Team Bra or Team Jiggle

I’m seeing more and more women, across a range of ages and breast sizes, sport the bra-less look. Depending on the breast shape, the clothing and movement, the absence of the bra is sometimes more obvious than others. The trend seems to skew towards younger women.

There are good reasons to leave off the bra. Maybe the bra interferes with the cut or line of a top. Another perfectly understandable reason is that the bra feels uncomfortable. This is 2019, and wearing a bra is definitely more of a choice than an obligation.

That said, I bat for Team Bra. I’m old school in this regard, and I don’t like any jiggling at all. I like the visual shape and lift a great bra gives my bustline, especially in body-con tops. I find that wearing a supportive bra with underwire is a lot more comfortable than going without. Plus, I LOVE pretty bras, and enjoy wearing them. I’m a modest dresser, and wearing a bra makes me feel modest, polished and confident.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Bra or Team No Bra? Tell us why, and no batting for both teams. If you can’t pick a side, feel free to sit this one out on the bench with salmon en croute, a green salad, and your favourite chocolate.

* A gentle reminder to be respectful and sensitive in your comments because this is a delicate subject.

Shopping For the Future

I like to sport new wardrobe items as soon as possible. I’m quite happy wearing a new purchase right out the store if it matches what I’m wearing. When something new comes into my wardrobe, I’ll wear it that evening or the next day. Wardrobe items are there to be worn, and there’s no time like the present. I bat for Team Wear.

Sometimes I will buy wardrobe items knowing that I can only wear them in two to four months because the weather is wrong to wear them right away. When I see a winner that is especially hard to find or fit, I don’t wait till later to buy it because it will be gone in my size and in the colour I like best. I learned that the hard way. Plus, a winner is a winner, full stop. If you made the right decision, you should still love the item several months later.

The right dress and shoe can be hard to fit, so when I find them and they’re within my budget, I pounce. I did just that when I saw the Free People shirtdress and Sam Edelman ballet flats back in January. With snow on the ground and a distant hope for hot weather, I bought these darlings knowing I could only wear them in May. I patiently waited four months and today I’m wearing my new dress for the first time. I debuted the flats a few weeks ago. Love them!

The Nordstrom Anniversary Sale for Fall and Winter merchandise is my favourite sale of the year. Because it’s in July, I usually have to wait two to three months to wear the heavier items. Again that’s just fine by me. It’s exciting to have new items waiting in the wings for the right weather.

Outfit Formula: Easy Utilitarian

The Utility trend makes a stronger statement with each passing season. Our casual fashion era and the popularity of irregular outfit juxtapositions have made wardrobe items with utility detailing more versatile and appealing than ever. It makes sense that the trend continues to work well at retail.

Think cargo pockets, carpenter pants, chinos, field jackets, utility jackets, chore jackets, camouflage, netting, webbing, drawstrings, and casual items in shades of tan, khaki and olive. Remix items with a utility vibe both in casual and dressy outfits.

Here are four easy casual utilitarian outfits to get you started. Some of the looks are Utility-Lite, because why not!

1. Utilitarian White Jeans

This is the most utilitarian looking of the four outfits, but not hardcore. Combine white jeans with a black top or slogan tee. Add black sandals, mules or loafers to pick up the black of the top. Top things off with a utility jacket in an earthy shade of olive, tan or khaki.

Proenza Schouler PSWL Drawstring Coat

2. Utilitarian Blazer

This is the easiest outfit to pull together. Combine a pair of olive or khaki utility pants or chinos with a black top, black blazer and black sandals. Sub the black for grey or navy if black is not your thing. Or lighten it up with shades of white up top, and metallic sandals.

Citizens of Humanity Harrison Tapered Pants

3. Utilitarian Dress

There are many, many styles of utility dress and jumpsuit that needn’t be sleeveless or as fitted. Feel free to style it any way you like. I enjoyed the unique juxtaposition of boho espadrilles and tote, ‘80s headband, and ‘60s eyewear here. A pair of wedged sandals and crossbody might be more your thing. Or sneakers, mules, sandal booties and gladiators with a satchel.

Anthropologie Oona Utility Dress

4. Utilitarian Pretty

Last is a very subtle utility look because the wide crops are utility-lite and and the rest is whatever you want it to be. Combine utility wide crops with a soft and pretty blouse or knit top in a colour that matches the bottoms. Finish things off with chunky platform sandals. I like the navy, mustard and rust colour mix here. The striped draped pullover is a fun and practical touch. Add jewellery, eyewear and watch as desired.

Anthropologie Pintucked Chino Pants

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Link Love: Sustainable Shopping Tips

Flat footwear aficionado Hannah Rochell of En Brogue put together a comprehensive guide to buying sustainable and ethical footwear.

She also wrote this interesting post on 5 ways to be a more sustainable shopper, and this one about 6 sustainable alternatives for your everyday beauty routine.

Someone else worth following if you are interested in sustainable, low-waste living, is Sophie of A Considered Life, who shares “practical tips on simplifying your life, adopting low-waste habits, wearing sustainable clothes and cruelty-free beauty, to work towards living a considered life that is more purposeful, sustainable, and compassionate.”

Refinery29 lists 7 clothing brands “that will help you recycle your clothes, and will reward you with store credit so that you can responsibly replace those things in your closet you’re totally over with something special that you’re going to cherish for a long time.”

Fab Links from Our Members

’90s fashion is definitely in the zeitgeist — or at least the thrift stores, according to Shevia, so she loved reading this article on why Monica from Friends is this Summer’s unlikely style icon.

Vildy directs us to this article on the Spotlight Effect: anxiety people can feel when changing their style or adding an item that could call attention to itself. Vildy adds: “I don’t think it mentions fear of looking like you are trying too hard, but I would guess it falls into this category as well.”

Top Picks: Nordstrom Half Yearly Sale

The Nordstrom end-of-season sale for Spring & Summer 2019 is here, and there are lots of good Memorial Day discounts. I browsed the offerings, and these are the items that caught my eye. Some of them have worked well on my clients, most have good reviews, and many have a range of colour options.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

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Lace Up Flat
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Billy Shootie
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Stripe Blazer
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Pori Sandal
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