Soft and Theatrical Nude Lips

For some time now there has been a movement toward “the nude lip”, a shade of lipstick  that resembles a richer, lighter and creamier version of your lips. The effect is a soft and somewhat theatrical blending of lip and skin tone. 

I love this look on others, but was never convinced that ultra pale, blonde me could pull it off. Each time I tried a nude shade of lipstick, it felt like I was putting concealer on my lips. I looked awful. I thought that’s it, I’m sticking to lip balm when I don’t want to wear lipstick! 

Of course, it all boiled down to finding the right shade of nude lip for my lips and complexion, which turned out to be MAC’s “Creamesheen Modesty”. It is glossy and ever so slightly pink, which means I don’t look like a ghost when I wear it. I found this shade a few days ago and I’m hooked. It’s an added bonus that hubby likes it too.

The visual effect of a nude lip is an acquired taste. People usually wear lipstick or gloss to make their lips darker and stand out, not blend into their skin tone. Do you like it, or do you prefer deeper shades? If you do sport a nude lip, which brand and colour works best for you?

Link Love from YLF Members

MaryK was amused by an article in the New York Times about the fashion competition amongst New York Moms when picking up their kids from school.

Lisa realizes how ridiculous one looks in real life when posing in the same way that models do in fashion shoots

Inge loves the blue and cognac oxford inspired heels that are being used throughout this presentation of Karen Walker’s new collection. Her mixture of blues is beautiful. 

Astrid adores Charlotta’s Fall outfit, where she accessorizes a simple dress with the scarf, belt, tights and boots in Autumn colours.

Laurinda enjoyed Hourglassy’s black T-shirt advice for full-busted lasses. A black T-shirt ups the ‘classy factor’ when it comes to showing cleavage.

Di really liked the discussion of style and personal strength at Already Pretty.

Anna says that Doo-Ri Chung was shocked when Macys asked her to design for them.

Goldenpig found Imogen’s tips on how to pose for outfit photos very helpful, and encourages all YLF lurkers to post their outfits on the forum. Speaking of Imogen, Vildy imagines the stress of choosing conference outfits that you know will be judged by people who judge outfits for a living.

Kyle found these street style slides from Fall 2011 Fashion Week wildly inspirational. 

Kappy, who couldn’t find appealing graphic tees, is inspired to make her own using cool patterned plastic bags

Mrseccentric liked Cynthia’s unique insight into a totally new system for closet purging on Be Fabulous Daily. 

DressLover informs us that Chanel’s Karl Lagerfeld is launching his own brand, Karl, in January. The collection, described as “rock chic” and considered a budget line, will be followed in Autumn 2012 by his upmarket brand, Karl Lagerfeld Paris. I’m curious about this collection! 

We’ve linked to My Closet In Sketches before because the sketches are fantastic! Cocolion and I believe that another shout out is in order. 

Vicki highly recommends seeing the small temporary exhibit of theatrical costumes from Italy’s world famous haute couture designers if you live in the Beverley Hills neigbourhood in California.

Faux Fur Jackets and Coats: A Trend or A Classic

Faux fur toppers are trending very strongly at the moment. They are everywhere, and in great variety. Short, long, solid, patterned, neutral and in the odd colour. Does the fact that they are so on-trend now mean that they’ll look dated next season or a few years after that? 

To my eye, a splendidly fitting faux fur jacket or coat is a classic and always in style. That might sound confusing because the item is, by coincidence, very fashionable right now. But there is something gloriously retro about the item that makes it stand the test of time. It’s one of those magical pieces that’s chic, elegant and lady like, yet fun and edgy. 

Some of my clients have been wearing faux fur jackets and coats for years, whereas others are only getting into the vibe this season. Either way, I’ve reassured them that the look won’t date. Of course, tiring of the look is another story. If that happens, hold off on wearing it for a while. But don’t retire a faux fur topper if it’s in great condition. Allow it to hibernate in your closet until the mood once again strikes you in that way. You’ll be glad you kept the item!

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Elegance, Grace and Edge at 70

My heart is going pitter patter as I write this because I’m worried that I won’t do justice to this incomparable lady. Karen, who has just retired from her job as a book keeper, turns 71 in January. She’s a supportive wife, a spectacular Mum, a loving Granny, and a fabulous friend. When we first met I was immediately captivated by her stunning, glass green eyes, porcelain skin, warm smile, and the hip grey streak in her hair. Karen is no doubt a natural beauty, but it’s her quiet elegance, effortless grace and tactful wisdom that are the most powerful things about her. 

When Karen first asked me to be her fashion stylist I said, “Karen! You are so very stylish. Why do you need my help?” She chuckled and explained that she needed help dressing down her style, and paring down the large amount of black in her wardrobe. Semi-retired life meant no more formal corporate wear, and because Karen has never really worn jeans, dressing for a more relaxed life in Seattle was tough. She desperately wanted to add a casual vibe to her style, but staying dressy, polished and fashionable was also of utmost importance.

We have many style preferences in common, so Karen and I swiftly saw eye to eye on the next leg of her style journey. Although introverted and shy, she is a very strong person with a wicked sense of humour. On the one hand, she loves neutral, crisp, classic clothing, but on the other hand she is often excited by a bold item or new trend. Outfits that are clean and structured, but with an element of surprise, work best for her persona. Karen also prefers to have fewer better-end quality items, so we mix up her outfits with both high and low end pieces.

Marrying the lady-like and glam dimensions of Karen’s fashion persona with denim and a touch of drama is a look that is close to my heart. One of the first items she introduced into her wardrobe when we started working together was a pair of dark wash premium denim jeans. After wearing her David Kahns with dressy tops, jackets and ankle boots for precisely one month she was hooked. Smart Casual dressing became Karen’s new daily uniform. The right pair of jeans made her feel youthful and casually appropriate for almost any occasion. It wasn’t long before Karen had a super assortment of premium denim.

Age appropriate dressing frequently comes into our conversations. Karen wants to continue having fun with fashion and shopping, without worrying that she’s too old to wear a look. I appreciate her concern and we thrash out the topic with a lot of passion! My guideline is always the same: pick the right trendy item and ground the outfit with a no-nonsense classic integrity. 

This guideline struck a chord with Karen and she successfully integrates solid classics with the latest trends. For example, we chose a very tailored moto jacket in a merlot instead of black and kept the hardware to a minimum. Karen likes to wear her moto jacket with classic bootcut jeans and a sweater. A scarf adds extra chic and softens the look.

Karen found the sassy black leather dress above on deep discount. She had it altered for perfect fit, and enjoys wearing it with soft knits and silks. The fashion forward frock is completely grounded by luscious classic pieces like the silky scarf, boyfriend cardigan and suede black pumps. To top things off, Karen sometimes adds her classic black DKNY trench coat.

My 70 year old client in a leather dress. I LOVE it.

Ralph Lauren designs pull at Karen’s heartstrings. Years ago we bought the black velvet Lauren jacket below. This item is going to stand the test of time. She wears it with her formal skirts, AND with jeans and low heels. We especially love the jacket when matched with her late Mum’s 6-strand pearl necklace — an exquisite vintage piece that will stay in the family.

When Karen asked me whether she could wear tapered straight leg jeans at her age (then 69), my reply was, “Of course!”. Karen took to her new straight leg jeans like a duck to water. Matching them with an animal print blouse and wool blazer is one of her favourite combinations. She finishes off the outfit with ankle boots (the Paul Green numbers from this year’s Nordstrom Anniversary sale) or black ballet flats.  On colder days Karen tucks her straight legs into flat riding boots, which is a great practical look for wet Seattle. No soggy bootcut hems.

Being on the tall side, Karen is perfect for the midi skirt trend. When we took these photos she had just bought the red animal printed skirt and was really excited about it. So at the last minute we popped it into the photo shoot with a retro cardigan, complete with faux fur trim and wide waist cinching belt. We added her slim fitting black Stuart Weitzman boots for extra elegance. These boots always bring a smile to my face. Karen bought them four years ago and was only prepared to make the investment if she could also wear them after 70. I rest my case. 

Dear Karen, you are an inspiration to me, oozing style inside and out, from head to toe. I treasure our moments together because we have a ball, and because you teach me so much. You rock my style world with your love for fashion and the conviction with which you wear your killer outfits. Thank you so much for doing this fashion shoot and for braving the windy day. You are a beautiful person and I adore you.

Fab Find: Knee-High Boots for Wide Calves

The infamous knee-high boot by Aerosoles, which is also available in wide toe box widths, has a good chance of fitting ladies with wide calves. They are super soft, cushioning, very comfortable, and attractive. They can be dressed up and down, looking equally good with both dresses and skirts, or over leggings and jeans.

The given measurements of the shaft and circumference of this style are confusing. Boots with a 13-inch circumference, as it states online, are for ladies with narrow calves. Yet these boots fit my client with calves four to five inches wider than that. These boots have a genius two zipper opening, allowing the boot to widen as necessary. The long zipper goes all the way down, while the shorter zipper expands the width of the boot around the calf area. 

These boots will not work on petite gals because the shafts are too high. Yes, the boots given shaft measurement is 13.5 inches, which should work on shorter ladies, but they are longer than that.

Lastly, the boots are made of faux leather and currently retailing for $79.99. Sweet deal and vegan friendly.