Your Style: If It’s Fabulous, Don’t Fix It

I’m always on the lookout for tops in new styling. I fit on all sorts of new-to-me styles that tickle my fancy, and thoroughly enjoy the process. But here’s the thing: I’m actually quite unadventurous with my tops. 

In recent years I haven’t found a new style that I like more than my three staples: a button-down shirt, a tailored turtleneck, or a crew/slash neck pullover in a roomy fit with a banded bottom. Whenever I fit on a top in one of these three styles, the planets align. My emotional response changes from like to love, and I go from feeling good in my outfit to feeling fabulous in my outfit. It has to do with the way these styles work with my long neck, short hair, and dainty shoulder line.

Granted, I like variety in these three types of tops. I wear button-down shirts in tailored and roomy fits across all colours, patterns and fabrications. Silk, linen, cotton, lace, rayon, polyester, dots, stripes, florals, geometric patterns — it’s all good. But the collar must pop, and the sleeves must scrunch unless they are French cuffs or a tuxedo shirt collar. I like tailored turtlenecks in an assortment of knitted gauges, patterns and colours. And I’ll wear crew/slash neck sweaters in a variety of weights, fabrics, stitch interests, fits, lengths and sleeve styles. So I’ve actually been able to build enough variety with a wardrobe based predominantly on three styles of top. 

Although I stick to updated modern classics in the tops department, this doesn’t mean that I’m not evolving other aspects of my wardrobe all the time. My hair, trouser silhouettes, jeans silhouettes, jacket style, bag style, shoe style, skirt style, and colour palettes are the places that I am more creative. So while one part of my wardrobe is relatively constant, my style as a whole always feels refreshed.

This brings me to my point: If a component of your style continues to make you feel fab, there is no need to change it for the sake of change alone. Work it! And evolve your style in other areas.

Sometimes when my clients fear that they aren’t being adventurous with a particular area of their wardrobe, I remind them how set in my ways I am when it comes to tops. Of course, I am all for trying new things and challenging comfort zones, because that’s how we evolve and improve our style. But in the same breath I will also reassure you that when something about your style isn’t broken and feels fabulous, it doesn’t need fixing.

Summer Sandals

Belle By Sigerson Morrison Daisy SandalIt’s sandal season, which means showcasing those pretty feet! My clients are excited about our freak warm weather just so that they can start wearing their new sandals. The styles I have selected range from dressy to casual and cover an assortment of price points, style integrities and heel heights. They range from comfortable to extremely comfortable depending on the fussy-factor of your feet. I have the fussiest sandal feet in the world, and even I found a few pairs I could sport, weather permitting. Some styles work well for low volume feet, while others are all about filling out the silhouette. Be sure to look at all the colour options.

  1. Marc Jacobs Clean Metallic Wedge: A dainty little darling with the sweetest baby wedge that’s available in both metals. The ankle strap is quite comfortable, and not as horizontally cutting as you might expect. 
  2. Born Caity Crown Collection: This one is for Team Modern Bohemian. If you can do the heel height, it’s a comfy sandal. I vote aqua. 
  3. Sam Edelman Gigi: I have many happy clients in this flat thong sandal that Sam Edelman repeats every season. I don’t find it comfortable because I don’t like to wear straps between my toes, but I’m in the minority. It comes in many colours and patterns. Read the rave reviews.
  4. Sam Edelman Serena: The broad ankle strap that’s positioned above the ankle bone is the sandal look of the season, and it’s pretty comfy in a well designed sandal like this one. Great on feet that can fill out the style. Wear a low contrast colour to offset the cutting horizontal line on bare legs. 
  5. Clarks Evant Julie: Soft leather and a cushioning footbed make these fab. Breezy perforation and a small peep toe are great style details. 
  6. Stuart Weitzman Tieoneon: A very strappy and on trend high vamped sandal with a manageable heel height. Versatile. I can see it with shorts, dressy frocks and everything in between. Read the rave reviews.
  7. Zara Crossover Sling Back Hologram Sandal: Disco! The leather is not soft, but they look wonderful on the foot. Retro and modern. 
  8. Zara Pointed Block Heel Shoes: On trend, refined, gorgeous and perfect on a low volume foot. I wish these worked for me but as with many shoes from Zara, the leather is just not soft enough. I hope they work for you.
  9. Vince Camuto Hannah Sandal: My clients love this one because it works with dressy and casual clothing. And it’s super comfy if three inch wedges are your thing. Soft leather and footbed. 
  10. Nine West Vilta: Sporty and fun in the tan with orange piping. The sandal style of the year and pretty comfy. Not good on low volume feet. 
  11. Lucky Brand Miller 2: This one is for Team ’70s. Surprisingly comfortable because of the stretchy straps. I vote peach silver. 
  12. Ecco Omak Perf Sandal: Another sporty sandal that’s chunky in a refined way. They might run half a size large. Loving the white. 
  13. Ecco Odense T-Strap: Another tried and tested classic style that’s a winner with some of my clients in the metallic. Very comfortable and polished casual. 
  14. Belle By Sigerson Morrison Daisy Sandal: Fun trendy sandal that is also surprisingly comfortable if you can manage the heel height. 
  15. Biala Jillian Wedge Sandal: The sandal is as light as a feather. You can’t feel them on your feet! Quite good for low volume feet when you size down. I like the contrasting sole. 
  16. Sperry Top-Sider Lynbrook Sandal: An adorable casual version of the oh so trendy broad ankle strap. The straps are adjustable so it works for a range of foot widths. 
  17. INC Fama Wedge Sandal: For a brief moment I considered getting them in the bisque. Suede shoes are really comfy and these work for low volume feet. Great wedge shape. 
  18. Nine West Offdahook Sandal: This is the sandal that knocked my socks off. If I needed a dressy sandal, this would be it. It works well on low volume feet and the dainty heel is quite stable. Soft straps and pretty comfortable. All the colours are fab.  
  19. Marc Fisher Bly Sandal: The softest leather of them all! Just love the shape of the higher ankle strap styling. The light blue and orange are extra fab. 
  20. Anyi Lu Athena Sandal: Gorgeous, graphic, trendy and beautifully made. The strap is a little finicky to fasten but it’s worth the fuss. Works for a wider foot too. 
  21. Splendid Evanston Strappy Sandal: Our forum member Cocolion recently bought these and blew me away. That criss-cross ankle strap is stunning, as is the perforated texture. Works for a wider foot.

I still don’t have any sandals and I’m almost certain that I won’t be purchasing a pair. I prefer closed shoes, period. So my go-to shoes for Spring and Summer are pointy toe pumps, wedged Converse sneakers and slipper flats. What are your go-to shoes for the warmer months?

Marc Jacobs Clean Metallic WedgeBorn Caity Crown CollectionStuart Weitzman TieoneonZara Crossover Sling Back Hologram SandalNine West ViltaLucky Brand Miller 2Ecco Omak Perf SandalEcco Odense T-StrapSplendid Evanston Strappy Sandals

Four Starting Points for Outfit Creation

Outfit creation is at the heart of your style. This is where it all comes together, and it is where you can achieve maximum impact because it’s not just about the item itself, but how you wear it that counts. 

I have many clients who ask me to help them only with outfit creation, because that’s where they get stuck. That means they’ve edited and reviewed their closet and shopped for items on their shopping list on their own, but find it challenging to create flattering, interesting and comfortable outfits. So we spend anywhere from several hours to the entire day putting together outfits for all aspects of their lifestyle. Along the way we document the combinations we come up with and note wardrobe gaps and surpluses.

I go into the outfit creation process with my head full of information that acts as reference point and inspiration, often very specific to my client’s needs. This makes it hard to distill general guidelines, but recently I have been thinking more about the things that my outfit creation sessions have in common. I realized that our approach often falls into one of four categories, each based on a different starting point.

1. An Item

The item could be a new pair of trousers, a dress, a skirt, a top or topper, belt, necklace, or pair of shoes. Any wardrobe item at all. Sometimes my clients will pull out an old item that they love and want to find ways to wear it more frequently. More often they have bought a new piece that they adore, but are stuck on how to use it in a fabulous outfit.

The challenge with using a single item as an outfit creating starting point is that it’s only one piece of the puzzle and you might not have much context for the rest of the picture. 

2. A Colour Palette 

You might want to create a set of outfits within a particular colour palette because it is a new-to-you colour combination that you really like, or because you already have a lot of that palette represented in your wardrobe and want to make better use of it. Sometimes the setting dictates a particular colour palette. For example, I have executive clients who prefer to work within a neutral colour palette.

The challenges with using a colour palette as an outfit creating starting point are twofold. First, it is sometimes tricky to combine hues and intensities in ways that work well together, and with your complexion. Second, I find with my clients that certain colours and colour combinations really test their comfort zone. Too bright, too flashy, too muted, too cold or too warm. Colours are very emotive, after all, so they generate strong feelings, especially when associations from the past get involved.

3. An Outfit Formula

Outfit formulas can be general, like jeans + blouse + blazer + flats. Or they can be more specific like the dressy nostalgic tee ensemble, which combines a nostalgic tee with a pencil skirt, chic dressy jacket and girly shoes. Formulas are a very effective way to simplify the outfit creation process, and they can also be a very efficient way to think of your wardrobe, creating a series of “uniforms” that you can wear in different situations.

They do also have their challenges. First, you have to know about a formula in order to use it. Second, a formula is seldom all that you need. A general formula leaves a lot of blanks to fill. And a very specific formula is hardly ever perfect for everyone and will require some substitution when it is applied. For example, in the jeans + blouse + blazer + flats formula, it can be quite effective to substitute the blouse for a layering tee or sweater, or the flats for heeled ankle boots. This is where my clients sometimes battle, not realizing the substitutions they can make, or just not having the confidence to make them.

4. A Copycat Example

The popularity of this starting point has exploded along with the growth of Pinterest, with people pinning and sharing outfits from blogs, catalogues and online style magazines. These days my clients will often show me an outfit on their Pinterest boards or in a fashion magazine and ask for my help in replicating the look.

The copycat approach is easier said than done. Seldom is the person wearing the outfit an exact match for your persona, lifestyle and body type. So the challenge is to modify and substitute, capturing the essence of what you like about the outfit, but making it work for you.

Looking back over the years of YLF I realised that I have written relatively few posts about the nuts and bolts of outfit creation. This is probably because it is so hard to give specific, tangible advice that will apply to everyone. But just because it’s hard doesn’t mean I shouldn’t try. I’m going to use the set of starting points above as a framework and in future posts I will tackle each one in more detail.

Are there other approaches or starting points that you find useful when you set about creating outfits?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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21 Gift Ideas for Mother’s Day

Whether it’s giving your own Mum a gift or being showered with gifts yourself because you’re a Mum, Mother’s Day gifts run the gamut. Everything from brunch, lunch and dinner out, to spa treatments, books, flowers and weekends away. Of course, there’s also the option of treating Mum, and that includes YOU if you’re a Mum, to a gift of style. 

Here are items across an assortment of price points that could make fun and practical gifts for Mum:  

  1. Joie Day Dreaming Light Gold Slipper Flats: Trendy, beautifully made, soft leather, ageless and versatile. They are very flat, but they work well with orthotic inserts and cushioning insoles. Mum might need to size down half a size. 
  2. Bella Vita Wow Pump: The pump has a two inch heel (the information on the site is incorrect). It’s on trend, comfortable, elegant and comes in several colours and patterns. AND it comes in wide widths. I couldn’t be happier with my white pair. 
  3. Book: Summer at Tiffany: Two friends become the first ever women to work on the sales floor of the legendary Tiffany & Co. A delightful story about fashion, friendship and love. 
  4. Book: Women from the Ankle Down: This book is for shoe lovers. It tells the story of 20th century American footwear through the eras’ most iconic shoes. 
  5. Casual Studio Pleat Front Blouse: An easy pull-on-and-go over a white cami and jeans. 
  6. Movie: Funny Face: Audrey Hepburn wears the most famous pair of black cropped pants of all time in this movie. It’s a must-see for iconic fashion and fabulous dance routines.  
  7. Documentary: Bill Cunningham New York: This incomparable man on his bike has been snapping photos of interesting street style for many decades and continues to do so well into his eighties. It’s the most moving fashion documentary I have ever seen. 
  8. Kate Spade Larabee Dot Ring Holder: An easy, attractive and visible storage idea for rings. 
  9. Natori Shangri-La Robe: Fabulous robes are hard to find, but this one is great. It’s pretty, lightweight and comes in many colors. Read the rave reviews. Also available in plus.
  10. Zella Supersoft Hoodie: An excellent item for a lounging or workout capsule. Its shaped fit is flattering. 
  11. Nordstrom Waffle Cotton Robe: Here’s a shorter and more structured robe in a stiffer waffle knit. Fresh for Summer. 
  12. Elliott Lucca Intreccio Leather Tote: It’s like a work of art. Casual, chic and playful. 
  13. Michael Kors Bracelet Chronograph 38mm Watch: A mixed metal time piece that double duties as a bracelet. Here it is in plain gold
  14. Michael Kors MK5680 Emma Multifunction Glitz Watch: Here’s a silver one with a little more glitz and square face. 
  15. Rebecca Minkoff ‘M.A.B.’ Leather Tote: A quality bag with a high longevity quotient. Simple, practical and modern. 
  16. Natasha Couture Dotty Cuff: An architectural piece of arm candy with a sense of humour.  
  17. Charles Albert Musical Bubble Pendant Necklace: A cheerful round pendant that jingles on a delicate chain as you stride. Mum can wear this type of necklace with just about any outfit. 
  18. Fina Firenze Floral Foiled Denim Belt: The silver option is great with a blush and white ensemble. Soft, pretty and on trend. 
  19. Michael Kors Eyelet Cotton Tunic (Plus): So modernly bohemian it’s almost graphic. Feminine and breezy. Fab over a pair of bermuda shorts, pencil skirt or jeans. 
  20. Foley & Corinna FC Wallet: Particularly fab in the iridescent. It virtually functions as a mini clutch. 
  21. Kate Spade Millionaire iPad Sleeve: Just for fun! 

If my Mum were still with us today, she’d most appreciate receiving something pretty for her wardrobe as well as time with her family on Mother’s Day. So it would probably be a blouse or pullover of sorts, accompanied by a bunch of pink flowers, and lunch out somewhere dressy. Then back home by mid-afternoon so that she could spend the rest of the day relaxing with the dogs. 

What do you get your Mum for Mother’s Day? And if you’re a Mum, do you have any requests for your special day? 

Dotty CuffSupersoft HoodieIntreccio Leather ToteMichael Kors Chain Bracelet-Chronograph-WatchSummer at TiffanyWomen from the Ankle DownM. A. B. Leather Tote

Link Love: Wedding Bells

Harper’s Bazaar has a roundup of the best bridal fashion for Spring 2014. Or check out these white runway dresses if a classic wedding gown is not your cup of tea.

From yellow ballet flats to pink patent oxfords and bright red rainboots. Cup of Jo presents seven offbeat alternatives for the traditional wedding pump. Looking for more ideas? Tons of alternative wedding inspiration can be found on Kat Williams’ wedding blog Rock n Roll Bride.

And what will the husband-to-be wear? I loved reading how these four grooms chose their wedding suits!

Fab Links from Our Members

This New York Times article brings up the question whether fashion books and movies are just another marketing tool or if they are really art. Deb thinks it’s all about the money.

When she grows up Angie will be dressing just like this magnificent lady, who is sporting what has got to be one of the most beautiful bobs of all time.

H&M is getting applause for showing its beachwear collection on a plus-size model. Janet hopes that many retailers will follow suit, and wonders if customers wrote to express their approval of this tactic, it would encourage more of the same. What do you think?

Peri was very moved by the powerful and profound message in Lauren Slater’s article about how she used fashion and beauty to deal with her depression.

Charmian enjoyed Jess’ take on the recent garment factory collapse in Bangladesh and on how buying ethically is more nuanced than merely shunning sweatshops. For people wanting to read more about sweatshop labour, she recommends Factory Girls: From Village to City in a Changing China by Leslie T. Chang.

Ironkurtin directs us to more background context on the subject: a very thoughtful overview of why the textile trade is prone to abuses (be sure to read the comments as well).