Twelve Years of YLF

Today, it’s already two years since we celebrated a decade of YLF. On the one hand I can’t believe we’ve come so far. On the other, I can’t imagine doing anything else. Helping people find their personal style, solving style challenges, suggesting wardrobe management strategies, keeping up with an evolving fashion industry, and lifting people up when they are down about their style, all feels like a calling to me. 

Husband Greg suggested I start a blog at the end of 2005. He created and designed our site — and all its frequent updates — as his labour of love to me. Greg is full of fabulous ideas and creating YLF was one of his best. I am forever grateful for his support and belief in me.

We launched on April 5 2006 and a small blog grew into a bustling social community with a very engaged forum and fabulous Finds section. Wonderful Inge joined our team seven years ago and became a very close friend. Precious Yorkies Jasmine and Rosie were our brilliant CEOs until they passed on the torch to sensational Sam. His Lordship is a blog and Instagram star and supports us in that special way that doggies do.

YLF is unique in many respects. First, there is fresh weekday content, and I haven’t missed a day of posting in twelve years. Second and most importantly, YLF is not about me and my style — it’s about YOU and YOUR style. It took me two years to show myself on YLF, and this was the post back in 2008 when it happened.

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I’m not an outfit blogger or writer. I’m a fashion stylist who talks about a subject that is both my profession and my passion. I don’t do product reviews, and I don’t accept free wardrobe items from retailers. These days we run an ad-free website, which you can choose to support by becoming a YLF Patron. I work with clients one-to-one in my wardrobe and style consulting business, which gives me a unique perspective. I see up close how fashion looks, fits and feels on a diverse set of people, and I pass that knowledge on to you. 

Just for fun, here are some old YLF photos from posts you might remember from 2009 to 2011. It seems like such a long and short time ago.

My first New York Fashion Week in 2010:

Fashion Week

Fashion Week

My favourite photo on our site is Jasmine photo bombing a shoot for an accessory post, and I didn’t know she was standing right behind me.

Blog Star

Turning 40 eight years ago. I still have the dress but don’t wear it because I’m off sleeveless sheaths. Who knows, maybe I’ll wear it again someday. The Valentino bag in the second outfit was a gift from the YLF community and is a prized possession. I still have and wear my citron trench today.

Turning 40

White Docs and Purple in 2011. I don’t have any of the these items anymore.

Purple Jumper and White Docs

This is back when I wore three inch heels to holiday parties and events. The shoes are long gone, and the other items wore out.

Ball Gown and Biker Jacket

Enjoying bootcuts with blazers and vintage Chanel. These days I much prefer my dramatic bell-bottoms that are wider at the hems. But I’m never passing on my Chanel bag.

Bootcuts with Blazers

The Classics that don’t let me down. My love for white and sour brights continue. I still wear the citron peacoat very regularly.

White

Peacoat

One unique aspect of YLF is the engaged forum, which is in its tenth year. A few years after the forum, we added Finds, which is one of my favourite features on YLF. I love being able to use it to manage my shopping, and having my wardrobe represented digitally has become indispensable to me. I don’t know how I managed before that.

You are what makes YLF exceptional. You graciously share your wit and wisdom in blog comments and forum posts. Your thoughtful, compassionate, intelligent and insightful contributions enrich my life, make me grow as a person, and provide me with daily inspiration. It blows me away when I think that some of you have been participating on YLF since its inception twelve years ago. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for the support, and for helping me to spread the word that you can have fun with fashion at any age.

Team Silhouette or Team Colour

Changing up the silhouettes or the colours of an outfit are effective ways to create the variety that combats outfit boredom and prevent a style rut. You’re on Team Silhouette if you crave a change in silhouette before colour, and vice versa for team colour. Note that “colour” here can be both neutrals and non-neutrals.

I tend to crave a change in colour before I crave a change in silhouette. That’s why I have a wardrobe rich in many colours, including both light and dark neutrals. The neutrals range from all shades of white and denim blue, to dark blue and black. The colours vary from sour brights and neons, to pastels and earth tones. I can wear the same outfit formula or “uniform” throughout a season as long as I swap out the colours of the components. I tend to purchase the same silhouettes in tops especially — Winter turtlenecks and crew necks are a good example — but have a very wide assortment of colours. The same goes for jeans, blazers, dresses, loafers, booties and bags. The silhouettes are similar, but the variety and the way I combat outfit boredom comes through in the diverse set of colours (and patterns for that matter), and how the items are remixed in an outfit. I bat for Team Colour.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Silhouette or Team Colour? You might find that you bat for both because you crave a change in silhouette as much as a change in colour. There are no right and wrong answers, but simply preferences that help us to build a style that satisfies our needs and helps us to navigate the overwhelming world of retail.

Six Ways to Incorporate Pastels Into Your Outfits

Pastels used to be a seasonal Spring thing, but that’s a dated concept. These days you’ll find pastel wardrobe items across all retail seasons. As long as the fabrics and silhouettes are seasonally appropriate, it’s stylish and modern to wear any colour at any time of year. 

That said, pastels are still the most well represented in Spring retail collections because they provide a fresh change to the dark colours of Winter fashion, and reflect the crispness of Spring blossoms. Pastels are also thought to have Easter associations.

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Pastels are a passionate topic, conjuring up both positive and negative reactions. Some of my clients love to wear pastels. Others like the idea of pastels, but feel washed out in them. Some wear them in the Spring and Summer only, and with caution, choosing their pastel pieces and support acts very carefully. Some wear pastels as accessories, footwear and in patterns, but not as solid clothing items. And some don’t wear pastels at all, thinking of them as twee, precious, juvenile, overly cutesy or pretty, or weak.

Generally, I’ve seen my clients open up more to pastels over time. Some of those who said “never” are eating their words with a grin on their face. Those who were dubious seem to enjoy them more each season. I think the change of heart can be attributed to a couple of factors. First, you need to find the right pastels for your complexion. You might prefer them more saturated, or cooler rather than warmer in tone. Second, you need to think outside the box when combining pastels in your outfits.

I think there are six main ways to incorporate pastels into an outfit:

  1. Pastels and Black: You don’t have to give up darks to wear pastels. Wear pastels with black, ink blue and charcoal if you want to temper the sweet and soft, and add the hard edge.
  2. Pastels and White: Wear pastels with shades of white and metallics for a fresh and crisp effect.
  3. Pastels and Other Pastels: Combine a couple of pastels in one outfit, and throw in some white and metallic accents. For example, combine blush pants with a light blue top and finish off the look with silver shoes and bag.
  4. Pastels and Tonal Colours: Combine a pastel with tones of similar colours. For example, wear tomato red and coral with pastel pink. Or ultra violet with lavender and lilac.
  5. Column of Pastel: Make a statement by wearing the same shade of pastel from head to toe.
  6. Pastels and Brights or Earth Tones: Remix pastels with all sorts of brights and earth tones. Lilac looks fab with emerald green. Cobalt looks nice with peach. Turquoise is fun with seafoam and mint. Ice pink is lovely with olive or burgundy. One of my favourites is to combine light blue and/or blush with citron and white.

I enjoy wearing pastels. I do not feel washed out, weak or twee wearing them. I wear blush and light blue the most, but I also like peach, aqua and seafoam. I like them best when remixed with white and sour brights.

Currently, these are the pastel items in my wardrobe. Note that a light blue denim wash counts as a pastel.

Over to you. Do you wear pastels, and how do you like to incorporate them into your outfits?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Fab Finds: Tops, Shoes and a Bag

There’s a lot of good stuff out there at the moment, so much so that I’ve finished my own Spring and Summer refresh two months earlier than normal. My clients have been pleased with the more feminine, dressy and less oversized looks in stores, as well as the larger assortment of dresses with sleeves and hem length. Here are some items that have been winners on my clients recently.

1. White House Black Market Floral & Lace Twinset

The photos do not do this great look justice. The high-low blouse paired with the cardigan in the same pattern was SO fab on my client last week that I squealed in the dressing room. Leave the cardigan open in front. Nice quality, unique, easy, pulled together, crease-resistant, flattering and does not need a camisole. Smart casual or business casual. Fluid and tailored in the right places. The blouse is available across petite, regular and plus. The floral cardi is available in petite and regular. Size down.

2. Michael Stars Boat Neck Shine Knit Top

This is a GREAT tailored knit top. Flattering, comfortable, crisp and easy to launder. It’s more like a very light pullover than a tee. Much neater, dressier, and more pulled together and structured than a T-shirt. The fabric is substantial. Sleeve length is excellent. It layers beautifully under jackets, but looks good on its own because of the shine, fab fabric, and good fit. The boat neck is surprisingly bra-friendly. The size range is unfortunate since it comes in two sizes only. The XS/S will fit a US0 to 4, and the M/L will fit a US4 to 8. It runs true to size, and works well on a straighter or curvier body type. It’s long, so not good on petites and short waists unless it’s hemmed to a shorter length. Don’t try the top if you’re self-conscious about your midsection, because it might cling.

I don’t wear T-shirts and stick to blouses, shirts and and knitwear for tops. Very occasionally, I’ll find a knit top that ticks all the boxes, and this one did just that. I bought the white and the stripe to wear with jeans and Summer skirts both untucked and semi-tucked. The neckline works well with my chunky pearl necklaces. I love the subtle shine and the tailored fit. The XS/S is a more fluid fit on me than on the model. All the colours are nice.

3. Madewell Chambray Tops

A chambray top needn’t look like a menswear or cowboy shirt. Madewell has good chambray tops at the moment, and they’re versatile. The fabrics are not stiff and denim-y either. They’re soft, tencel, or cotton/linen blends.

The Wrap Top is fabulous with skirts, and best on those who can fill out the bust and/or shoulders. I looked awful in it because my narrow shoulders, long neck and regular size bust could not fill it out.

The Central Ruffle Sleeve Shirt has more structure around the neck and shoulders and looked much better on my body type, despite the oversized fit. The flutter sleeves also broaden my frame and I like the effect. The fabric is GORGEOUS and drapes very well, and it may have followed me home. Size down a size.

4. Cosima Circle Bag

This bag is very cute. It can be used as a crossbody or satchel. It’s faux leather, well made, relatively affordable, lightweight, and roomier than it looks. All the colours are nice, and not as bright in person as in the pictures.

5. Hispanita Footwear

I can’t rave enough about Hispanita footwear. Made in Spain, the aesthetic is Euro and somewhat Mediterranean. Refined and dressy, and with many walkable heel heights and silhouettes that are a little different to the norm. They are beautifully made, and most of the styles are very comfortable. Super soft leather, a cushioning footbed, enough support, and room for an orthotic if your feet aren’t too wide. The styles can fit both a higher and lower volume foot if you go up or down in size — the cut of the shoe is that good. A little pricey but you’re getting a quality item. I bought a pair of floral oxfords last year and they’re smashing. I always have my eye on this brand.

Develop Your Style Spidey Sense

A “spidey sense” is an extraordinary ability to sense imminent danger. Your style spidey sense (or SSS for short), on the other hand, is your ability to detect a dangerous item or silhouette that will make you feel less than fab. 

For the last couple of years I’ve been developing my SSS with a very special mentor. Naturally stylish and with unparalleled intuition, my mentor has helped me to become a better fashion stylist to my clients, and better at creating my own wardrobe.

It helps that my mentor has a similar body type to mine. We share a slight frame, a long neck, short hair, a small head and narrow shoulders. As a result, our figure flattering priorities are in sync and we have a close mentor-mentee relationship.

We both need clothing with narrow fits and plenty of structure. I used to have to think hard about these factors, but now my SSS makes it easy. I have a supernatural ability to detect tops, toppers and dresses with structure around my shoulders, shoulder neck points, and neck. My SSS tingles whenever I pick up an item that has a wide neckline, sloppy shoulder line, or extremely oversized fit. It also sends me a warning alert when sleeves are too wide.

When I first started to develop my SSS it would buzz with alarm whenever it detected a remotely fluid fit. But with the help of my mentor I fine-tuned my SSS to detect items that have just enough structure

You too, can spend time with my mentor, Spider Sam, to develop your own style spidey sense. He’s generously offering free sessions today and for the rest of this week. We at YLF wish you a happy and peaceful Easter and Passover.

Couch Patrol

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