My Hair Colour and Wardrobe Palette

Last year the colour of my hair changed when I stopped highlighting it. I went from a platinum blonde to a honey blonde. Still blonde, but darker. My warm complexion has stayed the same. I think a colour professional would call me a “Warm Spring.” 

Hair Color

With my change in hair colour, there have also been some subtle changes in my wardrobe palette.

Neutrals

My dominant neutrals and metals are the same. Navy, ink blue, shades of white, shades of denim blue, and gold rule the neutral component of my style. I don’t mix metals, so no silver, although a warm pewter can work. No black, grey, or chocolate brown either. Here is most of the navy, white, denim and gold in my wardrobe.

Banana Republic
Ramie Blouse
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Hobbs
Saskia Trench Coat
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Hobbs
Katy Cotton Sweater
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Everlane
The Way-High Jean
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Everlane
The Cashmere Beanie
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10
Nordstrom
Vince Slip Skirt
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Everlane
The Cashmere Scarf
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G-Star Raw
Workwear Shirt
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Everlane
The Arc Jean
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Boden
Bell Teddy Lined Coat
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Boden
Holywell Tote Bag
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Boden
Clarissa Midi Dress
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COS
Silk-cotton Polo Shirt
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Yoox
Furla Across-body bag
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Furla
Minerva
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I continue to LOVE wearing white and cream clothing, especially footwear, because it matches my white pearls, white watch, white bags, and visually complements the clear sour brights, navy, and white that I wear. The whites add a clean and modern touch that I like to incorporate into outfits. Additionally with my darker hair, I can successfully bookend an outfit with taupe and toffee footwear, and bought two pairs. I got the matching bag as an anniversary present to create a complement with the shoes.

Oatmeal and a peachy toffee are more flattering with my dark blonde hair. I’ve added them as solids or in patterns and feel fab. I got a new herringbone and textured oatmeal coat and peachy toffee pleather moto that have become workhorses. I often wear them with a bright item. The patterned horsey cardigan incorporates the same two, new-to-me neutrals.

Olive has never featured strongly in my style. Now with my darker hair, I don’t feel happy wearing it, despite it matching my green eyes. It makes me look and feel tired, and un-energized somehow. So I’ve passed on the one last solid old olive item in my wardrobe. I will wear olive in a pattern, though.

Pastels

I used to successfully wear watery pastel pink and blue with my platinum blonde hair. But with my darker hair, they wash me out. I’ve passed on items in watery pastels and kept items in saturated pastels like the items you see from my wardrobe in the collection below.

My light blue specs look better with my darker hair because they create a more striking contrast. The darker hair somehow brings out my eyes when they are enclosed with the light blue of the specs. Bonus!

Brights

Sour, clear, and bright reds, oranges, yellows, greens, pinks, and turquoise remain close to my heart, work well with my darker hair, and I have a wardrobe full of them. Fittingly, Dutch orange looks particularly good, and so do neon colours. I used to stick to tomato red, but now wear darker reds and wine red too. I continue to wear burgundy as long as it’s more red than brown.

COS
Pure Cashmere Scarf
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Boden
Rosie Jersey Top
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Boden
Westmoreland Sweater
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Boden
Knight Coat
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Boden
Viola Multiway Bag
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Cashmere Scarf
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Roll-neck merino jumper
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Cashmere jumper
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Karen Millen
TIE-NECK COAT
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Yoox
Furla Handbag
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COS
Cashmere-blend Beanie
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Talbots
Montauk Twill Jacket
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Zappos
Cole Haan Cole Haan
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COS
Cashmere scarf
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Boden
Classic Belt
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Boden
Cashmere Crew Sweater
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Yoox
Furla Handbag
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Hobbs
Hackness Wool Jacket
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If anything, my dark blonde hair has made the palettes of my wardrobe more versatile. I don’t miss wearing olive and watery pastels, and happily welcome the gentle earthy shades and darker reds. I’m feeling fab about the palettes in my wardrobe, and thoroughly enjoy wearing hectic colour combinations and high contrast. They calm me, make me happy, and feel authentic.

Fab Find: Clothes Fuzz Shaver

After regularly de-pilling my knitwear and a bouclé coat for three years, there is no contest for best de-piller. It’s the clothes fuzz shaver with a triangular head in the collection below. I’ve had mine for years, and it’s still going strong. It removes the fuzz effectively, but prepare to clean up afterwards, because the fuzz goes everywhere. It rained shocking pink, citron, and turquoise fuzz all over Yorkies Sam and Jo before I realized this was happening.

I’ve found that the tool works best on wool and cashmere knitwear, but is sometimes a little harsh for man-made fibres. I haven’t used it on cotton knitwear because my 100% cotton knitwear does not pill. If you’re looking for a handy de-piller, keep this one on your radar.

Outfit Formula: Sherpas and Teddies

Sherpa and teddy coats are texture-rich, soft, plush, and very cosy. Some retailers call them shaggy coats. They are an interesting choice because they can be either very casual, or very dressy and glam. It’s all in the fit, finish, fabric, and style of the coat. Silhouettes are fluid or oversized.

This collection shows some good examples.

Boden
Long Teddy Coat
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If sherpa and teddy coats are not your thing, you can opt for a texture-rich shearling, faux shearling, bouclé, or another type of faux fur topper instead. I haven’t found the right dressier teddy coat yet, but have old bouclé and faux shearling coats that I absolutely adore. The former is dressy in chartreuse, and is one of my favourite coats of all time. The latter is casual in navy, with a ‘70s integrity. They are both super roomy and I can layer underneath them.

Karen Millen
TIE-NECK COAT
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Boden
Bell Teddy Lined Coat
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Here are some sherpa and teddy coat looks that I think are fab. Note the longer length of the coats. Personally, I like the versatility and warmth of this length of coat.

1. Sherpa with Metallic Sneakers

A cream sherpa with chocolate faux leather trim has a Modern Retro vibe to it. It’s layered over a sweater and gently flared light denim jeans that are at the new full length (ankle covering, no break-line, and hems resting on the vamps of the shoes). The look is finished with gold sneakers with cream soles. The new full length of the jeans allows you to showcase more of your shoes. The cream soles match the sherpa coat, while the gold adds disco glitz. I see a cream, brown or gold bag. Fun!

Sherpa with Metallic Sneakers

2. Teddy Maximalism

This mismatched and “thrown together” outfit is chaotic, and works wonderfully well to my eye. I like the unexpected combination of colours. A pair of dark green dressy trousers is combined with a tucked bright turquoise turtleneck. A dark purple-y mauve teddy coat with graphic cream pattern tops the top and bottom. Chunky green boots with teal soles tonally work well with the green bottoms and blue top. An earthy tiger print tote is the off-kilter bag of choice. The black in the pattern of the tote matches the black hair of the model. Clever!

Teddy Maximalism

3. Matchy-Matchy

This version uses Winter white sherpa as a trim on a black faux leather patent coat. It tops a column of Winter white made up of a pullover and pair of relaxed full-length jeans. Black patent boots match the black patent coat and the model’s hair. A cream sherpa bag is the finishing matching touch. Striking!

Matchy Matchy

4. Glam Cobalt

And last, a cobalt teddy coat with earthy brown faux fur sleeve trim tops a dress (or skirt and top). It’s completed with a pair of honeyed cognac tall heeled dressy boots. The boots and sleeve trim beautifully match the model’s gingery hair. A brooch on the lapel adds some bling. Add a bag in a shade of brown. Gorgeous!

Glam Cobalt

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Style Goals for 2023

At this stage of my style journey I’m achieving my style goals and my wardrobe is in a very happy place. I continue to thoroughly enjoy fashion and style, shopping, adding on-trend updates when they tickle my fancy, and refreshing my wardrobe with key pieces. I’ve been especially enjoying the last few years of silhouette and proportional shifts and remixes. I love looser and wider bottom silhouettes with mid and high rises, a variety of pant lengths, boxy fits, and shorter top lengths. It’s nice to see colours other than earth tones and greyed mid tones at retail, and footwear that isn’t chunky.

Many of my style and wardrobe decisions, strategies, and processes have become intuitive and are on autopilot. These days they are internalized habits, and I don’t need to list them as style goals. I trust my instincts, and when I’m unsure, ask hubs Greg what he thinks of a look, style or colour.

To recap, my Style Descriptor (or Style Moniker) is Urban Polish. I live in the city, walk almost everywhere in all sorts of weather with doggies in tow, wear smart casual and dressy clothes daily, and extremely comfortable shoes that go the distance. I am a perfectionist, and very neat and tidy by nature, so it’s important that my outward appearance exudes a high dose of polish.

I will continue to wear outfits that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Playful and Dressy.

Modern, because I enjoy injecting a few carefully chosen hot-off-the-press trends into my seasonal look. That’s part of why fashion is fun, keeps things fresh, and it works well with my line of work.

Crisp, because I love wearing shades of white and clear brights, and have a strong need to create a fresh, professional and tidy appearance.

Retro, because of my fondness for fashion from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, but remixing retro sensibilities with a good dose of current.

Playful, because it’s become important to me to wear outfits that are or have soft, amusing, sentimental, nostalgic and fun elements. This also reminds me to not take fashion and style too seriously, and to do my own thing.

Dressy, because super casual does not make me happy.

General Style Goals

  • To carry on doing what I’m doing.
  • To grow my hair another four inches

Specific Shopping Goals

None are urgent. If I can tick them off the list, fab! If not, all good too:

  • Add wardrobe items in bright sour green, because the colour is finally available at retail and is one of my favourites
  • Re-evaluate tired cotton knitwear and replace as needed
  • Re-evaluate tired white jeans and replace as needed
  • Replace beaten up tomato red loafers
  • Add dressy and refined white Fisherman sandals or ankle-strap flats
  • Add a pastel blue or pastel pink dressy coat
  • Embellish my high Summer capsule, because Seattle Summers are hotter than they used to be
  • Embellish my formal and semi-formal capsule
  • Summer dresses, swooshy midi skirts, and fun dressy pants are always welcome!

Have you thought about your style goals for 2023? Many of the YLF forum members have thought about theirs, and their posts have been a pleasure to read over the last few weeks. Please share your style goals in the comments section, even if you’ve already shared them on the forum. They will be and interesting and aspirational to others, and I look forward to hearing them.

A Word and Colour for 2023

Every January, I choose a word and colour to help set my priorities for the year. Laura, my friend and YLF forum member, started this tradition and this is my fifth year in joining her. There is something very motivating about having a word top of mind for the year. It helps me focus on what is important and keeps me accountable to small and big picture life goals. The colour that I choose can symbolize what I’m feeling in my heart, or simply be a colour that I want represented more strongly in my life. It’s all in good fun.

Here are the words and colours that I’ve chosen in previous years:

2019: Relaxed / Red

2020: Experience / Blue

2021: Achieve / Citron

2022: Achieve / Light Blue

I hope you’ll join Laura and me, and add your own word and colour in the comments below.

Word: Change

I turn 53 this year, and desperately need to change things up across several aspects of my life. I haven’t achieved what I’ve wanted to in the last couple of years, and I feel like some change could be the intervention I need to get back on track.

Professionally, I’ve been in the same industry for thirty years. I was a designer, then a buyer, then a consultant, and when I came to America in 2003 I became a fashion stylist. I have fabulous clientele, and I manage a very engaged social community on YLF. For almost 17 years, I’ve written fresh content and participated actively in the forum almost every day. Although I continue to be extremely passionate about fashion and style, and I love working with my clientele, I need to break out of a rut and make some changes that will re-energize me.

In terms of my personal style, I need a change, and I’m pleased to report that’s well on its way. I’ve had very short hair for seventeen years and started growing it out last year. I will continue to grow it out this year. I’m also sporting my natural hair colour hair, which is dark blonde. The colour change has brought about a subtle change in my wardrobe palette, which is welcome too. These are big-for-me changes that will intensify as the year progresses.

Geographically, hubs Greg and I have lived in the same city for twenty years. While we have no immediate plans to leave Seattle, or our loft, we do want to make some changes. We spent part of our Christmas staycation decluttering our home, editing, fixing things, and re-decorating. We also have plans to remodel this year. These are very welcome changes too.

Recreationally, we haven’t had a fun international holiday for four years. Greg and I work to travel, but with the pandemic, the passing of both of our fathers, and a severe lack of time, visiting destinations on our bucket list has taken a major backseat. We hope that changes in 2023.

Last, I am seldom an impulsive and spontaneous person. I like to plan, organize, take my time and follow through on things. I do not enjoy having things sprung up on me. I am changing some of that. I want to be more spontaneous and impulsive, and less “planned way in advance” about things. This will be challenging because it’s much more natural and easy for me to plan ahead. Although, please, no surprise parties or visits!

Color: Sour Green

An acidic lime and apple green is one of my all-time favourite colours. It’s a bright yellow green, and not a blue green. Sometimes it’s a bit neon. If you’ve been on YLF since its inception, you might remember that the site was lime green when we launched it in 2006. I’ve worn lime green my whole life, and it’s always represented in our home decor. There is finally lime green at retail, and I’m going to prioritize the colour in my purchases this year. I will wear almost anything in lime green if the item tickles my fancy.

Over to you. Join us in choosing a word and colour for the year. Don’t overthink it. Your first and freshest thoughts on the subject are likely to be the best ones. Share them in the comments section when you have a moment. I’m looking forward to hearing them.