Ensemble: Cinderella Goes to the Ball

This is the last ensemble post of 2016, and we’re going to a ball (an imaginary ball is good too). Enough with practical, easy, casual and comfortable dressing. Let’s toss simple, minimal looks out the window too. It’s time to glam things up with a very dressy frock, glitz, jewellery, and gorgeous make-up. It’s also a time to have a discussion with your feet. Tell them you’ll need to wear uncomfortable heels for the event, but that you’ll have comfy peds on standby, just in case. 

The most important thing about this look is to pull out all the stops. This is your Cinderella moment, so don’t hold back. Except, in this version of the fairytale your coach does not turn into a pumpkin at midnight. 

Here are the components of the outfit. 

Dress: You HAVE TO WEAR A DRESS. Tuxedo separates or funky jumpsuits will not do. Choose the ballgown of your dreams and remember to have it altered to fit. By the way, your fairy godmother is paying for the outfit, so don’t be shy. You might need to pop fashion tape in a few strategic places to keep the frock from shifting. No need to choose a long gown if that’s not your thing. By all means go knee or tea-length (less formal, but just as elegant). Choose any colour. 

Footwear: Choose dressy heeled pumps, Mary Janes or sandals that go with the style of the dress. Metallics are flop proof and add a fabulous dimension to the outfit. Dark footwear can work, especially if it’s bejewelled. Don’t choose dressy footwear that you would wear to the office. Amp it up! Pop your shoes on before the dress because sometimes that’s a whole lot easier, and won’t crease the dress. 

Bring along a pair of glitzy sneakers or flats to change into later in case your feet need a break from those heels. It’s easier to add flats and sneakers to a shorter dress, so if you decide to wear a gown, remember that you’ll be committed to that heel height. 

Topper: Short feathery or faux fur jackets and stoles look good with fit-and-flare dresses. Longer brocade or lace coats look fab with straighter dresses. Wool or velvet capes can work with just about any dress. And sparkly wraps are an easy solution for a sleeveless dress. 

Accessories: Choose bold jewellery that makes a statement. It might be earrings and a cuff bracelet, or simply earrings. A festive mask or fascinator is another way to go. A pile of pearls for around the neck would be my choice here, and perhaps a gigantic cocktail ring too (and I’m leaving on my green specs so that I can see). Finish off the look with a small dazzling clutch or wristlet, hair that is done at the salon, hosiery if you need the insulation, sultry make-up, nail polish, and perhaps a splash of your favourite scent. 

The only thing left to do is have a ball at the ball!

Cinderella at the Ball

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Twenty Years and a New Pearl Ring

Twenty years ago today, I married the love of my life in the oldest stone church in Cape Town. I designed my own dress, had it custom-made, and to this day I wouldn’t have changed a thing about it. All in all we’ve been together almost thirty years, most of my life, and I’m looking forward to thirty more. Our affection, respect, devotion, loyalty and gratitude for one another goes more deep than I can express in words.

Wedding

The engagement ring Greg chose is a gold band with three small centered diamonds, and I love it. I’m not into wearing two rings on one finger, so I had a gold wedding band fused onto either side of the ring to create one broad band. Over the years I’ve collected three more wedding rings. With Greg’s blessing I changed up my wedding ring style. I sported a very simple platinum band in the late ‘90s. My Mum’s gold wedding ring after she passed way. And a white gold 1938 vintage estate ring for many years after that. Interestingly, of all my wedding rings, I have worn the first broad gold ring the most by far. I bat for Team Gold. 

I’ve been after the right pearl wedding ring for a while, and just when I stopped looking, there it was. A gold band with two small asymmetrical pearls that were floating in air. Simple, delicate and different. Just what I had in mind, and absolutely perfect. It became my 5th wedding ring and my 20th anniversary gift.

New Ring

My new pearl wedding ring is incredibly lightweight and comfortable. I can barely feel it on my finger, and it stays put. It matches my dainty new gold watch and pearl bracelet too. I’m wearing my pretty new ring for the first time today and I can’t stop looking at it. I LOVE IT.

And last but not least, the incredibly thoughtful YLF community gave us a very special gift earlier this year to commemorate ten years of YLF. Part of the gift was a getaway at the Inn at Langley on Whidbey Island, which is an hour and half away from our home. That’s where hubby Greg, our Yorkie Sam, and I are heading today to celebrate our wedding anniversary. How smashing is that? I’ll be wearing my holiday outfit for our fancy ten-course meal tomorrow night, along with my new pearl wedding ring. We’ve been looking forward to this for months, and can’t thank you enough for your generosity.

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Weekly Roundup: Items with Texture

Here’s a short roundup of cute items with subtle or dramatic texture. Most of them were winners on my clients, and can be dressed up or down. Some of the pieces are available in multiple colours. 

Visit the collection page to see the items alongside my descriptions.

Karen Millen
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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Faux Fur and Velvet

A new outfit from Janise Burrafato of Mama in Heels, whom we introduced to YLF in December 2014.

This is a great example of Angie’s faux fur vest ensemble. Janise has created a column of colour by pairing a sleek black turtleneck with cropped skinny jeans. Layering slim-fit items under the faux fur vest streamlines the look. Its hip length works well with trousers. The different shades of brown add movement and fab texture to the outfit. So do the on trend velvet block-heeled pumps. The light blue colour is unexpected and looks amazing with the cool-toned colours of the vest and the black support act. The blue tote adds extra pop. Raspberry lipstick and Janise’s wavy ‘do complement the look splendidly.

Janise Burrafato

Janise Burrafato

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My Favourite Thermal Underwear

It’s been snowy and frozen in Seattle recently and I’m thankful for my thermal tees and long johns. They’re from Uniqlo’s Heattech range, and quite well priced. I’ve been wearing these thermals for years and replenished them last season. Hubby Greg wears the men’s version and has the same positive impression that I do.

I love these thermals because they’re not only highly effective at keeping me toasty warm, but they’re extremely lightweight, soft, comfortable, and fit like a dream. They aren’t bulky — to the point that I forget that I’m wearing them. They launder well, wear like iron, and do not lose their shape or shrink. They are easy to pack for a trip, remarkably breathable, and feel warm and silky against the skin. 

I believe they run true to size, and aren’t as small as the reviews suggest. The silhouettes are brilliantly streamlined, so you can wear them under fitted clothing (their outline does not grin through to the outfit). They are long enough for Team Tall, and work equally well for petites. 

The long-sleeved tees are available in an assortment of necklines and colours as the collection below illustrates. You can also get an “extra warm” version that’s a little thicker and even more insulating. The long-sleeved crew necks in black and white cover my needs up top. I wear the leggings in black or grey under jeans and trousers. 

Although I haven’t shown the styles here, you can get tank tops, short-sleeved tees, and turtlenecks in the same Heattech fabrication. Sizes go up to an XXL (which tends to fit a US16). That’s the only bummer. I wish this product was available in plus sizes. If you have recommendations for exceptional plus size long underwear, please tell us about them in the comments section below.