Fourteen Years of YLF

Software engineer hubs Greg lovingly built YLF for me back in 2006, and on April 5 that year published my first post. I was 35 back then, and I turn 50 in July. Fourteen years later to the day, and YLF is going strong and steady. We haven’t missed a (non-holiday weekday) day of posting yet. 

Helping people find their personal style, solving style challenges, keeping up with an evolving industry, lifting people up when they’re down about their personal appearance, and striving for more diversity and acceptance in fashion, all feels like a calling to me. After 28 years in the rag trade, it’s as if it runs though my veins. It’s what I do best, and I hope to continue doing it for many more years. With a bit of luck, I’ll be the 80 year old, pearl wearing fashion stylist who is still pedantic about pant lengths and outfit polish.

In the midst of a very challenging and stressful world pandemic, it seems a little frivolous to celebrate this anniversary. But I’m big on saying thank you, and now more than ever, I want to express my appreciation. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for the tremendous support. You are what makes YLF a special place on the internet by graciously sharing your wit and wisdom in blog comments and forum posts. Your thoughtful, compassionate, intelligent and insightful contributions enrich this community, make me grow as a person, and provide me with daily inspiration. A special shoutout to Fabbers who have supported YLF for more than a decade — some for the full fourteen years. Your loyalty blows my mind, and I’m humbled.

Cheers to helping me spread the word that style is not an age, size, or budget. It’s a do-your-own-thing energy, confidence, and inner ease that is expressed through what you wear and how you wear it. Wishing you all a calm, safe, peaceful and healthy day.

We will rest and celebrate 14 years of YLF tomorrow (Monday), and there won’t be a post for the day.

Changes to My Beauty and Grooming Regimen

Staying at home as our communities shelter and isolate has, to some small or large extent, affected our day-to day styles. I have also altered some aspects of my beauty and grooming regimen, because services and products are unavailable. For now, the changes are small, but I imagine they will become greater over time.

Bathing: I used to shower twice a day. First thing in the morning so that I’m fresh for the day, and again in the evening after hot yoga practice or a day of shopping with clients. With hot yoga and shopping with clients on hold until life normalizes, I’m showering once a day.

Hair: My short hair is cut and partially highlighted every six weeks. I’m in my eighth week and it’s unclear when I will have my next appointment. This is where my grooming regimen has changed the most. It’s the most noticeable. Previous attempts to hack my own hair have not been successful. I don’t think I’ll be asking hubs Greg to cut my hair, but never say never. It’s going to be an interesting hair project.

I continue to wash and style my hair daily because it makes me feel better about my appearance and creates a good routine. I crave structure! Wavy and curled on some days, and straight on others.

Brows: I’ve been grooming and dying my own brows and lashes for twenty-five years, so nothing has changed on that front. As long as I can get the dye and peroxide, it’s business as usual.

Make-Up: I apply my regular short make-up routine daily, without fail. It really doesn’t matter that I have nowhere to go but walk our doggy Sam, and do the occasional grocery run. It makes me feel prepared for the day, polished, productive, and creates a sense of routine.

Skincare: My skincare routine has not changed at all. I facially cleanse once a day, and moisturize and hydrate twice a day with the same beauty products. I continue to apply daily sunscreen, and exfoliate a few times a week.

Shaving and Waxing: My bodily hair is minimal so I’ve never waxed. My weekly shaving routine is just the same as long as we don’t run out of razors.

Hands and Feet: I used to have manicures and pedicures every month to six weeks. No nail polish because I bat for Team Naked Nails. I would simply apply a clear nail strengthener after the mani and pedi and that was that. I don’t know when I’ll be able to have another manicure or pedicure, so in the meantime, I keep my finger and toe nails shorter than usual. I won’t bother with the nail strengthener because of excessive hand washing, housecleaning and sanitizing. I moisturize my hands many times a day, my feet once a day, file a little, and occasionally buff my calluses.

Over to you. How have you altered your beauty and grooming regimens while we shelter and isolate?

Your Stay-at-Home Footwear Style

Our communities are at various levels of lockdown in order to minimize the spread of the novel Coronavirus. This means that most of us are working or staying at home for weeks or months. We shared our at home work styles across five levels last week, and today we’re going to get specific about footwear.

Our at home footwear styles will differ greatly depending on the comfort needs of our feet, our activities, and whether we allow outside shoes indoors. Some wear regular “outside shoes” at home, which makes things easy because there’s no switcheroo. Others change into shoes that they only wear at home like bedroom slippers, house shoes with arch support, Birkenstocks, Uggs, sneakers, ballet flats, slides, FitFlops, or flip-flops. Some wear socks or footies without shoes, and others go barefoot.

I recently asked YLF forum members what they wear on their feet at home, and their responses are in the collection below. Those who need arch support tend to wear a harder shoe with supportive soles and footbeds. Some prefer soft cushioning comfort with minimal support, and others like to slide in fun socks. Some run warmer and wear flip-flops or go barefoot. These are their tried-and-tested at home footwear styles, and there is quite the assortment. Their recommendations might be just what you’re looking for with many colours to choose from.

Amazon
Earth Origins Janet
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Zalando
Tamaris Zehentrenner
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3
Zappos
UGG UGGAnsley
$99.95
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2
Zappos
CAMPER CamperWabi
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6
6PM.com
Cole Haan Cary
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2

We do not wear our outside shoes inside our home, so we change into slippers or house shoes. I prefer to wear shoes because our floors are hard and my feet get cold. Hubs Greg and I both wear Camper Wabi slippers — grey for him and light blue for me. Sometimes Greg switches to Allbirds and Converse sneakers that are only worn at home. This is our fourth week staying at home, and I’m feeling the need for more arch support than my Camper slippers so that my feet don’t get sore. So I pulled out two pairs of brand new duplicated sneakers that I had boxed in my wardrobe as spares. I’ve dedicated both pairs to wear at home only until the pandemic passes. A pair of Modern Classic vanilla metallic Ecco Soft 7 sneakers, and a pair of trendy Steve Madden chunky Seinfeld sneakers, just to change things up. My feet are welcoming the support, and visually, they look better than slippers with my outfits! Here are the exact slippers and sneakers that I’m wearing as we isolate and practice social distancing.

Zappos
CAMPER CamperWabi
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4
Nordstrom
Moving Sneaker
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15

Over to you. What’s your at home footwear style, and how does it differ to mine?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Corporate Changes at YLF

YLF has recently reorganized our leadership structure and I am pleased and honoured to announce that I am the new CEO. Starting today, Angie and Greg will formally report to me. You will continue to receive the fashion and style content that you’re accustomed to, but I will definitely be making some changes around here. 

I joined the YLF team four years ago. During that time I have steadily climbed the corporate ladder. As an entry level associate, most of my job was about ensuring that Angie and Greg had the moral support they needed while they ran the business. Given my alertness, and, frankly, a very fierce disposition when it’s required, it wasn’t long before I was promoted to Head of Security. This was a formative role in my career thus far, and even now that I’m at an executive level, I will always think of myself as chief protector of the organization. 

It was when Greg started regular weekly travel to Salt Lake City that I really needed to step up. Angie spends several hours a day writing blog posts and participating on the YLF forum, but even with all the online interaction, things can get lonely. So I became Angie’s right hand. She counted on me for encouragement, inspiration and therapeutic support. I guess it was a natural transition for me to become her manager.

Which brings us to this leadership change. For some time I have felt that it would be best for the business if Angie and Greg spent more time here at the YLF corporate headquarters with me. Angie was way too distracted by shopping and outfit creation sessions with clients. Greg spent far too much time in our Utah office. So I put down my paw, and for the last five weeks they have been staying here with me almost all of the time. This episode made it clear that I was really the one making the big decisions. And as such, it was time for me to formally take over as CEO. 

As for the changes I’m making, they’re all about increasing business effectiveness. I’m instituting a mandatory playtime policy, because Greg and Angie are definitely more productive if they take regular breaks from normal tasks. I am also insisting on more regular walks, which are a very healthy way to conduct executive meetings, and also necessary for some… other things I need to do outside on a regular basis. I will also be tightening up security — there are way too many seagulls outside the apartment these days and I’m sure they’re involved in corporate espionage.

CEO Sam

What lies ahead for me, you ask? Well, now that I have reached the pinnacle of business leadership I have my sights set on politics. I’m not sure exactly what it will be, but I’m sure that there’s a global leadership role in my future.

My Stay-at-Home Accessory Style

Last week we discussed how our day-to-day styles have been affected by working from home. For fun I broke it down into five levels, of which levels 2 and 4 are currently the most popular. Today we’re going to drill down to accessories and share how that part of our styles has changed, if at all. I’ll go first.

For the most part, my accessory style is unchanged during self-isolation at home with Greg and Sam. I wasn’t a big jewellery wearer to begin with, so there was little to remove in that respect. I continue to wear my specs daily, red during the day, and green at night. The green specs are more comfortable for lounging and watching tele, so that’s why I swap them out. Without fail, I’m wearing my Apple watch to monitor physical and social activity, and one or two pearl necklaces to keep up the glam. Keeping things glam is understandably unimportant and trivial to most, but it makes me happy which keeps me calm, productive and positive. So why not!

I don’t wear earrings and I’m not into belts on this leg of my style journey. I’m wearing knee-highs during the day, and cosy socks at night as always. I carry a crossbody bag or satchel when I go out with Sam or grocery shop. And because our Springs are cool, I sometimes need a scarf during the day.

I am leaving off my wedding ring and pearl bracelets. They were getting in the way of excess hand washing, sanitizing, hand creaming, cleaning, cooking and drying. I was worried about ruining the pearls on my rings, and then became paranoid that germs would accumulate on the metal surfaces of the jewellery despite sanitizing and washing. So at the moment, I’m without my hand candy, but the rest of my accessory style is just the same.

Over to you. Which accessories are you continuing to wear and leave off as we practice social distancing and stay at home?