How to Dress a Full Bust

Today’s post is written by the insightful image consultant, Imogen of InsideOutstyle who has it down on how to best dress and flatter a full bust line. Although I regularly dress clients with a full bust, I am not well endowed. Imogen’s first hand experience here makes her fabulous words speak extra loud!

My larger than average bust is the reason that I became an image consultant, and it’s what got me interested in the how and why some clothing styles worked for my friends but not for me.  I was 16 when I realized that dressing my bust was more of a challenge for me than it was for my more modestly endowed friends. It took me years of trial and error, plus my training as an image consultant, to ensure that people talk to my face not my chest.

Just so you know, I’m a G cup (34G), so I’m fully aware of all the intricacies of enhancing a full bust. People are always surprised when I reveal this figure.  Here are some of ways I’ve found to make a full bust less obvious:

  • Foundations are incredibly important. Keeping “the girls” up high and supported will give you the illusion of more of a waist. You tend to lose your waist when you have a large bust as it naturally sits lower as it takes up more room on your rib cage.  Great bras are a must.  Don’t forget to adjust your straps every time you wear a bra.
  • Wear lower necklines. Not too low, but ones that stop at the top of your cleavage.  Yes, V-necklines are the most minimizing, but really, you can also wear square, scoop and sweetheart necklines well.
  • Accessorize with a larger scale necklace. That tiny solitaire diamond is almost invisible next to your large scale bust.  Look for necklaces that are made up of multiple pieces. If  large jewelry is too bold and dramatic for your personal style, choose a necklace that shows skin in-between the beads/pieces, rather than a solid, dense piece.
  • Keep necklaces out of your cleavage. If they sit just below your collar bone this will draw the gaze upwards.
  • Wear tops that are fitted and come in at your waist. Boxy and baggy tops will make you look bigger all over.
  • Don’t end sleeves at your mid-bust point. End sleeves above or below this point.
  • Use shoulder detail. It can draw attention up and away from your bust. Look for epaulettes, or other embellishment on the shoulder. A little padding in the shoulders (if this works for your body shape) or a puffed sleeve can visually diminish the apparent size of your bust.
  • Wear wide collars. They can draw the eye outwards making your bust look smaller.
  • Knits are your friend. You will often find that there isn’t the give in a woven fabric shirt to make it fit correctly.  There are garment manufacturers now who do make shirts for larger busts, but otherwise you need to go up a size or two and then have the rest of the shirt tailored to fit.
  • Consider button position. On shirts that button up in front, make sure there is a button at your bust peak so that the shirt buttons don’t gape.
  • Look for higher cut armholes. They are more flattering than lower cut ones. So avoid dolman sleeves, batwings and kimono sleeves.
  • Wear your belts lower. Belting can be more difficult for the well endowed as a large bust gives you the illusion of a short waist, so you may find that lower hip belts work much better than waist belts.
  • Don’t tuck. It is generally not advised when you have a large bust (unless you have a very long waist) because it visually shortens your torso.
  • Always create a focal point somewhere else. Either above the bust, or well away from your bust, like with your shoes for instance.   If you direct people where to look by adding detail, they’ll do what you want and won’t focus on your bust.

Ever since I discovered the power of a large scale pendant necklace to make my bust look smaller, I wear one every day (unless I’m wearing a scarf).  People always comment that wearing a necklace is my “thing”.  It never used to be, but since I know that it works I now collect gorgeous and interesting necklaces in all styles so that I have something to distract the gaze away from my boobs.

Thanks for the great post, Imogen! Well endowed ladies, do these guidelines resonate? Please share with us your do’s and don’ts on how to best dress a full bust. We’d love to hear your insights. You can read more of Imogen’s thoughts on her blog, InsideOutstyle, and you can follow her on Twitter.

The Best Two Piece Swimsuit Tops and Bottoms

Although I bat for Team One Piece, and so do the majority of my clients, I do have suggestions for two piece swimsuits. Two pieces are an especially good idea if you need to purchase a specific cup size, or if you wear a different size on the top and bottom. They also make going to the loo easy, and they dry faster than a one piece after a swim.

Bra-sized swimwear tops are becoming extremely popular, and brands like Freya, Fantasie and Panache get my big thumbs up. It’s great that you can purchase the pieces separately these days. Mix and match as you please, purchase any size, and update your two piece by merely adding a new top or bottom.

Below are my picks for bikini and tankini tops and bottoms. I’ve seen most of the styles on my clients and they look fabulous! They run pretty true to size but in some cases you might need to go up a size in the bottoms. Remember to click through all the colour options.

Bikini and Tankini Tops

  1. La Blanca “Glamour” Tankini Top: Hands down the best Tankini top I have seen in a while. It’s just so, so flattering. Remember that you can alter the side seams of tankini tops if they don’t lie flush against the body.
  2. La Blanca Push Up Tankini Top: This top is fab because it pushes up the bosom for extra cleavage, and polka dots are always fun.
  3. Tommy Bahama Swim Palm Tankini: This one is for you if you prefer soft cups.
  4. Profile by Gottex “Tricolore” Halter Tankini Top (plus): I haven’t seen this one on, but one of my clients raves about the style and I trust her judgement.
  5. Juicy Couture Beach “Little Lulu” Halter Top: Fabulous if you’re not well endowed.
  6. Profile by Gottex “Tutti Frutti” Shirred Underwire Tankini Top: This style isn’t quite as va va voom as the La Blanca Glamour Tankini, but it’s also very flattering. The straps are a little long so it’s good for regular and longer torsos.
  7. Freya “Pier” Underwire Halter Bikini top: So sweet! The support is amazing and colour and pattern adorable. I don’t mind the ruffle either.
  8. Freya Carousal Balcony Swimwear Top: This top comes in super small band widths (like a 30D) and the pattern is delightfully cheerful.
  9. La Blanca “Fresh Look” Push-Up Bikini Top: I have not seen how this fits, but so far, all items by La Blanca fit and cover like a dream, AND are alluring at the same time. So you’re off to a good start. If I had to wear a bikini, this would be it.

Bikini and Tankini Bottoms

  1. Michael Kors Bikini bottom: Basic and quite skimpy, but not overly revealing.
  2. Tommy Bahama Swim Palm Print High Waist Bottoms: These match the above tankini and have pretty good coverage.
  3. La Blanca Hipster Bottoms: These are fuller than the Michael Kors bikini bottoms and are another good little basic. Also available in Ruby.
  4. Profile by Gottex “Tutti Frutti” Skirted Bottoms (plus): I haven’t seen these on, but apparently they are fabulous.
  5. Gottex “Mikado” High Waist Tankini Bottom: Perfect for those who like extra coverage over the belly area.
  6. Freya Pier Skirted Bikini Bottoms: This matches the Freya Pier bikini top, and has good coverage (it comes up higher than you might think). The skirt detailing is ADORABLE even though I have just about had it with ruffles.
  7. Freya Eclipse Heart Ring Bikini Bottoms: You might tan a little oddly with this one, but boyshorts are retro-style at it’s best . You could match this one up with many styles of top.
  8. Juicy Couture Ruffle Rollover Bottom: These match the “Little Lulu” halter top, but you don’t need to match them up like that. Purchase a solid bikini or tankini top and look just as fab. This bottom has great coverage and that’s the main reason it made my list.
  9. La Blanca Boardshorts: Some of my clients like to wear boardshorts over their bikini bottoms with either a bikini or tankini top. Nordstrom has stocked these for a couple of seasons and they do the trick. Covered, comfortable and cute.

My clients generally prefer swimwear with bust support, so that’s why I haven’t included any string bikinis or bandeau style tops. Land’s End makes good one pieces as I mentioned in an earlier post on top one piece swimsuits. But so far for some reason, I haven’t found their tankinis and bikinis as impressive in fit and styling. Probably still worth a look though.

Please add to the list if you are happy with your two piece swimsuit. I’d love to hear your recommendations.

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Team Mini Skirt or Team Short Shorts

Just to be clear, the hemlines of these items are short. We’re talking mid-thigh or shorter.

I am on Team Short Shorts. I like mini skirts and absolutely think they look fabulous on the right body type and in the right outfit combination. But short shorts seem sassier, cheekier and spunkier to my eye. And definitely the less expected and more modern choice. I love, love, love the look of short shorts, either dressy or casual, with a blazer and fun footwear. If I had the gams and youth on my side, I would be all over this look.

I personally prefer minis and short shorts with a bit of volume and flare, rather than styles that are very form fitting. When showing a large amount of leg skin, a baggier silhouette balances out the alluring factor.

Over to you. Are you on Team Mini Skirt or on Team Short Shorts? Tell us why. Remember that you don’t need to wear them to bat for a team. But you can only bat for one Team.

Roundups

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Playing Dress Up at Luly Yang

Luly Yang is a Seattle based couture house specializing in both bridal attire and evening ensembles for women and men. We happen to know Luly Yang’s young, talented and charming Public Relations Coordinator, Andrew Hoge, who is also at Seattle University. Andrew has interned with Oscar Del la Renta in NYC and is currently doing a Public Relations Project with YLF as a credit requirement for school. He’s full of interesting ideas and quite the social networking dynamo. We’re lucky to have crossed paths.

Andrew suggested we stop by Luly Yang’s showroom last weekend. So Greg and I popped by hoping to take a peek at exquisite gowns, fab accessories, and perhaps snap the odd photo. When we got there, Andrew greeted us warmly, and gave us a quick tour of Luly’s smashing atelier. He also very unexpectedly said that I should try on a few Luly Yang gems. Well, ladies! Who was I to pass up an opportunity to play dress up in a couture show room.

As I begun to browse, the fascinator hats in a glass display cabinet were the first things to catch my eye. I have a small head and short hair so small fascinators are my best option. Luly’s fascinators were dainty, and I just loved them! Some you attached with a comb or clip, while others slipped on with a headband. I asked one of the Luly bridal professionals whether facinators were increasing with popularity, and she replied with a resounding “YES”. They are becoming more popular than veils, and wedding guests are wearing them more frequently too. I tried on a few that didn’t match my outfit, but how fun! I was transported back to another fashion era. My retro fashion streak is determined to wear a facinator at some point this year, even if it means that I have to host my own fascinator party.

After the fascinator fun, I perused the endless rails of couture and bridal gowns. Luly Yang’s collections are made of the the finest silks and the most luxurious fabrications. The embellishments are decadent and exquisite. The cut, design and drape of the garments is sublime. There was one particular orange gown adorned with peacock embroideries from head to toe. It was handmade and it took over 200 hours to stitch the embroideries. Couture garments cost thousands of dollars and I was very aware of this fact as I was trying them on. This was NOT the time to rush in the fitting room.

I looked at many glorious gowns, which spanned a spectrum of colours. Cream, white, blush pink, pastels, nudes, silver grey and metallic shades reigned supreme in both long and short lengths. Most of the designs were beautifully embellished, and it was a breath of fresh air to see couture life beyond the strapless gown. Thank you Luly, for also putting sleeves on some of your designs.

I like strong simple lines, so my eye was drawn to the simplest of Luly’s designs. I tried on all sorts of pastel shade dresses, which look lifeless against my complexion, just for the heck of it. The gold sheath I’m wearing in the picture above is not the best colour for my skin tone, but the architectural drape of the neckline and bodice pulled at my heart strings. Magical! The garments in the design studio only represent a couple of sizes, so if they don’t fit, the backs are clipped to make them fit. That way you get a better sense of how the silhouette would look when custom made for your body.

I soaked in the stunning workmanship of the many, many bridal gowns, one more lavish than the next. Bustles, bustiers, fishtails, ruffles, feathers, tulle, pleats, beading and boning. AMAZING. But I wore a very simple wedding gown almost 15 years ago and my preference for simple, clean cut wedding gowns is still strong today. I held up one wedding gown to Greg, the gown photographed here, and asked him whether he could see me walk down the aisle in this style. He said “absolutely”. And that was the gown I tried on. Good thing my fashion stylist was there to offer his opinion.

Andrew finished off the gown with a vintage floral and feather facinator. I loved that touch because I didn’t wear a veil to my own wedding. No pearls this time round either, and that was fine too. The fabric of this frock is as luxurious as can be. It almost made me cry. Oh, how fun it was to relive the joys of wearing a wedding dress of your dreams! I highly recommend the experience if you get the opportunity.

Thanks, Andrew! We thoroughly enjoyed our Luly Yang show room experience. Immersing myself in couture and dressy accessories for an hour on Sunday afternoon was a real treat.

You can follow Luly Yang on Twitter and learn more about Luly Yang Couture on Facebook.

The Neck Tie Scarf

This is one of my favourite ways to wear a silky scarf for Spring. The scarf is tied like a men’s tie and worn inside the collar of a blouse or shirt. The effect is a little like a cravat, only more breezy and not quite as strict. Perhaps we should call it the “the casual cravat”.

You’ll need a soft silky scarf that’s about 35 by 35 inches in size. Fold it corner to corner to create a triangle. Fold the triangle repeatedly into a long worm and drape it around your neck INSIDE the collar of the blouse or shirt. Tie the scarf as if you were tying a mans tie. Pull the knot so that it lies comfortably around the neck, with the knot tight or as loose as you like. I like mine quite tight so that it shortens the length of my giraffe neck. To elongate the neck, position the knot further away from the base of the neck.

Tuck the ends of the scarf back into your top and Bob’s your Uncle.

The scarf actually stays in place all day sans the addition of a safety pin. You could also use this scarf tying technique on the inside of collared dresses. In fact, collars aren’t even essential. Try it with a collarless V-neck blouse or knit top. Could be quite edgy.

I recently received this particular scarf from a dear friend who lives in Europe. I’d say she absolutely nailed it!