Team Pyjamas or Team Nightie

Today’s poll is about your preference for sleep attire. Do you prefer a one-piece nightie or T-shirt, or two-piece pyjama separates? Note that any style of nightie counts, from skimpy chemise to covered nightgown, and anything in between. Note that any type of pyjama counts, and it doesn’t need to match, but it does have to be two separate pieces.

I bat for Team Nightie by a billion percent. I do wear pyjamas as loungewear in the evening before I go to sleep, but I have never slept in them. I can’t wear any substantial shorts or pants when sleeping because they bunch up, and I don’t like the feeling of a waistband. A one-piece nightie or sleeping T-shirt stays put when it’s the right length. It needs to be simple, roomy, very soft, and not too wide at the neck. If it’s a T-shirt it mustn’t be too wide at the neck. When it’s very hot, I enjoy a long silky chemise. But more often than not, a nightie that looks like a very long T-shirt.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Pyjamas or Team Nightie? Tell us why and no batting for both teams. I know very few people who wear nighties, so my guess is that Team Pyjamas will win this poll. I know that others experience the bunching with nighties or T-shirts the same way I do with pyjamas. We can be so different! I’m serving sanitized takeout boxes with broccoli quiche, hot purple potato salad, and pomegranate iced tea at the bench if you can’t pick a side.

Individual Style After the Pandemic

I can’t accurately predict what our post-pandemic relationships with fashion and style will be like. One thing I am confident about is that there will be change. For some it will be slight, and simply an acceleration of change that was already underway. For others, the change might be more significant or unexpected.

As I ponder the future fashion and style needs of myself, my clientele, and friends and family, some themes emerge.

1. Sweatpants are Not Forever

I find it hard to believe that loungewear, athleisure, gear, and workout wear will rule supreme. There will be life after sweatpants. Casual comfy cozies that are easy to launder, wear, pack and maintain have gained popularity because of restricted social lifestyles, quarantine, an increase in outdoorsy life, a dire need to exercise, and lots of working from home. This makes complete sense. But things will change when people head back to their pre-pandemic work settings, socialize outside of their homes, and begin normal travel again. Although life in Seattle is still very socially restricted, I already see many more people in non-athletic casual wear, smart casual looks, and dressy attire. People seem to be craving a change in dress, and there is more of that in the pipeline.

That said, I do think that people will have a higher percentage of casual comfy cozies like loungewear, gear and athleisure in their wardrobes because some will continue to work from home, and work out at home, post pandemic.

2. DYOT is Stronger Than Ever

DYOT (Do Your Own Thing) is the most important trend of all. That means we will see it ALL on the street, at home, at work, when we travel, socialize, shop, and go about daily life. Sweatpants, leggings, jeans, ballgowns, faux fur, sheath dresses, suits, sneakers, slides, puffers, capes, boots, sandals, backpacks, satchels, and everything else. Remixed in an individualistic way that works for the wearer because we’ve reached the point where there is no fashionable in or out. Every silhouette and proportional mix can look stylish if it’s worn with conviction, confidence, ease, and is a good fit. Fashion trends are not completely irrelevant, but I do think they are losing their place as an essential component of one’s personal style. Fashion and trends are fun, but style is not dependent on them.

3. Continuing Simplicity

The global pandemic forced us to slow down and simplify many aspects of our fashion and style life, and some of these changes will stick. Maybe that means fewer shopping trips, fewer purchases, a simpler beauty routine, fewer manicures and pedicures, transitioning to naturally coloured hair, a low maintenance hairstyle, a more minimal style, downsizing our wardrobe, wearing fewer accessories, leaving off lipstick, giving up heels, and opting for naked nails. Or perhaps simply becoming less conscious and interested in fashion and style, making do with less, and spending money elsewhere.

4. Amplified Individuality and Authenticity

I’m not alone in doing some soul searching while spending so much more time at home. It’s been a good time to rethink our priorities, and hone in on what really makes us happy and fulfilled. As far as fashion and style goes, it’s given people the opportunity to rediscover what they do and don’t like to wear. People have been dressing for themselves instead of for others and an audience, and might continue doing just that. Or at least evolve their looks into a style that combines components of their pandemic style with how they dressed before the pandemic. The result might be an even more authentic style.

5. Dress Codes Stay Relaxed

Dress codes for the office and for special occasions will relax a little, or a lot, post pandemic. They will still be there, but not as strict as before. You might be able to wear dark jeans, sneakers and sandals to work when previously it was not up to code. Wear a tee or sweatshirt with a pencil skirt instead of a shirt or blouse. Break up a black-from-head-to-toe dress code with a pattern or colour. Weddings will become more casual, and so will going to the ballet, theatre, and socializing on most levels.

6. Sustainability and Ethical Fashion are a Priority

The need to protect and preserve our planet cannot be overstated, which means that making sustainable and ethical wardrobe choices will become part of our style conscience. More people will consider where and how wardrobe items are made, who makes them, what they are made of, how their laundering needs and longevity affects the environment, and how to pass them on responsibly.

It’s difficult to make sustainable and ethical wardrobe choices. There are no slam-dunk solutions, and many compromises. The socio-economic implications are huge, and reliable information is lacking. But we all have to start somewhere or things will never change. People will make the most sustainable and ethical choices that they can manage, and try to improve on them with each passing year.

7. Online Shopping Rules Supreme

COVID-19 has accelerated the transition to online shopping, and I think the change is going to stick. The trend was already well underway before the pandemic, and especially in the US where shipping is often free. There are an increasing number of retailers with no physical storefront, and more on the way. More and more retailers are putting extended sizes and additional colour options online, as opposed to displaying them in stores. And as more retailers close their physical storefronts, their online business continues. If we aren’t already, we’ll be expert online shoppers before we know it.

This is all speculation on my part. It will be interesting to revisit this post in a year or two, and compare my predictions to reality. In the meantime, over to you. How do you think our relationships with fashion and style will have changed when we return to a new normal after the pandemic?

Relaxed Polished Neutrals

A new outfit from Patricia Pastor, whom we introduced to YLF in January 2020.

Patricia jazzes up a casual black and white outfit with cognac accessories and gold jewellery that add a richness to the graphic black and white palette. She’s tucked a white scoop-neck tee into on-trend cropped balloon trousers. Tucking the tee and adding a belt with fun sparkly buckle emphasizes her waist, and tempers the volume of the bottoms A cognac satchel and flat cognac slides match the belt, while our blogger’s toenail polish echoes the white of the T-shirt. A chunky gold chain necklace, matching bracelet, and other arm candy add polished bling. Aviator sunnies and a nochalant ponytail bring a sporty touch to the look.

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Labor Day Sale Fab Finds

The pandemic makes the world feel like it’s in a time warp. The days can be slow, but the weeks and months fly by. We’ll be ringing in 2021 before we know it. But first, it’s Labor Day Weekend in the US, which means that there are sales aplenty. Here are some things that caught my eye and worked on my clients. 

Nordstrom Labor Day Sale

There are some great items available.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

Here are two items from the sales that deserve special mention.

Banana Republic Essential Leather Sneaker

These are very simple, clean, crisp and versatile. They run quite wide and long, so I sized down half a size, and no need for additional insoles. They will probably work well with orthotics in your regular size. VERY comfortable.

They were $138 full price, but I eventually got them for a very unexpected $19. Apparently there were multiple promotions that day, and I had a discount coupon I was able to redeem. 

H&M Draped Mesh Dress

I love a good mesh dress because they generally fit well, look good, don’t crease, are robust and low maintenance to launder. This was a winner on one of our forum members and comes in three nice patterns. It’s long, but easy to alter. Simply hack off some length and no need to hem. The ruching is an acquired taste, and quite effective in the patterns. Stretchy, comfy, and great with a long open cardigan to keep out the Autumn chill.

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We will be taking a break on Labor Day. If you live in the US, we hope you’re having a safe and peaceful long weekend.

Outfit Formula: At-Home Long Cardigan

As we head into Autumn and temperatures cool, an additional layer is necessary. A long cardigan that can be worn indoors or outdoors is one way to go. Some of my clients will throw on a jacket when they head out the door, but switch back to a cardigan when working or staying at home because it’s more cosy and comfortable. The long cardigan can be streamlined and straight, voluminous, draping, round-hemmed, cocooned, a ruana, or a sweater jacket.

Here are some easy ways to style long cardigans across a range of silhouettes and levels of dressiness. The examples are mostly neutral and pattern-free, but feel free to add colour and pattern. Some people wear regular shoes at home, while others wear slippers, slides, footies, at-home-only shoes, socks, or go barefoot. It’s all good as long as you’re comfortable and your feet feel supported.

1. Over a Dress

Wearing a long cardigan over a comfy dress works a lot better than you might expect, and is quite flattering. Don’t worry about the different hem lengths — just wear it. Cardigans work best with sleeveless and long-sleeved dresses because there’s no sleeve bunching. But if the cardigan sleeves are wide and roomy, layering over most sleeved dresses will work too.

Banana Republic Ribbed Lightweight Duster Cardigan

2. With Jeans

Combine a layering top with a pair of jeans, a long cardigan, and whatever you wear on your feet at home. The layering top can be a blouse, shirt, tank or tee. Wear the top tucked or untucked, and it needn’t be white. The jeans here are skinny and straight but you can wear any jeans silhouette. To balance the volume, you might prefer an oversized cardigan with narrow jeans, and wide-hemmed jeans with a streamlined cardigan.

Illuminative Zeville Cocoon Cardigan

3. With Athleisure

Combine a tee or tank with a long cosy cardigan and a pair of leggings, joggers, trackpants, or other type of Athleisure pants. Black or grey leggings with a white, black or grey tee are an easy combination. Although it’s not shown here, create a column of colour under the cardigan for a more streamlined look. Sneakers complete the sporty vibe, but whatever you wear on your feet at home is good.

Torrid Super Soft Slub Charcoal Grey Open Front Longline Cardigan

4. With Loungewear

This is the most casual of the looks, and can be reserved for lazy days if it’s too casual to wear while working at home. Perhaps it’s a version you wear first thing in the morning before a shower, when you unwind in the evening, or after a workout. Combine a tee or tank with a pair of pyjama bottoms or sweatpants, and throw a long cardigan over the lot. Cozy socks or slippers finish off the look.

5. With Harem Pants

Create an avant-garde vibe by combining a tee, shell top, blouse or turtleneck with a pair of harem or lantern pants. A pair of flowing and wide knitted pants can work too. Keep the top untucked. Layer a cocoon, draping, or round-hemmed long cardigan over the top. Slip-on sneakers complete the look, but whatever you wear at home on your feet is fab. Add jewellery and watch as desired.

Adeptt Loose Fit Cardigan