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Spam has been a behind-the-scenes challenge at YLF for years. To deal with it we’ve built automated systems of our own, we use third party anti-spam systems, and we do a fair amount of manual moderation with the help of many forum members. But recently the volume of incoming spam reached epic proportions and started to overwhelm all of these measures. We need to take some additional steps to reign it in. You may have noticed the first of these, which was to restrict the ability to comment on blog posts to logged in members. 

The second step concerns the forum. We will move to a model where only YLF patrons (paying members) can post in the forum. Don’t fret if you are a current YLF member because your ability to post in the forum for free won’t go away. The requirement to be a paying member will only apply to NEW members who join after July 15, 2024.

There are two ways to become a YLF patron: a recurring monthly subscription and a non-recurring annual payment.

We are announcing this a few weeks in advance of the change so that people who have been thinking about participating in the forum, but haven’t yet taken the leap, have some time to get in for free before July 15.

Just to make things completely clear, here are the people who will be able to post and reply in the forum from July 15 onwards:

  • Any paying member
  • Any member who signed up before July 15, 2024

Here is a summary to clarify the features available to different visitors.

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You can see that anonymous visitors can still read all of the content, and all logged in members can still collect items, create collections using the Finds feature, and post comments in the forum.

For members who are posting in the forum, the member levels will continue to apply as before.

Thank you in advance for your understanding. If you have any questions, please log in and post them in the comments below.

Fab Finds: Assorted Items

These items are tried and tested winners on my clients and friends. Lots of them are on sale and going for a song. Be sure to browse the colour and size options and read the reviews. 

1. Madewell Puffed Buckle Leather Belt

Interestingly, several clients are refreshing their belt collections. I’m a frequent belt wearer. It’s an effective way of finishing off an outfit and adding an interesting touch. I fully support embellishing a belt capsule.

This particular belt goes down well with clients who enjoy silver hardware. The buckle is chunky, yet lies flat and isn’t bulky. It’s worked particularly well on petites. The white is a creamy colour, and the ash green is unique. Don’t get the belt too big or the end will flap about too much.

2. Sofft Innis Sandal

This sandal comes in a regular and wide sizes and is a classic and comfortable workhorse. Comes in a variety of versatile neutrals so take your pick. The wide size is particularly good for those who need a wider toe box. The black patent and white look extra fresh.

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3. Ralph Lauren Floral Blouse

This classic blouse stole the hearts of those who enjoy wearing moody and dusty colours. It’s not clear from the photo but a dusty lilac runs through the pattern, and is lovely. Looks fab tucked and untucked. Great with black or white bottoms, adds a tailored touch, and does not crease. Good for a travel.

4. Unilqo Co-Ord and Gauzy Cardigan

This pleated sleeveless top with matching pleated wide pants creates a particularly ‘90s on trend co-ord. It’s wrinkle-free and very easy to pack and wear. Sufficiently polished to wear in a relaxed work environment, especially with a lightweight jacket or gauzy cardigan layered over the top. Comes in three neutrals. The gauzy cardigan looked great over the set on one of my clients.

Uniqlo Pleated Straight Pants

Uniqlo Light V-Neck Long-Sleeve Cardigan

5. Jackets

The seersucker blazer in a refined grey and white stripe looked awesome on my client with gorgeous salt and pepper hair. VERY lightweight, and comfy. The pink has an on trend preppy touch. They have bottoms to match. The Loft items come in petite. The Cinq á Sept blazer is tailored and a great length on Team Tall. The built-in scrunched sleeves are handy and easy. Looks sharp in a relaxed and textured way.

6. Fishermans, Oxfords, Loafers, Sandals

These black Fishermans take you straight back to the ‘90s. They are comfy, and much more lightweight than their vintage versions. Good on a slightly wider foot. They come in 2024 colours like grey, olive, and red. The Cole Haan oxfords are good on a lower volume foot, or size up for a roomier fit. Super comfy, impeccable, and polished. The Gene loafer has a ‘90s integrity and fun cut-out. It’s surprisingly comfy, and not as heavy as it looks. The cut-outs works well with statement socks that peek through the holes. The Lucca loafer is buttery soft and comes in delicious neutrals and non-neutrals. It has a roomy toebox to accommodate a wider front foot. Fits an orthotic. Size down for a narrower foot. The Larroude sandal is made in Brazil and is beautifully dressy and comfy on the foot. Maximal in a streamlined way, and accommodates a wider foot.

7. White and Cream Jeans

Several clients are into wearing ecru jeans lately, alongside or instead of optical white jeans, Along with Everlane’s Way High Curve Jeans, these are the white, off-white, cream and ecru jeans that have been winners on my clients this year. Notably, Kut’s Amy Cropped Skinny Jeans are not as skinny as they look in the stock photo. They are more of a tailored straight leg, and surprisingly not calf-sucking. NYDJ’s Teresa Ankle Jeans are for those who enjoy a lower rise. Eileen Fisher’s Lantern Jeans have more of chino fit than a jeans fit. If you’re after sleek jeans with stretch that glide over curves and flare at the hems, Jag’s Kait Flared Jeans might be of interest.

Your Climate Affects Your Wardrobe

Dress appropriately for the weather to create a more authentic, manageable and enjoyable personal style. By wearing what works best for your climate, you will be comfortable, at ease and prepared for the elements all day long. 

Dress For Your Climate

Do not build a wardrobe for an imaginary climate. That’s spending money and storage space on items you won’t wear. That said, make sure your outfit needs are covered when traveling to places with different climates to your own.

When your climate changes, adapt your wardrobe accordingly over time. Sometimes the changes are subtle, but they can also be dramatic. Some changes are more challenging that others. With a little focus and discipline, it all works out.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Fab Finds: Blues, Scarves, Shoes, Skirts

These seasonal items have been winners on my clients, and some were winners for me. Some of the items are coming in at smashing prices. It’s a great improvement seeing a range of natural fibres in collections this year as opposed to endless polyester. Long may that last. 

1. The Loft and WHBM Blue Items

If you’re a cobalt blue fan, there’s a fair amount of it in stores across solids and patterns at the moment. Items at the Loft impressed me quite a bit. The eyelet skirt is as pretty as can be, and has woven and knitted tops to match. The pants, top and dress in the Corfu Weekend pattern are made of gorgeous fabric. A linen viscose that feels super soft and glorious against the skin. The can print shirt is made of a linen and viscose too, and is delightful. The items from WHBM are in slate, greyed blues that have been particularity popular for clients with silver hair. The sateen blazer is fitted with sharp shoulders, and you might need to size up.It has a waistcoat and trousers to match. The ruched front maxi skirt is made of viscose spandex yet feels like technical fabric, which you either like, or you don’t.

2. Silk Neck Scarf

I’m in the mood to wear a very small scarf, and found a neckerchief that hit the right notes. It had to be patterned, green, made of natural fibres, super soft, machine washable, small and not too long, and extremely lightweight. For 100% silk and $15, I scored. I wanted it to go with my new green moto, which I’m showing in the forum. It’s a great match.

The neck scarf comes in many colours and patterns, and is nicely packaged. Could make a lovely gift.

3. Paul Green Shoes

Paul Green shoes are generally fabulous, but pricey. The retro Tilly sneakers that I like and find comfortable seem particularly expensive, which is annoying. That said, they eventually go on sale, so if you can wait and are lucky to nab your size at sale time, so much the better. The Tanya slingback sandal has a few rough reviews, yet they are winners on some of my clients. They don’t run as wide as some mentioned, and the quality is beautiful. The buckle placement wasn’t problematic either. If you like the sandal, best you try it to see for yourself. I also have my eye on the Taylor loafer in orange and beige, which was a good and comfortable fit with the addition of some insoles. They stayed put on my feet.

4. WashLab Skirt

This skirt is a repeat top pick for three seasons because it’s pleased many clients and a couple of friends. Great reviews for good reason. It’s interesting, super comfy, soft, quite stretchy, and glides over the curves of your body in an attractive way. Available in sizes 25 to 34, across a range of neutrals. Might run a size big. It’s long, does not come in petites, and is not easily hemmable. I’m 5ft 6 and it’s a midaxi length on me.

I tried this skirt in blue denim, and although it would need to be altered on the hips and waist to fit perfectly, something else about it felt off. It finally dawned on me that I should try this skirt in WHITE denim. As soon as I tried it on in white, the planets aligned. I’m excited to wear it once it’s back from alternations.

Lots of Linen: Yay or Nay

There is an extreme amount of linen in Spring and Summer collections this year. This makes sense because linen was big in the ’90s, and ’90s trends are a big influence on fashion right now. The question is, how do you feel about it? 

My feelings are mixed. I quite like 100% linen for a hot Summer’s day. I wear linen shirts, and occasionally a pair of linen pants. I used to wear linen dresses, skirts and jackets, but don’t anymore. There’s simply too much creasing and I’m no longer unconditionally at peace with the crease. I don’t mind a linen blend, but in warm and hot weather, my heart is with summery 100% cottons, or viscose, silk, rayon, and tencel blends.

Right now I often find myself giving potentially fab new items a pass because they are 100% linen. Although I like linen, and wear it from time to time, I don’t want to wear a lot of it. So I would prefer to see a little less linen at retail. I’m a nay for lots of linen.

How about you?