Choosing my Shades of Grey

After divulging which Furla bag earned a spot in my wardrobe, some of our forum members asked if I would share how I “choose my greys” since the neutral comes in countless shades and it’s my least favourite colour. Of course, I’m happy to oblige. 

First, of all the greys I like a pearl grey best because it’s softer, brighter and prettier than darker greys to my eye. The lightness is also consistent with my light hair and pale complexion. I add a little of it to my wardrobe because it comes in handy as a light neutral that I can remix with white, brights, light blue denim, ink blue, seafoam, and warm neutrals like toffee and gold. 

Second, the light grey items I choose to wear have to be textured in some way so that they look less flat. You can see in the collection here that both of my pearl grey pullovers have stitch interest. My moto jeans are marled which adds depth to the light grey denim. And my new grey Furla bag, made of textured leather, has gold hardware that adds a good dose of life and warmth to the grey. I wouldn’t have bought the grey bag if it had silver hardware. 

Third, I think of silver as “my grey” because it’s like pearl grey on steroids and extra bright. I have two pairs of silver shoes and a silver belt. I would probably have added a silver bag to my handbag capsule this year if the grey Furla had not found me. As it turns out, it’s a better option than a silver bag because the gold hardware makes it more versatile, much like a mixed metal piece of jewellery.

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I am not adding any more dark grey to my wardrobe because it feels dull and lifeless when I wear it. That said, I have three old dark grey pieces that I still wear and that make me happy. But again, they’re textured in some way so they don’t feel dull:

  1. Charcoal Pinstripe Suit: I wear this with brights and white.
  2. Charcoal Micro Check Slouchy Trousers: Again, I wear these with brights and white to liven things up. 
  3. Charcoal Tweed Equestrian Jacket: The bright cognac elbow patches and ombré buttons stole my heart. I like wearing it with blue, white and gold jeans.

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Unlike me, most of my clients like to wear grey. They think it’s an easy and handy neutral to have in their closet, as well as a little different from black, white and navy. Clients with salt and pepper hair or grey hair look fantastic in grey, and I absolutely encourage them to wear all shades of grey across many wardrobe items. Some of my brunette and blonde clients with bright blue eyes look great in grey because their eyes liven up the grey. 

Over to you. Do you wear grey, and which shade is best?

Capsule: Vanilla, Kiwi & Blueberry Gelato

This capsule shows how my wonderful client Karen updated her Spring and Summer wardrobe last week. We got it all done in two and a half hours. Apart from the silver flats and bag, which are similar substitutes, the exact pieces we purchased are represented in the collection below. We’re still looking for the right casual silver flats, and Karen already has a pewter tote.

A little more about Karen. She’s 75 years young and leads a retired and casual lifestyle. She splits her time between Seattle and Arizona, and for the most part needs outfits for mild and warm weather. Karen is extremely graceful and polished, and enjoys sporting the trends. She wears neutrals and the very occasional pop of colour. She likes tonal neutral outfits, or is in high-contrast black and white. She lives in jeans, casual pants, striped knitted tops, textured knitwear, scarves, and low-heeled or flat footwear. She always wears make-up, styles her gorgeous two-toned hair, and wears statement earrings. 

Colour Palette

We chose items in Karen’s signature neutrals: black, white, blue denim and shades of grey. We also added some ink blue in a stripe to change things up. Karen has very light green eyes which make the sour shade of kiwi a striking match. The colours in the capsule remind me of vanilla, kiwi and blueberry gelato. 

Karen enjoys high-low style so you’ll see an assortment of price points reflected in the capsule. The items were bought to mix and match with each other, AND complement what Karen already has in her wardrobe. Here are the components of the capsule. 

Two bottoms in different colours and silhouettes

  • Denim Blue Flared Crops: A trendy new style that Karen didn’t think she would love, but does
  • White Flared Jeans: Karen wears casual white pants and jeans all Spring and Summer long and already has a great assortment of boyfriend and chino styles. We added a pair of dramatic white flares to wear with heeled pumps and sandals to change things up. 

Four tops in different colours, patterns, silhouettes and textures

  • Ink & White Striped Boatneck Knitted Top: Ink blue is new for Karen, but since it’s quite the classic, Karen liked it. The stripes are strategically positioned to streamline the torso.
  • Grey Cropped Marled Pullover: This is a trendy and beautiful quality item that is too short to wear with the white flares, but is great with Karen’s white and blue boyfriend jeans that come up higher on the waist. 
  • Kiwi Linen Boatneck Sweater: A boxy cropped top for a hint of colour to wear on the hottest of days because it’s lightweight and linen. 
  • Black Mixed Media Tunic: Another trendy piece in a dramatic length. 

One jacket in a pattern

  • Black & White Spring Tweed Jacket: Karen fell in love with the Spring jacket trend because she can style the jacket smart casually with jeans, or wear it with black trousers. This jacket works best over solid white, black and grey lightweight tops that Karen already has in her wardrobe. The top and jacket combination can be paired with white, blue and black jeans, or black ankle pants. 

Two pairs of shoes

  • Silver ankle strap flat sandals: Ankle straps are a must for the multiple ankle bearing jeans lengths Karen has in her denim capsule these days. She already has black ankle strap footwear, thereby making silver the next neutral of choice. 
  • Grey wedged sandals: Grey sandals are Summer staples for Karen, so we added another pair. They’re heeled and work well with the flares. 

One scarf in a pattern

  • White, Bone and Black Check: The Burberry scarf goes with just about everything in her wardrobe because she has lots of solids and enjoys tonal pattern mixing. I suggested to Karen that if she goes home with one item on our shopping day – this is it. The scarfs adds chic pizzazz to any outfit. 

Karen likes to use one bag for the season unless she’s going out in the evening, in which case she’ll switch out her bag to a black or silver clutch. She’s sporting an “every day” pewter tote for Spring and Summer, which works with her polished yet relaxed wardrobe. Karen might add a few inexpensive tops to this capsule over the next few months, but is for the most part set for the season.

Here are similar items to the ones Karen chose in a Polyvore set for visual reference.

Capsule: Vanilla, Kiwi & Blueberry Gelato

Karen’s husband took this photo of Karen wearing her new striped top and flared cropped jeans earlier this week in Arizona. The outfit works well with Karen’s old black Paul Green ankle strap sandals. Thanks for sharing your outfit with us, Karen. You look casually chic and as lovely as ever. 

Karen

How to Store Wardrobe Items

There is no one way to store your wardrobe items, and we have to make the best of the space that is available to us. That said, try to keep your wardrobe items in one place, and your closet as tidy as possible. That way you know what you have at a glance, and your items look nicer for longer. 

In this post I’m making some general suggestions on how to store wardrobe items. Personally, I like to hang most my of items because it keeps them wrinkle-free and looking lovely. I share a small walk-in closet with Greg, and have the lion’s share of the hanging space, whereas Greg has most of the folding space. My items are colour coded, and hung or folded per category. I do not swap out seasonal merchandise. 

Outerwear

Hang outerwear in a separate coat closet close to the door for easy access. If you don’t have a coat closet, use a coat rack that’s close to the door. Failing that, keep your outerwear in another closet in the house. We have a very well used coat closet. 

Special Occasion Wear

Some of my clients keep their occasion wear in a separate closet because it’s worn very infrequently and takes up too much space. I keep mine with the rest of my wardrobe so that I remember what I have. I hang special occasion items with the rest of the items in that category. 

Jackets

Jackets that are NOT outerwear should be hung in the closet with the rest of your clothes. You tend to forget about them if you keep them in the coat closet with your outerwear because that’s not where you get dressed. I keep my leather jackets, blazers, equestrian jackets, tweed jackets and denim jackets in our main walk-in closet. 

Dresses

Dresses, no matter what the style and fabric, need to be hung with enough room so that the hems do not drag on the floor and crease. Maxi dresses and jumpsuits that are very long can be folded onto a hanger and hung in the same place. 

Skirts

Skirts should be hung on clip hangers. Maxi skirts can be folded over regular hangers and hung in the same area, so that the hems don’t drag on the floor. That way you can utilize the space at the bottom of the closet.   

Jeans 

Some of my clients hang their jeans vertically on clip hangers like skirts and trousers. Some fold them over hangers to prevent the hems from creasing in smaller hanging spaces. Others fold their jeans and store them in piles on closet shelving. And some store them folded in drawers. I fold my jeans over hangers and hang them with the rest of my trousers.

Trousers 

Trousers, like jeans, can be folded over hangers, or hung vertically on clip hangers like skirts. I hang dressy trousers vertically on clip hangers and next to my skirts. I fold casual trousers over hangers and hang them with my jeans.  

Suits

I have three suits: Two trouser suits, and a dress suit. Although I do wear the suit items as separates, I hang them together in the dress area. Some of my clients prefer to separate the items of the suit and hang each piece in the category area. 

Shorts 

These are best folded and stored in piles on shelving or in drawers. Storing shorts in piles means you can see all of them at a glance, which is very handy. 

Blouses & Shirts

Hang them up. I can’t think of an instance when a blouse or shirt should be folded, unless you don’t have the hanging space. 

Knitwear

Knitwear storage runs the gamut. Some knitwear can be hung on special knitwear hangers to keep the shape of the garment. Some knitwear can be folded and stored in piles on closet shelving or in an armoire. And some knitwear can be stored folded in drawers. If you store knitwear in drawers, fold them so that you can see them all at once, and not in piles that hide most of them away. I hang some of my fancy knitwear and fold the rest, storing them in piles on open closet shelves. 

Knitted Tops & T-shirts

Like knitwear, some knitted tops can be hung like blouses and shirts, whereas others can be folded and piled onto open shelves. T-shirts are best folded, and if you keep them in drawers, fold them so that you can see them all at once instead of stacking them in piles. 

Workout Wear & Loungewear

Keep workout wear and loungewear in drawers to save valuable closet space. But by all means fold the items and create piles on closet shelves when you have lots of space. I keep my yoga gear in a drawer and my loungewear folded in piles in our closet. 

Underwear, Sleepwear, Socks & Hosiery

These work well sectioned and folded in drawers, either in your walk-in closet or in a separate armoire. Some of my clients keep their basics in bins in their closet, which might work for you too.

Scarves

You can store scarves on scarf hangers, keeping them hung in your main closet or coat closet. You can also store scarves folded in drawers, making sure you can see all of them at once (either rolled or stashed into separate compartments). Some of my clients keep their scarves in bins, which is not a good idea because you have to rustle through the bin every time you want a scarf, and you tend to forget about them when they are out of sight. I have several scarves, which I fold and store in piles in our walk-in closet, thereby keeping them very visible. 

Belts

Store belts on a belt hanger and hang them in your closet. Or hang them on hooks in your closet. 

Handbags

There are many ways to store bags, and the more you have, the more space you’ll need. Ideally, most bags should be stuffed and placed on shelves in a closet or armoire to keep them shaped and pristine. Clutches tend to pile up quite nicely on a shelf because they are flat. You can section off a shelf into compartments, thereby placing a few bags into a compartment so that they don’t fall over. You can also hang handbags on the back of a closet door with hooks. I store my bags on shelves in the walk-in closet, and on hooks behind the closet door. Apart from three handbags, I store all my bags uncovered so that I can see them more easily. They also look more decorative that way. 

Some of my clients store their handbags in bins that they keep stacked in their closet. It’s one way to utilize the space, but you have to be vigilant about remembering them and making the effort to use the bags that are less easily accessible. 

Jewellery

There are many ways to store jewellery. Try to keep your pieces as visible and as easily accessible as possible because you’ll forget to wear them when they are hidden away. Many of my clients store their jewellery in pretty boxes that they never open, which is a shame. Some of my clients store their jewellery in jewellery drawers in their closets, which works quite well. Others have very elaborate jewellery storing cabinets, racks and stands. I don’t wear a lot of jewellery, but what I have is very accessible. I store my pearl necklaces on hooks in our closet. I keep my wedding rings and watches in a jewellery box by our bed. 

Hats

Store casual soft hats on shelves or in bins in the coat closet. Straw and felt hats work best stored on hooks or left flat on a shelf. Fancy and delicate hats can be stored in hat boxes in your closet, or in an armoire. 

Footwear

There are many ways to store footwear. Ideally it should be easily accessible and very visible. Out of sight, out of mind! Storing footwear on shoe racks at the bottom of your closet can work well, although some prefer to store shoes on racks closer to the door. Some closets have footwear compartments that store shoes, or you can keep lightweight shoes in shoe pockets that are hung against the closet door. You can also store footwear in see-through boxes that stack more easily at the bottom of the closet. This works well when space is at a premium. But don’t keep your same season footwear in different places around the house because you’ll invariably stick to wearing the ones that are closest to the door and forget about the rest. I store my footwear on shoe racks at the bottom of our closet. 

Some people store their clothing on clothing racks in a room and don’t have a closet at all. This can look quite decorative, and of course, keeps things brilliantly visible. Others find very creative ways to store their accessories so that they become part of the decor. Please share how you store your wardrobe items in the comments section.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Weekly Roundup: Relaxed Items

Spring shopping is full steam ahead with my clients and we’re finding fabulous things. Here are some of the winners, plus some pieces that have thrilled our forum members recently. 

These items either have a relaxed integrity, or they can be dressed down with denim. Some of them have earned a place in my own wardrobe, and I’m thrilled with my new treasures. Browse through all the colour options if the ones I’ve chosen are not to your taste.

  • Banana Republic Resin Wash Crop Flare: Cropped jeans that work well on both a straighter and curvier lower half. Order the petite for a more cropped length, but remember that the rises are shorter on petite bottoms. Excellent with high-shaft booties, high-vamped shoes, and ankle strap footwear. Size down a size.
  • Shellys London 'Bea' Buckle Sandal (Women): AMAZING buckled sandals that are a GREAT fit on low volume feet and narrow ankles. Very comfortable, dressy and chic. I love that the hardware is delicate so that they don't look Hard-Edged. Modern, trendy and pretty. Fab block heel. As nice in black.
  • Via Spiga 'Tahara' Block Heel Sandal (Women): Soft, comfy, dressy and streamlined. Good on regular volume feet. Okay on low volume feet if you size down half a size.
  • PIKOLINOS Saona W8E-4554: Amazingly comfortable and slightly retro looking oxfords. Fun block heel. The blue is a little more grey in person, and the cognac options look nice too. Size up half a size.
  • CeCe By Cynthia Steffe 'Kate' Ruffle Hem Shift Dress (Regular & Petite): Trendy Flouncy Fabness. A beautiful dress on petites. Works surprisingly well on a broad shoulder and a larger bust. Elegant, playful, vibrant and colourful.
  • Two by Vince Camuto Mixed Media Jewel Neck Tunic: A nicer version of a long sleeved T-shirt. Size down.
  • Signorelli 'Yummy Fleece' Graphic Sweatshirt: Feels as soft as pajamas. Nice for ultra casual settings or lounging. Make a statement with your footwear in a more lateral way.
  • Club Monaco Nira Cashmere Cardigan: Cocoon Ruffle Fabness. Looks like a designer piece and makes quite the statement. Relaxed ruffles look fab. Great quality.
  • UNIQLO Women Light Warm Padded Parka: A wonderfully lightweight short puffer that's comfy and very practical. Well made and good price. Great to use as gear. I love the assortment of colours.
  • Topshop MA1 Bomber Jacket (Regular & Petite): A trendy olive bomber jacket with fun centre back ruching. Quite well made. Comes in navy and burgundy too.
  • Club Monaco Yulia Trench: An impeccable modern classic trench coat in a soft shade of toffee that has a hint of blush. The fabric is luxurious and the fit is streamlined yet comfortable. Straighter fit on the hips. Chic. Looks as good as a Burberry.
  • Helene Berman Denim Jacquard Trench Coat: A fun jacquard trench coat in a more relaxed fit. Good fit on curvy gals. Works year round in mild weather.
  • Helene Berman Helen Berman Coated Linen Swing Coat: A VERY lightweight cocoon raincoat in a pearlized light blue. Gorgeous and unusual fabric, and quite roomy. Feels futuristic as well as Mod.
  • Sanctuary 'Blousant Belle' Print Split Neck Peasant Top: Soft Peasant Blouse Fabness.
  • Madewell Short Sleeve Button Back Top: I like the thick pebbled crepe fabrication of this T-shirt blouse, as well as the back buttons and asymmetrical hemline. Great to wear as a backdrop for statement necklaces. Roomy and comfy. Dress the blouse up or down with a pencil skirt, trousers or jeans.
  • Halogen Crop Leather Jacket (Regular & Petite): A trendy boxy jacket with unusual front storm flap detailing. Works well on an assortment of body types.
  • Hard Tail Roll Waist Crop Harem Pants: Comfy harem pants to wear with a roomy and short knitted high-low top. Wear them as gear or casual wear.
  • Banana Republic Essential Denim Shirt: A good basic denim shirt WITHOUT cowboy detailing. I like the darker wash and understated hardware. Runs big.
  • J.Crew Long-sleeve multicolored tweed dress with fringe: A stunning sleeved sheath dress that's slightly A-line on the hip. Knee-length on regular height gals. The reviews suggest it runs small, but I think it runs a size big. It's gorgeously tailored and fully lined. Best on straighter body types with narrow shoulders and a regular size bust. It's NOT extra comfy in the torso because it doesn't have stretch, but the comfortable A-line skirt portion of the dress makes up for that. Streamlined and very proper, although you'll successfully relax the look with a denim jacket. Comes in purple too.
  • Topshop 'Jolene' Pump (Women): A surprisingly comfortable pointy toe ankle strap pump. The silver is the most comfortable of the colour options. There IS toe cleavage so consider yourself warned. Good price, although the silver is delicate and prone to scuffing.
  • CeCe By Cynthia Steffe 'Ditsy Chorus' Floral Print Handkerchief Hem Blouse: A soft and pretty handkerchief blouse with good drape. Roomy. The coral is much brighter in person, almost neon, but just as delicious.
  • Lucky Brand Genevie: Trendy lace-up sandals with a sturdy heel. Comfortable, and best in cognac.
  • Bella-Vita 'Fire' Sandal (Women): A dressier sandal that comes in an assortment of widths, so the narrow works well for low volume feet, and wide or double wide is good for wide feet. Also goes up to a size 12. Comes in four colours. Sturdy heel height. Good value.

You can see the pictures alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

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