In 2012 a study of two thousand men and women revealed our favourite colours. Blue was an across-the-board favourite for both men and women. For women, purple followed closely as the next favourite. Green was third, followed by red, pink and yellow. Orange came stone last.

This brings me to the final poll of the year. We’re skipping predictable blue, and making a choice between purple and orange. Any shade of purple and orange counts. From the lightest of lilac and peach to the richest coral, orchid, lavender and Dutch orange, right through to earthy burnt orange and royal eggplant.

My friends, family and clients validate the statistic. There is generally much more love for all shades of purple than there is for any shade of orange. My dear Dad, Greg and I however much prefer orange to purple. None of us have purple in our wardrobes. My Dad has been wearing orange checked shirts and knitwear for as long as I can remember. Greg doesn’t wear orange, but fancies it in our home decor, likes the way it’s featured across the Netherlands because it’s the national colour, and he loves it on me. I wear all shades of orange. Peach, coral, Dutch orange and burnt orange — I love it all. My favourite shade of red is tomato, which is a very orangey-red. We bat for Team Orange. 

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Purple or Team Orange? Tell us why. Absolutely no batting for both teams, although you can enjoy hot fudge sundaes on the bench if you can’t make a choice.

I travel to the Netherlands four times a year to hang out with my Dad. When I’m there, I throw in a bit of shopping with dear friend Inge, who drives through from Antwerp for the day. We have a ball, catching up on everything and enjoying some Dutch retail therapy. 

On my recent trip in November, I bought some Autumn and Winter wardrobe items. The exact items are represented in the collection below:

• Orange cashmere pullover
• Casual flat navy booties
• Holiday clutch
• Graphic Mod dress
• Graphic Mod scarf

Someone on the forum recently asked how I decided on these particular items, so here’s some of the thinking behind the purchases.

• I don’t have a rigid shopping list, nor do I buy items that I have in abundance. I am careful with my purchases because I want to keep my wardrobe moderately sized and wear the heck out of my clothes.
• I like to get items on my trips that are hard to get back in Seattle.
• I had navy boots on my shopping list because I passed on two uncomfortable pairs this year. Since dark blue is my black, I missed my navy boots (and so did my lonely navy bag that needed its footwear buddy). The navy boots had to be flat, tailored, simple, sleek, smart casual, beautifully made, and very comfortable. I found exactly what I wanted.
• I had a clutch for this year’s holiday outfits on my list because my rose gold party complement needed refreshing. The clutch had to work with a tonal burgundy vibe and fit my large iPhone. I did not want to spend a designer price on the bag. I hadn’t planned on suede, but loved the equestrian saddle bag vibe of the clutch I found in a versatile cherry red.
• I was NOT allowed to buy neutral knitwear because I’m sorted, but a colour was fine because I wear warm knitwear into Spring and never tire of my happy colours. The orange pullover did not fill a wardrobe hole, but was a fun addition to my new Burgundy capsule and the cropped silhouette was different. The orange also looks great with all my blue.
• I was NOT allowed to buy a coat unless it was turquoise.
• I was NOT allowed to buy jeans, blouses or skirts.
• I was open to another fun, short fashion puffer jacket, but didn’t see one.
• I’m always looking for flattering dresses with longer sleeves and sufficient length, across the seasons. When I came across the Mod patterned frock, I was intrigued. I didn’t have anything like it, and I liked the graphic pattern. The fit was fluid and not body-con. Nice sleeves and a good length. It would work with my tall ink blue boots, blazer, gilet, and several of my coats. It also had a matching scarf. The concept was unique, so that was that.
• I was open to fun woolly trousers, but didn’t find a pair.

I have an effective, cohesive wardrobe of items that are in good condition, fit well, fulfill my needs, and make me happy. As a result, I seldom have glaring wardrobe needs. Most of my purchases are about adding that next layer of newness so that I keep my fashion feet moving and don’t get bored with my style.

Many years ago I unexpectedly met the love of my life. We were set up on a blind date by a mutual dear friend, who thought we should meet. He couldn’t have been more right about the potential chemistry between us. Greg and I have been together since the day we met and that was that. The fairytale continues. 

We got married on 15 Dec, 1996. I was 26 and Greg was 28. Today is our 21st wedding anniversary, and we are blessed to be soulmates and besties.

We were married in the oldest church in Cape Town, South Africa, and had our reception at the President Hotel by the Atlantic Ocean in Sea Point. Cape Town is in the southern hemisphere so it was a Summer wedding. It was blissfully warm and sunny during the day, rainy for part of the afternoon — supposedly good luck for the couple to be — and fably crisp at night in the cool sea air. I have travelled and lived all over the world, and nothing comes close to the exquisite natural beauty of Cape Town. The coastline makes my heart skip a beat every time I see it. It was perfect that we were married in the prettiest city in the world.

I designed my own wedding dress, which I had made by a very talented eighty year old seamstress who didn’t even use a pattern! She took my measurements, looked at my sketches, cut up the fabric, and tacked the gown together for a fitting. It fit remarkably well the first time I wore it. Mine was the last wedding dress she made.

My dress was classic, but not traditional. I knew exactly which silhouette I wanted to wear down the aisle. A-line with long sleeves, tailored, minimal lace, a low back and front, rouleau buttons, and with a very a long train. Covered yet alluring, and with a party at the back. The long train looped onto my finger so that I could walk more easily after the church ceremony. I did not want to wear a veil. I had a pearl necklace made in Hong Kong when I was there for work a couple of months before the wedding, and wore my Mum’s long pearl earrings. I finished off the look with gold disco sandals, pearly white nail polish, and did my own make-up. I had my hair done at a salon, but wasn’t happy with the set. I came home, hopped under the shower and styled my own hair – and was happy. When I told Greg the story later that day, he laughed and said… “typical.”

Greg kept what he and our best man Karl were going to wear a secret until I saw them at the bottom of the aisle. Greg has great taste and I trust him implicitly, so I said, “Surprise me. And wear good shoes.” I loved that he and Karl wore matching nehru shirts. Classic, but not traditional. Perfect.

This is our favourite wedding photo. Minutes after we tied the knot, we walked out of the church to greet our guests, who threw rose petals as confetti. The photographer captured the exact moment that I pulled a face and said to Greg, “I think a rose petal went down the front of my dress!”, which Greg thought that was hilarious.

It was only after our wedding that I realized that my Mum’s wedding dress was similar to mine. I must have been channelling it subconsciously, which makes my heart happy. Mum was 22 when she was married to my Dad in 1963, who was 31. I love this photo where Mum’s beaming from ear to ear with her gigantic smile, Dad’s directing the wedding cake cutting, and a friend is observing the process in fabulous specs.

Our wedding was wonderful and I wouldn’t change a thing about it. Our three and half week honeymoon to the United States is one of the best and most memorable times of our lives. We never made it as far north as Seattle at the time, but look where we ended up. We’ve been here for fourteen years and love it.

I’ve dressed many brides, helped friends and family prep for their special day, and been to many weddings – all of which I’ve thoroughly enjoyed. When the bride asks me for advice, I say that they needn’t have a traditional wedding nor wear a traditional dress. I suggest they wear something that makes them feel comfortable and attractive, and that they think their partner will like too. Some of the best weddings I’ve been to were pulled together on a shoe string budget and extremely cosy. The day is important, but it’s not the most important day of your life. It’s just another day of celebrating with family and friends. The most important component of the wedding is the love, affection, understanding, mutual respect and happiness that flows between you and your partner. If that’s sorted – the rest is easy.

A plaid shirt (checked or tartan if you’re not in the US) is a modern classic, and fun to wear at any time of year if you like geometric patterns. They make a traditional statement at Christmas time, which is in itself quite festive. They’re casual when brushed, made of flannel, and oversized, but look dressier when they aren’t flannel, and are a little more structured.

I recently bought J.Crew’s Perfect Shirt in Stewart Plaid because it’s dressier and not made of flannel. I love it, and can dress it up and down. I adore that it’s in a classic tartan and has a timeless integrity. I hope to also wear the shirt with the red tartan pants that J.Crew has styled it with. Plaid squared makes me smile.

You can style a plaid shirt in countless ways, and we’ll cover the casual options another time. Here are some fun ways to style a plaid shirt for holiday bashes. Any colour palette is fab. I’ve chosen traditional holiday colours because I’ve used my own plaid shirt as an example, but added in some pink and cream as unexpected accents.

Here are the components.

Plaid Shirt: Choose a plaid shirt, and flannel is fine if it’s in good nick and doesn’t look too grungy. A non-flannel plaid shirt is dressier though. A plaid top that is not a shirt is just as fab, as long as the silhouette works with the bottoms. Tuck, semi-tuck or leave the top out.

Festive Bottoms: NO BLUE JEANS OR LEGGINGS. Think festively with a lace skirt or pair of pants, velvet pants, a sequin skirt, or tulle skirt. Add in a fun pair of dressy shorts. And if you dare, mismatch your plaids by throwing in a pair of plaid pants or skirt — my favourite combination.

Footwear: Make sure the shoes work with the style of the bottoms. Think pumps, ankle strap pumps, loafers, ballet flats, slipper flats, or dressy boots.

Accessories: I like my plaid shirt with a pile of pearls that I wear on the inside of an unbuttoned collar, but feel free to go with bling that is more to your taste. Add sheer hose in barely black, a subtle polka dot, or nude-for-you. Complete the look with a party bag that works with the palette. Add jewellery, headgear, eyewear and watch as desired.

Wear a jacket, wrap or coat over the top to keep warm outside, and Bob’s your uncle. I’m busting out my plaid shirt today.