Happy New Year

Like many others, I’m very eager to welcome the new year. Although the US is in partial lockdown, and the global pandemic has left its ugly and heartbreaking mark, there is light at the end of the tunnel. When the first healthcare heroes received vaccinations in Seattle, Washington a couple weeks ago, I was elated and felt hope for a brighter future. We can look forward to a better Spring, a much safer Summer, and hopefully some normality by Autumn.

I am SO looking forward to working with my clients in person again, visiting my Dad in the Netherlands, starting a new project, and enjoying those all-important celebrations with family and friends that were put on hold. Emotionally, though, there are still lots of thoughts and feelings to be processed, and challenges to solve. That’s why I find January a great time to reflect, improve, make changes, make plans, set goals, and start afresh.

I don’t set new year’s resolutions, but I do make a point of thinking about my priorities and the priorities of my loved ones. I think about how I can do things in a better way and become a better person, as well as what I want to achieve in 2021. I make peace with the things that bothered me during the previous year so that I can move on with a full heart, and focus on what creates joy, positive energy, a supportive environment for others, and self-fulfillment.

I’ll be reflecting about fashion and style this month, and look forward to hearing your thoughts as you reflect with me. In the meantime, I wish you a happy, healthy, safe, and fabulous 2021 that’s full of love, laughter, fun, adventure, SIMPAT style, good eats, excellent exercise, creative endeavours, and meaningful moments. I’m excited. Onward we go!

Highlights of 2020

What a year. It’s been tough and stressful, and in most ways we’ll be glad to put it behind us. Focussing on the upbeat and positive, here are some short thoughts to wrap up 2020’s style, fashion, retail, entertainment and beyond. These are merely subjective musings, so feel free to agree, disagree, and add to my list. 

Best People on the Planet: Our incomparable healthcare heroes, and especially those on the frontlines in COVID-19 ICU units. They have courageously given, and continue to give, so much of themselves physically and emotionally during the pandemic. Words cannot adequately express our gratitude for their tremendous strength, tenacity and energy.

More gratitude and appreciation goes to all other essential workers who have continued to flawlessly and tirelessly do their jobs despite complicated COVID measures and the risks of exposure. You are INCREDIBLE, and we can’t thank you enough.

Personal Highlight of the Year: Turning 50 in July. Hubs Greg, Yorkie Sam and I took the week off and did some very fun things in and around Seattle with social distancing top of mind. In particular, lots of nice walks outdoors in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.

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Flowers

Boys

Best Sanitized and Moisturized Body Part: Hands.

Best of 2020 Retail: The ongoing flash sales and discounted merchandise. If you were in the mood to shop, this was your bargain-buying year.

Retailer that Hit the Best Note During the Pandemic: Boden, because their pandemic message was sensitive and heartfelt.

Most Popular Clothes of the Year: Athleisure, gear, loungewear, and pyjamas.

Best Addition to My Style: Creating a capsule of “at-home-only footwear” that made me feel more polished and pulled together than wearing slippers all day. Wearing proper shoes while working and staying at home was also a heck of a lot more supportive, and my feet thanked me.

CEO of the Year: Sam

CEO Sam

Best New Recipe Source for Baked Goods: Shades of Cinnamon. I’ve made the South African crunchies and Scottish shortbread multiple times because they are Cox Castle favourites. I’ve also made the malva pudding, coconut Bundt cake, gingerbread loaf, apple crumble, and savoury muffins, all of which were top notch. They are amongst the very best recipes I’ve used.

Footwear of the Year: Slippers, sneakers, clogs and Crocs.

Accessory of the Year: Masks

Best TV Show Hair: Nicole Kidman in The Undoing. She’s back to being her natural redhead self, which I prefer. Those cascading red locks are romantically beautiful and are dramatic worn either up or down. Hugh Grant’s neatly messy head of salt and pepper hair was equally fabulous.

Best TV Show Corporate Attire: Shiv Roy from TV show Succession. Another redhead who rocks earth tones with the best of them. Her impeccable modern classic and clean-cut corporate wardrobe was a highlight of the show.

Best Miniseries: The Queen’s Gambit. The captivating story and compelling characters were unique, and the fashion was in a league of its own. The outfits Beth Harmon wore in the last three episodes launched me into orbit. I want quite a few of them.

Most Fun TV Show: Ted Lasso for excellent British humour. Cobra Kai is runner up for the fab ‘80s flashbacks and because I love karate. Star Trek Discovery too, because I love the futuristic technology and strong female leads.

Best Nordic Noir TV Show: Bordertown, which plays in Finland. Dark, mysterious, eerie, and very interesting.

Best Documentary: The Social Dilemma — very thought-provoking.

Best Trends: DYOT (Do Your Own Thing,) WWW (Wear What Works,) and WWYL (Wear What You Love.)

Most Popular YLF Blog Posts

Retailers with the Most Diverse Models: Universal Standard, Knix, Warp + Weft, American Eagle, Wild Fang, Sheertex, Wray, and Alice Alexander.

Fashion and Style Buzzwords: Sustainability, Gender Fluidity, the ‘90s, Diversity, Casual Comfort, Conscious Consumption, and Size Inclusivity.

The Best Way I Changed My Beauty Routine: Leaving off the tinted moisturizer. I now bat for Team Naked Skin and I’m thrilled about it.

Our Most Fun Pandemic Pastime: Finding remote beaches because going off-leash on the beach is Sam’s absolutely favourite thing to do. And we love beaches too!

Angie

Greg

Favourite New Beauty Products: These items from Vanicream.

Colour of the Year: Blue in all its hues. I was finally able to purchase a small turquoise capsule.

Biggest Bang for Your Fashion Buck: Wearing the heck out of your wardrobe, and feeling fabulous in it.

Favourite Style Tips: Be patient with your style. Don’t let fashion or your wardrobe boss you around. Listen to how you feel in an outfit. Compare, but don’t despair. Most of all, have fun with fashion.

We at YLF wish you a happy, safe and peaceful New Year’s Eve.

Happy Holidays from the Cox Castle

Angie & SamIt’s the last week of 2020, and what a year it has been. The sadness, hardship, anxiety and loss that the world has felt and continues to feel is devastating. If ever there was a time to show our appreciation and gratitude, share affection, be extra thoughtful and kind, support others, enjoy the gift of giving, and fondly remember those who are no longer with us — it’s now. So whether you celebrate Christmas or not, let this be a time to feel comforted and think about the good in your lives. Cook and bake up a storm, eat your favourite foods, dress up, dress down, sing, dance, snuggle, catch up on reading and hobbies, watch tele, enjoy nature, play games, play instruments, meditate, and reach out to loved ones. Be festive your way, and make the most of it.

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The residents of the Cox Castle will be having a relaxed and quiet holiday week at home in Seattle. Christmas day is Yorkie Sam’s favourite time of the year because he LOVES to open presents. His chill little persona goes from nice to naughty in a nanosecond when we start to open the presents under the tree. He does not approve of presents that aren’t toys, bones or treats. He turns his little nose up at doggy accessories, or something for me and Greg. But as soon as he gets his toys, he’s the happiest little guy and plays with them relentlessly. That puts an end to our quiet Christmas, and it’s onward to a loud and squeaky new year.

We’ll be slowing things down over the holiday, but will recommence regular weekday posting after new year’s day. We wish you a wonderfully festive season filled with good health, happy moments, fabulous style, peace in your hearts, and lots of love.

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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outstanding Outfit Bloggers

Statement Jewellery and Matchy-Matchy Fun

Medical technical assistant Tanja Jager (49) lives in Saarland in Germany, and documents her outfits on her Instagram account. She’s a Trendy Classic whose outfits always incorporate a polished, adorned and dressy element. Our blogger loves animal print, bags, and shoes. She also has an amazing jewellery collection, and uses her one-of-a-kind necklaces and bracelets to add that WOW factor to every outfit.

“I no longer follow every trend, but have found a style that suits me, and in which I feel comfortable. I like classic style and combining two or three colours best. That is why I also invest in high-quality classics because they accompany me the longest. My favourite basics are a pair of well-fitting jeans, a white blouse, a blazer, chic shoes and a high-quality bag.

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Tanja likes to incorporate a matchy-matchy element in her outfits. Here it’s the pink detailing on her white sneaks and some of her arm candy that echo the colour of her beautiful blazer. She’s tucked a crisp white tee into cuffed distressed jeans, and then dresses up the look with a tailored Modern Classic blazer in pastel pink. A brown belt matches her Louis Vuitton satchel. The gold buckle, together with the buttons on her blazer and double chain link necklace add dressy bling. A maximal pile of bracelets on both arms, and soft pink lippy finish off the look.

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A statement blouse like this crisp white number with fab design details is a great way to dress up an outfit in mild weather because you don’t need a topper to add more visual interest. The flattering V-neck and big lapels draw the eye up and down, while the puff sleeves add a romantic touch. Pairing the oversized blouse with straight-legged cropped leather trousers tempers the volume of the top, as does the tailored fit on the shoulders. The V-neck also forms the perfect backdrop for Tanja’s eye-catching Y-shaped chain link necklace. Her folded bag matches the rich caramel of the trousers, while her leopard print pointy-pumps add touches of lighter browns that work beautifully with the caramel. Several bracelets in gold and black tie in with the statement necklace, as do the gold accents on Tanja’s glam oversized sunnies.

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I love this Casual Glam in Mustard look with its “vacationing at the Riviera vibe.” It’s also a fab example of Angie’s Mustard Magic outfit formula. Tanya is wearing a white button-down partially unbuttoned to showcase the waistband of her straight-legged linen trousers. Cognac strappy gladiator-esque sandals emphasize the breezy holiday vibe, while the dressy satchel in a deeper shade of cognac adds dressy polish. The matching mustard sweater casually thrown over her shoulders adds a touch of nonchalance, while the crisp white of the top adds modern integrity to vintage ‘70s mustard and the earthy cognac. Our blogger mixes her metals with a silver pearl pendant, pearl drop earrings, and gold amulet necklace. Big sunnies and glam fedora with animal print band complete the look.

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Our blogger wears this shade of tomato red regularly, and it suits her so well. The tiered segments and puffy sleeve cuffs on her just-above-the-knee A-line dress create fun visual interest, while the mandarin collar and tailored fit on the shoulders add structure. Pairing this fiery red with leopard print is a match made in heaven, and brings sassy pattern to the look. The handle on the big envelope clutch matches Tanja’s dress, her nail polish and the gemstones on her bracelet. Go Team Matchy-Matchy! The stud detailing on her espadrilles adds soft edge. Finally, Tanja’s trademark statement necklaces and arm candy dress up this polished casual Summer outfit.

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A relaxed fit blouse paired with structured trousers is trademark Tanja. Here’s she’s semi-tucked a mustardy yellow blouse into cropped, tapered khaki pants. The rich colour and beautiful sheen on the top give the outift a luxe vibe. The cuffed trousers showcase our blogger’s espadrilles that come out to play again. The leopard print is a great colour match with the earth-toned trousers. The cognac belt emphasizes Tanja’s waistline and matches her bag, which creates outfit cohesion. Once again, the V-neckline on her blouse is a superb backdrop for one of Tanja’s statement necklaces. Wearing her hair up also draws the eye to her amazing jewellery. A pile of gold bracelets and brown sunnies work brilliantly with the outfit’s colour palette.

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And Tanja is back in glorious tomato red! Here, the eye-catching colour turns a casual jeans outfit into a real statement. Our blogger is wearing a voluminous turtleneck sweater over a light blue button-down and ankle-length straight leg jeans. The deep blue denim contrasts marvelously with the bright red. Leave it to Tanja to find a bracelet and beanie in the exact same shade. The beanie adds casual warmth to the look, and I love how Tanja’s hair charmingly peeks out from under the hat. White low-top sneakers with dressy rose gold accents add crispness, as does our blogger’s small crossbody bag. Dainty rings and orange-pink lippy finish off the look.

I’m excited to hear what you think of Tanja’s marvelous outfits. Let us know in the comments, and then hop on over to her Instagram account to browse the rest of her looks.

Weekly Roundup: Assorted Casual Items

The last roundup of the year! Here’s a short list of top picks that have recently worked on clients, and some forum members. I’ve thrown in items that I haven’t seen in person, but that look promising because I generally trust the brand and quality. Browse the colour and size options. Some of the items are on sale, or will be very soon.

  • MARINA RINALDI Audrey Jacquard Sweater: A festive sweater with pattern, texture, colour and shine. It can work as well with skirts as it does with jeans and pants. Tailored and maximal.
  • Eileen Fisher Prescot Platform Sneaker: Some found this sneaker very comfortable, while others did not. I suspect that the laces have something to do with that because you need to adjust them to the desired fit. They can be pulled tight to fit lower volume feet, and less tight for higher volume feet. The platform sneaker offers a nice bit of height, and the stitched sole is a quality addition. Cushioning. Comes in six colours.
  • Everlane The Soft Cotton Square Crew: A fun boxy top that is heavier than it looks. Looks great over joggers and other types of casual pants, as well as jeans. Comes in colours.
  • Hobbs Francesca Wool Blend Coat: I haven't seen this in person yet, but Hobbs coats are generally beautifully made and hold up well. A timeless military style in a shade of eggplant with a slight back bustle is quite the find. Better on a small and regular size bust because of the double-breasted silhouette.
  • INC International Concepts I.N.C. Velvet Pull-On Skinny Pants, Created for Macy's: These velvet leggings look fab under dresses and tunics, and are very comfy. Come in five colours. Great for the holidays.
  • UNIQLO Women Sweat Long-sleeve Hoodie Dress: A fun hooded sweatshirt dress that can work well as loungewear, WFH, and in other casual settings.
  • Boden Erica Cable Knitted Dress: These fit-and-flare cabled dresses are classically gorgeous, easy to wear if you enjoy a tailored look, and quite cosy. Great with boots and a coat, and not constricting.
  • Hobbs Katy Cotton Sweater: I have this navy darling and love it. It's tailored, 100% cotton, and very comfortable. I find the graphic playful yet crisp, versatile, dressier than it looks because it's refined, and fab with my pearls. It's in high rotation already.
  • UNIQLO Women Ultra Stretch Warm Long-sleeve Dress: A comfy and long fleece dress that can look great with leggings or hosiery. Good with sneakers or other casual footwear. Comes in other neutrals.
  • Madewell Forrest Fair Isle Women's V-Neck Sweater: Super comfy and cosy après ski and Scandi vibe. The V-neck makes it work well on a larger bust, and gives the boxy silhouette some structure.
  • Gorjana Harper Chain Link Necklace: Chunky yet refined, and lovely quality. A great necklace to layer with other necklaces.
  • Caslon High Cuff Henley Top: An easy henley that is more substantial and has a little more design interest than a basic tee. Great on those who like to wear V-necks.
  • J.Jill Side-Zip Down Puffer Vest: A fab vest because of three details. A two-way front zipper that makes driving easier. Side vent zippers if you need a little extra room on the hips or midsection. A flatter type of puff that is visually streamlining. Runs big and is fab on apple and pear-shaped petites in petite sizes.
  • Hobbs Jo Cotton Sweater: If you like horses and earth tones, and don't like to wear wool - try this pullover. It's very soft and comfy, tailored, 100% cotton, and POLISHED. Can work for business casual. It would have been mine in my colours.
  • Hobbs Hackness Wool Jacket: KILLER STUNNING short wool classic jacket. The finish and quality are absolutely SUBLIME, and the best I have ever seen. The underside of the collar is trimmed with contrast velvet and extremely luxe. A true quality piece, and beautifully made. Fun micro polka dot lining too. Tailored and quite narrow. The US2 fits like a US0. Comes in red and navy. The avocado green earned a place in my wardrobe. It is a magical perfect fit. I'm very much enjoying the playful shorter length of the jacket because it works well with roomier bottoms, and is less traditional than a regular length blazer. Can work well into Spring.
  • Hobbs Milly Wool Blend Coat: I LOVED this navy coat and almost kept it. So beautifully tailored, polished, and avant-garde. Gorgeous quality. The photo does not do it justice. But it's too voluminous on the hips for my straighter and small frame. It will work better on someone who can fill out the bottom half. It's an extra amazing topper for A-line dresses and skirts. The US2 fits like a US0.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.