Party wear formula: the unexpected suit

November 25th, 2009

Wearing a trouser or skirt suit outside a professional environment isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. They scream strict, matronly, boring and conservative discomfort. I hear you. Suits can look severe and business-y, the opposite of alluring and festive. But they don’t need to. I actually have fun wearing a suit and I feel alluring in a suit ensemble. As is often the case, it’s how you put the look together that makes the difference.

Here is the formula:

Dressy suit + fun, feminine, formal layer + heels + small handbag

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I adore the look, ease, polish, presence and practicality of suits and find myself sticking up for the orphaned item at every opportunity. I’ve had a currently styled pants suit in my wardrobe for 15 years and will probably have one forever because it’s a no-brainer timeless go-to item that I can dress both up or down. A suit comes in very handy when you don’t know what to wear for semi-formal and desk-to-dinner occasions. Add a bit of sparkle, spunk and attitude to this formula and you’re good to go:

Here are the components in more detail:

  • Dressy suit: Suits come in many colours, styles and fabrications. A wool or triacetate-blend solid or baby pinstripe trouser or skirt suit in charcoal, ink blue or black gets my vote as the most versatile option. For my own style, I prefer an uber-tailored, androgynous styled suit with strong simple lines. But there are all sorts of design variations that can make a suit look more playful, like retro collar and button detailing, pocket placement, peplum insets and interesting cuff treatment. Look out for these types of detailing if that’s more to your taste.
  • Fun, feminine formal layer: This is the key to the formula. A contrasting layer of girly glitz and texture underneath the suit jacket takes the vibe from drab to fab. Opting for a super feminine, soft, shiny and drapey blouse is a flop proof solution. The jade green shell top I’m wearing above is iridescent and ruffled, which contrasts well against the harshness of the suit. I’ve added extra texture to the layer by tying a fish-scaled shawl as a scarf around my neck which double duties as a necklace. In my other example I’ve broken the rules by layering a hard, matte, rigid and masculine button-down shirt with Greg’s tie. But I’ve added back femininity by un-buttoning an extra shirt button and placing the tie INSIDE the collar making it function more like a scarf than a necktie. Draping a whimsical necklace over the tie adds even more texture, contrast and playfulness. If you’re daring, wear nothing but your bra and a lacy camisole under a buttoned-up suit jacket. Pile on a statement necklace and watch those heads turn.
  • Heels: Very few things are as feminine as a heeled shoe. Peds with bling and sheen work particularly well because they’re visually interesting which once again contrasts well against the severity of the suit.
  • Small handbag: Geometric clutches are hands down the best bag to sport with this formula because their neat graphic simplicity packs a modern punch. I like to add a bold clutch to my look so that it stands out against the suit.

Adding girly accessories like dangly bracelets, bangles and earrings or cocktail rings are also effective ways of loosening up the suit look. Remember your party make-up, your confidence and a smile. Bob’s your uncle… your sassy party suit style just made a fabulous impression.


28 Replies


Posted on Wednesday, November 25th, 2009 at 8:32 am
Phoebe

Here´s one of my favorite styles. Remember that you once suggested a coat collection? I collect suits and add another one each season. They are just perfect for me. I wear them for work. I can dress up a graphic T I´d never wear on its own. I can wear the suit for work and don´t have to change when there´s an evening event the same day: just add a few pearls, pumps, scarf, whatever – there you go.
The perfect party suit for me: men´s black tie!!!

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 8:45 am
MBZ

Smashing! Realistic, and oh so practical-forgiving. Could use a cream or winter white version for the YLF store :)

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 9:04 am

Bryan would die of happiness if I wore a suit to a holiday party. :) I don’t think I have any parties this year, otherwise I’d start shopping for one today. Once I’m at my goal weight, I plan on finding a perfect suit. Angie, you’ve definitely convinced me that I need one.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 9:15 am

I remember someone commented on yesterday’s post asking if you could write a party formula involving pants! You had it all planned out. :)

I am much more comfortable in pants than dresses, yet I would have never considered wearing a suit to a party! It looks very chic and smart. I remember when I was suit shopping my mom said that I could wear my suit to parties as well, not just job interviews, but I didn’t believe her. Now I do. :)

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 9:38 am

love the tie with the pearls! who else but you could come up with that!?!?

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 9:56 am

I will preface this by saying I am not a suit fan and hope to avoid wearing one for the remainder of my days.

That said, I really like this look on you Angie.

…THAT said, there is no way a suit will ever hold a candle to a pretty dress, no matter how festive, in my eyes. But for those who feel more comfortable and confident in pants, it’s a good option to have. I dunno, for me it’s still very suit-y. I could totally see this outfit on a corporate art director who needs to wear a suit but look fun and creative doing it. In that context, I LOVE this look. But for a party? I guess I just have a hard time seeing it that way, since it is actually something someone might wear to work in my field. I do not doubt your wisdom Angie; my eyes have just been tainted.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 10:29 am

Perfect timing on this post! We are going on a caribbean cruise this winter break and I was mulling over how I was going to dress for dinner for 7 straight nights. This would be great…plus I can break up the suit as options for several of the nights! I already have a good suit hanging in my closet so just have to get sorted with the shoe situation.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 10:34 am

Way a great way to remix a suit! I love your holiday party take.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 11:03 am

I would love a beautiful tailored suit, and would wear it as per your formula. I think it is the initial outlay which has always deterred me. With suiting I believe the quality is everything.

Is it possible to find a quality suit on a budget? Or would you save the pennies for better fabrication?

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 11:17 am
Debbie

This is so exciting to see. I have wanted to wear this look for awhile. Thank you so much for posting this Angie. I LOVE it! I think a suit is flattering for most people and I hope to one of those wearing this look soon!

Thank you again Angie for a wonderful post.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Inge

I don’t need any convincing at all here! I am *all* over this look. I’m planning on getting a fantastic suit next year and I’ll be wearing it as much as possible (from sporty to party looks, I’m going to try it all).

Sigh, I love suits!-) (I’m saving these tips and hope I’ll get to use them soon)
And you look stunning again Angie! And those red pumps make me smile!

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 11:28 am

I feel so “Marlene Dietrich” and Tilda Swinton in my suit :-)

Phoebe, Marlene, Julie, MBZ and Diana, I’m thrilled to hear that you like the idea of a suit.

Marianna, Inge, Debbie and Sarah, I can totally see a killer suit working into your style. In fact I’m so excited about the prospect of your suit purchase I can’t stand it!

Julie, you’re right. A suit looks it’s best when the quality is impeccable. I shan’t beat around the bush – the charcoal grey baby pinstripe suit that I’m wearing was expensive and the fit, drape and overall quality is superb. I have had this suit for years and will have it for several more which has whittled down the cost-per-wear to nothing. However, I’m seeing great mainstream brands make fabulous suits, like Ann Taylor, J. Crew, Esprit and Banana Republic to name a few. The Semantics brand at Nordstrom makes a beautiful reasonably priced suit too. The trick is to purchase a suit on sale at the end of the season for the best price advantage. You might not use it immediately, but it will there when you need it. Easy.

Maya, I hear you. Thanks for your open mind and the compliment. I completely agree that a trouser suit doesn’t hold a candle to a pretty dress. (You know how much I LOVE frocks). For several reasons, I think that suits are an especially appealing idea for older lasses. Perhaps you’ll change your mind in 20 years!

I am still on the hunt for the perfect skirt suit. That way I can showcase a pair of fabulous hose.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 11:52 am
taylor

I am such a fan of menswear gone girlie…the tie and pearls…killing me…. sooo fab:)

The tie inside the open collar…….I LOVE how you did this !!!

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 12:03 pm

You look beautiful. I love this look and the way you have put it together. I would love to have a simply beautiful suit like you have that can be a bases for so many looks.
Have you left the skirt and vest out of the mix altogether, or are they waiting in your closet to come out at another time?
Do you change the pants leg line when styles go from bootcut, bell bottom, to straight leg? Or is what you are wearing, which looks like a wide bootcut, a timeless cut?
Thanks

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 12:45 pm

I adore this look! I could never think of the ways to wear a suit in a non-business way, and the pictures are very helpful. Thank you for the great ideas, Angie! I will definitely try to look for a suit this winter – I feel like this look would work better for me than a dress with my lack of curves.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 1:19 pm

That’s exactly right. I tend to shy away from wearing suits for semi-formal and cocktail affairs. But, I like how you brought the femininity back with just adding the ruffled blouse and that eye-catching scarf.

I like the camisole idea, but I would have to use a bunch of pearls gradually getting longer to give a scarf effect. I’m a chicken!

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Someone

Very nice on you, and yes, this is a great option for those with the right body type(s). I don’t think it would work well for this bombshell hourglass petite…I think for this to fly you need great drape, and that is a tough one chez moi.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 2:49 pm

What a great post! I love suits, which is good b/c I often have to wear them for work. Which means I have a lot of them. I also get cold easily, so having a winter party look that covers legs and arms, AND layers easily is perfect for me! I have a gorgeous silver-grey sharkskin suit that I’ve worn for Christmas parties before, especially Xmas parties that I go to directly from work. I usually wear something fitted in a red or green color underneath the jacket, but next time I will try something more formal or sparkly or girly like your teal top!

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 3:54 pm

That is so amazing, I can’t believe I never thought of it before!

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 5:12 pm

You look great, Angie. I must admit that I still feel like I’m going to work when I wear a suit. I won’t be doing that for a party look.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 7:26 pm

i love the pearl + tie combo! brilliant.

Posted on November 25th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
Lisa

I love the punch of red shoes! I was in New Zealand recently and there were so many women wearing red shoes (their Spring) – mainly with black, grey and khaki.

Posted on November 26th, 2009 at 6:18 am

Angie, Thanks for the post on wearing a lbs (little black suit)…I love your suggestions….Am looking for a very special one that will last for years…I had been before your post but you have my inspiration going strong again…
If you find one that looks like it will meet the test of years, will you post it in your YLF store…that, too, is a great idea…
THANKS!

Posted on November 26th, 2009 at 8:35 am

The key is in the accessories. :) Love love those red shoes.

-meream

Posted on November 26th, 2009 at 3:44 pm

LOVE!! While I don’t own a suit myself (maybe I should…?), I adore the look and you look so so chic. Loving the tie – nothing masculine about it on you. So fab.

Posted on November 27th, 2009 at 9:46 am

Catching up again…you really know how to make the most of a suit! I’ve always liked having a great suit that can be made to work in any situation. It’s time to start looking for one again.

Posted on November 30th, 2009 at 9:14 pm

I love, love this formula Angie! You look amazing in all the photos and I specially like the outfit with the teal blouse. A pretty pinstripe suit definitely goes on my wish list after reading this.

Posted on December 4th, 2009 at 8:54 am

Hey! I didn’t notice until now that you were wearing a tie! I love it with the pearls and I plan to copy the look.

Posted on January 4th, 2010 at 1:14 pm

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