Trend: Mom Jeans

The term “Mom jeans” makes me cringe because it makes a generalization about moms and what they wear. These so-called mom jeans were thought of as dowdy, unattractive and unflattering for the longest time. But silhouettes and combinations are frumpy right up until they’re fashionable. And now, the very same fashion industry that judged the silhouette unfashionable is putting it on a pedestal. Mom jeans are currently very trendy and hip. Fashion can be very fickle so laugh a lot, and don’t take it too seriously.

Mom jeans are an ‘80s inspired silhouette. Sometimes they’re described as high-rise ankle jeans or high-rise classic jeans. They are very high in the rise, fitted on the waist, hips and bottom, have ease through the thighs, taper to the hem, and are cropped in length (about two inches above the ankle bone.) They are not boyfriend jeans because the waistband of mom jeans finishes on the natural waist in line with the belly button, and the crotch point is in the regular position. The ease through the thighs varies depending on the fit. Slightly tapered hem widths are not skintight and can be rolled to create shorter lengths. The collection below shows a good assortment of mom jeans silhouettes.

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What I like best about the mom jeans trend is that it has thrown yet another look into the melting pot of fashion. This reinforces the notion that there’s no such thing as a fad, that items take a long time to date, and that almost anything goes. The power lies with us and not the fashion industry, as we pick and choose from the vast assortment of silhouettes that is today’s fashion.

This is how I see the good and not-so-good of the mom jeans trend:

The Good

  • It’s a good fit on a curvy body type with a narrow waist and fuller hips and thighs
  • It’s a fabulous fit on a long rise and regular-to-long waist
  • It showcases the waist and adds structure to an outfit, thereby creating conventionally flattering proportions
  • It showcases the curves of your bottom
  • The high-rise and tailored fit is comfortable and girdling
  • The silhouette looks fresh in a sea of sausage-casing skinnies
  • It’s a trendy look and a fun flashback to the glorious ‘80s

The Not-So-Good

  • It’s not the best fit for a short rise and short waist
  • The point is to tuck or semi-tuck tops to showcase the rise and midsection, which might be an area you prefer to conceal
  • High rises can be uncomfortable on the midsection and accentuate the bulge on the belly, especially when seated
  • It’s not very streamlined on the thighs, despite the ease in fit
  • It can create a wedgie
  • The past stigma of the style might be too strong for you

I like the mom jeans trend for a few reasons. I enjoy showcasing my waist with a full or semi-tuck. I adore ‘80s fashion, and feel that the silhouette looks fresh and Modern Retro. I’m also sick of stretchy, tight jeggings and would much rather wear mom jeans.

I’m set for jeans for Spring and Summer, but I’ll look for a pair in the Autumn. I’ll need to be careful with the length of the rise because although I have a regular length waist, I am relatively short in the rise. I’ll have fun finding the perfect pair.

Over to you. What do you think of mom jeans, and will you wear the trend?

GUCCI Tiger Head-embroidered Straight-leg Jeans

An Assortment of Fab Finds

Here’s a selection of items that have been unexpectedly good this season. It just goes to show that you never know where the next wardrobe winner will come from. Sometimes the most unexpected retailer surprises us, so don’t be too quick to cross them off your list. 

1. SPANX Thinstincts Mid Thigh Shorts

These have been a revelation for many of my clients. Gone are the days of shapewear being uncomfortable, constricting and bothersome. Thinstincts are soft, easy to pull on and off, comfortable, and breezy. They create just enough compression to smooth out the silhouette without sucking the living daylights out of you. You forget that you’re wearing them. My clients who were dead set against wearing any type of shapewear are wearing them several times a week. They work best with skirts, dresses and tailored trousers. They also create a secure feeling under dresses and skirts that otherwise might leave you feeling a little exposed.

2. Talbots Marseille Topper With Lace

The quality of this top is mesmerizing, especially since it’s knitted jersey. The drape is architectural, and the fabric extremely luxurious. The workmanship and finish made me gasp. The inside of the neck is bound with tape so that it doesn’t stretch out. The lace insets are as neat as can be. It looks like you’ve ironed it after it’s been hung dry and machine washed. THAT is quality.

I bought the navy and have worn it semi-tucked with olive utility pants. It runs big so size down. If you wear a regular US zero, size down to PP in petites because the XS will be too big. I wear mine more fluidly than the model. Available in plus sizes too.

3. Boden Dresses

I rave about my own Boden dresses, so my clients tried them too. They’ve been equally impressed with the quality, silhouette, LENGTH, colour assortment and size range. The cuts work for an assortment of body types. Many of the styles are machine washable, come in solids and patterns, and are CASUAL. Sizes range from petite to plus, and they offer longer lengths too.

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4. Halogen Ruched Detail Sheath Dress

Oh my word, I couldn’t believe the fit and silhouette of this $69 dress. I had the black on a 5ft 10 size US10/12 client in a Large, and it took my breath away. The fit and drape is WOW. It’s fitted but does not cling. It looks body-con, but isn’t tight. It looked amazing dressed down with a denim jacket and dressy ballet flats. Now I want one too.

5. Everlane Leather Street Shoe

A stunningly streamlined sneaker-oxford hybrid that’s made in Italy. It’s the first casual sneaker, slip-on shoe that stays securely on my feet. It works well for lower and higher volume feet, and feet with gentler bunions. Comfortable, polished and versatile. Fits an orthotic if you size up. Read the rave reviews. I’m thinking about keeping a pair in white since they are GREAT for travelling and city walking.

6. Alfani Draped Cardigan

An excellent topper for sleeveless dresses and tops when you want a breezy and elegantly casual cover-up. They’re on sale and run a size big. All the colours are nice, and read the rave reviews.

7. Tommy Bahama Two Palms Linen Raw Edge Jacket

Another great topper to wear over sleeveless or short-sleeved dresses and tops if you need the coverage. It’s soft and pretty, and much more feminine and breezy than a classic denim jacket. It runs one to two sizes big so size down. Nicely made, and you must be at peace with the crease.

Outfit Formula: The Versatile Straw Bag

Being on trend has made the straw bag much more versatile. There is a much larger assortment of silhouettes available, making many interesting juxtapositions possible when they are added to outfits. They don’t all look like the unstructured, extremely casual and rustic beach or farmer’s market totes that we usually associate with straw bags. They can be structured like baskets or small suitcases, varnished with shine, and embellished with glitzy hardware, all of which give them a dressier integrity.

The outfit formula here is simply to throw in the straw bag instead of a regular satchel, tote, crossbody or clutch with a Spring or Summer outfit. The effect is playful and textural. Here are four looks to get you started. The first two are Summer-y and casual. The second two are dressier and transitional.

1. Casual Shorts & Blouse

We expect to see a straw tote with a casual denim shorts outfit, so this one isn’t a stretch. I like the boho-lite blouse, which looks prettier and more interesting than a simple tee. The slides are a trendy addition, and the pattern on the bag works well with the lace trim of the blouse.

ERMANNO SCERVINO Flower Shoulder Bag

2. Casual Jeans & Blouse

Try cropped straight or flared jeans if shorts aren’t your thing. Throw in a casual blouse, knitted top or shirt, and flat sandals or mules. Finish off the look with just about any style of straw bag. A denim skirt or dress works equally well.

SENSI STUDIO Contrast Panel Bucket Bag

3. Dressy Frock & Heels

Create an interesting juxtaposition by combining a fairly dressy dress with dainty heels and a structured straw bag. You can swap out the dress for a dressy skirt and top if that’s more your vibe, and throw in some dressy flats. The straw bag takes the place of a clutch.

GUCCI Basket Tote

4. Black Leather, Pink & Booties

Here’s a transitional look with a harder edge. The soft and flouncy pink skirt adds a gorgeous Spring softness to the tough black leather jacket and chunky boots. A black moto and black pumps or loafers could work too. The structured straw bag with gold hardware is an unexpected touch, and to my eye does not look seasonally confused.

SERPUI Straw Abacaxi Bag

I can put together the second and third combinations with my mini straw bag. How about you?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Mum’s Best Style Advice

Once a year I pay tribute to my late Mum, who taught me more about style than anyone else. She sowed my style seed, and was a fabulous shopping buddy. She wholeheartedly supported my extreme career change at age 21 when I moved away from psychology to study fashion, one of the best decisions of my life. I wish I could tell my Mum how instrumental she was in giving me the confidence and drive to switch my career focus and start again. Since I can’t do that, I’m sharing her fashion wisdom with you instead, and hope that she can feel my enormous gratitude on her big fluffy cloud in the sky. 

I’m taking you back to 1984 after we just moved to Cape Town, and I was fourteen years old. We were new to the country, learning our way around, and I was an impressionable teen who loved fashion. I wore a school uniform, which made wearing regular clothes all the more important and a rare event. What you wore and where you bought your clothes did not go unnoticed, especially as the new kid at school. I felt I had a lot to prove, and being perceived as having good fashion sense was important to me. 

On a beautifully sunny and warm Cape Town day during school vacation, I went grocery shopping with my Mum at a mini mall where there were a few fashion stores. Mum asked if I wanted to browse the stores after the groceries were done, to which I enthusiastically said yes please. Our first stop was a shop called Scotts. Initially I refused to enter and Mum asked why? I replied that my new friends told me that Scotts was uncool and old-fashioned. Cheap and nasty. I wanted to shop at the hip stores like Foschini, Truworths, Edgars, Smiley Blue, and LA Clothing, because then I’d look and feel fabulous too. 

At first Mama looked at me with a puzzled expression, and then she laughed gently. She said: “It’s not about where you shop, and how much money you spend — but about what you find and how you wear it. Let’s just have a quick look.”

So we went into Scotts, but my heart wasn’t in it. I adored my Mum, but my friends obviously knew better than she did about where to shop in this new city. At least, that’s what I thought. It wasn’t long before I spotted an amazing pair of high-waisted baggy white pants with light blue insets on the sale rack. Mum took the pants, gave them a once over with her discerning eye, approved, and told me to try them on. They were absolutely perfect.

Mum helped me match the pants with a cropped light blue and white striped top, and oversized white jacket with gigantic collar, the same light blue insets, and shoulder pads. I LOVED this look and forgot I was in the oh-so-forbidden Scotts. After we got the clothes, we went next door to get white perforated flat oxfords and white clip-on plastic earrings that put the finishing touch on the outfit. I was thrilled and very excited about this look.

I wore this outfit over and over, with great confidence and happiness. It garnered many a compliment from the very same friends who were dead set against shopping at Scotts. A few friends asked me where I got the outfit, and I said, Scotts! They gasped and didn’t believe me, and some tuned up their noses. That was fine because I felt like a million bucks. As Mum so rightly told me back then, it doesn’t matter where you buy your clothes. It’s about how well you assess the quality, colour, silhouette and fit, how well you put together the look, and how confident you are wearing it. Lesson learned at age 14 and I’ve been grateful ever since.

Unfortunately, I don’t have a photo of my magical Scotts outfit. Instead I’m sharing a pic of Mum and infant me back when I was born in Hong Kong in 1970. My mum was glam, graceful, classic and polished despite the setting, task or activity. Crying babies, a postpartum body, a husband who worked long hours, and no sleep wasn’t going to prevent her from wearing earrings, make-up, styling her hair, and sporting elegant sleepwear.

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Mama, it’s been 18 years since your passing, and words can’t express how much I love and miss you. You will forever be my stylish role model because you always knew best. In addition to your fabulous style sense, you had inner strength, a fiery persona, unconditional love for your family, immense love for animals, fearless courage, and sheer grit.

We at YLF wish you, your Mums, including Mums who are no longer with us, a happy and peaceful Mother’s Day.

Link Love: The Met Gala 2018

If you’re still catching up with what celebrities wore to this year’s Met Gala, have a look at W Magazine’s photo gallery.

The New York Times deconstructs the “fashion event of the year,” including how much it costs, and what you have to wear.

Ever wondered what it’s like for photographers who cover the Met Gala red carpet? Find out in this article from last year.

Fab Links from Our Members

Kari enjoyed reading that “data geekery plus customer satisfaction were used to innovate the personal style and shopping experience at Stitch Fix.”

Carla thought this story about a young designer who created a dress for this week’s Met Gala, was inspiring.

Jessikams found Alison’s post on how to wear black in Summer just plain useful, especially since she’s seeing a lot of black in the stores right now.

Kat appreciates the perspective on cultural appropriation displayed in this article, and wonders how others may view it.

Jenni NZ reports there’s a fashion controversy going on in New Zealand at the moment after an outspoken critic of off-shore manufacturing was found to be doing exactly that with her own brand (and mislabeling the products).

Ledonna N. loves Target’s matching family outfits.

This article about the travails of finding shoes when you have large feet hits close to home for L’Abeille.

She also found this piece on why heritage logos are back after having never left a worthwhile read.

Greenjeans thought this article about H&M and retail localization asks interesting questions about brick-and-mortar retail. Alternately, H&M’s sister company, COS, is apparently thriving.

Brooklyn really enjoyed this video on how to layer necklaces and pearls (including some tips for wearing brooches).