Your Hair Grooming Regimen

Hair grooming regimens differ based on the texture of your hair, the way it’s styled, how long it takes to style, the time you have available to style it, your workout routine, and whether your hair is a statement component of your look. 

I view my “pixie and specs” combination as an important part of my style. So I have it cut and highlighted every six weeks, and invest time in styling it every day. When my hair feels off, my outfit feels off, so it’s worth the investment to me. 

My hair is fine, wispy, soft and wavy. It looks best when it’s very clean. It is easiest to style when it’s just been washed, so I shampoo and condition my hair daily. It’s especially necessary because I do hot yoga regularly. There’s no way my hair could look fab unwashed on the morning after an evening yoga class. Another reason to wash daily is that I use styling products, and I don’t like the look or feel of day-old-product in my hair. It’s also harder to style.

My hair is in good condition because it’s cut regularly, and I use salon shampoo and conditioner that is gentle and moisturizing. 

I wear my pixie straight, wavy, or slicked back. I blow and straighten my hair for the straight and slicked-back looks, but leave it to dry naturally with product for the wavy look. Although I wash and style my hair every day, this is quick thanks to a good cut, and willing hair that is easy to style and quick to dry.

Greg has gorgeous salt and pepper hair that’s very different to mine. It’s also an integral part of his look with a pair of statement specs. His hair is extremely thick and quite curly. It’s coarser and drier than my hair, and absorbs product much better. It grows fast and he has it cut every four to five weeks. It works well for him to shampoo his hair twice a week and use conditioner one of those times. He does wet and style it with product daily to keep it looking neat and polished. Greg’s hair air dries, never looks dirty, and is always in place. The curls work beautifully with the cut and moisturizing product, and he never has a bad hair day. When his hair gets wet in the Seattle rain, it flounces perfectly back into place as it dries. I want to patent Greg’s hair.

Greg and I both have very short statement hair, but our hair washing frequency and grooming regimens are different. Over to you. What’s your hair washing frequency and is your hairstyle an integral part of your look? Do you put in the time to style it every day?

Outfit Formula : Business Casual & Black Mules

This outfit formula was inspired by looks I’ve been helping some clients put together for Spring business casual. Sandals are usually not part of the work dress code, but dressier mules are a fun and trendy way to do “sandals-lite”. Mules are generally okay with work dress codes because the toes are covered. 

Black mules come in a variety of silhouettes. Heeled, flat, casual, dressy, sueded, with hardware, and in all sorts of vamp lengths and toe shapes. Take your pick.

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Black mules are a slam dunk for those who like to wear black bottoms and black footwear to work. The good news is that the two look great together, and are a good way to refresh your style for the office. The point is to show some ankle and leg when wearing mules. Covering up the back of the mule hides the main feature of the style. If you get the right shape and size for your feet, mules fit extremely well and feel secure and comfortable. They can look polished and pulled together if you choose a dressier version.

The outfit formula:

Black Bottoms + Business Casual Top + Business Casual Topper + Black Mules

Here are four renditions to get you started. I’ve chosen a black, white and grey palette with a pop of colour. Feel free to choose any colour palette, although the point here is to keep the bottoms and footwear black.

1. Cropped Pants, Mules & Blazer

Combine black cropped straights or flares with a layering top and non-black blazer. Cropped pants can hover between two to six inches above the ankle bone. Ankle pants that finish two to three inches above the ankle bone are usually best for the office. Finish off the look with black heeled or flat mules and a structured bag.

Mango Cropped Button Pants

2. Skirt, Mules & Jacket

Combine a black skirt with a layering top and a jacket that works with the length of the skirt. Tuck or semi-tuck the top. Or leave it out. A flared skirt is shown here, but a pencil skirt will work just fine. Finish off the look with black heeled or flat mules and a structured bag. You can absolutely wear flat mules with a skirt or dress, so please don’t think that you have to wear heels — that’s a dated style concept. Pointy toes will elongate the leg line, as will tucking or semi-tucking the top to showcase or hint at the waist.

TOD'S Embellished Leather Mules

3. Slim Ankle Pants, Mules & Long Topper

Combine slim black ankle pants with a layering top and a solid or patterned long topper like a cocoon jacket, duster coat, long blazer or maxi cardigan. Leave it open in front to create an elongating vertical line down the centre front of the body. Finish off the look with black heeled or flat mules and a structured bag.

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN Octavian 35 Studded Fringed Patent-leather Mules

4. Roomy Pants, Mules & Statement Blouse

Combine black culottes, wide crops or cropped flares with a dressy statement top that looks professional and dressy without a jacket. It does not need to be tucked or semi-tucked unless you want to lengthen the leg line from the hips upwards. A wrap top is a great idea. Create a low contrast between the top and bottom if you don’t want a horizontally cutting line across the body. Finish off the look with black heeled or flat mules and a structured bag. Add jewellery, eyewear and watch as desired.

ANN DEMEULEMEESTER Leather Mules

Link Love: New Spring Toppers

Spring has finally arrived here, but we still get plenty of chilly days that require some kind of topper. If you are looking for a new Spring topper, then you might find some inspiration here:

Fab Links from Our Members

efbgen wanted to share this NY Times article featuring a gentleman who knits sweaters with familiar landscapes and then poses in front of them.

As several forum members are doing a closet edit, The Cat thought this blog post might be of interest.

Blogger Christina Brown participated in Dove’s self-esteem project to help her daughter develop the confidence she needs to blossom in life. Ledonna N. thought it was a great read.

She also enjoyed this interview with Jenny LeFlore of Mama Fresh, “a community of Fresh Mamas who pick up their little ones and explore the city” (Chicago).

Vildy recommends watching PAQ, a popular YouTube series about street fashion and sneaker culture: “I started exploring their series of short video challenges and was completely charmed. If they’re not having fun with fashion, I don’t know who is. I liked that within the strict rules about what is cool now — judges are often within the same esthetic and might even be wearing the same exact sneaker model — each stays true to his own style image.”

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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The Perfect Length for Ankle Pants

Cropped is a generic term used to describe any style of trouser that is shortened to a length where the hem finishes on the lower leg. The length varies between two to six inches above the ankle bone. Some retailers will include jeans when they refer to cropped pants. Silhouettes run the gamut, as you can see in the collection below.

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Ankle pants are one variation of a cropped pant. Again, some retailers will include jeans under the heading of ankle pants. They’re sleek, tailored, tapered on the hem, and showcase the ankle. Lengths are typically two to three inches above the ankle bone. Two inches is quite the sweet spot, especially when the calf is wider and more muscular.

Eloquii Kady Fit Double-Weave Pant

Style consultants and fashion professionals will differ on what is the best length for ankle pants. Lengths are my thing. I am pedantic about them so I have strong opinions on what is most flattering. I believe that when hems are longer than two inches, ankle pants don’t look intentional, but more like regular length pants that are too short. If you’re going to wear ankle pants, show your ankles.

Here’s a collection of ankle pants at the perfect length.

An Abundance of Yellow Toppers

I recently added a fifth item to my collection of yellow toppers. You may think this is too much wardrobe repetition, but it works for me. They are wardrobe workhorses, with all five of them getting regular wear. Their bold colours make them statement pieces, and they are a part of my signature style

Sour brights are my happy colours. Others may wear black, blue and grey to feel soothed, chic and confident. I wear a sour bright or white to feel that way. And I particularly love sour yellows like citron, neon lime, apple green, chartreuse and lemon yellow.

I chose the silhouettes and weights carefully across a range of dress codes and fabrics so that I can wear a seasonally appropriate yellow topper throughout the year. The citron trench is dressy, tailored, classic, and for milder weather. It can go to a cocktail party, or be worn with jeans and hi-tops. The woolly citron peacoat is my go-to casual coat in Winter. I wear it more frequently than my navy Burberry peacoat. The neon lime cropped jacket is fab for warmer Spring weather and is quite unique. The chartreuse Modern Retro cocoon coat is my best Winter coat purchase of all time, and feels magical each time I wear it. It’s very warm and I love the elegant length. It can be dressy or casual, and works over several layers and chunky knits. It looks equally good over a formal dress and with jeans and boots.

My most recent purchase in the collection is the Helene Berman Revere Lapel Coat, which I can wear on warmer Spring days and into Summer. It’s a Spring blazer weight in cotton, but in a coat length that has a Modern Retro integrity. I’ve worn it four times in two weeks because it filled a wardrobe hole. I needed a topper that didn’t look like a trench, moto or raincoat, wasn’t as warm as my woolly Winter coats, and could fit over my chunky cotton pullovers. This long blazer in a cocoon silhouette ticked all the boxes. It was a bonus it’s in a fab shade of yellow.

These toppers are all extremely versatile, which is useful in a city where you need some sort of topper for much of the year. I can dress them up or down, so they cover many dress codes. The shades of yellow combine well with the rest of my wardrobe. It helps that I love colour-mixing and wearing bright colours. I’ll wear yellow with light and dark neutrals, with pastels, earth tones, and with other sour brights.

They are also standing the test of time. I’ve had the citron trench and peacoat for eight years, wear them a lot, and they’re still going strong. I got the chartreuse cocoon coat in London in 2016, and it was still the coat I wore most frequently this Winter. 

What may seem like unnecessary duplication for one person, can be dead right for another. Listen to your feelings, identify the styles and colours that make you the happiest, and make a statement with them. That’s what I’ve done with these toppers, and I don’t think the collection is even complete. I’d happily add a regular citron blazer, because I know I would wear the heck out of that too.