Granting Wishes in Playful Style

It gives me great pleasure to share the style of my client and very dear friend, Meredith, who you met when we all went to the prom earlier this year. Beautiful Seattleite Meredith works full time for the Make A Wish Foundation as a Wish & Outreach Coordinator, or as her colleagues prefer to put it, a “Purveyor of Possibilities”. Meredith is also a full time Mum to 9 year old daughter Anika, so life is bustling and busy. 

Having turned 40 last month, Meredith wanted to try some new fashion silhouettes and add more of a sophisticated edge to her look. Specifically, she wanted to try belting tops at the waist, trousers that weren’t jeans, midis, blouses, and generally as many dresses as we could fit into the shopping day! Thus began the next leg of Meredith’s style journey. 

Meredith, who stands at the petite height of 5 feet 2 inches, is an extroverted and effervescent soul who exudes warmth like few people I know. She’s always happy, kind and good hearted. A laugh a minute, and very theatrical. She’ll break into song or dance and it all seems perfectly natural. So you can imagine how much fun we had shopping and doing this photo shoot. 

Meredith’s bold, fun personality is one of the things that we take into account when we shop for new items. Her clothes, shoes and accessories need to match her smiley self! Although her style usually has a strong bohemian vibe, we moved away from that this time. I’ve always loved Meredith’s “old movie star” looks and encouraged her to also bring out the more glam side of her style. She loves old movies and embraced her inner bombshell in less than two ticks.

Meredith bats for Team Dress, Team Casual, Team Red, Team Skinnies, Team Boots, Team Jacket and Team Flats. She has a pretty casual dress code at work, but still wants to look pulled together each day. Like most mums on the go, she has 20 minutes to get ready in the morning, prefers machine washable clothing, loves a bargain, doesn’t like overly constrictive clothes, and works hard to keep her feet happy. 

In wet and cold Seattle, it’s practical to wear boots over jeans, leggings, trousers and tights. This is one of Meredith’s work and “Mom on the go” uniforms, so we updated this outfit combination with colourful knitted tops and blouses, striped sweaters, a black sleeveless sweater gilet, AND introduced the waist cinching belt. We also found amazing cognac low heeled wedge boots that pick up the red tint in Meredith’s gloriously curly locks. She was delighted with how well her new red polka dot top matched her red bag. 

The ink blue “Civil War Jacket” was Meredith’s favourite purchase of the day and she has already worn it several times. I call it her “Sergeant Pepper Jacket” while the rest of the family simply calls it the “Awesome Jacket”. It fits like a dream and works so well with Meredith’s dramatic persona — a clear example of dressing from the inside out.

I also introduced Meredith to Gap’s Real Skinnies as an alternative to jeans because they are a personal favourite of mine. They fit right in with ballet flats in warmer temperatures. The new teal top is great with Meredith’s porcelain complexion, and you might recognize the black Cole Haan boots from this years Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. 

Tucking skinnies into boots is one way to stay stylish, warm and dry in Seattle, but wearing dresses with boots is another great option. Meredith started wearing lots of knitted frocks last year and has never looked back. It’s an easy “pull on and go” with boots and jacket so Meredith was instantly hooked. We bought five dresses that day, the photographic animal print ruched dress being my favourite. It’s longer length and more form fitting silhouette made it a fabulous addition to the shorter empire cut dresses in her wardrobe. You fill out a dress like nobody’s business, Meredith. Love it. 

Wearing boots with a dress sans leggings or tights is a new look for Meredith. She usually feels self conscious about showing her leg skin, but I was able to convince her that we needed to see her gorgeous bits of leg skin peeking through from above the boots and below the dress. I’m so glad I did!

You may have noticed that Meredith wears whimsical necklaces with all her outfits. From  hearts and owls, to teacups, pearls, Moroccan beads, and her grandmother’s vintage gold jewelry. This is her signature look and she has a wonderful necklace collection. They work amazingly well with her playful spirit and classic movie star glam. She is one of the few 40 year old lasses I know who can pull off a bright yellow teapot pendant with sass! 

There is so much to adore about bubbly Meredith. Her huge heart, captivating smile, positive attitude and exuberant persona are just part of it. And then there is her fun and interesting, yet practical and down to earth style. She is perfectly suited to working for the largest wish-granting organization — giving hope, strength and joy to children with life-threatening medical conditions. Thank you Meredith for being an amazing client and a rare ray of sunshine. I’m very fortunate to have you as my friend.

Rank the Accessories that Define Your Style

I previously wrote a post about our favourite accessories — the ones that we love to shop for and wear the most. But for me, that list is not the same as the list of accessories that define my style the most. For example, although handbags are hands down my favourite accessory, with chunky pearl necklaces and scarves coming in second and third, my hairstyle and specs play a much bigger role in defining my style.

So here are my accessories ordered by the extent to which I think they define my look:

  1. Hair style
  2. Specs
  3. Handbags
  4. Watches
  5. Chunky Pearl Necklaces

Over to you. Rank the 5 accessories that define your style the most. If it’s easier to do just 3, that’s fine too.

Will Plain Nude Hosiery Make a Comeback

Remember those egg shaped pantyhose packages called “Leggs” that were all the rage in the ’80s? Back then the most popular hose colours were nude (by “nude” I mean a colour that is very similar to your skin tone, whatever that happens to be). Woman also wore shiny, lycra-rich nude hose which were considered ultra stylish and sophisticated. I remember wearing a pair just like that to a University ball in 1988 and feeling ever so swish and grown up. 

And then it all changed. Nude toned hosiery became something that you didn’t wear anymore — bare legs being the stylish alternative. More recently, textured and coloured hose became fashionable options, but nude hose stayed out in the cold.

Is it all about to change again? A couple of months back, forum member Kristine’s contribution to our weekly links roundup was a post claiming that “bare legs are so 2010”. Kate Middleton, the Duchess of Cambridge, had been wearing nude hose with her designer dresses. The question was whether this was the sign of nude hose making a comeback, or just Kate conforming to the protocol of nude hose, knee length skirts and closed toe shoes to please the Queen.

Aside from Kate’s popularity driving the trend, this actually lines up with a broader resurgence of “ladylike” styles, like longer hemlines, softer silhouettes and more refined footwear. Perhaps the best example is the midi dress, which feels frumpy right until it feels fabulous. Half the world is thinking matronly, conservative and unstylish, while the other half sees something cutting edge and fashionable. 

Fashionable or not, nude hose has its place. I do like nude fishnet hose, and nude hose with tiny polka dots. And although I haven’t worn it as a fashion statement in almost 20 years, I do layer inexpensive plain nude hose underneath fancy textured hose for extra warmth. I suggest textured hose to my clients, but some of them need to wear nude pantyhose because the setting calls for it, like in a courtroom and other work settings that demand a conservative dress code.

Might nude hose once again be a fashion statement? Maybe there is a middle ground where nude hose is just fabulously classic. Or do you think it puts you on Team Frump no matter what?

I’m on the fence. It’s quite possible that nude hosiery becomes a stylish lady-like statement all over again. And if it happens, I’ll be climbing on that bandwagon.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Oversized Sweaters: Yay or Nay

Oversized sweaters are huge this season. I’m not just talking about dolman sleeved knitwear that’s oversized on top but narrows at the hips. I mean large everywhere. You could spread your wings and fly away wearing this type of knitwear. 

The volume of oversized sweaters varies. Some are “poncho-like” and really roomy in the bulk of the sleeve, under the arms, and in the body. Others are roomy in the body and more tapered through the sleeve. 

I prefer these styles in fine gauge knits and on the shorter side. That way they drape against the body in a more flattering way, and reveal the structure that is created by wearing slim fitting skirts, jeans and trousers. They look best when worn on their own, but if you need another layer, try a cape or dolman sleeved coat. 

Some of my clients adore oversized sweaters because they are “new” and very comfortable. Others find them unflattering because they are shapeless and overwhelming. I totally get why some of my clients feel awful in this style. They tend to add bulk, especially when the necklines are high and chunky. 

I don’t yet have any oversized knitwear, but I do like the vibe. To my eye, “swingy” silhouettes can look fun and feel liberating when they drape in the right way. I’m also happy to surrender my waistline from time to time. So I’m a yay vote. Do you like the look? If you don’t like the look for yourself, do you like it on others? Or is the style simply beyond redemption.

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Giveaway: Pocket Stylist and Style Evolution by Kendall Farr

For the final day of the YLF Books Bonanza we are back with another fabulous double giveaway. The Pocket Stylist and Style Evolution are both written by famous fashion stylist Kendall Farr, who recently met up with Angie in New York City. Five lucky winners will each get a copy of both titles!

A warm thank you to Kendall and Penguin Group for kindly giving away these five book packages, and for supporting YLF Books.

Be sure to visit the Competitions section to enter our last giveaway of the week. Good luck and happy reading!