Link Love: Lingerie in 2019

Last October, The Flex, a strapless bra from Harper Wilde, had racked up a 6,000 person wait list.

The Guardian reports that “the new lingerie is all about comfort and body confidence.”

“It may not seem like it, but there has never been a better time– not in the whole, entire history of bras — to find a bra in your size, in your style and to fit your budget,” says Fashionista.

New lingerie brand CUUP is revolutionizing bra sizing.

Lingerie brand Lively is combining lingerie and leisure, and has penned the term ‘leisurée’.

Popsugar recommends the Pepper the All You Small Cup Bra for small busts.

The Pool has tips on where to find underwear that feels good on your body and makes you feel good in turn.

They also have recommendations for bralettes and non-traditional bras which offer decent support and comfort.

Fab Links from Our Members

Suntiger thought specs wearers would find this blog post on eyeglass frames for your natural colouring interesting.

As we’re looking at style directions for 2019, she also wanted to share this post.

The hottest branding trend of the year is also the worst.” Shevia thought this was very telling.

Runcarla enjoyed this interesting interview with designer Tanya Taylor. “Great points about inclusivity, optimism, and having fun with fashion.”

Vildy wanted to share this article about the luxury marketing strategy: “These exclusive brands market for generational endurance and use counter-intuitive strategies to position themselves even away from other luxury brands. They don’t want to know what the consumer thinks about them! They tell you what to think. And whether you may buy. And when and how. And this works.

She also thought this article about Fashion Nova, an online fashion store offering affordable clothing, and how influencers tend to look the same and wear the same things, was food for thought.

20 Stylish Do’s & Don’ts

Here are some thoughts on style that I revisit at the beginning of every year. I hope they resonate with you too.

  1. Don’t compare and despair because you’ll never be happy. Compete with the best version of your current self, and be satisfied with that.
  2. Do create outfits that adhere to your personal figure flattering priorities.
  3. Don’t add to your list of looks that are poison eye because there is a version of every trend for everyone.
  4. Do judge the outfit, but not the person wearing it.
  5. Don’t take the emotion out of your style. The more you are in tune with your preferences, needs and emotions, the easier it is to sport a style that is manageable, authentic and makes you feel fabulous. Pay attention to how you feel in an outfit.
  6. Do dress the body you have right now, and don’t wait to reach a goal weight.
  7. Don’t keep wardrobe items for good. WEAR them because if not now, when?
  8. Do relax into your style and don’t let it boss you around. There is a workable solution for every fashion challenge, and there will always be another sale or killer item. If you’re feeling frustrated with fashion, walk away and revisit things when you’re in a better headspace.
  9. Don’t worry about laughter lines because they’re proof that you enjoy life.
  10. Do celebrate your body because it’s an incredible gift that deserves daily care and praise at any size and age.
  11. Don’t pass up the opportunity to compliment others about their style, because a few genuine and kind words go a long way.
  12. Do remember that there is no one way to be stylish. Style is a celebration of individuality, diversity, and an art form that is enjoyed by a range of audiences.
  13. Don’t shop online when you’re tired, stressed, angry, bitter, or out of sorts, because it almost always leads to poor purchasing decisions.
  14. Do set the stylish standard and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for dressing in a way that makes you happy.
  15. Don’t give up on signature looks and colours that aren’t on-trend if they make you happy and feel fabulous. Your signature looks are what’s personal about personal style, which is the point.
  16. Do be patient on your style journey. It takes time and resources to build an effective wardrobe, especially when some fashion seasons are more to your taste than others. Focus on what you have and what you’ve achieved with your style instead of feeling dissatisfied about what you don’t have. Your style will fall into place after a while.
  17. Don’t keep wardrobe items that are uncomfortable, make you sad, or make you feel bad and unconfident. Life is too short for this type of negativity.
  18. Do appreciate all the different ways we can be beautiful because life would be awfully dull if we all looked the same.
  19. Don’t take fashion and style too seriously. Experiment with new things, but don’t fix things that aren’t broken. Be surprised at what works, and learn from what doesn’t. Laugh a lot.
  20. Do have fun with fashion. It can build amazing social communities like YLF, and shopping with friends is therapeutic. Selecting what to wear can be creative, entertaining and satisfying. Wearing the heck out of your fabulous wardrobe sparks joy, a sense of achievement, and allows you to get on with the rest of what life has to offer.

Style is beyond age and size. It’s an energy, attitude and confidence that is expressed through clothing, footwear and accessories. For some style is an innate and intuitive thing, but more importantly, it can be learned. We at YLF wish you a stylish and happy 2019 filled with lots of fun and satisfying fashion adventures. 

Nordstrom Roundup: Picks from the Half-Yearly Sale

There are end-of-season sales everywhere, which are worth browsing when your Winters are long and cold. My own Winters are just that, especially now that I spend more time in snowy Salt Lake City and Park City. Sometimes I add the odd coat, pair of pants, boots or pullover in January, and sometimes I don’t add a thing. 

For what it’s worth, here are some of my favourite sale items, some of which are tried and tested in my own wardrobe.

Go to the collection page to see the items alongside my descriptions.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Happy 2019!

As festive and full of good cheer as the holidays are, I’m relieved when they’re over. Goodbye Christmas music that causes annoying earworm. Goodbye Winter collections, holiday baking, holiday eating, sparkly lighting, relentless retail sales, and extremely busy airports. I’ve begun thinking about Spring and Summer fashion, and I’m breathing a sigh of relief. 

I look forward to the start of the new year, making January one of my favourite months. It’s a time to reflect, reboot, improve, clean up, make changes, and start afresh. I think about my priorities, how I can do things in a better way, and be a better person. Most of all, I make a point of creating peace in my heart about the things that bothered me during the previous year so that I can move on and enjoy life.

I’ll be reflecting a lot about fashion and style this month, and look forward to hearing your thoughts as you reflect with me. In the meantime, I wish you a happy, healthy and fabulous 2019 that is full of love, laughter, fab adventures, fun fashion, great style, and peace in your heart.

The Best and Worst of 2018

As my last post for 2018, here are some thoughts to wrap up the year of style, fashion, retail and beyond. These are very subjective musings, so feel free to agree, disagree, and add to my list. It’s all in good fun and there are no right or wrong answers. Or course, there’s an emphasis on the positive, because that’s how we roll on YLF. 

Highlights of the Year: My favourite moments are with my favourite person – husband Greg. Our trip to Positano on the Amalfi Coast was as perfect as can be, including some very special moments with old friends from South Africa. As was Greg’s whirlwind visit to the Netherlands earlier this month when he flew in from Seattle to surprise me and my Dad. WOW. I thought I was dreaming!

We attended a Simple Minds soundcheck before their Seattle concert so we spoke to the band and shook Jim Kerr’s hand! I’ll keep these magical moments close to my heart forever.

Positano

Cones in Ravello

Simple Minds

Most Adventurous Decision: Seven months ago we committed to a loft in Salt Lake City because Greg works there some of the time. This has been a game changer for us, and our best decision of the year. Greg, Sam and I regularly commute between Seattle and Salt Lake City so that we can spend quality time together. We’re thoroughly enjoying living in two very different cities, and we’ve met some wonderful new friends.

SLC

Fashion Highlight: First, the street style of Summer dresses on our trip to the Amalfi Coast. It was diverse, on-trend, colourful, and I savoured every moment. Buying a wardrobe pet and wallet in Italy for my birthday with Greg was extra special.

Furla

Best Super Hero: Spider Sam

Spider Sam

Spider Sam

Best YLF Flashback: I stumbled across a post that Alison Gary from Wardrobe Oxygen wrote about YLF in 2013. It was perfect timing. I was feeling a little low, and bam, her post found me. Thank you Alison for your grace, eloquence, candour, energy, humour, fabulous style, beautiful smile, authenticity, and positive attitude. You inspire me and our readership, and enrich the style world in countless ways.

Most Meaningful Fashion & Style Moments:

  • The availability of extended size assortments across a slew of retailers. FINALLY!
  • The use of a more diverse set of models across the fashion and beauty industry.
  • The sea of black gowns at the Golden Globe Awards ceremony to signal solidarity with the #metoo movement.
  • The unstoppable grace, energy, intellect and wisdom that Michelle Obama brings to the world, both as a style icon and as a human being.

Most Disappointing Fashion Moments: There’s a thread about this on the forum and it is well worth a read. The intolerant attitudes of top designers at leading fashion houses is disappointing, and is making me rethink my support for luxury brands.

Fashion & Style Buzzwords: Diversity, Acceptance, Extended Sizes, Gender Fluidity, Sustainability and Capsules.

Favourite New Accessories: Modern Retro watermelon specs, vintage white pearlized sunnies, and two birthday Furlas.

Specs

Sunnies

Biggest Client Surprise: When my little 19-year-old nephew asked me for a style makeover. So we went shopping in Arnhem in the Netherlands for the day, and had a ball. It was fun to see and hear Seb’s perspectives on fashion and style, and it cracked me up how exhausted he was after our day of shopping. Seb agreed that shopping is hard work!

Sebs

Best Clothing Brand: Boden because of their commitment to quality at a reasonable price, their diverse assortment of colours, and their extended size curves.

Best Dutch Clothing Brands: Expresso, because their coordinated capsules are relatable, practical and wearable. Scotch & Soda because of their commitment to quality, unique looks, and the relaxed edge they add to dressy clothing. G-Star because their men’s outerwear is hip, flattering, practical and beautifully made.

Best Footwear Brand: Naturalizer, because of their commitment to extreme comfort, good quality and fashionable silhouettes at relatively reasonable prices. And because they frequently provide footwear across narrow, regular and wide widths. If it weren’t for Naturalizer’s narrow widths, I would not have sandals.

Best Sleepwear Brands: Boden’s flannel PJs and Natori’s pyjama sets, because they’re flattering, very comfortable, and launder well.

Most Impressive Retailer: Nordstrom, because they want their brands to embrace the size spectrum. This year, Nordstrom displayed a diverse set of mannequins in one in-store department. They stocked sizes US0 to US22 of a clothing item on one sales rack, thereby integrating regular and plus sizes. A first for retail and WELL DONE. We want more of this type of retailing and marketing.

Favourite New-To-My-Wardrobe Clothing Brand: Items from the Scotch & Soda store in the Netherlands where the assortment is more diverse than in the US, and I can have fun shopping in Arnhem when I visit my Dad.

Best Purchases: I couldn’t choose because I LOVE THEM ALL!

Biggest Style Surprise: I like tucking and semi-tucking into high-rise jeans and pants, and feel oddly out of sorts wearing and tucking into mid-rise jeans.

Best Trends: The ones that make you feel happy and fabulous, and that you’ll continue wearing after they’ve had their fashion moment. For me that’s midis, white boots, structured outfits, designs from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, block heels, flats, straighter legs, and dark denim.

Worst Trends: The ones that boss you around and don’t get your style.

Most Saturated Items at Retail: Skinnies, cropped pants, oversized fits, and tops with exuberant sleeves.

Most Annoying Retail Styling Technique: The plethora of bare ankles for Fall and Winter fashion. Hello! Retailers sell boots, socks, hosiery and full-length bottoms, so why don’t they style cold-weather fashion with these items. The obsession with bare-ankled models is a mystery.

Biggest Missed Opportunities at Retail: Longer length dresses with long sleeves made of substantial fabrics that we can wear in Winter.

Worst Fit Problems: Dresses that are too short, widths that are too tight on the calf, sleeves that are too tight, and overly wide necklines.

Worst Quality Problem: Knitwear that pills.

Favourite Workout for Mind, Body & Spirit: A heated vinyasa yoga class led by a competent yogi.

Most Celebrated Body Parts of the Year: Ankles in cropped pants, heads in super cute hats, wrists with arm bling, and waistlines with tucking and semi-tucking.

Accessory of the Year: Scarves.

Best Online Shipping Service: Zappos. Fast, easy, efficient, pleasant and accurate.

Best Customer Service: Nordstrom, because they will replace a lost or stolen package without fuss.

Most Popular YLF Blog Posts:

My Favourite Blog Post: Celebrating Diversity in Style. My toes are tickled that it was popular with our readership too.

Colour of the Year: Red, in all its hues.

Wardrobe Item of the Year: Spring & Summer dresses because it’s been the best warm-weather dress season that I can remember.

Most Dapper 86 Year Old: My sweet Papa.

Papa

Best TV Show I saw in 2018: NARCOS

Most Enjoyable Comedy Series I Saw in 2018: Parks and Recreation.

Best Online Community: YLF!

Best Movie of the Year: BlacKkKlansman.

Most Fun Movie of the Year: Bohemian Rhapsody.

Favourite Ways to Accumulate Steps: Shopping, and going on long walks with Greg and Sam.

Greg

Favourite New American Artist: Jimmi Toro.

Favourite Food Artist: Tom Brown and his miniature kitchen. This video will blow your mind.

Best Chef: Jamie Oliver.

Biggest Bang for Your Fashion Buck: Wearing the heck out of your wardrobe and feeling fabulous in it.

Favourite Style Tips: Be patient with your style, listen to how you feel in an outfit, and never stop having fun with fashion.

We at YLF wish you a happy, safe and peaceful New Year’s Eve.

Angie