Two Fab Sleeved Dresses

I’m a fan of Kamalikulture dresses. I’ve worn the one I bought many times this year because it’s a great length, a good fit, has sleeves, and is an easy pull-on-and-go. Although I do wear it with a topper, I like the frock best worn on its own with a pair of low heels. Sometimes I throw in a pair of slipper flats instead of the heels. 

Here are two more styles that tickled my fancy: 

  • Kamalikulture Crew Neck Flared Dress with Belt: If this dress were four inches longer, it would be mine because I loved the fit-and-flare style so much. But I don’t want to add in another flared skirt that is above my kneecap at the moment, so I let this one go. But with a swapped out belt and a pair of knee-high boots, it’s a pretty flop proof combination for work or play. I liked the way the flare did not pouf out at the hips, and was NOT gathered at the waist. The flare lies flat and is flattering. 
  • Kamalikulture Turtleneck Dress: This style is for Team Turtleneck. You’ve got to grab those sleeved and neck covering dresses with extra length when you see them because they are in very short supply. So I ended up with this style because it was perfect the moment I tried it on. Formfitting, but not clingy. Covered and graphic. Fab with pointy toe ankle strap pumps in the Summer, and with knee-high boots for Fall. Available in blue, dark grey, and lace

These dresses are machine washable and do not require ironing, which makes them ideal for travel. I pop mine straight into the delicates cycle at home and hang dry. Voilà. This is what I call a no-fuss, polished, business casual dress. It’s great to have options other than the modern classic sleeveless sheath.

3/4 Sleeve Crew Neck Flared Dress3/4 Sleeve Turtleneck Dress To Knee

Black Footwear: Big for Fall and Winter 2013

Black footwear is always in style, but it’s particularly on trend and fashionable for Fall and Winter 2013. Black booties, shooties, tall boots, mid-calf boots, pumps, sneakers, flat forms, oxfords, peep-toes and slipper flats are being worn with all sorts of outfit combinations.  

Black footwear was by far the most popular choice at the Fall 2013 runway shows and I pinned some directional combinations

  • Jil Sander: Rich dark hues with midi length skirt, coat and baroque heeled loafers. 
  • Akris: Severe black pumps with cropped pants and cocoon coat. 
  • Costume National: Round shouldered peplum with cigarette pants and heeled black booties. 
  • Celine: Feminine architectural flow with black mid-calf boots.
  • Chalayan: Masculine slouch with simple suede booties. 
  • Salvatore Ferragamo: Crisp tailoring with sleek cut-out knee-high boots.
  • Michael Kors: A combination of severe and pretty with black Mary Jane pointy toe pumps. 
  • Milly: Cream and textured black with sleek black heeled booties. 
  • Clements Ribeiro: The multi-strap flat pointy toe bootie with knee covering bottoms. 
  • Paul Smith: Baggy cobalt trousers with earthy oranges and black booties.
  • Paul & Joe: Over-the-knee boots with short flared hemlines. 
  • Joseph: Bright skirts worn over fluid pants with mid-calf boots. 

On trend black booties and tall boots are for the most part refined and without a platform. Styles with almond toes and pointy toes look particularly fresh.

Black peds have many advantages:

  1. They naturally bookend dark hair, black tops and toppers, or black belts, scarves and bags.
  2. They elongate the leg line when wearing dark trousers or jeans.
  3. They are practical, hiding dirt and moisture, and can be spruced up with black shoe polish or a sharpie pen. 
  4. They are a versatile modern classic.

For all these reasons most of my clients have black footwear in their wardrobes. And those who prefer navy, chocolate or dark grey to black for clothing items, still wear black footwear because it works just as well to bookend those neutrals. 

I prefer light coloured footwear because it complements my pale complexion and bookends my blonde hair. That’s why I wear white, cream, taupe, silver, gold and patterned footwear more regularly than black footwear. That said, I do wear black footwear, and have a few pairs of extremely comfortable tall black boots. I have resisted black booties for many seasons, favouring cream and animal print. But this is going to be the year I add black booties with a one and a half inch heel to my wardrobe. All of a sudden, I’m in the mood for the look. They have to be patent because that makes them a little prettier and more textured than flat black leather, and of course it’s the dressier option too. 

Do you wear black footwear, and do you wear it year round? If so, why does black footwear tickle your fancy? Or are your against black footwear because it’s too harsh and to some degree the expected choice.

Zara Hooded Wool CoatZara Double Breasted Blazer

Zara Skinny Blue JeansZara Contrasting Quilted Jacket

JIL SANDER Leather and Shearling Knee BootsMIU MIU Patent Leather Ankle Boots

Tory Burch Jacket, Blouse, Skirt & Pump

Team Tough or Team Pretty

You are on Team Pretty if you prefer outfits and wardrobe items that are feminine, ladylike, a little romantic, fluid, refined and soft. You might also quite like pastels and a bit of lace, but this is NOT a perequisite for batting for this team. Neither is liking pink, pouffy sleeves, and stiletto heels. For lack of a better way to describe it, you bat for Team Pretty if the “tough chic” trend and tomboy clothing is not really your thing. 

You are Team Tough if you prefer outfits and wardrobe items that have a hard edge. Torn denim, distressed leather, chunky footwear, hardware, dark colours, rigid fabrications and nothing too stereotypically feminine, precious or twee. You’re a little or a lot of rock ‘n roll. 

Ideally, you might like a mixture of the two types of styles in one outfit, thereby juxtaposing pretty with tough. Like toughening up a pretty frock with hard edged boots. Or matching tight black leather pants with pretty pumps and a soft pastel cashmere pullover. But you have to pick a side for this poll by choosing which style persona is more dominant than the other, even if it’s by just a hair. 

I like aspects of both. I love my moto jackets with some hardware, rigid blazers and button down shirts, tomboy style, 20-eyelet Doc Martens, graphic patterns, and wearing harsh black tops. I even have a masculine hairstyle, and I seldom wear jewelry. On the other hand, I also love pretty things. I adore pink, pastel blue, blush, lace, soft silks and wools, full skirts that move as I stride, florals, pointy toe pumps and cashmere. But I’m absolutely batting for Team Pretty. Apart from faded denim I am over distressed leather, items that look intentionally rough and rugged, lots over hardware, and lots of black. I seek a ladylike refinement and softness in my outfits even when I’m wearing a moto jacket and Docs. Despite my boyish ‘do, I’m not seeking a hard edged style.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Pretty or Team Tough? Again, there is no right or wrong answer here. You are merely stating an aesthetic preference. Remember that in this game you cannot bat for both teams. 

Roundups

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Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

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Summery Earth Tones

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

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Five Fab Tops to Wear Untucked with Pencil Skirts

Here are five ways to inject a little newness into your pencil skirt look for work or play. All top options are untucked. Be sure to look through all colour options. 

  • Ann Taylor Wrap Top: Many fashion tops are either overly clingy when you’re after waist definition, or too unstructured. It’s tops like this style of wrap that nip in at the waist without clinging to the midsection. A polished and professional non-jacket option. 
  • Ann Taylor Moonlight Lace Top: Structured, pretty, romantic and a little retro. 
  • Zara Silk and Cotton Sweater: Sometimes a simple welted pullover with a bit of sheen is all you need to wear with a pencil skirt. This type of top provides a great backdrop for bold necklaces, and is fab layered under most styles of jacket. I love the fluid fit, which looks especially fab under a bomber jacket. I found the blue to be more purple than navy — not a true ink blue. 
  • Diane von Furstenberg Becky Print Top: Wear it over a black pencil skirt to create a two-piece dress. Works as well with jeans and trousers, forming an effective mix and match capsule. Runs small on the shoulder and sleeves. 
  • Gibson Embellished Mixed Media Sweatshirt: Hands down the most cozy and comfortable option. Includes built-in bling. 

As much as I like to tuck a shirt or blouse into a pencil skirt, it’s these untucked tops that have truly rekindled my interest in pencil skirts.

Ann Taylor Crepe Wrap TopAnn Taylor Moonlight Lace Top

Zara Silk Cotton SweaterDiane von Furstenberg Becky Print Top

Gibson Embellished Mixed Media Sweatshirt

Creating Outfits Around a Knitted Midi Skirt

Stripe Midi Tube SkirtI recently helped a client create a set of outfits around a knitted midi skirt (shown on the right), which is another example of how the outfit creation process can begin with a single item. This client is a tall hourglass with a broad shoulder line. Her lifestyle is casual and she does not wear heels. She loves having a small wardrobe with many mix-and-match possibilities that she can repeat over and over again. The more outfits we create with fewer wardrobe items, the happier she is. 

By following the same steps that we used to create outfits around a pair of trousers, we arrived at several casual skirt ensembles in about half an hour. The striped pencil skirt outfit formula for Mums on the go served as a frame of reference throughout the process.

Assess Fit to Set the Scene

I was with my client when she bought the skirt, but for good measure we assessed the item again to make sure that she was still feeling the skirt vibe for her casual lifestyle. After wearing only jeans, Ponte pants, leggings and shorts for years, the skirt was very much out of her comfort zone. But it was as comfy as a pair a pajamas and she was up for a change. The skirt fits in the same way as it does the model and covers her knees. 

Keep Troubleshooting Tactics Top of Mind

As we combined tops, toppers and footwear with the skirt, I had three troubleshooting questions top of mind and we used them to figure out why some combinations weren’t working.

  1. Is it the length of the tops and toppers causing unflattering proportions? 
  2. Is the contrast between the items, and the items and your skin tone, too high or too low?
  3. Will the outfit look better with heels? 

Although my client does not wear heels, I still asked the question along the way when the outfit didn’t look right. If it’s a question of adding heels, we scrapped that combination and created flattering proportions in other ways. 

Select an Assortment of Tops

The next step was to pull out all the tops that might work from my client’s closet and lay them on the bed with the skirt. As I selected the tops, I was thinking about her needs: her comfort zone, how to evolve her look, how the outfits reflect her style descriptor, and the settings in which she’ll be able to wear the outfits. 

The neutral integrity of the skirt made all colours a possibility, so we didn’t feel restricted when it came to matching the black and white stripes with other shades. I stuck to regular length tops because those work best with this length of skirt. I left behind tops that did not provide enough coverage around the tummy area because my client is self-conscious about that part of her body. I also left behind the tunics because, although my client is tall, those outfit proportions would look better with heels. 

Since the skirt was already outside my client’s comfort zone, AND because she does not tuck tops into skirts, I headed straight to two solid short sleeved, scooped neck big tees in turquoise and pink. They were very much inside her comfort zone. She smiled and loved the idea of just throwing them on over the bold rugby stripe and looking extra relaxed in a skirt. I suggested that this was as casual as wearing clamdiggers with a tunic, and that she could wear this combination daily in warm Summer weather. It needn’t be reserved for dressier settings. 

Halogen Chest Pocket TeeTrouve Print Tunic Tee

Knowing that my client is an adventurous pattern mixer, and that stripes are a great pattern mixing vehicle, I pulled out a polyester-rich floral patterned top and panel printed tee with high-low hemlines to match with the skirt. Both pattens have black in them, which picked up the black stripe in the skirt thereby creating a cohesive visual. She liked the idea because it gave her more options to wear with the skirt. 

We then pulled out a few cotton sweater options. A boxy oversized V-neck in neon pink and a navy mesh style with a welt that required a camisole. Both looked great. So far, we had six tops to wear with the skirt, which was more than my client bargained for. To keep things simple we left it at that. Having too many top options can complicate matters. 

Painted Threads Oversized V-Neck SweaterMICHAEL Michael Kors Mesh Crewneck Sweater

My client tried on all six tops with the skirt because looking at an ensemble on the bed is not enough. It’s extremely important to try on the complete combinations in front of a full-length mirror to check whether they are to your satisfaction. All the tops are “throw on” and therefore left untucked. No styling required other than the scrunching of long sleeves. 

Introduce the Optional Topper

Toppers are not essential, but a great option for cool mornings and evenings, or arctic air conditioning. Again, as I went back to select topper options, I was once again thinking of her needs. My client must feel unrestricted while driving and reaching in her toppers, so we eliminated all fitted styles except a white and a blue denim jacket that worked very well with the skirt. The denim jackets looked great, but my client wasn’t feeling them anymore. On to something else. 

My attention turned to soft and stretchy cardigans, because my client finds them very comfortable. I pulled out a cropped navy swingy cardigan with a short back and longer front, and a white cascading cardigan. Because there is no getting around the step of physically trying on the completed outfits, we tried both cardigans over all six combinations. Four emerged as winners. We liked the navy cardigan over the patterned tops and the white cardigan with the solid pink and turquoise big tees. 

Lilly Pulitzer Amalie CardiganAnthropologie Draped Flaneur Cardigan

I then hauled out a mixed media ink blue knit and pleather moto jacket as a third topper option. Although fitted, it’s stretchy, so comfort was assured. It turns out that the moto worked best of all, and was an option over all six tops. Bonus.

Ground the Outfit with Footwear 

An outfit may not need accessories, but it always needs footwear. There were two options for footwear here: casual ballet flats and sandals. No heels. So we pulled out a light turquoise pair of ballet flats, cream snakeskin flats, and two pairs of strappy gold sandals. The tapered length of the skirt did wonders to prevent the dumpy feeling a midi skirt can sometimes create when paired with a pair of flats. 

Born JulianneSam Edelman Noah FlatECCO Odense T-Strap

We started working the different footwear options into the outfits, trying them all on in front of a full-length mirror. We were both amazed at how well the light turquoise ballet flats worked with each outfit. My client’s beautiful light turquoise eyes bookended the shoes to perfection. The cream snakeskin flats bookended her blonde hair, while the gold sandals were an all-round flattering, leg lengthening slam dunk. 

For several of the outfits we found ourselves looking for a crisp pair of white flats to pick up the white of the skirt. And the snakeskin flats, although gorgeous, were not fast walking Mum on the go shoes. So we added a light and comfy pair of white flats to the shopping list.

Finish off with Accessories

Although I am outlining this process as a set of steps, it’s seldom this ordered in practice. In reality, we are trying on the accessories throughout the process as we get inspired. 

My client sticks to sporting one handbag a season, so we finished off each outfit with the same white tote. A wedding ring and white watch also accompanied all the outfits. With the solid tops and sweaters we added a long turquoise pendant necklace to pick up the colour of the flats, or stuck to a short lucite beaded necklace. We left the pattern mixed outfits sans jewellery because there was a lot going on already.

Evaluate the Outfit Shortlist 

I mentioned my client’s needs several times here, and it’s usually worthwhile to revisit those needs one more time with the final set of outfits. Since my client leads a casual lifestyle, we made sure that nothing that we put together made her feel too dressed up. After all, she was wearing a skirt as a busy Mum on the go for the very first time. 

I suggested she break in the skirt by matching it with the big tees and sweaters, and then start introducing the more dressy pattern mixed outfits later, when she’s more used to wearing the skirt.

Then there is the all important happiness factor. Despite our analysis of fit, proportions, style descriptors and settings, ultimately what makes a good outfit is an emotional thing. So at the end of the process, I ask my client questions to assess how happy she feels in the outfit. Does it feel fussy? Do you feel attractive, interesting and healthy in the outfit? Do you feel self-conscious? 

Sometimes though, you need to push the boundaries of your comfort zone and violate your happiness factor in order to take yourself out of a style rut and try something new. The important thing is to do this consciously. So wear the outfit if you know it’s testing your comfort zone, but don’t let it through if you have a nagging suspicion that something feels very off. 

Take It on the Road 

Evaluating an outfit in front of a mirror is not the final step. If you like it at home, you know it has great potential, but you have to road test the outfits in motion, in real weather, and in the intended setting before you can give it the stamp of approval.