elements more and more as I get older.

Okay, here are mine. Keep in mind that at least some of these are probably more aspirational than descriptive!

1. Colorful. Goes without saying, right? I love color! The more, the better!

2. Authoritative. This is important in my job and I also like to look reasonably authoritative outside of work.

3. Rich. As in, nice fabrics and textures. Also as in “having a bit of money to spend on clothes and not being afraid to show it.” And also as in “(very) occasionally palling around with people who have serious money, and not looking or feeling glaringly out of place.”

4. Witty. As in, “leopard is a neutral.”

5. Chic. I think this is a good catch-all term for all the other positive attributes I want my style to have, including current, elegant, polished, and effortless.

Hhhmm… I’d start with
bold- I love prints and high contrast

Retro- when I get dressed up I feel happiest in a mix of
modern and vintage. 1950′s influence

Tomboy- when dressing casually, I feel happiest with a mix of femmine and masculine
Like tunics with biker boots or blazers and graphic tees

Simple – as in clean lines- no ruffles, gathers, or floaty

Fun- whether a quirky necklace or bright colours.

Hmmm….I think it would be easier to say what is not my style but here goes:

1. Classic. I hope I could further define it as modern classic.

2. Unfussy. I wear minimal jewelry and embellishment.

3. Polished. I try for a pulled together look.

4. Practical. Even though I’m in my mid-fifties, I am still a mom-on-the-go and my clothing reflects that aspect of my life.

5. Sophisticated. Trying to add more sophistication to my wardrobe as I age, especially with my dressier outfits.

Wow, that was tough! I’m still not sure if I completely know my style. I guess it’s an evolving process. :)

An enjoyable, thought-provoking thread.

Clean
Elegant, I’m struggling with this word. Elegant may imply dressy, and that’s not what I mean. I could mean timeless, but can a pair of boyfriend jeans or a cropped trouser be considered timeless? Perhaps I really mean sophisticated or classic, but the same question applies.
Striking
Modern
Bold

OK I thought about this all day and I;m going to give in a try.

1. Practical
2. Classy
3. Elegant (this is more what I want to be than what I am)
4. Modest
5. Unexpected (I’m working on this too)

Angie I love your descriptions. Very accurate.
Now off to read all of the comments!

How fun!

1. classic
2. casual
3. funky

oops! 4. modern and 5. girly-tomboy (my son came up with this description because of my love of the outdoors).

OK. Just because I don’t post much doesn’t mean I don’t read YLF religiously everyday!! I had to chime in on this one: fresh, polished, classic, dressy, smart.
xoJan

Edgy
Trendy
Wackadoodle (see bow belt bag attempt)
Provocative
Urban

Thanks Angie – will add tailored and smart to my perception of my style and I am amazed what a difference it makes to have those extra adjectives! So interesting.

Seeing all of these different selections of adjectives makes me realise even more how we each have to find our own way – it’s another demonstration of ‘fashion unites us, styles sets us apart’. Thanks for another seemingly innocent but actually very thought provoking post, Angie!

Aack! I know I should be more self-aware, or I’ll never gain control over my closet, but this is HARD!

I’m not so sure if this is me or the fantasy me, but. . .modern, classic, chic, boho, elegant.

Aack again, because these are like pairs of opposites – no wonder why my wardrobe is the way it is.

This is such a fun exercise, and it truly helps you stay focused when shopping.

Here are my style words or style recipe:

1. Happy-Whether my clothes project happiness isn’t as important as whether they make me feel happy or not.

2. Modern Classic-I’m most confident in classic styles, but they absolutely have to be updated.

3. Retro Glam-I love glamorous touches inspired from the 30′s, 40′s and 50′s, but they have to be modernized. In other words, I wouldn’t really wear the vintage item (unless of course it were designer, but that’s another subject.)

4. Softly tailored-Draped clothes rarely work for my body (or eye,) but the lines can’t be too severe. I’ll often balance a tailored jacket with a soft blouse.

5. Unexpected-Even within my modern classic style, I like my clothes to be a bit unexpected. For example, my python print trench coat makes me far happier than a plain black trench. I prefer charcoal over black.

I could add more words for sure, and if the rules allowed six, I would probably add “dressy.” I do wear casual clothes but feel best in dressy things.

This is very interesting. I have been thinking about my list and have come up with Contrary and contradictory for the following reasons:

I like classic but also like trendy – if it’s the right trend for me.
I like colorful but also like black and white or shades of grey.
I like clean lines but wear ruffles and the occasion pussy-bow.
I like polished looks but also like to be casual and approachable.
I like to have an elegant look and good fit.

This was tough.

Your style sounds like a Mondrian painting, Angie :)

Girly
Cute
Complicated? I’m not sure what the word is. What I’m trying to say is that I do NOT have a simple or minimal style. I love fuss and ruffles and thingies and excess :)
Colorful
Playful

I like my clothes to just be fun lately. Not edgy, not polished and refined, not severe and serious. I like it when people see my outfits and smile.

vivid: clean lines + strong colors + classic prints

retrograde: look to fabulous vintage styles for inspiration

coquettish: choose clothes that subtly highlight my sexuality

crisp: good-grooming is crucial to a stylish look

womanly: refuse to wear juvenile designs and styles

I spent some more time thinking about this and here’s what I came up with.

Simple – I don’t generally like fussy outfits
Appropriate – I like to be dressed for the occasion, whatever it is
Pulled together – I like everything to go together, shoes, jewelry, etc.
Comfortable – I have a high threshold for uncomfortable so I wear heels a lot.
Flattering – nothing super baggy or ill-fitting.

Trying not to get over analytical about this – these are the words that come to mind first:

Fearless – I’m pretty much open to trying anything and I don’t worry about perhaps looking different from everybody else.

Eclectic – I’m beginning to accept this as a big part of my style., I used to think it was a cop-out, but now I realize there is an art to being eclectic. I love soooo many different styles – and learning how to put them together and look good is an ongoing challenge for me – but FUN!

Playful – I don’t really take myself too seriously (unless the occassion calls for it!) and I think that my whimsicalness and sense of humor is reflected in my style.

Trend-setting – LOL – I wish that I was! Alas, I’m not. I am trendy – but I’m not famous enough or creative enough to actually set a trend!

Sporty – because of my background in competitive sports, I still have some cross-over with tennies and work-out gear, tank tops and shorts!

EDIT from above:

On Nancylee’s link (http://youlookfab.com/welookfa…..l-me-yours), I ended up with “Organic Essential” as my overall style statement (according to the exercise, clothes, decor, lifestyle).

My 5 clothing style descriptors would be:
- Simple – no fussiness please, clean lines, somewhat classic design
- Modest – as opposed to more bombshell
- Eclectic – many influences though subtly
- Nostalgic – vintage and cultural references
- Practical (replacing Relaxed) – function is equally as important if not more so than fashion
(but with considerable Gamine influences too. More so when I am slimmer than more voluptuous as now).

Hmm. Well, most of the brands I prefer don’t even make clothes in my size (currently a 14, down from 16 last fall – hooray!), so I feel like I am not dressing as I’d like but more from what’s available to me.

That being said, let me give this a try…

1. Comfortable. Not as in “wear sweats everywhere”, but I cannot sport shoes that kill my feet & back, itchy sweaters, brassieres that look good but don’t give enough support to “the girls”, etc.

2. Practical. Boots that allow me to run for the bus, a majority of clothing that doesn’t require dry cleaning (sure, a few lovely items but I no longer want to spend so much time & money at the cleaners as I once did), sleeves that won’t dangle into my soup bowl… : )

3. Whatever the opposite of boho might be. I LOVE the ethnic/boho look that suits so many of you YLFers – I think the rich colours and feminine elements are exquisite. For me, however, it just doesn’t work. Nothing too billowy or romantic or flowy.

4. Muted. As in, colours. Mmmmm. Navy and charcoal and brown and murky green = yum!!

5, Urban.

1. Eclectic/artsy – I like a variety, not only of styles, but of pieces in my wardrobe. I like mixing in unusual jewelry and accessories, especially artisan pieces. I like wearing clothes in a way that perhaps they were not meant to be worn — half-tucking that asymmetrical-hem sleeveless top I posted in a recent WIW is an example.

2. Bold – I love prints and colors. I don’t often wear head-to-toe neutrals unless the outdate has some other distinctive characteristic. I love a dramatic shoe, an unusual neckline, etc. I love unusual details, and I don’t want to simply blend in or look like everyone else. I like trying new things.

3. Smart casual – My current professions do not require any kind of professional dress, but I dress “up” more than any other artist or radio announcer I’ve ever known. While I don’t dress for business, I do dress in a way that would be appropriate no matter what prospective client, customer, or sponsor might see me.

4. Subtle sexy – I do like to wear items that accentuate the best parts of my figure. I am not afraid to show an appropriate amount of cleavage, and I’m more comfortable showing the shape of my waist than I am in clothes that hide it.

5. Youthful (while still age appropriate) – Yes, I’m technically middle-aged, but I dress less conservatively now than I did in my 20s. I pay attention to trends and try to employ them in ways that work for my age, body and lifestyle.

1. Simple
2. Adorable
3. Elegant
4. Relate-able
5. Clean

:) Or at least, that’s what I’m trying to steer towards!

I’ve thought about this all day, and I’m not 100% convinced that what I came up with is my real answer, but it’s a starting point.

Color-saturated. I love color and can’t bring myself to wear black. More specifically, I love *my* colors. I’m an Autumn (from Color Me Beautiful book) and I love all the bright, warm colors that are in that palette.

Edgy Classic. i.e. Chic. I like simple lines & silhouettes without a lot of fuss, but there needs to be something special about the outfit. A no-frills special.

Approachable – This is important to me, as we work with people. To me, approachable means that the majority of people I meet feel like they could relate to me in some way. I don’t want big visual barriers for people to overcome when I first meet them.

Forward & Modern – Maybe Progressive would be a better word. I want to look like I’m moving toward the future – not getting stuck in a dated look.

Practical – I’m a Mommy, and I need to be able to function as such. I find it very hard to focus on others when all I can think about is fiddling with my clothes or how uncomfortable I’m feeling.

Whew. That was hard. I’m glad I did the exercise though. I know I’ll be revisiting my list and tweaking it as I go.

Eclectic – One of my favorite outfits is a pair of jean and a mens white racer back T but I love getting decked out in a sexy cocktail dress. I have clothes I wear from classic to boho and maybe a little rock and roll.

Un-encumbered- I fidget if anything binds, pinches, bunches. Nothing too fussy.

I loooove stuff like this! I haven’t had a chance to come back all day and write this out. I’ve been using urban bohemian as my guideline for awhile so that is a big part of my five. Here goes…

Casual – I like Lucky’s style category of California casual. It is absolutely a part of my style. I basically live in jeans and have to be forced to seriously dress up. I am 100-percent casual but that doesn’t have to mean sloppy

Bohemian – I don’t think of bohemian as strictly hippie, in fact, I don’t consider myself hippie at all. I guess hippie would be a subset of bohemian. I tend to think it more as arty-eclectic’s poorer and less avant-guarde cousin.

Urban – this one is harder for me to explain other than I know it when I see it. For me it incorporates modernity, practicality and efficiency into one package

Girly-tomboy – Someone else used this upthread! It is so true. I have a little too much girly in me to be a full on tomboy–I love make-up and clothes and fashion but I’m not feminine in the same way lot of other women are. I tend to have more masculine hobbies and interests–motorcycles and cars are just a part of it..

Tuff – I’m using this to encompass a few different concepts. Mainly because rocker, edgy or punk don’t quite fit so I’m basically rolling all of those into one word. This one still needs a lot of work but it is getting closer.

This is such an interesting set of comments, Angie. Great idea for a post.

I have so much admiration for all of you who have such clear, well-defined senses of style. I can only hope that I’ll get there one day! I’m encouraged, though, because of how far I’ve come in the year since I started lurking (at first) and then participating more fully in this site. So, thank you all, and here’s hoping for a future of style clarity!

Mine are a bit weird, but oh well:

Playful – bright colours, silly items, stuff made out of candy
Rocker Chic – kind of punk, kind of rocker – but polished and put together
Elegant Smelegant – unstuffy elegance, though some of this is more about attitude
Femme Fatalicious – lots of leg, sexy shoes, soft fabrics but no lace or ruffles, smokey eyes, shiny jewellery
Runway – unique/experimental pieces, uber glam, own it or it’s awful

So oh so late to this game! But I have to make myself do this…

1. Utilitarian – I love appropriating practical things for the sake of fashion, and I love the tough feel, too.

2. Tailored – No sloppy shoulder lines or chest curtains for me.

3. Leggy – I usually employ at least one leg-lengthening strategy.

4. “Effortless” – In one of my favorite episodes, Bart Simpson visits a beach town, and the kids there scorn his flashy skateboarding because they say it “smacks of effort.” I don’t want to wear those skateboarding moves.

5. Tomboy – NOT the same as androgynous.

I have thoroughtly enjoyed the responses and they are so fun to re-read. Everyone’s interpretation of the attributes they chose are particularly interesting.

Plus, I have discovered I have an adorable style twin ;)

Can we do this exercise again next year?

I am very late to this one.

Classic ( must last a long time )
Co-ordinated
Clean cut
Simple
Safe :(
Not sure all this is a good thing!!

Here’s what I came up with:

1. Bright
2. Streamlined
3. Bold
4. Playful
5. ?

Hmmm, think I will add “Sporty” as number 5.

hullo Maya! “Complicated? I’m not sure what the word is. What I’m trying to say is that I do NOT have a simple or minimal style. I love fuss and ruffles and thingies and excess :)

i like to use the term “maximalism” for this – the opposite of “minimalism” :) i’m pretty sure it’s a made-up word but i heard it in the recent movie Cave of Forgotten Dreams! anyhoo, people get the idea when you use it.

so fascinating to read all of these – these words are like touchstones, and the same word can have different meanings or emphases for different people. i’m so glad so many people commented! steph

Steph, thanks for chiming back in! Maximalism is a good way of describing “complicated”.

Very accurate lists from Rae, Anna, Debora, Lyn, Mamark, GirlX, Marley, MaryK, Inge, Janet, GirlX, Desmo April, Debbiek, Kyle, Antje, modgrl and Maya. Well done!

This is tricky!!!

Daring- I’ll try anything once

OK I’m stuck now!!!!!

Steph! High five! I saw COFD and it was wonderful. Good memory too. Maximalism it is!

Clean…I like my clothes as perfectly pressed, fitted and streamlined as possible

Dramatic…I like a bold statement…in high contrast neutrals with a pop of color…not with lots of color.

Uncomplicated…I don’t like lots of layers, colors or designs going on

Jingly…I always wear several bracelets:)

Dressy. I am also the most dressed up person wherever I go…and I make no apologies being who I am.

I was hoping that you would chime in, Taylor! Those adjectives are spot on. As would have been words like Sophisticated, Chic and Elegant :) . I will be able to hear your style when you post on our forum from now on *jingle jingle*.

So these 5 adjectives are a mix of what I think my style is and what I aspire my style to be.
#1& foremost I am eclectic, as in one day I may feel like boho chic and the
next day I may feel like wearing a more preppy ensemble (boho preppy
with an edge, can that even be a thing?)
#2 casually elegant
#3 trendy
#4 chic
#5 posh

Bit late but this is my go:
1. Classic – I like pencil skirts, white shirts, simple lines
2. Feminine – I like ruffles and bows which contradicts the simple lines above but I like both looks and like them together
3. Youthful – I’m only 20 so wear things which could look out of place on someone older (or maybe more like I don’t see myself wearing these items when I’m 25) it’s hard to explain.
4. Subtle Sexy (stolen from Janet) – I like to accentuate my silhouette in form fitting clothing.
5. Happy – I want to feel happy in what I’m wearing and I love the days when you put something on and just feel good about yourself and the way you look.
This was hard but I think some of these describe my style currently and some are what I aspire to be.

OK, it took me a couple days, but I think I’m close:

1) Elegantly put together – Not fussy but thoughtfully dressed appropriately
2) Easy – I don’t want to spend a lot of time fretting over what to wear – hence the foundation is neutrals with pops of colour
3) Eclectic – I like to include something that sets me apart
4) Classic – I’m not into trends for trends sake.
5) Practical – No running through O’Hare Airport in 6″ stilletos! ;-)

I love this kind of thing because it makes me stop and think about my style. So here goes:

1. Classic Boho – I like to combine simple classic stuff – narrow jeans, t-shirts with more boho items. Today I’m wearing fitted crop jeans with a J Crew t-shirt and a bright coral brocade 50′s style jacket and sparkely flats.
2. Relaxed – although I love the look of high heels and fitted dresses I prefer to be comfortable so am usually in flats or kitten heels
3. Colour/texture/sparkle – I have to have something with one or two of these elements in my outfit to add interest
4. Muted – I’m not big into contrast and prefer an outfit with similar tones and a pops of gold/coral/teal
5. Romantic – As I get older I’m finding that adding a few girly elements like my new curly hairstyle help me to continue to feel feminine without looking like “mutton dressed as lamb.”

Current five words:
* Ladylike – you see this most in my “Sunday best” wardrobe…high heels, figure hugging knee length dresses, textured hosiery
* Streamlined – I do not accessorize much past my wedding/anniversary rings & bold specs
* Classic – I adore the “iconic” wardrobe staples – the black turtleneck (a la Audrey Hepburn), the trenchcoat, the pencil skirt, bootleg jeans
* Simple – I have never been into layering (other than for warmth)

Hm…can only think of 4!

I think I will try out:

- Avant-garde. I think this is probably my basic, underlying personality in all things. I did Style Statement with Carrie McCarthy – very cool – and my statement came out “Contemporary Beauty” with that sense of meaning behind it. I will wear far-out things, things that come on strong.

- Appropriate. I keep it in check too. I like to make sense. Also, I work in regulated environments. No room for sartorial silliness. Fashion can destroy stuff or break your neck.

- No-frills. Actually, I like bows and ruffles. But old ladies in big bows and flounces are creepy. One day I’m gonna be 80.

- Easy. Buttons bother me. I feel my life slipping away while I’m doing them up – or sewing them back on. Oh, and I wear an insulin pump. Need a place to put that securely, and don’t want to wrestle with my clothing to get to it.

- Put-together. This is kinda like the second word of my style statement. May be more hope than reality. But I could be really hodge podge with all my little rules, and try not to come out a hot mess.

…Hey, two-word adjectives aren’t cheating, are they?

Hmmmm. . . definitely “romantic” and “feminine.” However, to keep from straying into frou-frou territory, I’d also add “tailored” and “dark”– not strictly in the color sense (although I do gravitate to black and deep jewel tones) but more to express a sense of mystery. I also love elements that might loosely be described as “antique”– cameos, pearls, satin and velvet, lace trim, faded florals, etc. My ongoing challenge is how to incorporate this antique vibe into my daily style while still being practical (I’m a mother to four) and avoiding looking like I’m in costume.
Incidentally, I LOVE how Angie pairs pearls with denim, it’s really striking and something I think I could pull off!

I’ve been mulling this in the back of my brain for a while now. I am responsible, disciplined, comfortable, fun and revolutionary!

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