Happy Holidays From Seattle

It’s just Greg, Rosie and me at the Holiday Cox Castle. My Papa is in London celebrating with my brother’s family, and Jasmine is very sadly no longer with us. Both were here for Christmas last year when festivities were in full swing. Despite the quieter atmosphere, we’re spreading good cheer because Christmas is magical when you’re at home with your loved ones. 

You can’t go wrong embellishing a topper capsule when you live in cold and wet Seattle. Jackets and coats are always money well spent, especially when you feel the cold like I do. Although I have plenty of coats, there was room for one more. I’ve been looking for the right classic peacoat for ages, and actually had my mind set on one in ink blue with bright gold buttons. But when I fitted on J.Crew’s Majesty peacoat in warm lemon, my heart skipped a beat and the idea of ink blue went flying out the window.

I see a pattern in my style and wardrobe choices. A lot of the time, I enjoy wearing classic items in unexpected colours. It’s the colour, not the style, that gives these particular pieces their edge. Of course, some classic pieces look so very perfect in conventional colours, like a fitted black blazer and turtle neck or crisp white button down shirt. And I enjoy wearing those items just as much. 

Although I bat for Team Red, I’m wearing yellow, black and blue for this year’s Christmas post. It’s the exact outfit that I wore when shopping with a client earlier this week amidst the hectic holiday hustle and bustle. Black turtleneck, dark skinny jeans and flat over-the-knee boots are my cold weather wardrobe staples, while the yellow topper adds a much needed cheerful accent on a dull, grey day. I’m also wearing my extra wide cats-eye specs, which is as close as I get to “geek chic” eyewear. 

Yorkshire Terrier Rosie’s red and white sweater is perfectly cozy for a cool stroll along Alki’s Beach Drive, which is where these photos were taken. Rosie wore her yellow harness to match my new coat. Her blonde bare legs are plenty warm, and her little grey foot pads are wardrobe workhorses. Such a naturally beautiful little lady is effortlessly stylish no matter what she wears. 

Greg bats for Team Black, Charcoal and Dark Blue without many exceptions. He does look stunning in a cherry red, but clearly I have more influence over Rosie’s colour choices than I do over his. As much as I like to see Greg in colour, I adore his dark, urban, no-nonsense style. He loves to wear his Winter uniform of tapered jeans, turtle neck, Dr. Marten boots, scarf and leather jacket. Rosie and I figured that we wear enough colour to make up for Greg’s almost entirely black wardrobe. Furthermore, Greg’s bright blue eyes are one killer accessory that I wish I could have too! 

We at YLF wish you a very festive yet peaceful Holiday weekend. We hope that your hearts are filled with much love and laughter. A good dose of cake and cookies won’t hurt either. 

Team Present or Team Gift Card

You are on Team Present if you prefer to receive a real present. It still counts if your hints nudged the giver in the right direction. You are on Team Gift Card if you prefer to receive gift cards. It takes a little longer before you enjoy the benefits of this gift, AND you have to go to the effort of choosing your own gift after receiving the card. But you can spend the money as you please. 

I used to be 100% on Team Present. I didn’t enjoy receiving money or gift cards quite as much, because the thrill of opening a present and being able to enjoy it immediately could not be beat. I also appreciated the thoughtfulness of the person who went to the trouble of selecting the gift.

But over the years I have changed my mind about wardrobe gift cards and these days I love receiving them too. I always have a wish list and it’s wonderful to receive an unexpected budget for it. In some ways gift cards are more considerate. I personally have a hard time returning gifts when they are not my cup of tea, which makes the gift card a much more practical solution.

These polls do not usually allow you to bat for both Teams because the point is that you think a little deeper about your style preference and pick a side. But with gift giving Christmas around the corner, batting for both teams is allowed. And I am so batting for both Teams on this one. 

Over to you. Are you Team Present or Team Gift Card? Remember to tell us why you picked that side if you’re not batting for both teams.

Wearing Booties with Skirts and Dresses: Yay or Nay

Booties in countless styles, colours and heel heights (I include shooties and ankle boots in the “bootie” category), have been extremely popular in the fashion and style world over the last couple of years. And I don’t see this trend slowing down any time soon. Ladies are pairing booties with EVERYTHING from tapered trousers, cropped pants, classic slacks, skinnies, culottes and jeans, to dresses, short shorts, harem pants, micro minis, bermuda shorts, midis and knee-length skirts. The fashion world is definitely in the midst of a “Bootie Era”. 

As mainstream as they are, wearing booties with skirts and dresses is still considered an edgy, and even unattractive, combination. Especially when you leave off the hose. Several of my clients still prefer to pair skirts and dresses with knee-high boots or pumps because that combination is more elongating and therefore more flattering. To their eye, the horizontally cutting high vamp of the bootie just doesn’t work with bottoms that expose a portion of the leg.

Two years ago I set out guidelines on how to wear booties with skirts and dresses and more recently included midis into the bootie mix. I also included the combination as a way to liven up your work wardrobe. Clearly, I very much support these outfit combinations because the effect looks fresh, spunky and fashion forward to my eye. Since booties became mainstream I have been suggesting the combination to all my clients, just to change up their outfits. This year in particular there has been more love for the combination, which I attribute to “getting used to the look”.

Do you wear booties with skirts and dresses? Did you need a little time to get used to the pairing?  Can the combination look fabulous, or do you feel that when given the choice, knee-high boots and pumps are always a better pairing with skirts and dresses.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Thirteen Affordable Fab Finds

Here’s an assortment of items that have been winners with my clients over the last few weeks. Remember to look at all of the colour options: 

  • Banana Republic Merino Sweater Coat: Sweater coats can look like bath robes, but this beltless wonder is  fantastic. Non-itch, cozy and quite streamlined. It’s also available in navy in stores. 
  • Banana Republic Black Five-Pocket Legging: The best “leans” I’ve seen all season, resembling trousers more than leggings. Good fit, thick fabric and very, very comfortable. One of my clients converted to skinnies because of these pants. 
  • Express Leather Moto Jacket: It’s been hard to find moto jackets with symmetrical front zippers, but this one fits the bill. The hidden ribbed insets in the sleeves and torso make it an especially great fit for ladies with broader shoulders and wider upper arms. The red and taupe colour options get my top vote. 
  • Madewell Skinny Skinny Cords: I am generally not fond of corduroy trousers, but the look and quality of these cords helped it through my style filter. The wale is so narrow that you can barely see it’s corduroy. To my eye, this is a subjective design plus. 
  • Madewell Rail Straight Cords: The quality of the corduroy is the same as the skinnies (very narrow wale), but the fit of these is a little roomier all over. 
  • Madewell Colorwheel Trousers: If fashion forward, narrow pleated trousers in bright colours are your thing, give these a whirl. The fit is narrow so you might need to size up one size. I really liked them because, for a change, the length was not cropped above the ankle. The side entry pockets, although not ideal, lie pretty flat against the body.  
  • Kenneth Cole Reaction Wool Blend Button Tab Coat: The industry has been obsessed with double breasted coats and they aren’t always the most flattering and practical fit. A single breasted style also tends to look better when worn open. This single breasted coat fits surprisingly well. I had my initial reservations about the horizontal tab detailing, but it’s not unflattering. The red and charcoal options are best in my book. 
  • All Black Fish Bow Mary Jane Pump: These low heeled beauties are going for a song, but they run small so size up a whole size. 
  • John Fluevog Pilgrim Loafer: They look more like oxfords than loafers but they’re absolutely divine. A friend of mine launched me into orbit when I saw them on her feet. Edgy and comfortable. 
  • John Fluevog Wonder Everest Heel: My feet do not tolerate this type of ankle strap because no matter what, I get blisters from the rubbing. But these shoes might make me change my mind, they were that comfortable. Kickstart Spring with this yummy colour blocked combination, or try these colour options for a different effect.
  • Suzi Chin for Maggy Boutique Cowl Neck Jersey Dress: All round gorgeous with a great length sleeve, and it’s NOT black. 
  • Helmut Lang ‘Supple’ Off the Shoulder Dress: This frock has absolutely zero hanger appeal, but once it’s on, you might change your mind. It fits amazingly well and is alluring in a non-conventional way. Very, very fab. 
  • Halogen Patterned Knit Skirt: This well priced and fabulous knitted skirt has been around for 18 months in assorted colours. Now it’s available in monochromatic patterned jacquards like this crocodile animal print, or this leopard print
  • Aerosoles Cintipede Shootie: Completely vegan and looks super in red and tan. Very comfortable, and great with tapered trousers and jeans, or bootcuts.

Feel free to add to this list of Fab Finds if you recently purchased a fairly affordable item that makes your style heart sing.

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Fernanda’s Skincare Journey

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It gives me great pleasure to bring back the ultra fabulous Fernanda, who you met earlier this year when she relayed her heartfelt and inspiring style journey in two parts. Beautiful Fernanda, who has lovely and well cared for skin, has finally found a regimen that works for her epidermis. It took a while to fine tune her routine, but after her skin settled, there was no turning back. 

Angie: What is your skin type? Has it changed over the years? 

Fernanda: I have combination skin that used to be a problem when I was younger. Now that I’m older, my skin has thankfully normalized. During my teenage years and early twenties I was always breaking out, especially in the T-zone. Then in my late twenties, I went through hormonal turmoil, which obviously showed up on my skin. I broke out in apparently dry zones like the jaw and neck area, and sometimes on my cheeks too. As soon as the hormonal problems were fixed, my skin entered into a peaceful era which I’m luckily still enjoying. The hormonal treatments really helped my skin. 

How did your Mother influence your approach to skincare? 

In the most strange but helpful ways! My Mother used to be a beauty products junkie, and always fell victim to sales representatives in department stores who talked her into buying the whole line of an expensive skincare brand (day cream, night cream, mid-afternoon cream… you get the picture). I remember her coming home with all these fancy jars, that never failed to cause some kind of rash, dryness or break out. She ended up giving everything away and returning to her old big jar of cold cream. So I learned from her to be very aware of the harmful effects of the wrong skincare products, but also to be wary of products that cost a fortune and promise you the world. I am often suspicious of this type of thing. Sometimes you’re just paying for the pretty packaging, the buzz and, of course, the name on the bottle. 

Also, my Mother loved to be tanned and enjoyed baking in the sun. In those days, we weren’t aware of the harmful affects of sun damage. I was more the indoor type. I didn’t like to get all sweaty, which happens when you lie in the sun, so I stayed indoors with my books. Turns out that my indoor habit did my skin a huge favour. 

At what age did you start thinking seriously about skincare? 

In my mid-thirties, when I realized that good skin was a combination of good health, good habits and, most importantly, a set of products that address your very specific skincare needs. I started seeing dermatologists, and discovered a whole different approach to skincare. Like you Angie, I believe in dermatologists. They are doctors after all, and my experiences with professional skin doctors has been very positive. There is a HUGE world of skin products out there, and you have to match up the right products with your skin type. It’s not easy, but a dermatologist helps you find your way. All I have to do is be disciplined about sticking to the routine. 

Are facials part of your skincare regimen? 

Not anymore. They used to be when I didn’t have a specific skincare regime, but on many occasions I spent more time healing from the break outs caused by the deep extractions, than enjoying the supposed benefits of a facial. I learned from my dermatologist that the excessive deep cleansing part that comes with facials often causes extra sebum production, which is not a good thing for my skin type. 

What is your current skincare routine? 

I always wash my face at night and first thing in the morning with a very gentle cleansing mousse. If I wear make-up and mascara, I use an electronic cleansing brush that helps remove every speck of make-up. In the morning I apply a thin layer of vitamin C serum, (the best thing in the universe), and always, always, sunscreen. I do not use moisturizer because that causes my skin to break out, but the sunscreen also acts as a moisturizer. I do not use toner. At night I use a retinoid cream prescribed by my dermatologist, followed by a clearing serum to reduce skin discolorations and spots. I also use an eye cream, and exfoliate a few times a month. Sounds like a lot of stuff but once you get used to applying it, it becomes routine.

How has your skincare routine changed over the years? 

It has become more targeted and I don’t simply go and buy stuff just to try it out. It’s a relief to be able to walk straight through skincare counters because I already have what works for my skin. I stick to my regimen and re-evaluate with a dermatologist once a year. It’s so liberating not to be tempted by every single new product! (Not to mention good for the pocket.)

Were there any big sudden changes in your approach to skincare?

I became religious about removing make up, washing my face, and applying sunscreen. Sometimes I don’t apply some of the other products, but I ALWAYS clean and apply sunscreen (which doubles up as a moisturizer for my skin type).

What are the most important things that you have learned about skincare? 

That there is a risk of overdoing and over applying skincare products. In my case, for example, rich moisturizers are a ticket to breaking out. Our skin does a good job of self-regulating, and sometimes we tend to strip away its natural moisture, or clog it up with things it just doesn’t need. Also, my skin is unaffected by what I eat and drink, or how much I exercise. But as soon as I don’t get enough sleep, you can see the unfavourable affects on my skin. Sleep is my kryptonite! 

Where do you purchase your skincare products? 

I buy all my skincare products at a specialized dermatological store here in Mexico City, where I can also get the creams and serums that are prescribed by my dermatologist. I love that they come in very simple bottles and tubes. I like this kind of no-nonsense approach to skincare. 

If time and money were no object, how would you improve your skincare routine? 

I don’t know if it counts as skincare, but I’d get more massages, body scrubs and body treatments. They’re soooooo relaxing. And when I’m relaxed, my skin looks best. In regards to my face, I think that my routine would stay pretty much the same, although laser treatment would probably get rid of my skin discolouration. I wouldn’t say the same about clothes, however, where I’d surely go crazy buying this and that if I had a larger budget! 

What’s your number one skincare tip?

Keep it clean (not squeaky clean, just clean), and wear sunscreen. Learn to read the signals that your skin sends you. No matter how expensive and well rated the moisturizer, if it feels too greasy, it’s simply not good for your skin. Let your skin breath and see what happens. The same with other skincare products. Your body always knows best. And lastly, see a dermatologist if you’re concerned about your skin. It’s worth the time and expense. 

Comparing my own experiences, to those of Kendall, Karen and Fernanda has been very interesting for me. Our skin types differ, and therefore our routines and skin products differ. But in many instances our regimens are very much the same, like being ultra disciplined about twice-daily-cleansing and applying sunscreen. Furthermore, we all wholeheartedly agree that inexpensive drug store products can be fabulous and that dermatologists are underrated. 

I’ve learned a lot from interviewing these three wonderful ladies and thank them for their time and willingness to share their skincare experiences. As a result, I’m going back to my dermatologist early next year to ask about retinoid cream and Vitamin C serum. I’ve also been drinking more hot green tea, which I actually find quite yummy. 

Ladies, if you have anything further to share about your own skincare routine, skincare experiences and skincare challenges, please do so in the comments section. Your thoughts on the subject throughout this series have been especially thoughtful, meaningful and informative.

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