Six Reasons That Scarves Are Fab In Spring

A warm weather scarf is different to a cold weather scarf. It’s lightweight, and usually quite sheer and gauzy. It’s made of cotton, silk, linen, rayon, viscose, polyester, acrylic, or blends of these fabrics. Spring and Summer scarves come in a variety of shapes, from the usual large oblong shape, to square, long and skinny, and neckerchief shapes. 

Scarves have a high longevity factor, and everyone can wear them. You simply have to choose the sizes and colours that work with your style, and know how to tie and style them. Scarves can become part of your signature style, or you can move between scarf wearing phases. 

There are six reasons I think Spring and Summer scarves are fabulous. Some reasons more practical, and some more about aesthetics. 

1. Insulation on a Chilly Day

Spring weather can be cold and wet. A large oblong Spring scarf that’s wrapped around the neck a couple of times insulates the neck and chest very effectively. In the Netherlands, men and women wear Spring scarves daily to break the wind as they commute on foot or bike. I am never without a couple of scarves when I visit my Dad in the Netherlands. 

When it’s a mild Spring or Summer day, a large warm weather scarf is all the insulation you need over a blouse or tee to feel just right. The scarf takes the place of a topper, and can also be great insulation in air conditioning. 

2. Protection on a Sunny Day

In the hottest parts of the world, people cover their bodies in breezy fabrics to stay cool and prevent sun exposure. A scarf that is draped around the neck and shoulders protects you from the sun, especially when you’re wearing something sleeveless and low cut. Cotton and silk scarves can also be cooling and soothing against the skin. 

3. Adding Interest to an Outfit

A scarf can be an effective statement piece, colour vehicle, or a way to add pattern to your outfit. Scarves might be the only way you add non-neutrals, patterns, or boldness to your style. Scarves that are styled tonally in an outfit can provide fabulous texture and depth to a look. 

4. Pulling an Outfit Together  

A Spring and Summer scarf can be one component of an accessory complement that combines non-neutral footwear, scarf and bag. For example, if you are wearing a pair of non-neutral shoes, adding a scarf that picks up the colour of the shoes can be a flop-proof way to pull the outfit together. 

5. Creating a Maximal Effect 

Adding a scarf to an outfit is an easy way to add drama to your look, especially when you wear bold scarves, or pattern mix a patterned scarf with other patterns in an outfit. You can also wear bold scarves with bold necklaces, and layer scarves over jackets like wraps. 

6. Modern Classic or Modern Retro Appeal

Scarves have a timeless quality about them. Iconic scarf looks of the ’50s, ‘60s, ‘70s, ‘80s and ‘90s look as stylish today as they did back then. Scarves transcend the trends, making them a magical accessory.

I used to love wearing Spring and Summer scarves, but went off wearing them when my look was much simpler. I slowly added them back into my style last year, and have been wearing them A LOT this Spring. I plan to wear gauzy, crisp scarves through the rest of Spring and Summer because I’ve fallen back in love with the accessory for all the reasons above. 

I’m very specific about the types of Spring and Summer scarves I like to wear, and how I like to wear them, which I’ll cover in another post. In the meantime, here are some Spring and Summer scarf outfits that I thought were fab. Perhaps they will inspire you to shop your closet for similar looks, or to start looking for a scarf or two to complement your wardrobe.

BALENCIAGA Souvenir De Paris Printed Modal and Silk-blend ScarfGUCCI Flora Snake Printed Silk-twill Scarf

BALENCIAGA Printed Silk-jacquard ScarfMISSONI Striped Crochet-knit Scarf

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Mum & Dad on Mother’s Day

My Mum passed away 17 years ago in May, a few days after Mother’s Day. She was diagnosed with fourth stage liver cancer that had spread to her lungs. She was gone exactly twelve weeks later. Her passing was extremely unexpected, and brutal for her and those who loved her. The last two weeks of Mama’s life were the worst of my own life. I was 29 years old, and felt that part of me died too. It has taken me this long (I’m 46 now) to be able to share this on YLF with a calm heart and no tears. Time does not heal your wounds, but things do get better, and I am grateful for that. 

I dedicate a post to my late Mum every year because we were very close, and because she is the reason I became interested in fashion and style in the first place. She fully supported my career change from Psychology to Fashion at the age of 21, when my dear Dad needed a lot more convincing. I remember overhearing their conversation, with Papa saying something like, “And now Angélique wants to do this fashion thing? I don’t know what to think of that.” And Mama, replying with something like, “Angélique is going to be be okay. Let her do this. I have a feeling that this is the right thing for her.” Mama was dead right. The best decision I ever made was marrying my soulmate Greg, but the second best decision I ever made was changing my career path. I’ve been in the fashion industry for 25 years and that’s exactly where I was supposed to be. Mama believing in me right from the start made all the difference. Back then, I didn’t understand or appreciate how pivotal that time was in my life. Or how important a role Mum played in making the right thing happen.

That brings me to how I would describe my Mum. Apart from stylish, charming, caring, dog-loving and a devoted mother, Mum was fiery, volatile, street smart, loyal, protective and fearless. She complemented my academic, gentle, level-headed, calm and smiley Papa in the best way. When she died, my brother and I lost a Mother, but my Papa lost his soulmate, and he has never gotten over it. 

This brings me to why I chose to repost my favourite photo of my Mum and Dad for Mother’s Day. Here, they were attending a dinner at the Dutch club in Hong Kong in 1965, a few years after they got married. Over the years, the memories of my dear Mum are fading. I think and speak of her much less — and miss her less — although she is always in my heart. My Dad, on the other hand, is consistently in my thoughts. At 84, he lives alone in the Netherlands, and needs the love, company and support of my brother and me more than ever. Although I’ve been speaking to my Dad daily since my Mum passed away, it’s not enough. Because he no longer flies to Seattle, I now visit him regularly, and help out as much as I can. I can’t help but think that Mum is gratefully looking down from her big fluffy cloud in the sky as my brother and I — with the help of our spouses — have rearranged our lives so that we can attend to my Dad in person, and not just from afar. This has made me reconnect with my late Mum and done my darling Dad the world of good. 

We treasure and celebrate the mothers who are with us, and fondly remember those who are absent, but who made a very positive difference. We at YLF wish you a happy Mother’s Day.

Mum and Dad

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Link Love: Natural Beauty Products in 2017

As more people are using natural and organic personal care products, the companies selling them “are becoming more aggressive about courting them”, reports The New York Times.

Natural Beauty brand Gaffer & Child aims to make environmentally friendly beauty products with “farm-to-face” ingredients.

These are the five natural beauty products that have improved the most in the past decade, according to EcoSalon.

These 11 products are trending on Pinterest.

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Fab Links from Our Members

The Cat thought this post from Sally might be encouraging “as we are living in an age where people are becoming more and more body-conscious and many refer to their body’s features as ‘flaws’.”

Lisa reports that Ines de la Fressange has a new book out that includes some interesting outfit options such as going to divorce court or looking after grandkids.

Angie points us to Sally’s post in which she fights her own feelings about body-shaming. A quick and interesting read

La Pedestrienne wanted to share this interesting piece on Etsy, its investors, and the changing digital sales landscape.

Scarlet continues to be influenced by this podcast discussing the concept of ‘the average’. It certainly makes one think about standardized sizing and ‘average body type’.

Zoiechic enjoyed listening to this podcast in which Elizabeth Pape, founder of the women’s clothing company Elizabeth Suzann, talks about starting and running her company.

Ledonna N. just came across this video featuring Angie: ” I’ve never heard Angie’s voice so I was curious. It turns out it was nothing like I thought but her energy and vivacious spirit easily translate.”

Aquamarine thinks the acquisition of Kate Spade by Coach should be interesting.

Vanessa’s posts about a new style system she is exploring, Fantastical Beauty, led La Belle Demimondaine down a very fun rabbit hole of style archetypes and shapes that are based on mythological creatures and women.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Laundering Underwear with Care

I purchase pricey and pretty underwear that’s lacy and delicate. The exact items are represented in the collection, and I have multiples of each item. I’ve amassed a reasonable quantity so that I can “share the wear”, which helps them last longer. I’ve also found that taking extra care with the laundering of bras and knickers can extend their longevity a lot. Lacy bras, especially, look pristine for longer. But most importantly, washing bras and knickers with care keeps their fit consistent. No shrinkage, stretching, protruding underwires, or misshapen bra cups. 

I pop my bras and knickers into a mesh bag to protect them in the washer. Darks with darks, and lights with lights. They’re washed with a mild detergent and softener on a short and gentle cycle with cold or warm water. They’re hung out to air dry, and NEVER go into the tumble dryer. The fastest way to adjust the fit of your undies is to tumble dry them. Cotton and cotton rich knickers, in particular, have an annoying habit of shrinking in the dryer. And the colours fade faster too. 

I wear a camisole almost every day, and have three styles that I rotate during the week, with multiples of each style across white, black, navy and charcoal. The exact camisoles are represented in the collection. I pop them into the same mesh bag with the bras and knickers, and launder them in the same way except that I do pop them into the tumble dryer. For some reason, my camisoles wear like iron, and do not shrink or stretch at all. They are also less delicate, which helps. 

It’s more time-consuming to launder this way, but I do feel that it’s worth it. If I’m going to purchase pricey undies that have to last longer than a year, best I look after them. So far, I’m reaping the reward since my underwear tends to look good for several seasons. 

Over to you: How does your underwear wash and care regime differ from mine?

Weekly Roundup: Casual Dresses

Dresses are difficult items to add to our wardrobes for all sorts of reasons, especially when you’re after a casual frock to wear in hot weather that isn’t too clingy, short and skimpy. But if you’re patient, you’ll build a good dress collection over time. 

Some of the dresses below have been winners on clients. Others have received good reviews, or simply caught my eye. Some options are available in petite and plus sizes, or different colour options. 

Visit the collection page to see the items alongside my descriptions.

Boden
Clemmie Shirt Dress
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J.Crew
Lace-up shirtdress
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5
Boden
Nathalie Dress
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4
Boden
Evelyn Dress
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3
Boden
Phoebe Jersey Dress
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5
Kit & Ace
Wave Dress
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4
Boden
Talia Dress
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2
Boden
Romilly Dress
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4
Gap
Softspun knit tie dress
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6