Outfit Formula: Simple Solid Neutrals

If you like shades of grey, you might be in for a treat because it looks like the colour is about to have a fashion moment. With that in mind, here are four outfits for Team Neutral that feature grey. The lines of these outfits are quite straight, the fits fluid and voluminous, and the proportions a little architectural. Remember to add Winter layers like coats, scarves, hats, gloves, thermals, and hosiery to stay warm.

1. Statement Sweater and Black Pants

A cropped, swingy and voluminous charcoal grey sweater is paired with black fluid and pleated full-length drapey trousers. Pointy-toe boots extend the leg line, as does the scrunched hem and puddle length of the pants. The gathers and “bow” on the front of the sweater provide ample texture and interest. I see a black bag and neutral coat top the lot.

Statement Sweater and Black Pants

2. Long Shorts and Tall Boots

Your Winters might be warm enough to wear long shorts with tall boots, especially if you add sheer warm hosiery for insulation. Not too different to wearing skirts and dresses with tall boots. Here, ‘90s long black pleated shorts are worn with tall black boots. A roomy mid-grey chunky pullover is semi-tucked to showcase some waistline. A black belt matches the boots, adding polish to the outfit. A boxy olive peacoat tops the lot. A black, grey or olive bag is a good addition.

Long Shorts and Tall Boots

3. Big Sweater over Big Skirt

These boxy and wide proportions are harder to wear when you prefer to define the waist, or sport more structure. It’s the most architectural combination of the lot, and an acquired taste. A black A-line midi skirt is paired with a big and boxy cream pullover. Its asymmetrical slit front hem makes it appear shorter than it is, which helps offset the volume of the skirt and sweater. Wide, heavy and chunky black cowboy boots do not tailor proportions, but they do visually lengthen the leg line by matching the black skirt. The black bag is a complementary addition.

Big Sweater over Big Skirt

4. Oversized Suit

This suit takes me back to the late ‘80s and early ‘90s, although it’s missing the gigantic shoulder pads that added structure to oversized jackets. An oversized blazer and puddle-length wide trousers in a large tonal grey polka dot are worn with black accents. The sleeves of the roomy blazer are scrunched to offset their volume by showcasing forearm skin. Pointy-toe boots add a dressy and tailored element to the look. The tucked tailored turtleneck tempers the volume of the blazer, and adds structure by showcasing the waist. I see a white bag finish off the look. Add jewellery, watch and eyewear as desired.

Oversized Suit

The Pros and Cons Of Oversized Fits

There are four fabulous fits in fashion. A body-con fit is form-fitting. A tailored fit gently follows the contour of the body. A fluid fit is moderately roomy all over. An oversized fit is baggy and voluminous. Body-con and oversized fits tend to be less popular than tailored and fluid fits, because they are extreme. 

Oversized fits are on-trend fashion, so we’re seeing more of the silhouette at retail. Let’s explore the good, and the not so good aspects of this fit.

Pros

  • On-trend and fashion-forward
  • Can create an architectural outfit integrity
  • Comfortable
  • Allows freedom of movement
  • Casual, cosy, and relaxing
  • Can create outfit proportions that make you feel attractive and confident
  • Hides the contour of the body
  • Can make you feel narrower in the body

Cons

  • Overwhelming, and looks like your wearing ill-fitting clothes
  • Can make you feel sloppy and unpolished
  • Excess fabric can get in the way of the tasks at hand
  • Clothing can annoyingly slide around the body and not stay put
  • Hard to layer toppers over oversized tops
  • Hides the contour of the body
  • Can make you feel wider in the body

These lists are by no means exhaustive. Feel free to add to them.

I wear oversized fits, but with caution. I am extremely fussy about which items I will wear oversized and which I won’t. I’ll happily wear oversized cotton and linen button-down shirts in the Summer because they keep me cool, covered, and breezy. I semi-tuck the fronts and scrunch the sleeved to create some structure. I don’t need to worry about layering over them with a topper because it’s hot. I wear a few oversized pullovers and sweatshirts. They have very neat and tidy high necklines, high-low hemlines, or are at a cropped length – all of which tempers their volume. They fit under some of my very fluid coats and puffers.

I wear very wide trousers, jeans, dresses, and skirts that are fitted on the waist, which adds a more tailored integrity. I also have a big cocoon coat. These items are probably thought of as very fluid, rather than oversized.

I don’t wear oversized jackets and coats because they are wrong for my narrow shoulders. Instead of fashionable and fab, I look like I’m wearing ill-fitting clothes. This does not make me feel polished, and pulled together. That said, I wore oversized everything in the ‘80s and loved it. The big difference back then was shoulder pads, which on narrow-shouldered me made all the difference. I looked like I filled out an oversized top and topper with a strong shoulder line. With the absence of huge shoulder pads this time round, oversized toppers (and most tops) do not work.

Oversized fits are tricky to feel fab in. When the item, outfit proportions, and fit are dead right – you can feel your best in an oversized fit. I’ve found that clients with broad shoulders tend to wear oversized tops and toppers with ease, for example.

Over to you. Do you wear oversized fits?

Wear Jeans at Any Age

Jeans are versatile, affordable, robust, and practical. Easy to wear, style, launder, and can be style essentials. Dress them up or down. By changing the flavour of an outfit, you can wear jeans in a range of settings and look appropriate and fabulous. 

Jeans Have No Age Limit

Jeans can be altered at the waist, and shortened in length. Petites might prefer a petite fit. Tall people might enjoy extra long inseams. Soft jeans with stretch can be more comfortable and forgiving. Rigid jeans without stretch are more retro.

A fabulous pair of jeans can increase the style quotient of a top, refresh your look, and change the landscape of your wardrobe. Try black, white, or dark blue denim if stonewashed blue jeans are too casual. Or try a denim skirt instead.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Necklace or Team Bracelet

You are on Team Necklace if you prefer wearing necklaces to bracelets, and vice versa. Any necklace or bracelet counts. Real, costume, chunky, refined, dainty, avant-garde, classic, arty, metal, quirky, serious, plastic, resin, beaded, or gem-stoned. Take your pick. 

I wear a pearl necklace, and a gold initial “A” necklace every day. I wear pearl bracelets with my watch and pearl ring every day. They are the same fine jewellery pieces, and constants in my style. They feel unobtrusive and completely integrated into my look. So much so, that I can’t feel that I’m wearing the jewellery pieces. So I’m benched and can’t pick a side.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Necklace or Team Bracelet? Tell us why and no batting for both teams. If you can’t pick a side, or wear neither, come join me on the bench. I’m serving Indonesian spicy salmon, brown rice and quinoa, blistered broccoli, pickled cucumber, and gluten-free white chocolate cookies for desert.

Style Goals for 2024

I’m happy with my style and my wardrobe is in stellar shape. It serves my needs, makes me smile, and sparks joy each time I put on an outfit. My wardrobe needs little intervention and addition at this point, so the plan is to generally leave it alone, and enjoy the heck out of my stuff. 

I’m down to one shopping mistake, and that’s with shoes. With my hard-to-please feet and walking lifestyle, delayed wardrobe disasters are inevitable. No matter how hard I try to make sure that a new pair of shoes will go the distance, they can sometimes malfunction after I’ve committed to them. It is what it is.

My biggest style surprise in 2023 was how much I’m enjoying my natural hair colour. I haven’t had it chemically treated for two years, and am not looking back. I’ve found my darker honey hair more versatile, since I can wear tans, toffees and whiskeys well too.

Thankfully, many of my style and wardrobe decisions, strategies, and processes have become intuitive and are on autopilot. They are internalized habits, and I don’t need to list them as style goals. I trust my instincts, and when I’m unsure, ask hubs Greg what he thinks of a look, style or colour.

To recap, my style descriptor is Urban Polish. I live in the city, walk almost everywhere in all sorts of weather with doggies in tow, wear smart casual and dressy clothes daily, and extremely comfortable shoes that go the distance. I am very neat, tidy, and organized by nature, so it’s important that my outward appearance exudes a high dose of polish.

I will continue to wear outfits that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Playful and Dressy.

Modern, because I enjoy injecting a few hot-off-the-press trends into my seasonal look. That’s part of why fashion is fun, keeps things fresh, and it works well with my line of work.

Crisp, because I love wearing shades of white and clear brights, and have a strong need to create a fresh, professional and tidy appearance.

Retro, because of my fondness for fashion from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, but remixing retro sensibilities with a good dose of current.

Playful, because it’s become important to me to wear outfits that are or have soft, amusing, sentimental, nostalgic and fun elements. This also reminds me to not take fashion and style too seriously, and to do my own thing.

Dressy, because super casual does not make me happy.

My style goals are short and sweet:

General Goals

  • To carry on doing what I’m doing.
  • To grow my hair to shoulder length.

Specific Goals

None of these are urgent. If they happen, that’s fab. If they don’t, that’s fine too.

  • Add wardrobe items in bright sour green, because the colour is finally available at retail and is one of my favourites.
  • Replace two pairs of white jeans.
  • Embellish my high Summer capsule, because Seattle Summers are hotter than they used to be. Notably, sleeved cotton midi dresses, and patterned cotton co-ords.

Please share your style goals in the comments section. I’m sure they will be interesting and inspirational to others, and I look forward to hearing them.