Ten Fabulous Years of YLF!

I cannot believe that YLF is ten years old today. TEN YEARS OLD. Wow. Our first post went live on April 5th 2006 and we never looked back. Time flies when you’re having fun. Those who have been here since the very beginning will remember the Lisa Henderling illustration of me with Jasmine and Rosie that Greg used in the background of YLF’s first design. Later updated when I switched from a bob to short hair.

Angie by Lisa Henderling

Greg & Angie

My voice is dominant on YLF because I write most of the posts and I’m very active on our highly engaged forum. But YLF would not exist if it weren’t for my husband, Greg. He suggested that I start a blog (when I didn’t even know what a blog was!). He created the site as his labour of love to me while working full time at Microsoft, and has continued redesigning and improving it over the last ten years even as he juggled all sorts of other work projects. He is the designer, programmer and technical support team. He’s also YLF’s marketing manager, strategist, photographer and accountant. Greg is the behind the scenes YLF genius who deserves a lot more credit than he gets because he’s awfully humble and modest. If I’m the heart of YLF, Greg is definitely the blood and oxygen that runs through it. I cannot thank him enough for his unconditional dedication, positive attitude, tenacity, and ongoing belief in me. Working on YLF with my best friend and soulmate has made all the difference. I would not and could not have done this without Greg.

As I look back over YLF’s ten years, there are countless memorable moments. It’s impossible to list them all, but I’m going to take you down memory lane nonetheless.

Things that Make Me Proud

When we started YLF I decided to post at least once every non-holiday weekday. Despite technical adversity, travelling across continents, illness, house guests, and heavy workloads, we haven’t missed a day in ten years!

Our community has exceeded all of my expectations. When we launched the forum 8 years ago I didn’t imagine that it would grow into the wonderful, bustling community it is today.

With YLF my goal was to help you become your own fashion stylist. So I find it enormously rewarding when people tell me how YLF’s content and community has helped them to solve their fashion and style challenges, and most importantly, that they are having fun on their style journey. I feel that I’m making a difference in the world.

Revealing Myself

I was reluctant to show myself on YLF because I felt it should be about you, not me. But after two years and two months we decided to include some glimpses of me in a post about my visit to Anne Fontaine in Paris. Then a few days later another glimpse when I was watching street style, and by the end of our trip all inhibitions were a thing of the past.

Angie at Anne Fontaine

The Gift

At the end of 2009, a group of forum members clubbed together to gift me with a Valentino handbag and presented it to me at a gathering in Seattle. This gesture was my most meaningful and memorable YLF moment. It’s the type of thing that happens once in a lifetime, and I am still overwhelmed by emotion when thinking about it. Words cannot express the gratitude for this level of thoughtfulness and generosity. To me, this gift represents the love and kindness of the entire YLF community. I shall cherish my exquisite Valentino handbag for the rest of my life, and proudly carry it with your affectionate sentiments engraved deeply into my heart.

The Gift

The Yorkies of YLF

Our Yorkshire terriers Jasmine and Rosie were a very meaningful and important part of the YLF team. They kept us company when we spent hours at our computers. They also often stole the show when we took outfit photos. 

Our saddest moments were the days we lost Jasmine in 2011 and Rosie in 2013. They are imprinted on our hearts forever, and words cannot adequately describe how much we love and miss them. Little Sam continues their legacy.

Yorkies

My favourite YLF photo of all time is one where little Jasmine photo bombed my outfit. I didn’t know she was behind me, but Greg snapped the shot at the perfect moment. She was looking directly at the camera like the beautiful little blog star that she was.

Blog Star

Mother’s Day Posts 

Mum

Each Mother’s day, I dedicate a post to my late Mother who is and will always be my most important and stylish inspiration.

Mama inspired me to take an interest in personal style and encouraged me to pursue a career in fashion. She died 16 years ago and never saw YLF, but she would have loved it. Every time I mention Mama in my posts it is with great emotion, and a simultaneously heavy and happy heart.

Our First Fashion Week

Our first New York Fashion Week experience was in 2010, and it was by far the most enjoyable. Greg and I had the very best fashion adventure together in frozen NYC. I couldn’t believe that we had made it to NYFW, and I was walking on clouds all week. 

NYFW

The Video

In 2011, on YLF’s fifth birthday, an extremely thoughtful forum member called Ornella put together this incredible video. I was absolutely blown away and felt so, so, humbled and honoured. I smile, laugh and cry each time I see that video because I can feel the affection from those members over and over again. Priceless.

YLF in the Seattle Times

In 2011, the Seattle Times did a fun feature on YLF. It featured YLF at a gathering, me working with a client, as well as a few of my own outfits. It’s been YLF’s most prominent media exposure and made me feel quite proud.

Sunday Times

The Photographer

Every photograph on YLF is taken, processed and published with an extreme amount of care and attention to detail by our creative and meticulous photographer, Greg. This makes every photo a memorable moment. Here’s one that Fabber Kari took on the sly of Greg in action. It’s GREAT to see him on the other side of the camera for a change. You can also see some of his non-YLF photography on Exposure.

Kari of Greg

Meeting Inge & the Epic Gathering

Inge

Meeting and befriending Inge is one of my big YLF highlights. She contacted me privately eight years ago, soon after we launched our forum. She very politely asked if she was allowed to join since she wasn’t American and lived in Belgium. “Well I’m not American either!”, I said. “And of course, I would be delighted if you joined our community.” It was her love for pearls that brought her to YLF and we had an instant connection over this and many other things.

We became close friends, meeting in person for the first time in 2010 when Greg and I were in Europe. We got on like a house on fire and Inge eventually became part of the YLF team. In 2014 she came to Seattle and spent a month with us, which was absolutely magical. We had SO MUCH FUN together, and I long for us to be able to do that again. The cherry on top was an epic Seattle gathering we had in her honour. It was unforgettable.

Seattle Gathering

April Fool’s Day

Ten years of YLF and 9 April Fool’s Day posts later. We got you many times! Greg and I had a blast brainstorming the ideas and I think that comes through in the posts. From crocs for business formal, the bottom cleavage trend, a racy pin-up calendar of YLF readers, and my style epiphany, to a food blog makeover, some (ahem) practical fab finds, a random outfit generator and the super suit. They were fun to make, and judging by the responses, fun to read too. 

April Fools

Finds Feature

In 2014 we launched the Finds feature, which has been a revelation for us. The ability to collect items you like from online retailers, arrange them into a shopping list, AND organize your entire wardrobe online — is my very favourite YLF feature. I thank Greg in my head daily for building this incredible organizational tool.

Finds

YLF’s Eighth Birthday 

There have been many, many YLF gatherings around the globe and each of them is special in its own way. I’ve been to the ones in Seattle, New York, Boston, Chicago, Pasadena, Santa Monica, Brussels, Antwerp, Hong Kong, Amsterdam and London, and would go to another in a heartbeat. One of the gatherings in Boston coincidentally took place on YLF’s eighth birthday in 2014 and it was sublime. The spirit of the group was exceptional and we had an absolute ball.

Gathering

And on top of it all, the group (and Fabber Isabel especially) organized a celebratory lunch. She knew how much our Yorkies Jasmine and Rosie meant to us, and included their names on the cake. It was a touching moment that I will remember forever.

Birthday Cake

Last but not least, YOU are what makes YLF exceptional. You graciously share your wit and wisdom in blog comments and forum posts. Your thoughtful, compassionate, intelligent and insightful contributions enrich my life, make me grow as a person, and provide me with daily inspiration. It blows me away when I think that some of you have been participating on YLF since its inception on 5 April 2006. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for ten years of support, and for helping me to spread the word that you can have fun with fashion at any age.

Weekly Roundup: Sleeved Casual Dresses

I’m not sure why, but fun and flattering casual dresses with sufficient hem length and sleeves are highly elusive every season. I bet that if retail supplied us with more of the right silhouette, they’d sell like hot cakes.

Here’s a roundup of casual dresses that recently caught my eye, some of which have worked on clients. Some of the styles come in several colours. 

  • COS Dress with pleated sides: Architectural and very voluminous. Fabulous side entry pockets. Will blow in the wind and feel extra breezy. Runs big.
  • Cloth & Stone Nila T-Shirt Dress: Great on Team Tall with broad shoulders and/or a larger bust. Works quite well on curvy figures despite not being shaped. Soft and unstructured. You can knot the front of the side slitted hem for more structure.
  • 'Katie' Cowl Neck High/Low Maxi Dress: Beautifully drapey and the fabric is substantial. Can be dressed up or down. Also works well on a larger bust. Gorgeous in motion and runs big.
  • Ann Taylor Double Dot Long Sleeve Shirtdress: A relaxed shirtdress in a soft fabrication. Works well on curvy and straighter body types. Versatile. Many rave reviews.
  • Ann Taylor Striped 3/4 Sleeve Dress: Tailored fabness for Team Curvy. Not good on apple shaped body types. Runs big.
  • Loft Striped Flare Dress: A great style for a curvy petite with a small to regular size bust. Very waist defining, yet breezy. It can work on a subtle apple shaped body type because the stripes are camouflaging. Soft fabrication. The stripes are bold so consider yourself warned. The vertical stripes on the bottom are unique and slimming.
  • Linen Popover Shirtdress (Regular & Petite): An amazing uber casual shirtdress that's super soft, lined, and has pockets. VERY comfy. The curved hem adds structure. Runs very big so size down one or two sizes. Great with flat sandals.
  • Utility Midi Shirtdress: A fashion-forward shirt dress in a rich shade of olive. The fabric drapes surprisingly well despite its stiffness. Love the side entry pockets. Works well on all body types except pretty pears. As roomy as it looks, it's cut quite narrow on the hips. You have to be okay with the shapeless sack silhouette, so watch out. Runs small.
  • J.Crew Short-sleeve cargo dress: A fitted classic in linen. Read the rave reviews.
  • J.Crew Ruffled bell-sleeve shift dress in stripe: Bell sleeve fabness for apple shapes. Good on petites. Runs big, and might feel a little short on regular height gals.
  • Chambray Shirtdress: Sporty Luxe Fabness.
  • Tencel Chambray Roll Sleeve Shirtdress: Soft and lightweight. The drawstring waist adds great definition to the torso. Fab on petites.

Visit the collection page to see the pictures alongside my descriptions.

Seven Reasons to Love the Wrap Jersey Skirt

Three seasons in and the wrap jersey skirt is still an all-round winner with my clients. And for good reason. My only complaint is that the silhouette is hard to find, and I wish there was a greater assortment of colours and patterns. 

Here’s why the wrap jersey skirt is fab.

Flattering on a Range of Body Types

The clever silhouette works well for curvy and straight figures. It straightens OR flattens the hip and thigh area depending on your preference thanks to well-positioned ruching and magical diagonal lines. The silhouette is forgiving on the midsection, making it a style that apple shaped body types can also feel confident wearing. 

Great with Flats

The style works particularly well with casual flats like sandals, loafers, espadrilles and sneakers. This makes it an excellent option for gals on the go, and for those who like to wear skirts, but not heels.

Anthropologie Monetta Midi Skirt

Can be Dressed Up or Down

Although I think of the wrap jersey skirt as more of a casual piece, it can be dressed up and worn with heels and a dressier support act. It can also be worn casually as a beach cover-up with tee, denim jacket, flip flops and hat. Or dressed up with silky top, jacket and strappy heeled sandals.

HELMUT LANG Wrap-effect Printed Stretch-jersey Maxi SkirtSPLENDID Wrap-effect Washed Modal-blend Jersey Skirt

No Uni-Leg

The maxi version of this skirt is fabulous because it showcases a part of the leg in the front of the skirt. That makes the style look grounded, thereby preventing the uni-leg effect. It also makes the silhouette easier to walk in.

WHBM Stripe Wrap Maxi SkirtBailey 44 Fossil Front Twist Midi Skirt

Covered Yet Alluring

The leg baring integrity of the skirt is subtle, but increases as you stride. Covered from the back and on the sides, but party in front. Some of the front slits come up higher than others so make sure you do the walk-test and sit-down-test before you commit to the item.

Anthropologie Monetta Midi Skirt

Comfortable

Jersey, if nothing else, is extremely soft and comfortable. The silhouette stretches over all the right spots on the body without it looking overly clingy. The elastic waist is forgiving on the midsection. The front vent makes the style breezy and there’s no need to worry about the skirt blowing up in the wind.

Convenient

Many wrap skirts are machine washable making them easy to maintain and take along on a trip.

Finally, a note on fit: Petites should try to buy the style in petite lengths to ensure that the back isn’t too long because it’s often a difficult item to hem.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Fashion News Roundup: March 2016

Stain-resistant white jeans, sustainable bridal wear from H&M, Hedi Slimane exiting Maison Yves Saint Laurent, and other style news that caught our attention in March.

Fun Fashion Fact

Did you know that the Monnaie de Paris (the Paris Mint) has released an Yves Saint Laurent coin. The coins come in silver and gold, and also feature the designer’s iconic Mondrian dress and the Centre Pompidou. The Saint Laurent coin is meant to symbolize contemporary artistic France.

Ensemble: The Ultimate Power Suit

This ensemble was inspired by my own love for suits and a recent conversation on the forum about power dressing. Crisp tailoring, luscious fabrications, perfect fit, a sleek silhouette, and intense polish is the armour that shields us at work and in social settings. On some subconscious level, a suit gives us the confidence to fight back under adversity. There’s definitely something about wearing one that makes us feel authoritative, powerful and strong.

The bouclé Chanel suit is the original power suit, and is still widely worn by women in politics, business, and high-end social settings like charity events. Its retro integrity and rich history make it a chic modern classic that will stand the test of time. By all means invest in a Chanel suit (or a lookalike) and feel fabulous.

But looking to the past for power suit inspiration isn’t our only option. We can also look to the future. And if my instincts are correct, the future of power suits is already with us today. Not yet commonplace on the retail floors, but ubiquitous in popular culture. The look is fashion-forward, comfortable, crease-resistant, slimming and wears like iron. It’s a graphic vibe that is thoroughly modern. A look that can make us feel superhuman. I call it the Super Suit.

I’ve stuck to dark neutrals and primary brights, but feel free to use any colour palette. Here are the components:

Jumpsuit, Leotard or Dress: For an authentic super suit vibe, choose a leotard in a silhouette that works with your body type. Or go for a leather mini dress if you prefer a little coverage on the thigh area. To make less of a statement — “ultimate power suit lite” if you like — choose a jumpsuit, as I have done in the outfit on the far left. You don’t need to wear tights with this option, which makes it somewhat less “super”, but it is a good option if you’re not into hosiery.

Tights: You’ll need tights for the leotard and mini dress options, but not for the jumpsuit. Choose a full or cropped length, depending on what works best with the footwear. You can create either a low or a high contrast between the tights and the rest of the outfit. Low contrast will create a column of colour and is more conventionally flattering. But there’s no doubt that a high contrast is more bold, more fun, and delivers more impact.

Cape: The cape was made for this ensemble. You can choose either a long or a short version. The former works well for the “lite” rendition and for petites. Longer capes make a bolder statement and are a slam-dunk for Team Tall. Lace capes add textural interest, especially with monochromatic versions of the outfit. Bright capes in solid colours make the most powerful statement. Just what you need when presenting to board members at the next annual meeting.

Patent Boots: It’s all about boots and only high shine will do. No substitutes. Heels add height to your outfit, enhancing your physical presence. Choose booties, mid-calf lengths, knee-highs, or over-the-knee styles. Choose neutrals or brights, depending on which works best with your outfit. It’s an extra bonus if the boots have steel toes. Some of my clients swear by the practicality of a reinforced toebox when it comes to resolving workplace conflicts.

Accessories: A wide belt adds structure and definition to the silhouette and is an extremely popular accessory with this ensemble. Cuffs, gloves and masks are optional but do add to the mood. A shield can be useful in some situations. Choose one in colours that work with the palette. I vote metallic or brights. Black shields tend to look heavy — especially with an all-black suit — so stay clear of those.

Super Suit

Finally, while my renditions above are for the ladies, men can also get in on the action. Here’s a photo of my client Sam in his own super suit, which he wears when he wants to feel particularly strong for a day of work defending the house from all manner of intruders. You look fabulous, Batsam. Thank you for being a stylish and powerful inspiration to us all.

Guard

Patrol

Batsam