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How to wear tops with skirts

If I had a dollar for every time someone battled to match a skirt with the right top, I’d be very wealthy. I find orphan skirts in most of the wardrobes that I review. So much so that I created the skirt rule:

Don’t purchase a skirt unless you already have a top in your closet that will work it or can purchase the accompanying top at the same time as the skirt.

By tops I mean knitted tops, knitwear, T’s, tanks-tops, blouses and button down shirts.

It’s too late to enforce the skirt rule if you already have orphaned skirts in your closet, but not all is lost. I want you to wear those orphan skirts so here is a list of five easy solutions to get you started.

  1. Leave the top un-tucked: For most skirts you’re looking for a relatively short, form fitting top with waist definition. You can absolutely wear longer more voluminous tops over pencil skirts but proportions start to get tricky so proceed with caution. Wearing a tailored layer like a jacket over a less form fitting top gives the ensemble great definition too.
  2. Tuck in the top: This is the most neglected option because dressing has become so un-tucked. Don’t be scared to tuck. Try tucking in the tops that you have. Chances are high you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the result. You can create further waist definition by adding a belt to the tucked-in look. Sometimes the combination of belt and tucked-in top has a great girdling effect.
  3. Belt the un-tucked top: This is how you can make a longer and less form fitting top work with a skirt. The definition of a belt in the right place does wonders for the belt plus top combination. Refresh your memory on how to wear a belt if you’re unsure.
  4. Button up a cropped cardigan: In true 50’s style, button-up a cropped cardigan and wear it with a skirt. Here the cardigan is acting as a top, rather than just a layering item.
  5. Layer a cardigan over a tucked-in sleeveless tank top: Tuck a plain tank top into a skirt and layer over a cardigan. The cardigan can be cropped or boyfriend. Cropped cardigans look great with A-line skirts whereas pencil skirts work with most lengths of cardigan. You can leave the cropped cardigans loose or partially buttoned. Longer length cardigans look best unbuttoned. You can also belt the cardigan for extra waist definition.

If you’re worried about a top and skirt breaking up your long lean line, use a low contrast color combination. And remember that these aren’t the only options. There are countless creative ways to wear tops with skirts, especially when you start layering.

If you have an orphan skirt, you just got homework! Shout in the comments or on the forum if you get stuck.

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How to wear tops with skirts

To avoid orphan skirts, I usually buy a top while having the new skirt still in my bag. So I can try on the new ensemble.
Another trick: I store skirt and top next to each other on hangers. This way I don´t have to remember which top matches the skirt.

This was a timely post for me. I have one skirt (denim) and would like to add a couple more but was unsure how to go about adding a couple more. Especially since I’ve heard more than once a distinction between a “skirt length” top and a “pant length” top. I’d love to see a side by side photo example. Before reading this post, I would have purchased a skirt sans top, now I will make sure to do both at one time, this way I have at least one option to wear it with. Are there also heel height requirements with skirts?.

I would love to wear more dresses, but have so many skirts due to my long phase of nursing babies, that these tips are very helpful in adding variety to my skirt outfits. I really like the idea to wear the cropped cardi buttoned, 50s style. What would you wear under that?

I can’t decide between tucked in-tops, which draw attention to my waist (and from my hips, of course), but emphasize the fact that my upper body is much shorter than my lower body – and longer, belted tops, that make my short waist and long hips look more proportionate vertically, but draw attention to the widest part of my body. I’m stuck in the middle.

Skirts mean a lot to me and I don’t have many but I wear the ones I have a lot, especially in the height of summer. I used to scratch my head at why I would see women wearing skirts outfits that looked so right and I couldn’t seem to create the same effect. Reading the posts on this site about skirts has taught me a lot and I am grateful for even more direction. Thank you for helping me be aware of all the little details I don’t cue in on so I can work it too.

Eureka!! I’ve been hoping to see a post like this for ages, and as usual you never disappoint. :) Thank you so much for these guidelines. I personally find them much clearer than your older posts on this subject where you positioned your guidelines in terms of where tops hit around the hip-bone. The different rules for a-line and pencil skirts only became clear to me through forum discussion, but this time you’ve got it all in one neat little post. :)
I’d also like to personally vouch for the skirt rule — it’s the only way to go! Right now it feels like more than 40C with the humidity here and I’m wearing an outfit devised under the guideance of the skirt rule. The light black cotton a-line skirt with turquoise embroidery near the knee-length hem would never be seeing the light of day if I hadn’t purchased a hip-length sleeveless silky blouse in the matching shade of turquoise at the same time.

Since reading your earlier posts on skirt tops I have really taken to this rule. I have been experimenting a little with tucking in and enjoy the cropped cardi with skirt combination.
I do find it a little hard that my elastic belts are much tighter around the waist than the waists of my skirts!

Ironically I find it harder to find pants-length tops, if I am not going down the tunic route, possibly owing to having a very long torso

Thank you Angie! I have many skirt closet orphans and I will save this post to match up options.

Angie, your skirt rule and other advice on tops for skirts has helped me make fewer skirt mistakes. The idea of shorter tops and jackets for skirts had nver occurred to me. Itari, have you tried wearing the top tucked and with the belt matching or being close in contrast to the top rather than the skirt? This tip from YLF has helped me when tucking and deceives the eye into seeing a longer top, if that makes sense.

I’ve about decided not to bother buying skirts any more. I own a grand total of 2… my denim straight skirt (which is fairly versatile) and a pleated summery skirt that I picked up for under 10 bucks at Ross. This is the one I have trouble with… although the cool cotton fabric makes up for the fact that I haven’t found perfection in the styling department. I’ll wear it when I’m just hanging around the house on a hot day.

Angie, what a timely post and so very helpful. I have not been able to wear tops tucked in because I’m so extremely short waisted, but this confirms why wearing an untucked top belted helps. I still struggle placing the belt at the right spot, I tend to wear them lower than I think I should because of my short waist issue. When the weather cools down, I will have to experiment with the cardigan options. Something to look forward to in the fall. Thanks so much for this concise review!

Great post! Thanks Angie!

I definitely have orphaned skirts! I am going to go home and work these suggestions because I really want to wear the skirts I have. Thanks for your brilliance. :) I will always try to hear your voice when shopping for skirts from now on.

I only tuck tops into skirts. The other ways just don’t look right on me.
Now belted tunics are a different story. :)

I’m determined to get some wear out of my skirt orphans this summer (one denim, one black and white cotton). Angie, do you think a nice tee with a casual summer skirt would work as a replacement for a casual summer dress? I haven’t had much luck with summer dresses, so I thought maybe I could try skirts instead.

Orphan skirts are the reason I’m on team dress!

Yesterday I tried on four different tops with a full white skirt before I just gave up and went with a dress. Thanks for the reminder about the belts. I can’t wait for A-lines to come back into the stores, I’m starting to miss them…

I have a question, please! I have several tops I’d love to wear with business skirts, but the tops already have an inbuilt drawstring-esque tie or else come with a ribbon to tie right at the waist or at an empire line. How could/should I wear these with a skirt that also comes to around the natural waistline? Defining my waist twice in slightly different places looks weird to me.

This is such a great post because I didn’t know there was such a phenomenon as orphaned skirts until I read this!! I have a few and I’m going to take on this rule ASAP! Thank you Angie for your fabulous, blog, my readers also tell me how great it is so I’m glad I sent them to you!!
xo
Maria

Thanks for reiterating this tips Angie. Thanks to you and YLF, I have learned and practiced 1,2,3 and 5. In fact, sometimes I can create different looks with the same top using points 1,2,3 and 5. I’m having a duh moment for never having thought about point 4 – buttoning up a cardigan to wear as a top. I will give that a go that sometime this week.

I do have one question about skirts that aren’t high-waisted. I tend to wear tops un-tucked with the one skirt I have that isn’t high-waisted. If I try to take in the waist, the skirt becomes a tad too short. I guess my question is, can short-waisted, curvy gals wear a “low-rise” skirt with top tucked in?

Great post!! I love DRESSES but finding one that is my color, my style AND fits my petite long torso figure is nearly impossible! I have noticed on blogs that people are always referring to “matching” tops and bottoms and I thought the “in way” was un-matched. Maybe “matched” has been re-defined? I would use the word “coordinate” instead of “matching” myself. I have noticed on sites such as Anthropologie, they have many dresses that LOOK like just a tank top tucked and belted with a print skirt! How much versatile woudl they be if they WERE skirts and you could pull out the various colors in the print for other tops. ALso there would not be all the fit issues I have experienced and have read about in the reviews. One could get styling tips from there as they have many dresses that look like skirts and tops.
I LOVE your site as it is one of the most comprehensive sites I have ever seen. Most sites/books lump you into one category. In my case it is all relative as depending on what i have on or want to wear I have to look at each body are in relation to the rest. I am long torso and fairly slim but go by “pear shape” on bottom as I have short legs. If I can wear 3″ platform wedges my pants look RIGHT and no longer look like short-fat-fanny.

thanx for all you do!

Oddly enough, I have summer skirt orphans but no winter skirt orphans. It’s not very creative, but I wear lots of knits with pencil skirts in the winter. Summer’s another story. I spent some time looking for summer tops without success and now I’m slowly converting to being a frock girl. So much easier!

These tips will help me move those summer orphans into rotation, though. Thanks Angie!

great rules! i wear 90% skirts, due to nerve damage in my legs.

i’ve found that a neutral (black, white, grey/tan, etc.), flatteringly shaped tee will work with the great majority of skirts. the trick is to tie your accessories in with the ‘theme’ of the skirt – especially any accessories near your face. so earrings, necklaces, scarfs, etc. that pick up the colors and/or the style of the skirt (punk, victorian, etc.) pull things together to look like you’re wearing an outfit you did on purpose.

the ‘orphan skirt’ points up the wisdom of knowing your style and your wardrobe colors, and shopping with a list.

Great post! I stick to pencil skirts because they’re so much easier to style. Whenever I try an a-line skirt I feel completely lost!

Fantastic post Angie, I follow most of the guidelines (I don’t own a single cardigan) and have also found button down tunic shirts to be very useful with my skirts, I unbutton the bottom few buttons and tie fifties style. Using this method, which I pinched from yours truly I have been able to adjust the length of the shirt to suit many of my skirts, pencil, a-line and even tulip.

I don’t think I have any orphan skirts but I’m still looking for some fresh tops for my denim pencil skirt. Thanks for these great ideas!

I have a lot of clothes that I have had for many many years, but I still love them and try to wear them all. My closet is heavy on skirts, both short and long. Today I selected a knee-length full skirt in chocolate, an off-white sleveless tank, a loose floral printed blouse, thick woven western-belt, chunky turquoise heart pendant and pretty, flirty high heels.

I thought it looked OK. I could live with it.

And when I got to work, one of my colleagues told me my outfit was fabulous.

I could have improved on it by tucking in the tank, as you suggested, and perhaps taking a little more care with my jewelry selection, but overall, this skirt and blouse that I have never before worn together, was a good look.

Thanks for the tips!

Very good tips.
It can get confusing and overwhelming pairing skirts up with the right top and layers do really help.!!!
I am sure you have just saved many skirts from total abandonment!

I’m going to play with my skirts this week! Thanks Angie!

You are my hero! Thank you for this post, it is great to read that for the most part, I’m on the right track. :-)

One more idea to add, I tried tucking the hem of a fairly thin, fitted tee shirt up under itself to shorten the length. It looks good and has stayed put. This won’t work for all shirts but may work for some.

I just put all my skirts except for one dressy pencil skirt and one denim pencil skirt in the donate pile. Anything that takes this much effort to figure out just isn’t worth having in my closet.

My new wardrobe resolution is to never buy a skirt without buying a top that works with it at the same time. Other than a denim skirt. I’ve ended up with too many orphan skirts in my closet.

As a rectangle, I have found it can be flattering to wear a skirt and blouse of some type, with a belt under an open cardigan. The belt under the cardigan or outer layer gives a stronger illusion of a waist. Hopefully this is helpful to someone else!

Great post! I’ve gotten to practice quite a few of these since I’ve joined YLF.
I love my full, solid black cotton MK Michael Kors skirt that I bought this Spring, but I’m STILL resolved to transition on over to Team Frock!
:-)

OK…I’m going to try tucking in my top with a skirt tomorrow. I don’t think I’ve done that in years! What an easy tip to make things fresh.

love,
m!

Thanks, Maria and looloo!

Glad things made more sense, Michelle.

Kyle, Fathenry and Julie, lovely extra tips.

Phoebe, what a great closet trick.

Lisa, no heels required with skirts. I wear skirts with flats, but the right length for your leg line is important.

Sinead, a fab tucked-in tank rather than a T is a great idea.

Vani, great question and try the look. It could work.

I love, LOVE skirts!! (Love dresses equally, but haven’t found many I like here in the US). I just counted, I have about 15 of them, just for summer! & they are dinitely NOT orphans! Though most are bought individually without a top, they work together pretty good with the tops in the closet.

The only way I haven’t try is #5; I’ve never into layering. Do you do contrasting color? or just go with a white / neutural colour tank?

One thing I want is how to pair them a bit differently, than just one top matching with one skirt…

Timely post. I just bought a top to go with a skirt that’s been languishing in my closet for two years! Of course, now that I have the perfect top, I’m stressed that I don’t have the right shoes for it… :)

Angie, thanks for these guidelines. I’m going to print them out and start experimenting with ways of belting too. I have been struggling with this lately as I’ve begun to wear more skirts, as I just plain have a shortage of decent tops right now. I always thought that so long as I was buying a skirt in a solid neutral color and a classic shape, it shouldn’t be hard to pair with a top, but experience has proven otherwise. I also find the footwear pairings tricky, especially when they have to be office-appropriate.

THANK THE LORD!!! I’ve been thinking of asking this question to a number of different reputable fashion sites/blogs out here on the intrawebs, but have been too shy…… thank you for somehow knowing that this needed to be addressed! :)

I am so glad I basically follow all rules you posted :)

What an amazing article, choke full of great advice. I have been already doing 1-3, and am very happy to give 4&5 a try!

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Thank you for the wonderful advice. I hate trying to find tops that match the skirts I love. Also I really enjoy how skirts come in all different lengths as well as fabrics. Skirts can range from a formal or buisness attire like skirt to a skirt that you can wear down to the beach.

I usually do “Ann Taylor splurges” (sometimes it’s Talbot’s or Gap or Banana or Nordstrom, but the same principle applies):

1. I go on a sale day. Or when I have coupons.
2. I stick to a palette (Trying to pair my wardrobe down to two brights, two pales, and black/white/gray).
3. I have a plan. A wishlist. It’s written down. Something like: 2 sheath dresses, 2-3 sleeveless work tops, 2 summerweight skirts, only one can be a neutral. I only buy things on the list.
4. I select things that coordinate; I’m thinking in outfits before I try a single thing on.

And then sometimes they surprise me anyway! My last shopping trip was a coral-peach-gray patterned skirt with a coordinating pink tank, a black-and-gray patterned skirt with a coordinating tailored black sheath top, and a gray sleeveless silk blouse to complement both skirts.

In the store I’d tried on the (boxy) gray top with the (slim) coral skirt. But the black skirt had tulip pleating at the hip (very Mad Men!). While it had looked great with the fitted black top, I looked totally shapeless wearing it with the gray one.

Then I tucked in the gray top, and suddenly my legs looked 8 miles long! Threw on a pair of stacked pumps with oxford-stitch detailing and my legs looked 14 miles long! I had a new top-five favorite outfit, and the exact same combination of clothes that had made me feel sloppy and chunky 2 minutes earlier now made me feel polished and slender.

help! i have a long (to your ankles-ish) prana black stretchy cotton skirt with a few white tie die circles at the bottom and for the life of me i cannot find anything to wear it with. im usually a brown girl. i havent worn it because i dont know what top to wear with it. and also i dont know what shoes to wear with it since most my shoes are brown. im sad because i really like this skirt and it just sits in my closet sad.

hey! thx fr helping with dis…. i need ur guidance…i hav got a cotton grey short skirt…wat shud i pair it with…i m quite short, 5’2…n i want to wear black leggings underneath d skirt…. cud u tell, wat color shud b d top?n does it hav to be a tank top,t shrt???…n wat kind of shoes would go along?

thank goodness i finally found a website that knows what to wear with a jean skirt! it’s a pencil skirt and i was wondering if it would go with a white tee and a reddish pinkish three quater sleeve sweater? im going out with my husband for my b-day and i want to look nice

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