Three Ways to Combine Your Hat, Scarf and Gloves

As temperatures plummet, we’re adding Winter accessories like hats, scarves and gloves to our outfits. Our icy and snowy anniversary trip to Whidbey Island reminded me how effective these accessories are at keeping out the cold. They make all the difference. 

Of course, insulating against the cold is the priority, and after a certain point you’re concerned more with keeping warm than matching your Winter accessories. But a little thought can go a long way when pulling together your Winter look. That way you’ll feel fab when you’re all bundled up. 

1. Match the Hat, Scarf and Gloves

The simplest way to coordinate is to match the colour (pattern or solid) of all three Winter accessories. In some instances you can also match the fabrication if they’re woolly knits. The Matchy-Matchy trend is alive and well, and totally in style. Why not! 

2. Match Two of the Items 

This strategy is popular with my clients. Match two of the three Winter accessories. Matching the colour (solid or pattern) of your hat and scarf is probably the easiest option. This is a slightly trickier option than the first one, because you need to do the third item in a colour that is complementary to the first two and to the colours in the rest of your outfit. 

3. Create a Complementary Combination 

Wear a hat, scarf and pair of gloves that aren’t an exact colour match, but complement each other and work well with the other components of your outfit — your coat and footwear in particular. Given all the variables, this is definitely the hardest way to combine Winter accessories and feel pulled together, but it can lead to a very interesting look. 

These days, I like to match the colour of my hats and gloves and throw on a non-matching scarf that works with the outfit. I wear a hat that is low contrast to my hair, which means off-white or cream. My gloves are off-white and black so they match in a less “matchy-matchy” way. And then I choose between three Winter scarves. A tan Burberry check, a chunky tomato red woolly number, or a chartreuse pattern. The exact items are represented in the collection. None of the items are an exact match, but they work well together.

Over to you. How do you combine your Winter hat, scarf and gloves?

Weekly Roundup: Pajamas & Loungewear

I’ve been helping clients replenish their pajama and loungewear capsules recently, and these were the winning items. These items are intended for at home use. Most of them come in an assortment of patterns and colours. 

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

Pullovers versus Cardigans

’Tis the season for knitwear as temperatures plummet, which means choosing between pullovers and cardigans. Pullovers are closed in front. Cardigans are open in front and function like a knitted jacket. Both are available in countless silhouettes, lengths, levels of dressiness, fabrications, colours and patterns. 

Both options can be extremely cosy and comfortable, can work with a casual lifestyle, and can look equally dramatic. But they each have their advantages.

Advantages of Pullovers

  • No need to think about what to layer under a pullover, making it an easy “pull-on-and go”.
  • They layer more easily under jackets and coats.
  • They are a more insulating option because of the closed front. 
  • They broaden a narrower shoulder line.
  • They create an effective backdrop for statement necklaces. 
  • They create a simple visual effect. 

Advantages of Cardigans

  • They are easy to layer and carry, which makes adjusting to your changing inner thermostat highly effective. You have to commit to wearing a pullover if you only have undies underneath.
  • You can take off a cardigan without messing up your hair. 
  • They streamline a large bust and broad shoulder line.
  • The vertical integrity of the opening down the centre front of the body has a slimming effect. 
  • They create the interesting visual effect of multiple layers. 

There is room for pullovers and cardigans in your style. But like me, you might have a strong personal preference. I own exactly ONE cardigan, which is like cheating because it’s part of a twin set. I only wear it over the matching pullover. I much prefer wearing pullovers because I find them warmer, better suited to my narrow shoulder line, and easier to layer under coats. I also enjoy their simple statement with a pile of pearls. 

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Pullover, Team Cardigan, or for both teams?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Ensemble: Cinderella Goes to the Ball

This is the last ensemble post of 2016, and we’re going to a ball (an imaginary ball is good too). Enough with practical, easy, casual and comfortable dressing. Let’s toss simple, minimal looks out the window too. It’s time to glam things up with a very dressy frock, glitz, jewellery, and gorgeous make-up. It’s also a time to have a discussion with your feet. Tell them you’ll need to wear uncomfortable heels for the event, but that you’ll have comfy peds on standby, just in case. 

The most important thing about this look is to pull out all the stops. This is your Cinderella moment, so don’t hold back. Except, in this version of the fairytale your coach does not turn into a pumpkin at midnight. 

Here are the components of the outfit. 

Dress: You HAVE TO WEAR A DRESS. Tuxedo separates or funky jumpsuits will not do. Choose the ballgown of your dreams and remember to have it altered to fit. By the way, your fairy godmother is paying for the outfit, so don’t be shy. You might need to pop fashion tape in a few strategic places to keep the frock from shifting. No need to choose a long gown if that’s not your thing. By all means go knee or tea-length (less formal, but just as elegant). Choose any colour. 

Footwear: Choose dressy heeled pumps, Mary Janes or sandals that go with the style of the dress. Metallics are flop proof and add a fabulous dimension to the outfit. Dark footwear can work, especially if it’s bejewelled. Don’t choose dressy footwear that you would wear to the office. Amp it up! Pop your shoes on before the dress because sometimes that’s a whole lot easier, and won’t crease the dress. 

Bring along a pair of glitzy sneakers or flats to change into later in case your feet need a break from those heels. It’s easier to add flats and sneakers to a shorter dress, so if you decide to wear a gown, remember that you’ll be committed to that heel height. 

Topper: Short feathery or faux fur jackets and stoles look good with fit-and-flare dresses. Longer brocade or lace coats look fab with straighter dresses. Wool or velvet capes can work with just about any dress. And sparkly wraps are an easy solution for a sleeveless dress. 

Accessories: Choose bold jewellery that makes a statement. It might be earrings and a cuff bracelet, or simply earrings. A festive mask or fascinator is another way to go. A pile of pearls for around the neck would be my choice here, and perhaps a gigantic cocktail ring too (and I’m leaving on my green specs so that I can see). Finish off the look with a small dazzling clutch or wristlet, hair that is done at the salon, hosiery if you need the insulation, sultry make-up, nail polish, and perhaps a splash of your favourite scent. 

The only thing left to do is have a ball at the ball!

Cinderella at the Ball

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Twenty Years and a New Pearl Ring

Twenty years ago today, I married the love of my life in the oldest stone church in Cape Town. I designed my own dress, had it custom-made, and to this day I wouldn’t have changed a thing about it. All in all we’ve been together almost thirty years, most of my life, and I’m looking forward to thirty more. Our affection, respect, devotion, loyalty and gratitude for one another goes more deep than I can express in words.

Wedding

The engagement ring Greg chose is a gold band with three small centered diamonds, and I love it. I’m not into wearing two rings on one finger, so I had a gold wedding band fused onto either side of the ring to create one broad band. Over the years I’ve collected three more wedding rings. With Greg’s blessing I changed up my wedding ring style. I sported a very simple platinum band in the late ‘90s. My Mum’s gold wedding ring after she passed way. And a white gold 1938 vintage estate ring for many years after that. Interestingly, of all my wedding rings, I have worn the first broad gold ring the most by far. I bat for Team Gold. 

I’ve been after the right pearl wedding ring for a while, and just when I stopped looking, there it was. A gold band with two small asymmetrical pearls that were floating in air. Simple, delicate and different. Just what I had in mind, and absolutely perfect. It became my 5th wedding ring and my 20th anniversary gift.

New Ring

My new pearl wedding ring is incredibly lightweight and comfortable. I can barely feel it on my finger, and it stays put. It matches my dainty new gold watch and pearl bracelet too. I’m wearing my pretty new ring for the first time today and I can’t stop looking at it. I LOVE IT.

And last but not least, the incredibly thoughtful YLF community gave us a very special gift earlier this year to commemorate ten years of YLF. Part of the gift was a getaway at the Inn at Langley on Whidbey Island, which is an hour and half away from our home. That’s where hubby Greg, our Yorkie Sam, and I are heading today to celebrate our wedding anniversary. How smashing is that? I’ll be wearing my holiday outfit for our fancy ten-course meal tomorrow night, along with my new pearl wedding ring. We’ve been looking forward to this for months, and can’t thank you enough for your generosity.

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