Wardrobe Items That Lift My Spirits

As a fan of organized emotional shopping, I deliberately choose to buy a new wardrobe item because it lifts my spirits. I also often choose to wear a particular outfit because it lifts my spirits.

The attributes and sensibility of the items that I buy and wear that continually spark joy are consistent, and it’s mainly a visual thing. I’m taking it as a given that the fit is fabulous, flattering or just flattering enough, and comfortable. 

Bright Colours

My mood is VERY positively affected by the colour of wardrobe items. It doesn’t matter how incredible the item looks and feels, it won’t make me happy if it’s the wrong colour. Colours that make me happy are my usual sour brights: tomato red, citron,  apple green, neon green, chartreuse, shocking pink, coral, watermelon, Dutch orange, and bright turquoise. 

I have an assortment of bright coats, jackets, bags, knitwear and blouses because they lift my mood in our grey and rainy Seattle weather. My bright green specs and citron wallet lift my mood daily, and add a happy touch to neutral outfits. 

White & Cream

I love sour brights, but items in shades of white also make me very happy. Of all the neutrals, white is the brightest and most crisp, which is probably why it lifts my mood. I have coats, jackets, jeans, skirts, tops, footwear, belts and bags in white, bone and cream. I wear them year round. Some of the items are wardrobe essentials, and many are wardrobe workhorses. 

Sparkle & Shine

Sparkly things are bright (there’s a pattern here.) I love gold shoes, watches, hardware, AND white pearls. White pearls add a bright and shiny component to my outfit without fail. I also like sparkly knitwear. 

Classic Patterns

I tire of patterns that aren’t classics, so I stick to polka dots, stripes, florals, checks and animal prints. My spirits are especially lifted when I wear florals and stripes in the Spring and Summer, and checks in the colder months. 

Lace

I love lace because it’s Modern Retro, romantic and pretty. All my underwear is lacy, which makes a difference to how I feel in my outfit despite its lack of public visibility. I have an assortment of lace dresses, tops, and adore lace trim.

Impeccable Quality 

There’s something about wearing impeccable quality that lifts my spirits, and it’s as simple as that. Quite magical. 

Dressy

I’m happiest wearing dressier clothes and polished outfits, full stop. My casual outfits are “dressed up” because it lifts my spirits. I can be working from home, cooking all day for a dinner party, or having a quiet day with Greg and Sam – and I wear a regular casual or smart casual outfit with pearls and make-up. 

Judging by how I’ve refreshed my style for Spring and Summer, I’m very focussed on items that lift my spirits. I’m still working on the white tops, trousers and dresses, but here are the items:

This brings me to why Ann Taylor’s flared striped sweater did not work. I loved the way it felt, draped, moved, and fit. Luxurious, pretty, sufficiently dressy, interesting, fresh, romantic and tailored. The ink blue was fab, but the forest green did not make me happy as we head into Spring and Summer. I tried to brighten things up by combining it with white jeans, white footwear, pearls, green specs and a citron bag. But I couldn’t shake that the colour combination dampened my spirits. Back it went. 

Over to you. Which types of wardrobe items lift your spirits, and why? How different are the attributes of those wardrobe items compared to mine?

Denim Jacket 101

When I started my style consulting business many years ago, I thought that everyone liked wearing denim jackets. After all, they’re a timeless item in a fluid or tailored fit, very versatile, an excellent topper option for dresses and skirts, a way to toughen a sweet or precious outfit, and one of the best ways to dress down an outfit. They’re excellent to travel with because they’re robust, can be stashed into a tote, and look as great layered under a wrap or cocoon coat. 

Well, it turns out that denim jackets are far from being loved by all. Many women say they feel:

  • Stiff
  • Masculine
  • Boxy
  • Uncomfortable 
  • Overly casual
  • Not age appropriate
  • Unflattering on a larger bust

And if you’re not into denim on denim, they are not the best topper to combine with jeans.

I understand the aversion to denim jackets much better these days. That said, most of my clients wear denim jackets, and some of them are complete denim jacket converts. Clients who are in their 70s and 80s wear denim jackets with panache. So do clients who have a larger bust, are very curvy all over, and plus sized. And wearing denim on denim can be done if you mismatch the washes (although keeping the washes the same is a fashionable look too). 

Enjoying a denim jacket is about finding just the right one. Often it’s about making sure it satisfies four important criteria: stretch, fit, length and wash. 

1. Stretch

It’s important to wear a denim jacket with a stretchy spandex content. The stretch makes the jacket soft, comfortable, and allows you to drive and commute with ease. The silhouette moulds to your natural silhouette so that it isn’t boxy, and you don’t feel bulky. 

2. Fit

A tailored fit that nips in at the waist is a flop proof way to go. It offsets feelings of “looking too masculine”, overly casual, and streamlines the torso. A fluid fit can be just as fab, especially if you prefer to wear fluid tops. Denim jackets can be successfully altered to fit too. 

3. Length

A denim jacket looks particularly good when it’s a bit shorter, especially when it’s paired with skirts and dresses. Beware of denim jackets with very curved hems because the style can look overly long and a little dated. More often than not, my client doesn’t like her denim jacket because it’s too long and boxy. As soon as we tailor the fit and crop the length, it’s a different animal. Buy a petite size if you’re not regular height or tall, and notice the enormous difference in proportions. 

4. Wash

If you don’t like to wear denim on denim in the same wash as your jeans, choose a denim jacket in a different blue wash, or opt for a white or black denim jacket. For a dressier look that might feel more age appropriate to your eye, opt for a darker wash, a uniform blue wash, or stick to white. 

Oversized denim jackets can make a trendy statement, but you have to embrace a look that is not traditionally flattering. I tried them, but didn’t like the visual effect on my narrow shoulder line (they were better in the ‘80s with my shoulder pads.) So I stick to fitted and fluid denim jackets in shades of blue. I have an assortment of lengths depending on how I want to incorporate the topper into outfits. Denim jackets are a wardrobe essential for my style, and I will absolutely wear denim on denim with mismatched washes. I just added a pretty statement piece with embroidery to my capsule, which you can see in the collection below. 

Who likes to wear denim jackets? If you’re not a denim jacket wearer, have I convinced you to give them a try?

Ensemble: Stripe, Stripe & Colour Block

This ensemble was inspired by an extremely polished executive client who I went shopping with last week to refresh her wardrobe for Spring and Summer. Her preferences are for neutral, tonal and modern classic pieces in luxurious fabrics that look very sharp and professional. 

We paired an ink blue pinstripe sheath dress with a short fitted Spring jacket in a bolder navy and cream stripe. We finished off the look with cement-toned colour blocked pumps, a bag to match, and bangles and watch in gold. Apart from the bag, the exact items are shown in the collection. 

The subtle match of the stripes felt adequately professional for my client, who liked the freshness of the combination. Minimally Maximal. The best part was matching the combination with LIGHT footwear and bag, making it look more “Spring” than “dead of Winter.” 

I’ve put together similar combinations in this post. Choose any colour palette, although dark neutrals are probably the easiest to pull together for the look. Here are the components:

Pinstripe Dress: Choose a pinstripe dress. Try a pinstripe skirt and solid top if you don’t have a striped frock. I threw in a floral in the same palette, just for fun. Stripes look fab with florals. 

Striped Jacket: Layer a striped jacket over the dress or skirt and top combination. The stripes can work together in a subtle or bold way. By all means pair dark blue with grey and black. A shorter jacket usually works best layered over a dress or skirt, but a longer fitted style can work just as well to create traditionally flattering proportions. 

Footwear: Add colour blocked footwear that works with the outfit. I’ve chosen professional pumps and sandals, but feel free to add flats, loafers, oxfords, peep-toe booties, and even fashion sneakers. 

Accessories: A light-coloured bag brightens a dark outfit. Choosing a bag that matches the footwear is an easy way to pull together a pattern-mixed look. Add jewellery, eyewear and watch as desired.

Think of other ways to combine two sets of stripes and a colour blocked item if you don’t have the components for this ensemble. A colour blocked bag, dress or jacket could be a fun substitute. And a chevron-patterned piece works as a stripe or colour blocked piece.

Ensemble: Stripe, Stripe & Colourblock

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Favourite Lipsticks

I love lipstick. I apply it several times a day because I enjoy the visual polish of well-applied make-up. I also enjoy that it deepens the colour of my lips, accentuates their shape, and keeps them moisturized. 

I’ve been a fan of Laura Mercier’s Stickgloss for years because it’s waxy, very moisturizing, shiny, doesn’t stain my lips, and lasts a little longer than other lipsticks. My favourite colour “Patchouli” is about to be discontinued, which is annoying. I also wear “Brown Sugar” and “Baked Earth”, but don’t like those colours quite as much. 

So I asked one of my clients who’s a make-up whizz to suggest her favourite lipstick brands. She mentioned lipsticks by Bobbi Brown, Urban Decay and Yves Saint Laurent. We walked past the YSL counter while shopping at Nordstrom, and I found a colour and texture that was very close to Laura Mercier’s “Patchouli” that’s been discontinued. Lucky! It is YSL’s Rouge Volupté Shine Oil-in-Stick Lipstick in shade “03”. The concept is the same. It’s a very waxy lipstick that feels like a mixture of lippie and gloss. Moisturizing, non-staining, and lasts quite a while. It has a slight scent to it, which I like, but might put you off.

I used to be a MAC lipstick fan, but after a while found their formulas drying. I’m open to more moisturizing lipstick suggestions if you have them. Or simply share your favourite lipstick brands in the comments section. Today is a lippie day.

Nordstrom Roundup: Comfy Office Shoes

I’ve been doing a fair bit of career wear shoe shopping with clients lately, and their feelings are unanimous. Comfort is key, modern classics rule, and there is little tolerance for trendy footwear that is unkind to their feet. Many seemed to have bought footwear last year that looked fashionable and ultra gorgeous, but didn’t go the distance. NO MORE. 

I very much understand the need for extra comfortable shoes because I too battle to find dressier styles that I can walk in for miles. You can’t wear sneakers and casual sandals when your dress code is business formal, business casual or smart casual, so you might have to compromise a little on “trendy aesthetics” to get happy feet. 

Here’s a selection of comfortable office footwear across a range of price points. Most styles have been tried and tested on clients. Some of the styles are repeats from last year, they are that good. Of course some styles are more comfortable than others. Some styles are less dressy because I’ve included footwear for “Casual Fridays”. There are colour options for each style so make sure you browse the links. Grab those fabulous low block heels while you can. 

You can see my descriptions alongside the items on the collection page.