Visibility of Member Photos in the Forum

Today we’re making another change that was inspired by responses to the YLF survey. For several years now it has been possible for forum members to post photos of their outfits and ask for feedback from other members. This turned out to be an extremely popular feature and these days it is common to see more posts on the front page of the forum with photos than without. 

About a year ago we decided that we would make things a little more private by only allowing photos to be viewed by active members. This setting was on by default, but we also gave members the option of making their photos visible to everyone. So the options were “Everyone” or “Active Members Only”.

What is an Active Member?
Not everyone reading the blog is familiar with the forum, so I should clarify what “active member” means. Currently there are three member levels on YLF: “Member”, “Active Member” and “Veteran”. When you sign up you immediately become a member. After 3 days and 3 posts (or replies) you become an active member. The active member level has nothing to do with exclusivity or pressuring people to post. It is very much about managing forum spam. We didn’t want forum spammers (or other bad actors) to be able to (A) post pictures or (B) send private messages. So these features are limited to active members. You can read more about member levels here.

When we restricted the visibility of photos, it seemed natural to use the same “active member” threshold that we used for the ability to post photos. But in light of the feedback it is clear to us now that this was a mistake. There are many people who, for a variety of reasons, do not want to post, but who do derive a lot of value from reading discussions in the forum. The entire point of the forum, and indeed our motivation for creating it, was that it would serve as a resource not only for the person asking a question, but also for other people who had the same question. We don’t want people to feel pressured to participate.

So we are making the setting more granular so that it includes what we think is the most logical threshold for photo visibility. Members can now choose one of three levels:

  1. Everyone can see their photos, even people who aren’t logged in
  2. All logged in members can see their photos
  3. Only active members and above can see their photos

The default value for this setting is the middle one: to see the photos of a member who chooses this option you need to be a logged in, signed up member. We think this is a level that most people will be comfortable with, and we hope that most members will want to share what they learn with other people who sign up with YLF.

A final note: Even the most restrictive level above is not that restrictive. If someone is dead set on seeing your photos, all they have to do is sign up, write three replies on the forum and wait three days. We called this “a little more privacy”, which is exactly what it is, but it is not complete privacy. To get closer to complete privacy you should obscure your identity in your photos, or use the “hide” feature to make your photos invisible to everyone except you once you have the feedback you need.

Four Ways To Stretch Your Own Footwear

Sometimes shoes need to be stretched in order to be more comfortable. They might need more room all over, or just in the toe box. Shoe stretching methods are most effective on soft leather footwear. Patent leather does eventually stretch but you’ll need to repeat the process a few times over for the best results. Here are four ways to do it yourself. 

1. A Footwear Stretching Kit

shoe stretching kit will allow you to stretch shoes the way professional cobblers do it. First you soften the leather with a special spray and then you place shoe horns in the shoes to stretch them. The longer you leave the shoe horn in place, the more you will stretch the shoe. 

Of course, you could also just send your shoes to the cobbler and have this done professionally. But be cautious when doing so. I once had a pair of shoes that came back from the cobbler over stretched because the shoe horns were left in too long.

2. Walk in Your Shoes with Wet Feet

I’ve found this method to be the most effective, especially when you’re in between sizes. It stretches the shoe all over, and not just the toe box. The trick is to wet your feet, put on the shoes, and walk around in them for an hour or two. It’s a little squelchy but you get used to it. Your feet and shoes dry quite quickly. Walk around at home, or take them out for a spin. Repeat the process a few times until the leather has stretched comfortably around your feet. 

3. Use Potatoes to Widen the Toe Box

This method works well for a more subtle toe box stretch, leaving the rest of the shoe the same shape. Place a large potato in the opening of the shoe for a day or two, or even longer, to stretch the leather. Make sure they are pushed in hard and tight. The leather on the toe box should have stretched to a more comfortable fit. 

4. Stretch Shoes with Ice

I learned about this method from one of our forum members, who used it successfully to stretch her footwear. It is based on the principle that ice is less dense than water and therefore occupies more volume. You can follow this video for detailed instructions, but in short:

  1. Fill two plastic ziplock bags with water.
  2. Place the bags of water in each of the shoes and freeze them.
  3. After a day or two allow the ice to thaw and remove the bags.

The leather should have expanded with the ice. Repeat the process a few times over for extra expansion.

I think this method will work best with heels, where the slope of the footbed pushes the water into the toe box, where most stretching is required. But it’s definitely worth a try and I look forward to using it the next time I need to stretch a pair of shoes.

A New Combination of Old Items

In the last outfit I posted — Boho Lite in Arizona — all the items are new. This is rare, because I usually mix newer items with older ones (I love the way a few new items can refresh your whole wardrobe for the season). It’s even more unusual for me to find a completely new outfit combination made up of golden oldies that have been in my wardrobe for years. I’m constantly experimenting with my wardrobe, mixing and remixing, so it’s very unlikely that a good combination will go undiscovered for long. But that’s exactly what happened here. 

For two seasons I’ve been looking for a two-piece dress, but it only recently occurred to me that I could combine my Band of Outsiders multi-coloured twinset with my J.Crew skirt to create the same effect. It’s a fab coincidence that the shades of orangey tomato red are a perfect match. The two-piece dress effect would have been lost if the tomato reds were merely a tonal complement.

Twinset Dress - Jumper Only

Twinset Dress - Jumper Only

The colour blocking in the twinset uses intarsia knitting. It’s an expensive technique that’s typically only found in higher-end pieces. Early in my career as a fashion buyer I worked for a retailer that was on the budget end of the spectrum and I could never afford to use intarsia knitting in my range. This changed when I moved to a more upmarket department store and I remember being very excited about finally having the budget to do so.

Twinset Dress - Jumper Close

No Parking

The silhouette of the twinset is a good combination with most styles of skirt because it’s short and fitted. It can therefore be worn untucked without compromising the traditionally flattering proportions of the outfit. Although the cardigan is a fun visual match, I like the outfit best without it. Keeping it simple with a skirt, fitted shell top, heels and clutch looks best of all.

Twinset Dress - Full

Twinset Dress - Side

Twinset Dress - Close

We live in Seattle, so at this time of year I need some sort of topper when it’s cooler in the morning and evening. The cardi is handy, but a denim jacket is even better. My old Paige Premium mixed media denim jacket is a wardrobe workhorse and my favourite casual jacket of all time. It does a good job of relaxing the fitted pencil skirt vibe, and the blue is complementary to the orange.

Light

I chose my all time favourite pumps, the cow print Okala ankle straps, to finish off the outfit because the pattern mimics the colour blocking in the twinset. I threw in the tomato red clutch for an extra dose of matchy-matchy. My apple green specs are the final colourful cherry on top. The high contrasting and clashing colours here are hectic and not everyone’s cup of tea. And while I don’t wear this type of colour statement daily, it makes me very happy when I do.

Twinset Dress - Jacket

Twinset Dress - Jacket

The classic combination of a knee-length pencil skirt with a tucked or fitted top and heels has a certain timeless quality. It strips things down to the bare essentials, creating a traditionally flattering, polished, and ladylike appearance that is always in style. It feels good to detox from trendier pieces from time to time.

Twinset Dress

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May Recap: Bottoms & Footwear

In May we focused a lot on the lower half of an outfit, with several articles on bottoms, footwear and their combination. One must read from May is the results of our recent YLF survey. We got extremely useful feedback and some of it helped Greg to fine tune the design of our front page. Also: new ensembles, my outfits and Inge’s continuing coverage of outstanding outfit bloggers.

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Fashion News Roundup: Week 22, 2015

A documentary about the cost of fast fashion, a new outlet store concept from Kohl’s, the winners of the LVMH Prize for young designers, and other fashion news that made the rounds this week.

Fun Fashion Fact

Did you know that fuller style panties are popular with millennials and Generation Y consumers. According to research company NPD Group “Sales of thongs decreased 7 percent over the last year, while sales of fuller styles — briefs, boy shorts and high-waist briefs — have grown a collective 17 percent.” Erica Russo, the fashion director for accessories, cosmetics and intimate apparel at Bloomingdale’s, adds “that indeed there has been a ‘shift in the business’. The trend is in line with the higher-waist and roomier pants styles that have dominated fashion this season. Perhaps motivated by the same kind of contrarianism that helped elevate Birkenstocks and fanny packs, young women are embracing ‘granny panties’ — and not just for laundry day.”