Book Nook: Ode to a Dress

This Summer I suddenly wished I still had a dress I gave away six years ago. In a fit of madness, I now realize. It was a calf-length midi sheath dress, light grey with a very thin white pinstripe. The fabric was a sturdy crepe de chine with some stretch to it. Very form-fitting, yet it seemed to perfectly camouflage all problem areas. The silhouette could have come straight out of Mad Men, and boy, did I feel spectacular in it. It also had a very unique twist on the classic no-sleeves style: overalls straps! It may sound kooky, but believe me, it was sleek, sassy and would have looked every bit as modern today as it did then. 

I’ve accepted that my “miracle” dress is gone, and I’m super excited about my wardrobe options today, but My Favourite Dress by Gity Monsef got me thinking it would have been fun to still have a picture of me sporting my frock. That’s exactly what this new title is all about: through exquisite pictures and personal anecdotes, designers and other fashion industry professionals share their absolute favourites with us.

If there’s one dress that gets loads of attention, then it must be your wedding gown. It undoubtedly is one of the most photographed frocks too. No wonder that lots of thought and effort goes into selecting the perfect dress for your special day. A process that doesn’t always go as smoothly as we would like it to. For all anxious brides-to-be – and friends and family involved – Nancy Di Fabbio comes to the rescue with Quest for the Dress, a practical guide with tons of tips from an expert in the field. 

Are you in a reminiscing kind of mood too? Then do tell if there is one particular dress, aside from your wedding gown, that you’ll never forget? Do you still have a keepsake photo of it?

New Giveaway

For this week’s giveaway we are continuing with our photography theme. In A Shade of Red – One Lipstick and One Hundred Women, photographer Alyson Fox invites us along on a visual journey in which one hundred very different women have their portrait taking while wearing the same shade of bright red lipstick. Chronicle Books is kindly giving away five copies of this intriguing book. The competition will run until Thursday 24 November and is open to all readers in the US and Canada. Hop on over to our Competition section for a chance to win one of the five copies, and tell us if you feel different when you are wearing make-up.

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The Best Coat Length for Flared Skirts and Dresses

Guidelines on what length coat looks best with a flared skirt or dress will differ, but let me share the two options that I think work really well. 

  1. A cropped coat: We’re talking about a coat hem that ends between your waistline and crotch point. The point is that there is a large distance between the hem of the coat and the hem of the dress or skirt. To my eye, when the distance between the two hemlines is smaller than what I have described, the proportions are off and the combination can look a little dowdy. 
  2. A coat at least as long as the length of the dress or skirt: In this way, the hem of the flared skirt or dress does not peek out from under the coat. That’s why the coverage of midi coats is handy. They work with many dress and skirt lengths and silhouettes. 

The key here is that the hemlines of the coat and the dress or skirt must not compete with each other. 

Pencil skirts or dresses with tapered side seams are much more versatile in this respect. Just about any length of coat will work. Somehow, the hem lengths don’t compete when the visible under layer is narrow and form fitting.

Link Love from YLF Members

Annagybe says that a small town pooled it’s resources to open up it’s very own department store. How cool is that. 

Debora found The Fit Priority Ranking on Dappered very helpful because fitting mens clothes can be a tricky business. 

MaryK shared this short video of the Sartorialist in Tokyo. Mary was surprised at the extent to which the Sartorialist creates the shots, rather than just capturing them. 

Znip shares a wonderful slideshow from Vanity Fair featuring J.F. Kennedy and other rather swish looking gents and ladies. A tribute to the hallmarks of preppy style. 

RoseandJoan kindly dedicated Duran Duran’s new music video to me and YLF because I’m a HUGE fan of the band. The video features legendary ’90s supermodels for their new song, Girl Panic. The models look great, but it cannot compare to the eye candy that the band members provide. 

Lisa enjoyed My (Not So) Style Blog’s bold style. And loves her bright socks!

Bj1111 says that Team Maximal has to look at this fab, fab, fab spread of stacked bracelets, rings, watches and bangles by photographer Michele Lamy. 

Vildy, after reading an article on “The Dirty, Unethical Business of Fashion Blogs”, thinks it’s good to be aware of how much “editorial” content in any public medium is tied, weakly or strongly, to advertising. Ornella found this look at how bloggers make money very interesting. Both of these articles were actually inspired by the WWD story “Hot Fashion Bloggers”. For the record, I do not accept free products, we no longer do product reviews, and we aggressively disclose content that is sponsored.

MNSara enjoyed the creativity of this video, which combines four years of daily head shots.

Helen in Canada was thrilled to hear that Joseph Altuzarra won this year’s CFDA/Vogue Fashion Fund. What a great way to nurture and promote talented new designers!

Laurinda was fascinated by Emily Crane’s creativity as she combines fashion, food making, and lab work to create micro-nutrient couture. You can actually eat these garments after wearing them

Inge wonders whether fun and colourful Echo Touch Gloves allow you to use your iPhone when you’re outside. They look like a good idea!. 

I found a super article on the top 10 budget living blogs by the Budget Fashionista. 

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Stylish Messy Hair

The days of tidy and in place being prerequisites for stylish hair are over. When unkempt hair is styled in just the right way, kind of like it was tousled in the wind, it actually looks quite good. Your style automatically looks more relaxed, and in many instances more cool. Kate Moss and Sienna Miller have perfected this look, even becoming style icons because of that unique aspect of their style. And more and more often we’re seeing models sport stylishly messy hair in photo shoots and fashion shows. 

I can absolutely appreciate a stylishly messy hairdo, but find that it’s extremely hard to pull off in real life without it actually looking unstylish. To my eye, messy hair often just looks unkempt instead of cute and cool.

You definitely need a magic touch to get this look right. A lot depends on the rest of your style, and whether a messy hairdo complements your look or takes away from it. I’ve found that curly hair and very short hair has a better chance of achieving a messy look in a fun and attractive way. A little youth on your side also helps.  

Over to you. What do you think of messy hair? Can it look stylish? Do you think that it’s easy to pull off? When does messy hair look fab, and when does it look drab?

Introducing StyleUnited

StyleUnited is a brand new fashion and beauty site that is owned and operated by Procter & Gamble. As they put it themselves: “We bring together style tools, personalized content, expert advice and support from friends to give you a fresh perspective on your beauty and fashion style”. 

Earlier this year, Style United asked me to write a few articles for their new site. The first three have been published, so please head on over there if you are interested in any of these topics: 

  • 15 Ways to Hide That Muffin Top: I wrote this post because it’s without a doubt the most common dressing challenge for my clients. 
  • The Best Rain Boots: I live in Seattle and know a thing or two about rain boots. Here I’ve listed some tried and tested styles in an assortment of silhouettes and colours. 
  • The Best Jeans For Your Body Type: This guide serves as a starting point if you’re battling to find a great pair of jeans. Feel free to add to the list. 

The information provided by the site is easy to read and tangible. You can register and build a style profile, which is a tool that helps you zone in on all aspects of your style, from fashion and make-up to skincare and hair styling. 

We wish StyleUnited the very best launch.