Link Love: Embracing Ourselves the Way We Are

Embrace, a documentary by body image activist Taryn Brumfitt, explores the global issue of body loathing and the alarming rates of body image issues that are seen in people of all body types.

The Cut’s Wrinkles in Time series is “investigating the effects of gravity on the female form.” What Stella Bugbee writes in her article “Can Age-Shaming Be the Next Fat-Shaming?” really resonates with me:

“Seeing images of older women treated as normal and beautiful has a profound effect on me. Much like scrolling through the feeds of curve models, it recalibrates my sense of the ordinary and expands my visual vocabulary of ways to look.

Lately I’ve been thinking more about how to avoid the things I’m actually scared of about getting old: becoming set in my ways, stuck in my thinking or narrow in my influences. I want to keep my mind-set open, my life full of voices that are vibrant and diverse. That takes a lot of work too, but I’m confident it will have a greater return on investment than all the creams in the world. That was always the case, it just took me getting older to recognize it.”

Fab Links from Our Members

In the same Wrinkles in Time series, Annagybe thought this article was an interesting take on older women in the fashion industry.

Karie loved this article about Isabella Springmuhl, a 19-year-old fashion designer with Down’s Syndrome. “Her designs are very colorful and beautiful”, Karie adds.

L’Abeille enjoyed browsing through these photos of Queen Elizabeth II’s earliest moments in the spotlight, and finds the corgis irresistible.

L’Abeille also wanted to share this roundup of traditional wedding dresses from around the world. She especially loved the Eritrean wedding with the velvet crowns and purple and gold robes.

Layering Chunky Socks Under Boots

ExampleI’ve seen lots of people across a range of body types layer long, chunky socks under their casual knee-high and mid-calf boots lately. The tops of the socks are visible, peeking out from the tops of the boots, and are part of the outfit. Cosy, maximal, interesting, and texture-rich.

Layering long socks under taller boots has the advantage of filling in the gap around the calf when boots don’t fit snugly against the leg. It also provides extra insulation. Since we’re having a cold Winter in Seattle, it’s been a popular look. 

Keeping the socks a solid low-contrast colour to the jeans/pants and/or boots is an easy way to go because it’s creating vertical integrity despite the layers. Subtle, yet effective. In the example above the socks are low contrast to the jeans and medium contrast to the boots. The socks would have created a more horizontally cutting line in a high-contrast solid bright red, French blue or hectic pattern. Of course, that in itself would be a fun Maximal outfit statement, especially if the high-contrast socks pick up a colour in the rest of the outfit. You simply have to be at peace with how the horizontally cutting lines affect outfit proportions. 

Chunky socks are not dressy no matter how you slice and dice it, so it’s a casual look full stop. The look becomes even more casual when the socks are scrunched. I’ve also seen the visible chunky socks and boots pairing work well with casual skirts and dresses. 

The closest I’ve come to wearing this combination was back in the ‘80s when I scrunched red leg warmers over skinny blue jeans and into red suede ankle boots. I loved the look back then, but haven’t worn it again. How about you?

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A More Feminine V-Neck

I was surprised to hear how V-necks can also be thought of as overly tomboy or mannish when I wrote about them last week. I dress women for a living, and had yet to hear that perspective. Most of my clients adore V-necks. 

Although I generally think of the V-neck as an alluring option because it showcases skin close to the bustline — I do see the point. V-necks like the ones shown in the first collection below might look a little close to men’s styles for some tastes. The solid V-neck pullover looks especially masculine when layered over a button-down shirt in colours like grey, navy and black. 

If a masculine V-neck is not the vibe you’re going for, there are ways to make the item appear softer, more romantic and more feminine. Consider these styling strategies:

  • Sporting long, girly hair
  • Adding bling to the neck and ears 
  • Adding a playful scarf
  • Wearing statement make-up and fingernail polish
  • Combining the V-neck with skirts and heels
  • And if you’re very curvy with a larger bust and defined waist, the female form will outshine the masculine vibe of any boyish looking V-neck when it’s fitted in the right places.  

If you’re still not feeling the V-neck because it reminds you too much of menswear, simply choose a silhouette and colour that is less typical in men’s fashion. The items in the next collection are good examples of the more feminine V-neck. Soft fabrics, drapey styles, flounces, ruffles, lace, cold shoulders, tailored fits, pastels, and dresses will do the trick.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Punchy Black and White

A new outfit from Carelia Morán of My Small Wardrobe, whom we introduced to YLF in July 2013.

Carelia built this graphic black and white Winter look around a pair of boyfriend jeans and a boyfriend blazer. Combining the solid-coloured pieces with an elegant silk leopard print shirt provides a powerful punch. Tucking the shirt into the crisp white jeans lengthens the leg line. The rolled cuffs showcase the vintage pointy-toe booties with hidden wedge heel to perfection. The subtle contrast between the optical white and bone creates outfit depth. A stack of black and white bangles with retro vibe echo the outfit’s colour palette. Carelia finishes off the look with a fun pompon hat, statement sunnies, black zip-around pouch with decorative tassel, raspberry lipstick, and a radiant smile.

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Ensemble: Valentine’s Day

This ensemble was inspired by the idea that you can wear something a little more festive on this global day of love and romance. I’ve kept the palette traditional, combining neutrals with shades of red, white and pink, but feel free to remix colours your way. 

Here are three outfit ideas to get you started. 

Stripes & Sneaks

Combine a pair of black jeans, trousers or leggings with a black or navy striped top. Top it off with a red cardigan, sweater coat or jacket (any shade of red will work.) Finish off the look with glitzy sneakers, bling, and a whimsical bag. Wear black shoes, red boots or white sneaks if you don’t have glitzy sneaks. 

Ruffles & Florals

Combine a ruffled blouse or tee with a floral blazer, and blue jeans. I’ve chosen pink ruffles and cherry roses, but go ahead and choose another palette if that’s more your cup of tea. Finish off the look with booties, oxfords, pumps or sneakers. A blush bag is a nice nod to Spring. 

Romantic Hard Edge 

Combine a black top with a red skirt, and top things off with a black moto jacket. Black boots, oxfords, loafers or pumps are great with sheer black hosiery. A blush bag adds a soft touch to the outfit. Add jewellery, eyewear and watch as desired. 

You can wear these outfits on any day as long as the weather is right and the outfit tickles your fancy. We at YLF wish you a happy Valentine’s Day.

Ensemble: Valentine's Day

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