Dropping the tie for formal functions

Women are fortunate when it comes to dressing for warm summer weddings and occasions – breezy dresses and open toe sandals without hose is perfectly acceptable attire. Gents, on the other hand are expected to swelter in shirt, tie, jacket, socks and closed shoes unless otherwise stated on the invitation. Are there cooler dressing options for men for formal occasions? This has been a frequent “Ask Angie” over the last few weeks.

Unfortunately, if the dress code is formal, men will still have to bring a dinner jacket, and wear socks with dressy shoes. They can, however, drop the tie:

  • The Prada look: An ultra trendy look of black pants, black pinstripe shirt, black jacket and no tie. Alternatively, try an iridescent navy, brown or burgundy shirt instead of a black pinstripe one. As long as the ensembles’ palette is dark and monochromatic, they’ll look formal enough. Tom Cruise often wears this look on the red carpet. It’s a super look for formal evening functions.
  • The light suit and bright shirt: A tan suit with any brightly coloured shirt usually works best for this look. It’s always festive to wear a bright colour in summer which makes this ensemble especially suitable.

Dressy collared shirts will allow gents to look formal enough without ties. With a spot of luck there will be air conditioning as well.

The Prada look from Nordstrom, and Light suit with bright shirt from Macy’s, both formal, but without ties.

Shopping in your own closet

Cleaning out your closet, getting organized and practical about what’s inside of it is worth every minute of the effort. The end result makes my toes tingle with delight. Seeing neat and tidy piles of clothes can sometimes make a hectic morning seem more calm.  It sounds absurd, but perfectly displayed clothing, shoes and accessories seems to have a positive impact on the way you dress. Without fail, ordered shelves and rails seem to start off my day with clarity.

Messy closets are problematic because you can’t find what you are looking for in them. It therefore:

  • Takes you twice as long to get dressed for anything
  • Makes you spend unnecessarily on the duplication of items
  • Makes you feel like you have nothing to wear despite the fact that your wardrobe is bursting at the seams

The easier it is to see the entire contents of your wardrobe, the easier it is to choose an outfit. Sorting out the clothes and accessories in your closet has to be done with forethought and planning. It’s not just a question of hanging up things that are on the floor. The aim is to be able to shop in your own closet. Stay tuned on how to create a happy, efficient and comfortable personal dressing environment – rather like your favourite store.

   

Aspirational closet organization with a little help from Organize-it-Online and Aztec Closet Systems.

Brilliant boy shorts

Despite recent innovations like the Hanky Panky, the G-string panty (or thong) is not for everyone. But now there is an alternative route to invisible panty lines: “the no panty line promise” modern brief by Jockey underwear. Sue introduced us to them in a recent comment and as soon as I had a chance I did a fit trial.

They are brilliant! Boy short style underwear is my preference and these are the most comfortable pair I’ve worn. The fabric composition is a nylon spandex blend with 100% cotton gusset. Panty lines are kept invisible by overlocking the hems instead of finishing them with elastic. There is enough stretch in the fabric to keep them perfectly in place the entire day (no panty plucking).

They are available at Macy’s or any other department store that stocks Jockey underwear. Colours are abundant and run from a sizes S to XL. Thanks to Sue for sharing this valuable information. At $8.50 a pair – we have another solution to visible panty lines!

The Modern Brief from Jockey.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Big shoes for tall girls

The most common foot size that I dress is an American size 9 (European size 40). Size 9s are fairly easy to find, but things get tricky from thereon upwards. A subscriber to my blog has shared information with me about a solution to this very problem. She has a daughter with a size 12 foot and they battled to find pretty shoes until they discovered Kathryn Kerrigan, an online store for tall women.

Sizes range from 6-12 and prices seem reasonable. If you are tall and need a size 12 shoe, or if you know somebody that does – the above site might prove useful.

Not your daughter’s jeans (NYDJ)

NYDJs are ideal for mature women carrying weight around their midsection. The brand is marketed as the “tummy tuck jean that’s made for real women with curves.”  It’s available in regular and petite and up to a size American 16. Their cut has a girdle effect for the tummy area with straight or boot cut shaped leg widths. They are also offered in dark washes which are always a better idea when it come to denim.

I cannot take credit for finding this brand of jeans. My friend Laurel (another personal dresser at Dress for Success Seattle) took a chance and bought them for a friend’s 68 year old mother who is a perfect size 12P. They fitted absolutely splendidly! They were updated, chic and elegant. Well done to Laurel for getting her friend’s Mum jeans on the absolute first try (a tall order for most) and thank you for sharing this valuable information with us. 

You might not be the target customer for NYDJ’s, but if you know some else who might be – pass on the good news.

 

NYDJs from Nordstrom.