A Tale of Two Pairs of Sandals

I haven’t worn sandals for years, and that’s not because I want to hide my feet. I like my feet and have regular pedicures to keep them looking well groomed. I’m happy to bare my ankles, heels, arches and insteps, but drew a line at the toes. I simply prefer to wear closed toe footwear year round because it’s very comfortable, insulating in air-conditioning, and protective of my toes. Closed toe footwear is also a LOT easier to fit when you have boney, low volume feet. It’s hard to fill out a pair of sandals unless the styles run narrow, or you buy a narrow width size. All this to say that although sandals are a go-to footwear style for most in hot weather — they’re quite the wildcard for me. 

I’m not in the habit of wearing sandals, but I do like looking at them, trying them on, and admiring them on others. I am frequently helping clients find sandals during warm weather shopping season. So each year I think to myself: perhaps I’ll join the sandal party this season and get a fun pair. 

Gladiators are my favourite style of sandal, and since I adore white shoes I made a beeline for Shelly’s London Bea Buckle Sandal. Miraculously, it fit my low volume feet in a regular size, which never happens. I loved the way they looked and felt, and they followed me home. 

These gorgeous sandals sat in my closet for months, unworn despite Seattle’s record high temperatures for Spring. I’ve had ample opportunity to wear them, but haven’t. Every time I styled them into my outfit for the day — I took them off. The question was WHY? I loved the way they looked and felt on my feet. Trendy, stable, grounding and comfortable. They are great with my flared cropped jeans, of which I have several pairs in blue and white.

I was just completely out of my comfort zone wearing the Bea Buckle sandals. I can identify a few reasons for this. First, I’m not used to seeing my toes in outfits. Second, I tend to wear simple and streamlined shoes, and the sandal is chunkier and more ornate with its multiple straps and buckles. Third, I’m in the habit of wearing lightweight shoes, whereas these are quite heavy. 

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For a split second I thought about returning them, but my stubborn nature and the challenge behind “figuring them out” made me keep them for a little while longer. I compared them to a pair of sandals that are closer to my comfort zone: the Naturalizer Lanna sandals, which I ordered in a narrow width. They fit perfectly, are blissfully comfortable, and I loved the way they looked on my feet. Neat, refined and pretty. Their broad straps and velcro fastening makes them look sufficiently modern, and they’re also very lightweight. Their daintier silhouette made me more accepting of baring my toes. I also loved them with my skirts, dresses and flared crops. 

Now I had a pair of sandals that were easier to wear, but I wasn’t yet ready to give up on the sandals that challenged me. And as the gal who doesn’t wear sandals, I was not going to keep TWO pairs. 

In the midst of all this decision making, J.Crew’s citron Teddie pants arrived on our doorstep. Their fit and fabric is amazing and the colour delicious. I was definitely keeping these fun and happy streamlined culottes. I tried them on with the Bea Buckle sandals, a white boho-lite shirt, and very faded blue denim jacket with white buttons. 

And there it was. The turning point for the Bea Buckle sandals. A magic wand had been waved, and suddenly things were as clear as day. 

The chunky gladiators were a match made in heaven with the new citron cropped pants, and I instantly felt comfortable wearing them. I was finally sure that I should keep the darlings that had challenged the voices in my head for a good couple of months. It took this outfit — the exact items are represented in the collection — to expand my comfort zone. 

Trying the Lannas in the interim was an important stepping stone. They helped me get used to seeing and liking my toes in outfits. I showed in-house stylist Greg the outfit, and he gave it a very reassuring thumbs up. Although Greg generally preferred the look of the Naturalizer Lannas on my feet, he did prefer the Bea Buckle gladiators with the new yellow pants. 

As it turns out, 2016 IS my year for sandals because I’m keeping both pairs. It’s taken years for me to find sandals that feel great, both on my feet and in my head. The chunky Beas are more fashion-y, dressy and dramatic, while the daintier Lannas are an easier “every day style”, that looks better with casual dresses. We’re having fabulous weather in Seattle, and I intend to make the most of it. I am now officially back on Team Sandal.

12 Casual Finds for Summer

These items have been winners on clients and forum members recently. I added Madewell’s rivet & thread denim ruffle shirt to my own Summer top capsule, and love it. The description of the fabric is misleading because it doesn’t resemble denim or chambray. Instead it looks like a mottled 100% cotton linen, which is a great fabric for Summer. It’s a “final sale” item so think carefully before you purchase. I took a gamble and was lucky. 

I also am thinking about keeping Naturalizer’s Lanna sandal in white. They fit my low volume feet perfectly in a size 6.5N and are extremely comfortable. They also look fashionable and flattering on the foot. I don’t know why the gorgeously made shoe received less than stellar online reviews because my experience was the opposite. 

  • 'Sylvia' Stripe Stretch Boyfriend Jeans (Carrolton) (Plus Size): A good pair of jeans for an extremely curvy figure. Ample coverage and the fit narrows at the waist. Comes in regular denim too. Works well on petites.
  • 'Blessed' Graphic Tee: Wear this tee because you're blessed.
  • Hei Hei Diamant Joggers: A super soft and extra comfy alternative to stiff casual pants. Great length on petites. The fabric does pouf out a little and stands away from the body, so you have to be okay with that.
  • Naturalizer Lanna: A beautifully made and great modern looking pair of sandals. The very low wedge prevents them from feeling too flat. VERY comfortable. Comes in narrow and wide sizes and goes up to a size 12.
  • Treasure&Bond Grommet Wristlet: A casual wristlet with a harder edge. Nice in the blue.
  • Madewell Shorewalk Cover-Up Pants: Very soft and well-fitting joggers with a high rise. The fabric is scrumptious. Nice colour blue too. Casual but polished. Works will with an untucked casual top. Will not work on petites.
  • Madewell Rivet & Thread Denim Ruffle Shirt: A beautifully made high-low ruffle shirt that does NOT resemble denim. The fabric looks more like linen, but doesn't crease as much. The white specks in the mottled fabrication add extra texture. Runs true to size, but size down if you're narrow in the shoulder. Not good on a large bust because the fabric is stiff.
  • J.Crew Collins mixed metallic leather loafers: A futuristic smart casual loafer to wear with just about anything. Not super soft, but quite comfy nonetheless.
  • Topshop 'Valley' Gladiator Sandal (Women): A chunky gladiator with a marvelous block heel. Can work on a low volume foot if you size down half a size.
  • Babaton jared dress: A deliciously drapey and breezy unstructured T-shirt dress. Best on a broader shoulder line. Can work on petites with a heel.
  • Bailey 44 Isala Wrap Skirt: A fun wrap skirt that works as well on curvy figures as it does on a straight figure because of magical diagonal lines.
  • Gap Ribbon Skirt: A fab skirt for a curvier bottom half. Very practical. Breezy yet covered. Might need to size down.

Check out all the colour options and browse the collection page to see the items alongside my descriptions.

Aging Is a Privilege

With each passing year we experience more of what life has to offer. We learn to value our friendships and relationships. We absorb the richness of cultural diversity. We are exposed to more information. And we learn from our successes and our mistakes. 

With our experiences come the gifts of reflection, wisdom, and self-awareness. We can be less impressionable and less concerned about what other people think. We can be more open-minded, positive, proactive, patient and problem solving. The challenges we face can build emotional strength. We can learn about ourselves, deciding where we’d like to continue improving, and what we’d like to accept about ourselves.

Perhaps most importantly, I think we can all be role models for younger generations. I lost my mother when I was quite young, but I’m fortunate to have many wonderful role models, both on and off YLF. I see in them something that I feel myself too — a powerful sense of calm and confidence that comes with age. It inspires me. I see it shine more brightly in their style than anything they wear. It makes them feel more fab in what they wear. I feel it making me more confident in the outfits I wear.

Life is short, and aging is a privilege. By all means be a little more daring with your clothing, footwear, accessories and hairstyle as you age. Wear what makes you happy. Celebrate how you present yourself to the world. Enjoy your style, both the process and the results.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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A Small Capsule For a Wrap Jersey Skirt

Stay-at-home Mum client Bridget likes to wear jeans and casual pants most of the time, which is reflected in her updated Spring and Summer wardrobe capsules. But every so often she likes to change things up, which is why she bought Banana Republic’s long knit layered skirt at the end of last year. It was too breezy and lightweight to wear in the Autumn and Winter, so Bridget had to wait till Spring to make it work. 

Skirts are easily orphaned when they don’t have the right tops and footwear to work with them. So as part of Bridget’s Spring and Summer refresh, we set out to complete a small capsule for her wrap jersey skirt.

We started off at home. Bridget had the right sandals (an old pair of metallic Eco sandals), the perfect blue denim jacket, and a great boho tote. Fabulous items but no outfits. We needed tops to complete the outfits. We tried semi-tucking some tees into the skirt, but didn’t like the combination. It felt too fussy for Bridget. She is happier wearing tops out over the skirt, which meant that she needed short roomy tops to complete the capsule. 

We found three short casual tops that worked with the skirt at Zara. Two patterns and a solid, and two wovens and a knit provided ample variety. The hat made its way into the capsule because it also worked well with the look. The skirt together with the tops are a fast and comfy pull-on-and-go combination. The items are easy to launder and very comfortable to wear. The EXACT items in Bridget’s wardrobe capsule are represented in the collection below, which combines new and old wardrobe items.  

I’ve put similar items together in a Polyvore set so that you can see the capsule more clearly. All three tops can be worn with the same skirt, jacket, sandals, hat and bag. We added a topper, because in Seattle you’ll need one at some point during the day. Bridget’s sunnies and Apple watch complete the look.

A Small Wrap Jersey Skirt Capsule

Link Love: An Abundance of Denim

My social media feeds have been filling up with all sorts of denim-related articles, so today’s post is dedicated to the abundance of denim:

Fab Links from Our Members

Beth Ann loves how this model-turned-designer is taking on the high-heeled fashion industry by creating a collection of fabulous low-heeled shoes with a modern retro feel. Notice all the block heels and mules!

Dakotacheryl likes new-to-her blog Atypical 60, and her post about “Shit Old Ladies Do.”

Angie thought “10+ Reasons I Love My Ugly Body” was a compelling and heartfelt read.

Angie also wanted to share Sally’s post about a play in which a character reeled off a series of fat jokes, and how she feels about acceptable prejudice. 

Stockings with pre-painted toenails made Angela K smile.

Krishnidoux enjoyed this article about a fashion reporter explaining why she tries not to buy anything under $150.

Texstyle thought this was interesting: A London receptionist was sent home for refusing to buy and wear at least 2″ heels for a temporary job. She’s now trying to force a change in the policy.

UmmLila came across a humorous piece on Mom Haircuts, something she had not heard of before.

Ledonna N. loved this uplifting personal essay on style by novelist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie.