Halternecks: Yay or Nay

Halternecks are on-trend again, after wafting in and out of fashion every decade or so. While they enjoy their fashion moment, we’re seeing them on dresses, tops, and swimwear in an assortment of colours, patterns and fabrics. They vary in silhouette. Some are backless, and some have criss-cross front-strap detailing. Some necklines cover the décolletage, and some don’t. Some bare the midriff. Some fits are fluid, and others tailored and body-con. Some are casual and others dressier. The silhouettes are cut away at the shoulder-neck-point to expose the shoulders and arms, but some styles are more cut away and expose more skin than others.

Here are some examples.

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If you’re on Team Sleeveless Alluring Shoulders, halternecks are one way to go. They require a strapless bra, a halterneck bra, supportive breast cups, or you can leave off the bra. They are very breezy, beachy, Summery, and great in high heat when you don’t want to cover up, although you can layer over them with ease.

Some halterneck styles are skimpier than others, so find a silhouette that exposes and conceals in a way that makes you feel comfortable and fab. Some enjoy the high-necked and cris-cross versions, whereas others prefer the tank tops and blouses with cut-away shoulders. Some prefer a covered décolletage and back whereas others don’t. Some like a lot of underarm coverage.

I don’t have halterneck wardrobe items at the moment, but I’m a YAY. The silhouettes look awfully pretty, interesting, and alluring to my eye. I love the look of exposed shoulders. I like the dresses with criss-cross front detailing, and some of the fluid tops. I prefer my halternecks covered under the arms and over the midriff, but backless is okay. I wore them when I lived and worked in hot climates in Africa and Asia, and would wear them again. But infrequently because I prefer to cover up when I’m outside in the sun, and air conditioning is freezing. But as I mentioned, it’s easy to layer a jacket or cardigan over a halterneck. It can be annoying to wear a strapless bra, but there are excellent options these days.

At the moment, I’m considering a halterneck one-piece swimsuit, although I might go for a one-shoulder style instead. It’s exciting to have options.

Over to you. What’s your verdict on halternecks?

52 Years

I turn 52 tomorrow, and I’m excited. We love birthdays at the Cox Castle and celebrate all month long. I’ve spent most of the week working long hours with clients at the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, but I’m taking today and the weekend off to do fun things with hubs Greg, and Yorkies Sam and Jo. An abundance of tasty food, tea and cake is guaranteed.

Reflecting back on what it means to be a year older and hopefully wiser, I think hard about what hubs Greg and I want from life right now and in future, and how we can go about achieving it. Building our bucket list together is therapeutic, motivating, and hopeful. As we figure out which paths to follow, which experiences to prioritize, and which life goals to pursue, I find the uncertainty of it all somewhat stressful. But that is part of life’s rich adventure — both exhilarating and nerve-wracking — and yet another thing to be grateful for. It feels good to have a range of options, to not be too boxed in, and to have a set of plans to work towards.

Despite being an enthusiastic planner of just about everything, I try to be equally aware of living in the moment so that life does not pass us by. It’s an ongoing goal to seize opportunities, live in the present, be more serendipitous, and make every day meaningful.

One of my clients talked about being determined to look back on herself with kinder eyes when browsing through old photographs. We are often our harshest critics so I was greatly inspired by that. I’m taking it a step further by looking at myself with kinder eyes, full stop, and inviting you to do the same.

I wear what I like, and I’m confident in my choices. I continue to have fun with fashion and style, because it’s an enjoyable creative and social outlet that relieves stress and gives back to me each day. Looking older is not the enemy, and being older brings the benefits of memories and experience. Cheers to making more memorable moments and feeling comfortable and more grateful in our skin all the time.

Link Love: Fashion Funnies

I was in need of a giggle this week, and Reductress delivered. Maybe these will make you smile too:

Breaking: The First Outfit You Had on Was the One:

“It’s just a lot to process at the moment,” you said. “I’m on outfit number 12 right now, so it’s pretty hard to accept that I could’ve stopped eleven outfits and two rage-cries ago.”

Hairdresser Has Own Definition of Inch:

“I was gonna say something, but then a week later it looked fine?” said Maltby. “And she’s a really good hairdresser. I mean, she doesn’t cut my hair the way I want, so I don’t know why I said that. But she is?”

Fab Links from Our Members

Stagiaire Fash has seen this sentiment expressed in the YLF forum; people should be free to dress up (or down!) as they choose.

Runcarla is wondering about the impact of Barbiecore on fashion: Greta Gerwig’s movie “isn’t due for release until next summer, but already there seems to be a hint of a fringe trend to come. I don’t know if I’m down for all the pink, but I like the idea of bright colours!”

She also found herself nodding along with a lot of what this fashion and style editor wrote about her capsule wardrobe.

This article on sustainable fashion really resonated with nuancedream, particularly the decision to mend or significantly alter an item of clothing. She says: “I have a vintage silk bowling shirt that belonged to my husband’s father altered to fit me. It was a complicated alteration and took several months to complete. The personal value of the shirt as well as the connection to the father-in-law I never had the opportunity to meet is priceless.”

Minaminu enjoyed this article about the upcoming Africa Fashion exhibition at the V&A, and just booked a ticket!

Vildy enjoyed this video about Japanese style: “In Japan, fashion magazines are thriving but they don’t have the monolithic editorial viewpoint that I recall from years of reading U.S. ones. Instead, they examine eras and trends from a template point of view. People study how to put outfits together and then refine them. And it is this refinement or improvement that garners respect for the individual.”

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Summer Solid Green

This is for Team Summer Solid Green and that means any tone, tint, hue or shade of green. From mint, sage, lime, apple, neon, Kelly, jade, bottle, grass, emerald and British racing green, to chartreuse, all sorts of olive, hunter, and forest green. Take your pick. Think of any way to wear solid green in a Summer outfit.

On to some outfit ideas.

1. Easy Frock

Throw on a solid green dress in a silhouette that tickles your fancy. Finish it off with Summer shoes and a bag to match. Easy! Here an unstructured emerald shirtdress is completed with on-trend chunky black slides and a zebra-patterned clutch, both of which pick up the black hair of the model. Large hoop earrings are a fab blingy touch.

Easy Frock

2. Minted Separates

For those who like soft pastel greens, combine the pastel in the form of a top with light bottoms. Here, a fluid mint pop-over linen shirt is combined with wide leg pleated tan pants. It’s tucked to showcase the belt and define the waist. Tan slides and a sage satchel complete the look. Watch the hems on wide leg pants. Make sure they are short enough so that you don’t trip over them.

Minted Separates

3. Dressed Up Shorts

Combine a dressier bright or dark green top with black shorts. Tuck the top if you like more structure. Add a pair of white sneakers or dressier shoes to finish off the look. Black sandals, slides, mules, ballet flats, pumps and loafers could work too. Sub the shorts for a black skirt or pair of pants if that’s more your thing. Add a bag to match.

Dressed Up Shorts

4. Utility Pretty

And last, combine a pair of olive utility pants with a white support act. Choose your white, which might be off-white, cream, bone, or tan instead of optical white. Choose a pretty white top to contrast with the adventure and utility vibe of the pants. A soft boho-lite top can work well. Add white sandals to match the top, and a bag that works with the palette. Here the white earrings are a lovely touch.

Utility Pretty

The Pros and Cons of Pointy Toe Footwear

Footwear with pointy toe boxes come in a range of shapes and styles. Some have very long toe boxes, accentuating their pointy integrity, while others are shorter with a more subtle effect that does less to elongate the foot. Almond toes are a less severe pointy toe with an even shorter toe box. 

Pointy toe shoes can be flat and heeled, and vary from casual to very dressy. The collection below captures the variety. 

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Croc-finish Pumps
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Cowboy Leather Boots
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Cowboy Leather Boots
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Braided Heel Shoes
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Almond Toe Ballerinas
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Like many things, pointy toe shoes have their good and bad attributes. These lists are not exhaustive, so by all means add to them in the comments section below.

Pros

  • Dressy and sharp visual appearance
  • Refined and dainty
  • Elongates the foot and lengthens the leg line
  • Looks effective peeking out from long length wide hemmed bottoms like bootcuts and flares that graze the surface of the ground
  • A natural fit for narrow, low volume, pointy feet

Cons

  • Can cause bunions when toes are crammed
  • Can be uncomfortable and feel restrictive
  • Might be too dainty for your sartorial preferences
  • Visually too dressy and severe
  • Makes the foot look extra long

The most comfortable, healthy shoes are the ones that follow the shape of our feet. Personally, I find pointy toe footwear comfortable because they are a natural fit for my narrow, low volume, pointy feet. I don’t mind that that they make my feet look longer. And their refined integrity suits my sartorial preferences. That said, I am wearing and buying them less frequently because I prefer a slim oval toe-box, or narrow snip-toe, a lot more these days. Along with sleek fashion sneakers, I find those even more comfortable and equally refined.

Here are examples from my footwear capsule.

Over to you. Do you like and wear pointy toe footwear?