A Midi with Slippers and Neon

I was initially disappointed with my form fitting polka dot midi skirt. I wore it with three inch heels to a wedding in Chicago earlier this Spring, but as much as I liked my outfit, I did not enjoy hobbling around in the skirt. Below the knee, super tight, and sans stretch, I remember thinking that this skirt was destined for sitting occasions only. Fortunately, I was wrong. 

About a month after the wedding I wore the skirt again, but this time with ballet flats. I was amazed at the difference it made. Wow. It was the high heels that made the skirt feel so limiting the first time round. I’m thrilled to report that I can now wear this skirt with flats on a bustling shopping day with one of my clients.

I wanted a pair of slipper flats as soon as I saw the trend surface last year. It took a while to find the right pair, but I did, and Vince Camuto’s Liliana3 animal print  flats have been my go to shoes all Summer long. I can’t be more thrilled with them. They are comfortable, dressy, sparkly, fun, and extremely versatile if you are prepared to mix your patterns. I particularly like wearing my slipper flats with patterned clothing because it feels on trend.

I do have a love-hate relationship with this white blouse. I adore its crisp fabric, retro sailor integrity, volume, and raised shawl collar. The slight stretch in the fabric and the trapeze shape make it comfortable and fun to wear. But after half an hour of wearing the blouse, it begins to show pull lines on the shoulders of the sleeves and those creases drive me batty. The blouse does not feel too tight at all, and looks perfect when you first pop it on. Yet there is something about the cut of the sleeve that isn’t quite right, causing it to misbehave after a short period of time.

Oh well. If I ignore the sleeve creases, I love the blouse for its ladylike and romantic vibe. That’s quite a change to the tomboy button down shirts that are my style staple.

Although a shade of red lipstick would have looked more appropriately retro and complemented the blouse, I generally prefer to wear light lipstick with white tops. That’s my way of adding a modern element to the outfit. 

I finished off the look with a new cognac and neon clutch that was a birthday present from a dear friend. I do not wear earthy cognac colours, but when it’s paired with neon yellow, it feels right for my style. I have worn this clutch a lot over the last three weeks, both during the day and at night, and have  found it quite versatile. I absolutely love my gift. Could neon be the new neutral?

I chose my black retro specs to match the retro vibe of the blouse, and gold watch and wedding ring to match the hardware of the clutch. No other jewelry or accessories required because there’s enough going on with pattern mixing and neon colour blocking. This is my minimal take on a maximal outfit.

Fab Find: Vince Camuto ‘Spaced Tiles’ Pegged Pants

These pants don’t look compelling on the model, but don’t let that put you off. They are machine washable, lightweight, drapey, comfortable, modern and the pattern is divine. Nice side entry pockets too. They will not look this short unless you are very tall. In fact, these pants are regular length on my regular height clients. 

They are a great breezy alternative to jeans and very much on trend. If you have warm Autumns, wear them with peep toe booties, ankle booties or cage heels. Throw on a high-low knit top, blouse or sweater, scrunch the sleeves and you are done. A slouchy t-shirt and a blazer will also look fab. 

Summer Dressing Challenges and Solutions

Every year our readers express their style challenges for Summer. Everything from not wanting to wear sleeveless items and tops that require a camisole, to feeling too hot to wear accessories or structured clothing, and feeling too hot to wear their hair down. 

My personal Summer dressing challenges are two-fold: 

  • First, I run very cold, and it’s rarely warm enough in Seattle to wear sleeveless clothing without a top layer when you’re outside. But I love to wear sleeveless tops and dresses. 
  • Second, I find cold air-conditioning an absolute nightmare for any type of real Summer dressing. I have lived in the tropics and understand what it takes to stay cool when temperatures are sweltering outside. But you can’t win when the A/C indoors is set to “freezing cold”.

How do you dress for a 30 to 40 degree Fahrenheit difference when you run as cold as I do? I can’t wear sandals or anything uncovered and lightweight in A/C because I freeze and am instantly unhappy. I need closed shoes, covered legs, a camisole, top and jacket for inside air conditioned situations, no matter how hot it is outside. 

As far as solutions go, I’ve learned to not buy any more sleeveless tops and dresses while we live in Seattle. I’ll wear the sleeveless items that I have on the occasional hot day and leave it at that. To constantly be layering over sleeveless clothing defeats the purpose for me. 

To combat cold air-conditioning I am forced to choose my summer outfits carefully. I try to layer in the best possible way so that I can leave off my topper when outside, but I don’t always find the right balance for the extreme temperature shift. At this stage, I would rather feel a little too warm outdoors so that I can feel comfortable indoors than the other way round. I am much more miserable when I feel too cold than when I feel too warm. 

I’d love to hear about your Summer dressing challenges and the solutions you’ve found. If you haven’t found solutions, feel free to post them in the comments section and let’s get you sorted. 

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Your New Colours for Fall

Each fashion season I add a few “new to me” colours to my wardrobe. This is not an essential strategy, but I find that it’s a great way to refresh my style. This Spring and Summer I dabbled with a little neon pink and yellow, and brought back light blue. It’s been many, many years since I’ve worn these colours and I’m enjoying the nostalgic update.

So far, my “new to me” colour for Fall, courtesy of the Nordstrom anniversary sale, is blush pink. I intend mixing the pastel with black, grey and white, and brights. And like last year, I am still on a quest to add more ink blue to my wardrobe. It’s not a replacement for black, but a complement to it. Greg recently bought me a great boxy, mixed media, ink blue pullover for my birthday. I can’t wait to wear it when the weather cools down. 

Dark reds and berries are strong for Fall 2012. That colour spectrum is not on my radar because I prefer sour, bright reds. But I’m not ruling it out just yet because wearing muted shades with brights does tickle my fancy. 

Over to you. Which “new to you” colours have you added to your style for Spring and Summer? Which new to you colours are you thinking of adding for Fall and Winter?

How to Choose and Fit Boyfriend Jeans

Boyfriend jeans offer a roomy alternative to skinnies and jeggings, and are an extremely comfortable, ultra-relaxed denim option. The tomboy vibe they create is fun, modern and on-trend. There have been many, many questions about the fit and styling options of boyfriend jeans on our forum lately, so I thought I would outline the way I break down the decision of which pair to purchase and how to wear them. 

1. Find your Bagginess

The photos show an assortment of boyfriend jeans with varying degrees of bagginess. Some styles are slim fitting and are virtually cropped skinnies (the first two pairs). Others are roomier on the hips and thighs, but fitted on the waist, bottom and tummy. And some styles are unstructured and roomy enough for the crotch point to drop (the last 3 pairs). In fact, they slide right off, even when the button and zipper is fastened, and wearing a belt is the only way to keep them up. 

If figure flattery is your top priority and you prefer to wear tailored clothing, slim style, structured boyfriend jeans are best. If you really want to embrace the authentic boyfriend jeans trend and are happy to forego a little figure flattery, go super baggy. The good news is that there is also an option in-between that allows you to bat a bit for both teams. In this case the slightly all over baggy fit that is still structured is the way to go.

My own sweet spot is pretty baggy. I sized up on my Sexy Gap boyfriend jeans (which I call my “Husband Jeans”) in order to achieve the same baggy fit that’s on the model. The crotch point is dropped and they fall right off without a belt. They are roomy on the thigh, bottom and tummy area. The fabric bunches on the waistline when I add a hip slung belt. But this is how I want them to fit because it’s the look that I’m going for. A less baggy pair of boyfriend jeans was more figure flattering, but the baggier style stole my heart because they are fun to wear and look more “tomboy”. Remember that you sometimes forego a little conventional figure flattery in order to create an edgier look

2. Find your Waistline

Most boyfriend jeans have mid length rises. A fitted pair will keep the same position of the waistband with and without a belt and tucked top. But an extra baggy pair of boyfriend jeans, because you’re swimming in the style, allows you to manipulate the position of the waistline by wearing a belt. Wear the belt tight with a tucked top, and you’ll create a higher rise and more natural waistline. Wear the belt loose so that the crotch point of the jeans drops, and the waistline is low rise. 

Since my boyfriend jeans are baggy and loose, I only wear them with a belt and fully tucked top because it gives the look more structure and polish. This is by no means a rule, but it is the way the silhouette works best for my style. Semi tucking a top works particularly well for boyfriend jeans too. 

3. Find Your Length 

Sort out the length after finding your waistline because the position on your waist will affect the length on your leg. Roll up the hem to the length that you prefer. I like the variations around calf length that are shown below, some a little shorter and some a little longer. To my eye, they flatter the length of the leg line. I do not find the “just above the ankle” lengths flattering unless the hems are very tapered (as they are in the first pair in row 2 below). You might need to taper the hems of the jeans a little more to get the desired effect, and that’s an easy alteration. 

At 5 ft 6, I wear my boyfriend jeans rolled up five inches above my ankle bone, both with flats and low heels. They are too short to wear full length, but they’ll work with mid calf and taller ankle booties. 

4. Find Your Wash 

As with all denim, choose your degree of distress. Boyfriend jeans are typically quite faded and distressed, but darker washed are available too. 

Feel free to ask further questions in the comments section. Do you wear boyfriend jeans? If so, what’s your baggy sweet spot, and how do you like to style them? Or are boyfriend jeans not your thing.