Dyed or Natural Hair

Dying hair is a common practice. Some go lighter, some go darker, and some sport a rainbow. Sometimes the goal is to create a more visually flattering effect, while other times it is to make a drastic change. Sometimes it is to cover grey, while others like the playful or edgy touch dyed hair brings to their style. Most of my clients, friends and family members have dyed their hair at some point.

Of course, there is no right or wrong here. It is a personal decision whether you keep your natural colour or invest the time and expense in dying your hair.

Natural Hair Colour

I started highlighting my blonde hair decades ago because the lack of sun in Seattle made my hair darker than it used to be. I happily highlighted back to the light blonde of my youth. At the end of 2021, I was desperate for change in many facets of my life, and my hair was one of them. Upon the suggestion of hubs Greg, I stopped dying my hair.

Two years later I haven’t looked back. It took some getting used to, but I’m loving the colour change. As a dark honey blonde that streaks lighter in the sun, I find I can wear a wider assortment of colours. I’ve welcomed that with a smile! Greg adores my natural hair colour and says it brings out my eyes. That can’t be bad!

For now, I’ll continue sporting my natural colour and adding some length. I haven’t seen grey hair come through yet. When it does, I wonder whether I will want to colour my hair again. Maybe. Maybe not.

Over to you. Do you sport dyed hair, or your natural hair colour? Feel free to share your hair colour journey in the comments section.

Fringe Trend: Neckties

Over the decades we’ve seen neckties for womenswear waft in and out of fashion. Right now the trend remains fringe, and is quite the acquired taste. Gender is a fluid concept, and unisex clothing is gaining momentum. With this in mind, I think of neckties as an iconic classic look. 

For the last couple of years, black neckties and skinny ties have been experiencing a fashion moment. Most are worn with a solid shirt or blouse, and with just about any style of bottoms. The neckties are tied in a structured way, or loosely around the neck. Sometimes the tie is tied around the inside of a shirt collar. Or worn like a scarf over dresses, tees, knitted tops, and knitwear.

Here are some examples.

If you like to wear neckties, I vote wear any width, colour, pattern, and fabric in a way that tickles your fancy. If the accessory is signature to your style, milk it. If the look intrigues you, have fun experimenting. There is no need to adhere to a trend as it comes and goes. You are the boss. Do your own thing and wear the combination with ease and confidence at any time. And if the vibe is not your cup of tea, say no thank you.

I like neckties, and have worn them in many forms. As part of a Winter school uniform for twelve years. With an equestrian shirt and jacket at dressage competitions. And for fashion fun with a collared shirt, or over a dress when the mood strikes me.

Currently, I don’t think I’m in the mood for a necktie. That said, if I wake up one day and feel like adding one to my outfit, I’ll go to hubs Greg’s wardrobe and borrow one. Sorted.

Over to you. How do you feel about adding a necktie to your outfit? Do you like the look on others?

Outfit Formula: Dark Fall Floral

Every Autumn and Winter I dedicate an outfit formula post to floral patterns on dark backgrounds. The backgrounds are usually black, but can also be dark colours like navy, chocolate, charcoal, and eggplant. A dark background toughens the floral and allows for the seamless integration of a black support act. The colours of the flowers can be neutral or non-neutral. Some floral patterns are more abstract and moodier than others.

A dark black floral dress or skirt combined with a short black leather or pleather jacket and black boots is an almost flop-proof outfit formula with a strong ‘90s vibe. Here are some examples.

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Below are four other ways to wear dark florals into Fall and possibly Winter. These looks can be a subtle nod to the Dark Romance trend.

1. Toughened Cosy Knitwear

Floral knitwear is rare, and quite unique. Here’s a chunky matching floral twinset of pullover and cardigan with striped detailing on a very dark navy background. The set is combined with very dark blue wide crop jeans, that may as well have been black. Casual black boots finish off the look and match the model’s hair, and work well with the casual slouch of the knitwear. Choose a bag to match the palette to finish off the look.

Toughened Cosy Knitwear

2. Pretty Skirt and Sweater With an Edge

Here’s a pattern mix that’s well matched because the pattern of the top is the inverse of the pattern of the skirt, and slightly larger in scale. The top is knitted and the skirt is woven so there’s a textural variation too. The sweater is tucked to create waist definition with the flared skirt. Pointy-toe flats add soft edge and match the model’s hair. Wearing statement socks is on-trend, and these fishnet socks add another layer of textural interest. Choose black fishnets or sheer black hosiery if that’s more your thing. The black bag stays within the confines of the palette.

Pretty Skirt and Sweater With an Edge

3. Floral Suit and Tee

Here’s a silky and soft floral pants suit worn with a printed tee and sandals. The colours of the tee match the palette of the patterned floral. The outfits can work on a warm Fall day. The printed tee is unexpected, creating an interesting juxtaposition of casual and dressy. Choose a solid tee, shell top or tank top that works with the pattern of the suit if that’s your preference.

Floral Suit and Tee

4. Draped and Pattern Mixed

Last, a pattern-mixed floral and pinstripe can be a yummy combination. The colours of the black and white pinstripe are repeated in the floral, creating a visually harmonious effect. Proportionally, the volume and drape of the top are a fab pairing with the extra wide cropped pants because of its asymmetrical hemline. The shorter length on the one side visually lengthens the leg line, which elongates the outfit. The pinstripes draw the eyes up and down too. Black sandal booties are a great choice for a warm Autumn day. Add accessories as desired.

Draped and Pattern Mixed

I don’t wear black, so my version looks a little different. Last week for a dinner date with hubs I combined a navy floral dress with knee-high whiskey boots and a bag that matches the boots. I popped a long red coat over the lot because it was cold when we walked back home. The exact items are shown in the collection below. I felt fab!

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Old or Team New Items

You bat for Team Old Items if you enjoy wearing your older clothing, shoes, and accessories more than new items, and vice versa. New means your most recent wardrobe acquisitions.  Note that second-hand and thrifted items count as new if they are “new-to-you.”

I refresh my wardrobe every season with a few or many new wardrobe items depending on my needs, mood, and where I’m at with my style. I tend to gravitate more towards the new items because they have that something extra that panders to my current stye mood and aspirations, or they fill a wardrobe hole, which is why I bought the items in the first place. I bat for Team Wear and am excited to wear new items as soon as I can, and as frequently as I can.

That said, I derive great enjoyment from wearing wardrobe oldies, especially when they are favourites. I thoroughly enjoy remixing old and new items in one outfit. It’s satisfying when an old item is refreshed with the addition of the new, and the new item feels like it belongs because it relates well to the old. Old shoes, belts and jeans, can be more comfortable to wear than the new. Old items, like jewellery and accessories, can have sentimental value, and form part of your signature style. I’m benched.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Old or Team New? Tell us why and no batting for both teams. If you can’t pick a side, come join me on the bench. I’m serving fresh tofu in a sweet and spicy peanut sauce, rice and quinoa, ginger chili corn, carrots and broccoli, cucumber salad, kale salad, and lemon cake with cream cheese icing for dessert.

How to Avoid Awkward Transitional Hair

When evolving your hairstyle, hair colour, or both, discuss the in-between grow-out phases with a competent stylist. Making the effort to effectively style and care for awkward hair stages is worth it. Don’t resign yourself to feeling unattractive during the transition. 

Transitional Hair Tips

Add a wave or straighten your hair as it transitions. Wear playful barrettes, headbands, hair pieces, or tie it back. Tie a scarf in your hair or sport a hat. Alternatively, do the opposite. Use the rest of your style to draw focus away from your hair.

Transitioning both your hair style and colour at once can be too much change. Transitioning one before the other makes for a less drastic change, is easier to maintain and gives you more time to adjust. A big dose of patience will also make the journey easier.